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Significance of 2/22/2022

Published February 20, 2022 by tindertender

Someone or something provides guidance that helps direct the people toward their goal.

Do not proceed blindly, for there is a storm you are navigating. Notice and heed the signs and symbols you see along the way.

Avoid those who give advice while seeking control.

There will be uncertainty, possibly confusion … this is why you are given a compass … and you will make it to the other side of the storm.

Redemption is near.


Ego is controlled, courage is boosted. The light that shines from the people is energizing and revitalizing. There is confidence to step out into the light and engage with others, taking a new direction.

The people are admired all around, fame and honors are gifted and received.

Recognition by others, reflecting on ones self … fame and notoriety.

42 ~ Self-realization and self-discovery. Follow the dreams that make you happy. Take a leap and discover your potential.

6 ~ It is not time to give up yet. Do the best for the people you love and care for, and the divine realm will take care of everything else.

13 ~ Love and compassion should be the guiding forces of your life. Care for others as you would want others to care for you. Help the less fortunate in society if and when you can.

36 ~ Worry less about material things of the world and focus more on your spiritual life and spiritual connections. The divine realm is ready to guide you on the path towards spiritual growth.

31 ~ Be courageous and confident in your yourself and your abilities. Fear of failure should not form a part of your life. See good things coming your way.

1 ~ All is going to be okay. Enjoy happiness, peace, and love to the fullest. You are a blessed creation. You are capable of handling anything this world throws at you. Trust and believe in that which is divine and good things will start manifesting in your life.

32 ~ Find something in your life that makes you happy and pursue it. Align with your higher purpose here on earth. Nothing happens in your life without reason. Never give up on love, trust, and faith. Surround yourself with people who make you happy. Always think positive thoughts that will enable you to make your dreams a reality.

8 ~ The strength you have in your faith of divinity will enable you to understand that you are not alone. Cosmic energies are all around you to make you feel safe, loved, and cared for. Balance the activities and occurrences in your life, and all will be well. Be fair and just in your dealings with people. Be kind to others and do not tire because the more good you do, the more blessings will come your way. Never give up. The moment you show signs of determination, confidence, and consistency, good things will come your way. Believe in the assistance of the divine realm.

Changed in the Night

Published December 29, 2021 by tindertender

“Dear, dear! How queer everything is today! And yesterday things went on just as usual, I wonder if I’ve been changed in the night?”

Sometimes, we change slowly. A little change here, a small adjustment there, tiny shifts day by day, and over time we grow into a very different version of ourselves. But at other times, we feel like we have been changed in the night. Our day might suddenly, without any warning at all, be very queer indeed. For Alice, and perhaps for you, there is a sense that so very much has changed in an instant, that the world has quite suddenly been turned upside down – or right side up! And, we have not had a moment to grow used to this new reality, the way we now are or the rules of the world we find ourselves inhabiting.

When a time like this comes, we can be in shock, a little numb and have trouble finding our way back to the center of ourselves. If you feel you may have been changed in the night – that your life has changed quite dramatically, quite suddenly – then take a moment. Remember your values, your feelings, yourself. Look about you, steady yourself and breathe in deep. You’ve been rocked and your sense of self, and of reality, is going to take a little time to resettle.

Continue to connect with your core self, be good to you and take it easy, but steadily. Remember, you are finding out who you truly are. Until this moment, you only knew who you could be when faced with certain, predictable circumstances. Now that so much has changed, you will find out so much more about yourself, and in time, this will enrich you so very much.

Sudden, unexpected change. A shock. Unexpected news. Adjusting to a new situation. Finding out more about who you are. Inexperience and uncertainty. An identity crisis due to changed circumstances.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket-Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Affirmations ~ November 15, 2021

Published November 15, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Rosalie saw before her eyes a tree of marvellous beauty
Virginia Frances Sterrett, 1920

I direct my energies towards what I want to grow, heal and expand.

I am becoming the person I have dreamed of being.

This day is bright with hope and good fortune.

I wear a smile on my lips, and joy in my heart.

I love myself, and then I give freely from this love.

I keep my heart open to what is coming towards me.

There is something wonderful rising within me. A shift is happening in my environment, both internal and external.

I open to the process of transformation with an open heart and mind. It will be wonderful and exactly what is needed.

I am creating something of worth. I am patient and I trust in the process.

I am transitioning into the next cycle of experience.

I believe in my dream.

I remain open to receive. I trust in the unfolding of my life’s experiences.

I do not turn away.

I allow this integration to occur.

I allow my dreams to become reality. I prepare for major expansion in my life.

I let my emotions flow. I give myself permission to feel and to experience them without judgement. I do not deny them. I release them. I let them flow and then let them go.

I seek the eternal.

The needs of others are no more important than my own needs. I see through the expectations and manipulations that are being put upon me. I release them.

I outmaneuver old patterns.

I craft new and improved relationships.

Shock Of The New

Published November 15, 2021 by tindertender

What wild unconventional voice is calling to you? Can you hear it? It is so different and so unusual, it might be hard to decipher – like hearing an unfamiliar language for the first time. It might be hard to discern with great clarity now but there is an affinity between you and this strangely beautiful newness seeking to manifest.

There is a stirring at the deepest level within you. Something new will break through and the process of this birth may shock you. The shock will transform into great joy and a sense of tremendous liberation, but you must bear the strangeness first. That strangeness might be something that rattles your beliefs about yourself and your world, daring you to become more of yourself, more open the where life is leading you and more willing to be the unique sacred art being crafted by the hand of the universal creator.

Nature never shies away from strange beauty. She allows for endless diversity and her sacred works are often peculiar and stunning. You live within her field of creative grace, as a specially created work that also creates! Surrender any fear you may have of being seen as exotic, unusual, eccentric or bizarre. Make peace with strange beauty, let it happen through you in creative flow. Perhaps you need to allow your conventional ideas of beauty to become even more inspired and open. Perhaps you can allow your need for the world to behave according to your fixed ideas to fall away. You will receive so much more in its place.

There are rumblings and stirrings of the creative life force happening now – deep in the undercurrents of your being. If you are very attuned or sensitive, you may have consciously felt this already – with excitement, discomfort or both. If you have not yet sensed these inner stirrings, they are happening all the same. So be on the lookout for the big shift of new birth, the shock of the new, the unconventional, the strangely beautiful and the disturbing liberation of that which is foreign stepping into your life. This is life creating the stage upon which you will experience greater fulfillment.

Don’t be nervous if the rumble of change turns into a mighty roar that rocks boats, bursts forth of novel ideas and changes things in a way that is out of your control. This is life happening. Free fall into it. The old way is on its way out. You are being invited, dragged, nurtured and coerced into the new. You can handle it!

You are about to encounter something new and different in your life. This is helpful! Don’t reject it, no matter how small or insignificant, or how powerful and life-changing it may seem to be. Dispense with your reliance on the past and what have been your tools to navigate life. You have outgrown your old methods. You will have to fly by the seat of your pants, so to speak, as you experiment with new ways to be. Let life show you the way.

Mantra ::
I am supported through the shock of the new, I accept the beauty in all that is foreign or strange to me as I know it is bringing me new gifts, wisdom, life experiences and creative inspiration. Through unconditional love, so be it.

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild

Time For A Quantum Leap

Published November 7, 2021 by tindertender

Prepare for a makeover.

Feel the thrill of the winds of change blowing through your hair. Smell the new blessings whispering from around the next corner. Sense that you are being summoned to level up to something magnificent. You don’t have to do anything rash like giving notice at your job, leave your relationship, or vacate your residence. This might just mean it’s time to get curious about an improved version of yourself. Meditate on how you can best align with the higher levels of wisdom, blessings, gifts, energy now emerging through you, and infuse that awareness into your here and now.

Mantra ::
I release all that no longer serves me, so a better version of me can emerge.

Artwork by Rassouli

The Hero’s Journey dream oracle, by Kelly Sullivan Walden

“Normal” No Longer Exists

Published April 7, 2021 by tindertender

“Normal” No Longer Exists

What if we don’t go back to Normal? What will New look like for you?

Mastering Alchemy offers concepts and tools to expand your skills and ability to consciously choose how to experience your life. Learn the simple, powerful tools:

Balancing the Mental and Emotional Bodies

Published March 12, 2021 by tindertender

I’m studying “Mastering Alchemy” now. This is a webinar from 2015 … good stuff.

Jim Self, a leader in the field of spiritual development, founder of Mastering Alchemy, international speaker and author, provides tools and answers questions about the Shift in Consciousness that we are experiencing.

Embracing Growth

Published February 26, 2021 by tindertender

Sometimes, we must learn to be comfortable with the uncomfortable … stretching capacity. Rather than medicate to numb ourselves from the experience, we must learn to breathe, to smile, and not get lost in the details of it. Doing so will only increase the anxiety around whatever the situation is.

We are all changing energetically these days, that in itself is enough to cause discomfort. However, this is growth … and growth is never easy, especially if the growth happens too fast. Ask any tall person who experienced rapid growth and how it felt on their joints. Ask any Shaman about the birth of a Healer … they will tell you it looks like what the western world calls insanity.

These times offer us a magnificent opportunity to jump into the new, and our response ought to be an embracing of it, not a fighting against it … to simply respond to that which is presented to us in any given moment in the best way we know how … and usually that means stepping into our authentic power, a position we may not have ever experienced before.

Often, there will be opposing forces set against this new reality being birthed in us … and they must be left behind.

Love yourselves in every moment, and remember to be grateful for this life, in all its forms, in all of its circumstances.

A New Day is coming.

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