All posts tagged Choice

The Becoming

Published September 14, 2020 by tindertender

This world tries to tell us who we are from the beginning of our lives.

Fat, skinny, dim witted, intelligent, mentally challenged, pretty, ugly, selfish, generous, and any number of other things.

Before we become adults our psyche can be corrupted by the many opinions of our peers. We attempt to live up to their expectations.

Doctors may label us as ‘something’ in order to have an excuse to prescribe various medications which alter our chemistry in order to ‘help’ us. Once they do this, family, friends, society as a whole does its thing and tries to validate this ‘diagnosis’. Usually all done out of ignorance, or a requirement to prescribe meds, or a failed understanding of our experience of the Spiritual Realms, which we may have become connected to.

Triggers born of such experiences and judgments can be difficult to shed as we begin to stand more firmly in our OWN perceptions and ideas of Self. It can take a lot for us to finally say, No More … you are not allowed to define me any longer.

Yet the trigger is sometimes flipped by our connections, even unintentionally, due to the wounds we carry.

This is a good thing, for it allows us the opportunity to see it, to evaluate it, to sit with it and trace it to its source, to see how it has affected our lives and our decisions about self and relationships.

This is when healing can occur if we are willing to look at it deeply, acknowledge it so that it can be released, rather than suppressed. In suppression it will ALWAYS have opportunity to rear its head.

Acknowledgement and release is the only way to freedom from the stigma that began with others placing their own perceptions of our value on us, which we often take on as our own.

Becoming a healer is a difficult process, and always begins with our willingness to heal Self first. Becoming a healer cannot BE any other way, for books cannot teach it … it must be experienced for Self in order to BE IT, and to be of assistance for others.

Bless the courageous and their Stubborn Will which demands to become that which they have always needed, a nurturer. And somewhere along the line, transforming that Stubborn Will into a Skillful Will that is of benefit not only to Self, but to the World.

I love you so much.

Your Brilliance, your Endurance, and your Love for Life is tremendous and oh so beautiful.

I am one of the most Blessed Women, simply for knowing you. And for finally, coming into the true knowledge of what it means to be whole. I am so happy that this Life is a continuous opportunity for development and advancement in the Spiritual things …. in the Heart, Mind, Body and Emotional states which need focus to become Balance.

As chaos flies all about the world, let us reel in our energies, harness it, and apply it to that world we wish to co-create together … a world of beauty, acceptance, care, compassion and Love … in all of its forms.



Published September 3, 2020 by tindertender

In these days, it is easy to walk away from those ‘people’ who attack us … not so easy with the invisibles. No, there, we simply must withstand it.

Good luck everyone, we’ll all need it.

Unity was my intention … however, rejected … told to get over myself … to get off my pity party … simply for the sharing of an astral experience and the seeking of insight.

May this world and all benevolence come through the trials we face intact, whole, and in love.

Affirmation 8-4-2020

Published August 4, 2020 by tindertender

Today is a day to focus on protection. I will protect my heart and mind from the negative thoughts, feelings, and actions of others. I do not immerse myself in problems. I do not worry about things I cannot control. I do not try to change people or things just because I think they should be different. Instead, I focus on the positive aspects of all people and situations.

~ A Daily Book of Pagan Prayer by Megan Day


Moods, In Animal-Speak

Published July 30, 2020 by tindertender

Moods that are heavy for the heart are common … we’ve all experienced them.

Let us focus on consciously creating an upward momentum.

It starts with gratitude.

Even when you are angry, depressed, or extremely sad … look within and ‘force’ yourself to start a list of gratitude.

It can be simple things, such as you have hair, or you have vision, you can walk and talk … etcetera.

Start small, and watch your list grow, and you MOOD lift.

You’ve got everything you need to conquer the mind …

Master your emotions.

Do not be mastered BY them.

YOU have the Power.

Early Day Surprise

Published July 14, 2020 by tindertender

My supervisor did an update to the computer program I use at work, it took two hours … and then something went wrong. So, I got to leave an hour early! Surprise!

I went to the park for a walk-about.

Saw some flowers …

Came across a caterpillar munching down dinner.

Ran into a patch of stinging nettles, first time in 40 years. Probably only noticed because my legs were bare. That was fun.

Hope you enjoyed your day my Human (and otherwise) family.

I love you.

PS ~ I found golden grasses!

I also spotted a couple of heart rocks. Love is in the atmosphere!

Stand Strong

Published July 9, 2020 by tindertender

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Remember we are a huge team and we have each other’s backs throughout the dimensions. Connect with that team in alchemical unification as we create a more powerfully positively polarised collective consciousness than this planet has ever seen.

This is your choice, how you take this for you hold the power. Not so easy in person – but well within a starseed’s ability to neutralise when it is online.

The reaction you need is no reaction. Pure observation. A lack of reaction, a lack of response, neutralises any movement of energy of attack towards you and the transmutation thus moves from attack into failed attempted attack.

Remember, no matter how ugly and vile the words, these are minions from a long established system finally being uprooted from their positions of power. They hold no sway on social media or astrally through psychic attack unless you allow them to.


Questioning the Sacred

Published July 1, 2020 by tindertender

All beings are RNA / DNA coded.

Humans … we are so arrogant, we assume all other life form has no communication skills.

That we are the only intelligent life on the planet.

They believe that Unity is strictly belonging to the human race, that they do not have to consider all other life, that somehow, it does not matter.

This is the true cause of all destruction.

The disconnect to life.

The lack of recognition for the sacred.

So Many Distractions

Published June 30, 2020 by tindertender

… Disguised as “choices”.

I like this one! And that one! Ooooohhhh, and this one too!!!!

Get it settled in your mind.

This lack of focus affects the whole.

Creating chaos energy will never bring peace.

Be at peace with your choice

And nurture it so it becomes its full potential.

I think it is clear that the shiny thing that attracts loses its luster after a time and then the next shiny thing comes along …

Easily hooking those with lack of clarity and commitment.

Or maybe Alice is harboring all them wascilly wabbits, doling them out as needed for distraction.

Level Up !

Published June 24, 2020 by tindertender

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Establish a spiritual routine. Your skin may be clear but your aura is ashy, your chakras are weak & your soul is not on fleek. People have become so accustom to winning materialistically that they have no clue that winning spiritually trumps everything. Prioritize.

For Healthy Mental Health:

Thick skin
Airplane mode
No apologies for personal choices
Close friends
Noise-cancelling headphones
Proper Nutrition
Healthy living environment
Clearly defined boundaries
Quick exits from toxic settings

If someone shows you they don’t give a fuck about you – stop going back to double check.

Reminders When Manifesting:

•Always stay positive
•Say it like it’s already done
•Don’t spend time thinking about anything opposite to what you want
•Meditate on what you want
•See, smell, taste, hear & feel it
•If it’s real in your brain – it’ll be real in the physical

We all deserve some good after all the shit we’ve been through.

What you don’t heal in your singleness will spread like a disease in your togetherness.

When you become a diamond – you’ll understand why life had to apply all that pressure.

Never confuse what you’re offered for what you’re worth.

The ego hurts you like this: you become obsessed with the one person who does not love you & blind to the rest who do.

Eliminate whoever & whatever doesn’t help you evolve.

Not all of us grew up having role models – many of us grew up around people we didn’t want to be like & were exposed to shit we’d never want to be around. Although we weren’t dealt the right cards – we can always re-shuffle the deck for a better outcome. Trust & believe that.

Keep pushing forward, stay on track & be positive. No matter what kind of rough spot you’re in mentally, physically or emotionally – it’s all temporary. Be gentle with yourself.

Growth isn’t always about money or status. Sometimes the best growth is within you – the way you think, the way you feel, the way you treat others, the way you move & the way you treat yourself.

You always face the greatest struggle, the greatest opposition & the greatest discouragement right before the breakthrough.

Be the reason someone believes in good people.

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