All posts tagged Choice

Emotions and Frequency

Published April 3, 2022 by tindertender

Fear, in scientific terms, is a VLF sonic vibration which means “very low frequency”. It is a cationic (in fail) vibration that keeps one locked into “starve mode” in terms of energy.

Joy on the other hand, produces what is known as a UHF oscillation signature which means Ultra High Frequency.

One of the biggest secrets there is, the closest-guarded key to happiness is the fact that the muscles in the human face are connected to your endorphin glands.

All you need to do is push down the corners of your mouth to trick your brain into thinking you’re sad to release what’s known as adrenocorticotropic hormones (ACTH) that actually makes you sad.

By pushing up the corners of your mouth, this also fools the brain into releasing beta endorphins which creates endogenous morphine. Morphine is also known as opium. Opium is also called cocaine.

This means that in order to be sad, all you have to do is frown and to be happy all you have to do is smile. Your face does that. Which means you can choose either one at will.

Try it. Next time you’re sad, look in the mirror. What is your face doing? Frowning because you’re on ACTH. Now smile and stand there for a few seconds and try to prove me wrong.

You can’t because you’re now on cocaine and the smile doesn’t want to go back down again because it likes how it feels.

We choose whether we are going to have a good day. We program it into our forecast by the words that come out of our mouth that sets in motion an anion ion (E-lectric, E-motion) toroidal flow in our brains that physically moves in the direction of positive bioelectric energy.

This the clockwise energy flow. We also choose if we are going to have a bad day, counterclockwise energy flow.

Because secretly while our consciousness isn’t looking, our subconscious is scheming ways to get ourselves into hot water so we’ll be able to manufacture a brand new drama dragon that will slap us around for a while so we can feel alive.

And just like getting paddled during a naughty interlude, that sting on our bottom releases the same beta endorphins as smiling, and so through the pain opium is physically released which turns that frown pointing the other way.

Either way, both sorrow and joy engage our opioid receptors. One stings and the other one doesn’t to get to the same place. Sadness is opium but laughter is also opium, so laugh. See how that works?

Just by choosing to “have a good day” or smile and wave to your neighbor you literally dictate what vibration your particles oscillate at which allows your eyes to see and your ears to hear things lower vibrationally-tuned beings cannot. This is science, not fiction.

All Love

-mission guide

Power in Awareness and Choice

Published April 2, 2022 by tindertender

Have you ever wondered why you think of all the negatives in a potential before you can see the positives? IF you can get far enough into it to actually see the positives?

Our Paradigms have been programmed for fear based processing.

Break the Loop

Heed The Messenger

Published March 31, 2022 by tindertender

Look within and realize you have all the courage and strength you need for any situation. Stand for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone. Be kind, true, merciful, generous and honest with yourself and others, for this is what lasts. You are a powerful, eternal being on a journey through forever. Do not be afraid.

Be childlike, full of wonder. There is magic in your bones that can make all things seem possible. With practice, self-enchantment can transform the ordinary and bring a sense of playfulness into your life.

Move your thoughts, emotions and outlook to a new perspective. Take an overview of what is going on. Just through shifting your perspective you will see the whole situation in a clearer light. A different course may become apparent. You will be able to focus on what is most important to you. Make a conscious effort to get above the situation. Climb above it with the intention of healing it. Once you achieve the higher ground perspective, you may find yourself filled with peace.

It is easy to ignore the messengers and the signs they show you, especially when they bring a message you do not want to hear. Now is not the time to ignore the messengers. Do not let your fear of change or discomfort silence their voices. It is time for you to stop procrastinating, to see and to hear the truth, and do what is necessary. Heed the messenger for the wisdom they offer is born of your own intuition and need.

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Creation Through Choice

Published March 15, 2022 by tindertender

Remember your thoughts shape your future.
Your worlds create today.
Your choices become your reality.

Take steps to create the life of your dreams. Be careful with your thoughts for they become actions. Actions become character and shapes your destiny.

You have the power to make right choices.

Your choices create your life.

Be Your Best Self

Published March 12, 2022 by tindertender

How are you feeling at this moment? Are you the person you aspire to be? Remember, you determine how you feel. You are constantly choosing to feel the way you feel.

Access the highest level of emotions now. Don’t settle for less than you deserve. Do your utmost to achieve more, love more, and be your best.

Divinity in Motion

Published February 18, 2022 by tindertender

Those divinely sent will fulfill their mission. There is no other path. One needs to rest assured, the ticking of time and the movement of space will set us just Right to do what we came here For. Again and Again.

We were given enough time to explore the Darkness and come back. We thought of ourselves as Dark, but Only Light within Us.

Your Authority prevails in this realm. It always has and will. Your Will Power supersedes any entity.

All the Universe can be as small or big as you make it to be. The Universe can be your room, your country, your planet.

The Universe is alive, its heartbeat matching yours.

Think about this way. The World is your organs. The Universe, your skin. What you experience as your body is a particular point of reference of All that You are.

The Universe is your Vessel.

You are the greatest affirmation of Life, Light and Love. A mesmerizing Bright Star. The Crown Jewel of what Could be and Is. Pure, Divine Spirit incarnated. Cristalline Soul.

You willingly sacrificed part of your Divinity to incarnate here. You are still a treasure. A wonder. All Light was preserved in You. Radiant Glow.

What you are doing in this Earth is beautiful. Future, Present and Past are benefiting. We greatly appreciate your Service.

Vibrate in unison to that frequency you want to become and you shall be. Heroes make fear a secondary priority, guides put themselves second, leaders lead by example. Are you willing? Then You will Will this into your Reality.


A Moment’s Regret

Published January 6, 2022 by tindertender

“It was much pleasanter at home,” thought poor Alice, “When one wasn’t always growing larger and smaller, and being ordered about by mice and rabbits. I almost wish I hadn’t gone down that rabbit-hole ~ and yet ~ it’s rather curious, you know, this sort of life!”

When we make life changes and take large steps into the unknown, it is perfectly natural to have a moment or two when we wonder whether we have made a series of mistakes! A light shines on the doubts you are having and asks you to accept these uncertainties as part of the process of change.

You are so very far away from where you once were, but you still have no clear idea of exactly where your path will take you, and you are filled with uncertainty. Instead of allowing dread to fill your mind, live as if life is a great adventure. Understand that as you change, there will be many ups and some downs to! It is not in your best interest to judge yourself harshly. Instead, anchor yourself firmly in the present moment and allow any regret and nostalgia for your comfortable past to wash over you … let it flow on by.

You are on a remarkable journey of change. It is one that will lead to wisdom, experience and adventure. You have made a wonderful choice, so take heart in knowing that all change creates waves and disruption. Do not make more of your misgivings than they are … they are a natural consequence of bravely stepping out of your comfort zone.

Second-guessing your decisions. Berating yourself for the choices you have made. Feeling regretful and missing what was. Nostalgia – living in the past. A focus on what is going ‘wrong’ or what could still go ‘wrong’.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket-Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

What You Want, Wants You

Published November 16, 2021 by tindertender

Do you dare to believe that what you want, is also wanting you? The genuine desires of your heart are the sacred purpose of the soul, swathed in pleasure. Yet, if you have been shamed, judged for, made to feel guilt over, or denied your natural desires or pleasures in anyway, you may have developed a very tricky and complicated relationship with the yearnings of your heart. We often learn to distrust our own desires and come to believe that they are something to be overcome or avoided. We may even try to want second best, disbelieving that we are worthy of our first choice, of what we really, genuinely want, and would fulfill us deeply. Perhaps we have conditioned ourselves to believe that getting what we want is for others, not us.

First, trust in what you truly want. Not the substitutions and make-dos, but what would truly bring a sense of passionate, playful purpose and fulfillment to your life. You might not know anything more than “I want to sing!” or “I want to write!” or “I want to help animals!” or “I want to paint!” Start with what you know and hold it in your heart. If you genuinely do not know what your heart wants, you will very much enjoy the process of exploring your desires by making gentle and persistent enquiries of yourself. Ask yourself what it is that truly moves you. Give this matter consistent attention without forcing a response. Your answers may come in a sudden flood, or slowly, over time.

As you get to know your genuine desires and give yourself permission to feel and receive them, a powerful sequence is set in motion. From the depths of the universe, your desire hurtles its way towards you as the perfect manifestation. It is coming to you even now – manifesting itself as the best situation or relationship or circumstances to bring fulfillment to your heart, radiance to your life path and a creative awakening. So don’t give up. Keep dreaming of your fulfillment, but don’t imagine it as always awaiting you in some distant future. Instead play with what it will feel like to be so fulfilled, right now. How will you feel different? Will you be more grateful, more peaceful and content? More confident? More trusting of your ability to create and in the loving responsiveness of this wild universe? Cultivate those feelings. Get to feel what genuine desire and the meeting of that desire – that can then generate yet new desire – is like for you. Give yourself permission to go there, right now.

Remember that if you have people in your life who are shutting you down, suggesting that what you want is not possible or that you are aiming too high, then they need this healing too. Perhaps you can inspire them by giving yourself permission to heal. This will naturally open them to the idea that they could give themselves permission to know and fulfill their unique desires too. Whether someone chooses to be inspired by you, or to be fearful of your innate creative power, is completely up to them.

Whether you see it coming or not, your desire is already on its way to you. It is closer than you think and soon you will be able to see it, touch it, feel it and enjoy it. You will then become inspired for your next manifestation based on the true desires of your heart.

Healing Process ::
Repeat this statement three times, with feeling: “What I want, wants me, and I am open, willing and capable to receive it, through unconditional love now.”

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild

Delicious Present Moment

Published November 3, 2021 by tindertender

Where you are is where it’s at.
Stay until you are divinely moved.

Solitude gives birth to the original in us, to beauty unfamiliar and perilous – to poetry. ~ Thomas Mann

When you feel resistance, it might mean you’re not up to the task. Then again, it might mean that you are up to the task, but don’t realize your own strength. Resistance sometimes serves to preserve your energy and keep you safe. Without resistance, you might manically say yes to everything, perhaps for fear of missing out, but right where you are is holy ground.

From a quantum physics perspective, you are already everywhere, and everyone and everything is within you. When you realize this there can be no fear of missing out, because you are already where it’s at!

Honor the spirit of resistance and know it will be with you through every step of your journey. You’ve done enough inner work to know the difference between a yes and a no. It’s wise to pause and consider your choices and actions with respect to your available energy, schedule, and resources.

Mantra ::
I move when moved, until then, I revel in the deliciousness of the present moment.

Artwork by Rassouli

The Hero’s Journey dream oracle, by Kelly Sullivan Walden

Be Reborn Daily

Published November 1, 2021 by tindertender

Let go of the past, and breathe in your new incarnation.

Dawn and resurrection are synonymous. The reappearance of the light is the same as the survival of the soul. ~ Victor Hugo

In every moment you can begin anew. With this next breathe, know that you are wiping the slate clean and releasing any baggage you’ve been carrying thus far because you no longer need it. Exhale the past completely. And as you inhale, open yourself to a whole new vista, a whole new incarnation, a whole new story of who you are and why you are here.

You are always at a crossroads. There is always a choice. The reset button is in your hand. What new story would you like to tell? Who will you be today? What if the entire world is conspiring for your greatest good?

What might happen if you choose to see everything as a blessing?

Mantra ::
I open my heart and let myself be reborn daily, so I may revel in a new, improved, lighter and brighter version of who I am.

Artwork by Rassouli

The Hero’s Journey dream oracle, by Kelly Sullivan Walden

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