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Birthing Of A New Day, A New Way

Published July 20, 2018 by tindertender
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Photo by Miguel Bruna

The essence of who you are is shifting ~ in and out of what once was, to what will be. You will experience emotional rain, storms, dry spells and sunny days.

Open your heart and seek that which is seeking you. Deep seated knowledge from long ago has been submerged, as the lower half of a glacier in the Arctic Ocean. This knowledge has been buried in the recesses of your mind.

A willingness to find answers must be your intent, for when you open to Universal Knowledge, you will attain them. Patience is key, frustration will block the path.

Breathe into this new you. Create the life you have always wished for … and remember, greed and need for power are not realities that should ever be realized ~ these ways are phasing out … a new world, a new way, is being birthed.

To Say “I Didn’t Know” Is No Longer Valid’

Published July 19, 2018 by tindertender

Daily so many people eat the flesh of innocence while they slander those who take human life. Animals are innocent, like children, and they are brutalized and slaughtered and eaten, every day.

I was raised eating meat. I did not like it as a child, most do not. But their ‘guardians’ force them to eat it, and over decades these children become accustomed to it, just as the young person who takes their first drink of alcohol knows it tastes putrid, yet drinks it anyway due to peer pressure. (I came to realize the horror of this cycle several years ago, and have been learning and practicing a new way since).

These habits have been passed down through generations, and there are better, more humane ways of getting nutrition and finding a happy place.

Participation in this cycle, whether doing the killing, or doing the eating, guilt is shared equally. It is no more ‘okay’ than eating a human child, or the family pet.

The mindset that humans are lords over life and command who lives and who dies, is absurd. In this thought process, all are militant, cannibalistic bringers of suffering to the earth.

Lying to self and making excuses does not excuse … damages to life and fear added into the world is the only creation this brings. Participants, if not willing to accept responsibility and work toward eliminating pain and fear, cannot ever be part of peace and joy.

If you eat meat, you may as well eat other people who eat meat. Some say this is the best way to get protein. Using that logic, why choose a species that is vegetarian? May as well choose a meat eater, since by this insane idea, those who eat meat must have more protein in their bodies.

One day being a cannibal may be all you get, if the animals become sparce, and you haven’t learned how to grow nutritious foods … Is this the world you wish to continue creating and live in?

Smooth …. Let It Roll

Published July 12, 2018 by tindertender

Life goes along throwing us on the ol’ chopping block once in awhile. Then it’s smooth sailing … for a time. All of a sudden the trials begin again, and our patience is tested, our ability to remain calm is tried, the Universe, and all that is part of it, waits to see if we are ready to “roll with it”.

These tests will continue through life. If we are fortunate we will one day reach a point when the small stuff just slips by without us making a huge fuss about it.

Something to remember: “If you aren’t bleeding or choking, there is no emergency”. Now, we all know there are dangerous situations which do not involve bleeding and choking yet must be changed … still, the need for immediate response isn’t there … there is time to think it through, or simply release it.

Love Liberates, Synchronicity Follows

Published July 11, 2018 by tindertender

Just yesterday I mentioned to my co-worker how I would love to see Phantom of the Opera on stage before I die. I came home to work on plans for my vacation coming up and the main point of the vacation fell through. While upset, I continued looking and lo and behold Phantom of the Opera is on stage at the theater in the town I will be in at the time!! Someone is always listening and conspiring alignment on our behalf.

Heart, Brain, Body flow. Humans are always struggling to follow their own heart. Often they instead wind up taking the advice and direction from others. Being in touch, and in sync, with the unseen provides energetic support we would not receive otherwise … disconnect creates spiritually dead situations. Practicing the perception, building knowledge of the senses, is such an important step in creating harmony.

steve-halama-558233-unsplash.jpgFinding love over and over again means you will also lose it. This is how the heart grows. Staying in relationship requires ALL of ones self, and the ALL of ones self must be accepted in this relationship, otherwise, if a portion of our self is left outside we are not whole and cannot properly grow.

Unless we cannot breathe, or are bleeding, there is no real urgency. Relax into the days situations and remember to practice your conscious breathing. If you do not open your heart, existence will crush you. If you don’t meet the world where you are, the world will crush you.

The heart is the seat of the soul, the essence of who we are. The power of the heart is the power of life itself, the power of the Divine Universe. Opening the heart may require release of the things given you … the car, the house, everything. Face fear.

The longest journey you’ll make in life is from the head to the heart. When actions contribute something vital to the world, then abundance flows.

Sit down, cry and suffer. You are allowed to. Learn not to deny your pain. Learn to ‘let beauty in’ while you are suffering. Learn to distinguish the clarity, the truth not covered by hate or jealousy or fear.

Is there really one god-man as Savior? Or is it the many who come together as One People, connected, working for the whole in benefit for all, who is the Savior of this world? Seek those who desire the harmony you wish to create.

If you do not know what to do, do nothing, breathe. Four to five second in-breath, don’t hold it, followed by a four to five second out-breath … even flow.

Everybody is a child but the child is hidden. We forget the child, we think the child has forgotten too, but NO. “Hello!” the child says, “I am here! Listen to me!” Being childish and self centered reduces our world. Being child-like returns us to wonder.

Synchronicity, as I mentioned at the beginning of this post, is not merely a coincidence, it is a miracle of Divine Connection, be open to it. This is not an accidental Universe. Pay attention to the in-between moments, breathe in inner-appreciation.

The heart is my Guru. Follow your aliveness not to become, but to be brought alive. Love is everywhere we choose to create it … we are the change that this world needs.

Beyond Appearances

Published July 8, 2018 by tindertender

(You’ll notice the wrinkled shirt. I’ve given you something to judge, are you able to get beyond the need to do so.)

It is not in the appearance of a person which determines their value … but what comes out of them.

Push aside the need for judgement and let be what is meant to be.

Freedom does not come from war … no matter how many generations this message will be pawned off on as truth.

Freedom ~ Peace ~ Joy ~ comes from the power each individual holds within them, through the word, through intention, through conscious and aware utilization of the depths of honor which resides in the deepest aspects of person-hood.

If sects attempt to convince you war is the only way to get to peace, you must come to your own conclusions about your belief in this, no one can do it for you. However I am certain that deep within you, you know already of its falsity.

The power of your word, of your vibration, is the creator tool which made this world possible … ALL humans have this within them.

Claim it, own it, utilize it to change the pain.
Be the alchemist you came here to be.

The Melodrama Experience

Published July 8, 2018 by tindertender

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There are so many signals being absorbed by the human nervous system, the sensory input overload can be quite discombobulating. One minute there may be the thought of A-Ha! I’ve got it! And the next moment questions arise, and the knowing that there is much more to be learned is present in mind.

There are scenes played out that snag the attention, they can cause a tugging, a pulling of the heart strings. A situation may arise where one reaches for a certain ‘happening’, applying energies there, only to have emotions violently shaken and made aware that the situation is false, intended to syphon emotion, an experiment if you will, to see just how far the manipulation can go.

Melodrama plays out in the mind, personal thoughts bouncing from one extreme to the next. It also occurs in the physical activities and relationships, one minute here, the next over there … constantly roiled and tossed about, peace rarely found.

How does one stay steady? How does one disconnect from the drama and maintain centered focus? Some say meditation, some say exercise, some say solitude, some say you just have to be ‘strong’ without actually giving instruction on the how’s or whys.

My inclination is in the intentional quieting of the mind. I don’t particularly agree with the ‘label’ meditation, for that implies one must do something to achieve peace. Rather, I view it as an allowing of silence, a focus on the breath while thoughts come and go.

There will always be those who desire to attain your attention, and they will manipulate it anyway they can to gain their desired results.

A few things to consider:

~ Recognize the outside connect. This connect sometimes happens on the inside as well.

~ Senses must be heightened in order to identify the pull.

~ A deliberate focus on where personal energy is allowed to be sent must be honed.

~ Awareness of the breath should be part of daily exercise.

~ Vocal toning while hands are on chest allows the physical sensation of personal vibration.

~ Turn off the television and rest in silence. Be present with what you find there.

~ Practice manipulating the sending out, and retrieving of, your thoughts and your energies.

Realization of the push and pull of energies in any given environment you may find yourself in is crucial to maintaining balance and a sense of peace. If time and effort are not applied to gaining this knowledge a continuation of abuse will be … no control of what happens in personal space will be obtained.

Being the authority in ones own life is much more that rebelling against, or fighting for … it is a conscious awareness of what is happening to the thoughts and whether personal power is being sucked out and applied willy nilly by an outside force, or whether we quietly and calmly choose to apply it where we deem fit.

No one said it would be easy. Humanity has been trained to be surface level, not diving deep into what makes them tick. This is only a habit which has been embedded in minds.

The choice is there to be made, only you can decide what you choose, it’s all mental … the imagination is a powerful tool … one which you control, or one which you allow to be controlled.

Reject the desire to play judge. We are all on a journey, all paths are difficult, even when they seem, from the outside, to be easy. There is no way to know the secret pains of another so there must be space made to consider they might have our own trials, perhaps to a lesser or heavier degree. Honor their journey as you must honor your own.

Choice … Therein lies the power. Use it. War and defense is not necessary, for in non-participation, in choosing to disconnect from melodrama and focusing inner power where it is for the highest and greatest good for self, and for those the self comes in contact with, balance will simply show up. Allow it. You’ll feel better for it, and so will those in your surroundings.

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