Choice

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Healthy vs Sick

Published September 16, 2018 by tindertender

The difference between people in a healthy world full of relationships, is in the ‘healthy’ see potential in others and situations, whereas the ‘unhealthy’ search themselves, others and everything else for what they see as lack.

This world is very sick right now. We’ve been bred and trained to see lack in our self, in others, and in every situation we may be part of.

It is up to the individual to break the mold and rebuild their training, searching for potential in everything instead.

When we see our self in the mirror, if there are any thoughts of negativity directed at that image, at self, then immediate and hard work must be done to counter those ideas. It’s difficult, but necessary to break the cycle.

When one can finally look in the mirror and like the person they see … not all about the ‘looks’, but the strength behind the eyes, the endurance while wearing a smile through all trials, if anyone comes along to try and tear down that fresh new view, walk away from them quick.

No one has the right to tell you who you are, how strong you are, or what potential you have … that is for you to decide … or to one day ‘find out’.

Even when not making a decision, a decision is made. Be present.

Woman In Love

Published September 11, 2018 by tindertender

Woman in Love ~ doing anything to keep peace within her life, and the life she shares with the world.

True … some are lost in the realm of creating and experiencing deep pain … but each and every one of them start here … whether as a child, or otherwise. Love does not require war … it is a simple letting go of that which brings us pain.

Great strength is in Love … in sharing it, in growing it. Moving through pain and continuing to bring love to the world despite what it may throw at us … and first and foremost Loving the ‘love of our life’ … our self.

Don’t ever hurt yourself, in cherishing all that you are it will become easier to cherish all else that you see in the world, and to care for every aspect of it.

Freedom of Expression ~ Gained

Published September 7, 2018 by tindertender

I was fortunate to hear Don Jose Ruiz speak in person last night. I am grateful that he is traveling, sharing portions of his story and the wisdom gained through these experiences.

Being our authentic self in full view of others can be a challenge, for in doing so it requires that we shed all the ‘stories’ we have created to justify certain behaviors. It requires that we do so in order to share our most personal selves.

Walking into the fear of judgement from others is not easy, nor is it easy to withstand when it arrives, which it inevitably will. Do it anyway, free yourself, LIVE.

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Truth Is Simple

Published September 5, 2018 by tindertender
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Photo by Hello I’m Nik

I think you know … despite all that may have been said, or the tantrums experienced, Love, Joy, creating Peace, Sharing and Caring are where true strength is. Everything else, ALL else, is an attempt to thwart it.

We can look around us and see how the emotions of people are being manipulated by circumstances they have no control over. The body and mind, being mostly water, are affected in an intense way by all the currents of electromagnetic waves being sent here and there, moving through the human body and mind.

The body is one big antenna. It picks up on signals we cannot audibly hear, and reacts. Unless we are aware of the subtle energies and how they move through us and their affect on the emotional charge we hold in our mind, we will be subject to them. When aware of these things, we can recognize them when they occur and head them off at the pass, so to speak.

When we begin to realize and recognize these manipulations we can better look around us and see them in the reactions we experience in others when they interact with us. These invisible signals are combined with dogma, which instills a fear in people (if you don’t believe this, or if you dress like that, etc. etc. you’ll be punished eternally sort of stuff).

When fear is sufficiently implanted in the minds of people, then this fear can be manipulated using these invisible signals … see? Breaking free from fear is difficult, shedding the rules and regulations mankind has imposed on the spirits of their fellow brothers and sisters is hard.

Joy and Peace are the desire of ‘most’ people. Some have gone too far into darkness, and we can only hope they’ll find their way out of it. The main focus ought to be on breaking free from the chains of imposed fear, and then creating that which we wish to see in this world … Joy, Peace, Sharing, Caring.

Suspicion and Fear, Anger and Jealousy ~ These thing inhibit proper formation of Love and Compassion. There are those on the ‘job’, their duty is to unbalance Love and instill Fear. The few who do these things desire to see a shrinking of Love given in the world … and through fear and paranoia they have been succeeding.

But we see this now, don’t we? To hole up and not give of ourselves is to essentially cut off from every possibility of creating good. If we are not open to the possibility of pain, then we are also closed off from the possibility of Love … this reality we all wish more of. We CAN have it, but it requires courage, and willingness to bear the attack of the those who wish to kill love.

We are warriors of Love, and although it may appear we are losing the battle, it is quite the contrary. In fact, I like to think the dark deeds of those destroyers are back-firing on them, for they have opened the eyes of many to the stark contrast between shadow and light, making it more apparent what has been going on.

Choice ~ It is where your power resides. You have everything within you needed to win this battle.  This fight isn’t with swords or guns or fists … it is of spirit. Although this is what the bible tells us, that story is filled with half truths, just enough truth to confuse. Rather than rely on the book alone, trust in your personal connection to Spirit, to the Divine which desires to have union with each and every Soul … with You.

Trust the inner messages coming your way, do not doubt. Other people have no authority over this relationship each individual holds with Creator. Every person has a unique and personal connection to that Spark which wants the very best for humanity, for ALL life. If the inner intuitive messages are of Love and Kindness, trust them … if they are dark and desire you to harm anything, anyone, or yourself, they are of the parasitic invader, who is longing for destruction.

This is a serious matter, and there are those who have cultivated your passivity by asking you to give up your authority, handing it to someone else who will save you, and while ‘some’ of what they say may be true, the One who longs to save you also needs His warriors … and that is You … and Me … WE.

Interaction ~ Memories ~ Contemplation

Published August 28, 2018 by tindertender

Ran into a young man on line today who I had never had interaction with before. He decided to throw insults at me. Pretty amazing … I remember being young. It isn’t always pretty.

Let’s see, he called me a jaded old lady, menopausal at the least, unable to attract a mate and reproduce, that I was not desirable in any way. He called me a fraud. Said I lived in a glass house and that I was an idiot. I guess he was insinuating I wasn’t worth a dam … but he has no idea.

Hopefully he lives long enough to realize his potential for good is as strong as his ability to throw slander at folks and potentially cause harm.

All this came about due to my questioning if any of the commenters on a post were human. They were talking about humanity as “they” were this and “they” were that.

Extremely interesting to have this blatant and obvious interaction with the youngster who bragged about his PhD as though that would prove him smart.

Let me just say this … if you go around bragging about your PhD, and then waste your ‘intelligence’ and effort on the attempt to make others feel bad about themselves, then you haven’t learned a dam thing about this life, and are in a complete and utter delusion.

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A look into the past, remembering what is was like to think I knew it all. I too was not the kindest person. But life taught me … boy how it taught me. When ego dies it is not an easy process, releasing that and finding what it means to practice, and be in humility is painful … at least it was for me. I really thought I would die, never being normal again to say the least. Yet here I am, alive … different than before, certainly. I also recognize there is so much more to learn, and life is about release, and accepting, a constant revolving flow.

I hope all the people who believe they have it ‘all figured out’ do not experience the reality of truth as extremely as I did, but for some, it may need to be that way. I hope they survive.

Patience, it is difficult to remember to practice it, as I face these ones, and as I learn … still learning … to breathe through the tension, and release once more, and as I continue the attempt of accepting others as they are, and myself as well.

Light-hearted Seriousness

Published August 1, 2018 by tindertender

whitney-wright-282066-unsplash.jpgThere must be a cookie ready by now! Yet I do not smell them. Some say to eat three meals a day is best … I say, breakfast and snacks followed by a late lunch, ending the day with and early dessert. HA! Who said old habits and schedules cannot be reformatted?!

After checking on that, I find that the one doing the baking  has other ideas … the oven is currently being used to make their dinner, then cookies. Oh well, a good pinch of cookie dough took care of the crave for a time anyhow.

Photo by Whitney Wright

Sometimes the seriousness of current circumstances needs to be set aside, as difficult as that may be.

The vision as I close my eyes clears for a nano-second, instantly covered once more by darkness, or a ‘veil’. Why is it that this scene is held from me? Who is it that blocks my view?

Where do black holes really lead to? One would think with all the many decades of CERNs experiments there would be answers by now … and I believe there are, yet, like so many other things in this world the general population are not informed of the discoveries.

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We must hone our personal connections, skills of ‘seeing’, and understanding. The internet is great for many things, yet the only way to discover what isn’t being told is to stop relying on that format which places information before us causing us to be lax in our studies, and tune into that which is being held back.

The ‘connection’ of the world wide web originally existed long ago and united more than just that which is on this planet.

“Fantasy” has told of sky bridges and keys and links to things and life forms which may be far beyond our current comprehension. Know that these things are absolute, only called fantasy for most cannot absorb it as reality.

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Photo by Sharosh Rajasekher

You’ve noted the horrible acts of some. Images and stories of these things spread like a wild fire and infect empathic people with rage. (There are more of us than you may be aware, for we are called sensitive and told we care too much. You may be one.) He who harms becomes he who would be harmed, and so on, and so on, and so on.

This cycle is our responsibility to break. Our energies have been manipulated and steered for a very long time. They bait you, then they chuckle to themselves as they watch you rage. They feed off the power you emit, draining you. It is purposeful, it is planned, it is calculated.

Rather, when you feel the surge, remember this powerful force created by you and take control, break the rotation … use it for good.

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Photo by Zoltan Tasi

Starve the beast.

And then treat yourself to dessert, alone or with a friend. Share the joy, create laughter and cherish your peace.

Shadows will shrink, and those who dwell there will disappear in the beautiful light birthed and formed by your mastery.

Pie … there is always Pie,
baked two days ago.
I suppose I can start there …

Embrace The Earth, Moon, and Stars

Published August 1, 2018 by tindertender

At what point will you stop punishing yourself for anothers lack of empathy? Your actions were valid, your intentions unselfish, your heart pure. If someone else is unwilling to place themselves in your position and attempt to understand the situation from your perspective, they do not have authority to dictate whether or not your actions were valid. Stop pining after them, let them go … and if they are attached to someone you love and influencing their thoughts of the situation, if necessary, you’ll need to let them go as well.

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Photo by Luca Bravo

Windless What, Windless What, What Will Be Will Be.

What was shared last night is significant … know that the energies are quite high and intense. If you are not aware of it yet, you soon will be for your body and mind will be rocked with it.

Believe that your hopes are able to be birthed, believe in the ‘magic’ of creation and your part in it … what seems impossible is not, it is completely doable … have faith. A new day is coming. Today … begin the journey right now, do not hesitate. Trust in yourself and your intuition for knowing what, when, how, when and why. Act upon that which is not only for your highest interest, but that of others as well. Proceed Mighty One. Within you is the sun and the moon, the seasons of the sky and the earth, that which grows here of plant matter and all forms of flesh … heed their message, listen to your dreams, pay attention to this merger for in it is capacity for healing. The unfiltered truth will come to you when most still, between wakefulness and sleep, or in sleep itself. Learn to interpret the messages, listen to what they tell you, pay close attention to how they make you feel. Learn who you are, and who you wish to be.

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