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I Wish

Published June 20, 2017 by tindertender

I wish there was something I could say that would ease your mind. I wish there was a way to show you how these energies of negativity will grow, and expand, exactly what you do not want. The intense focus on what is not wanted, will only ensure more of the same comes, only now, with such intense focus, it will be bigger … more than before. I wish you knew that you are a powerful creator, and this is what is being chosen.

Intention ~ Where thoughts go, energy flows

Published June 19, 2017 by tindertender

When a loved one becomes ill, there is intense focus on it. There is a deep want for them to be cured and a severe dump of life force energy goes into the fact that they are ill.  Sons and daughters, sisters and brothers, everyone is involved in this energy dump around illness. Doing so causes the one who is ill to focus on that illness intently.

There is one small problem with this, and it isn’t so small.

Where thoughts go, energy flows.

Intention.jpgWith all that focus on illness, it actually can cause a dramatic growth and exacerbation of the illness. There are many studies from all around the world which prove this to be the case.

Of course we want to help our loved ones. We want to do everything in our power to increase their chances of becoming well, or healing to the greatest extent. We want it so badly that we make ourselves sick with worry. Hence, where thoughts go energy flows, not only for our loved ones, but in us as well.

The most powerful thing that can be done is to step back from the fear about illness and shower the situation with love, acceptance and joy. Fear, and a form of panic does not do the situation any good at all, it increases discord and fear ~ it promotes uncertainty and loss of hope. Essentially, it can cause one to just give in and give up.

Love must be allowed to over-ride the fear of loss, it must over-ride the fear of the future outcome. Loving … day to day, day after day, is what brings peace.

It is important to take a deep look into the situation and consider what type of energy is being contributed. Where is the power of the human creator going to? Where is the focus of will going? What is being empowered?

Working Through Tension

Published June 15, 2017 by tindertender

Nothing to do … twiddle thumbs, look around … and eat. Get up from chair, pace the room, repeat.

A new adventure is about to begin. When these moments in life, these opportunities occur, it may feel as though the clock stops, butterflies do their thing in the belly and slight agitation erupts in the mind.


Calming the nerves takes effort and practice. Running at 1000 miles per hour, or 2 ~ it has the same affect. Being so busy one cannot think, and being so stagnant that is all one has to do, has the same unsettling outcome … both require an effort of stilling the mind.

With eyes shut feel a long breath enter the lungs, with a long slow exhale, feel it leave. Pay attention to the way air moves into, and out of, the body. Do not stop after 3, let the uncomfortable sensation sit, keep breathing ~ slowly. After a time, a small relaxation will arrive … keep breathing. Breathe through the need to get up and be busy … just sit and breathe.


Published May 27, 2017 by tindertender

Have you ever felt the energies of a long distance encounter rolling about in your insides? Have you had an increase in tension, or a distinct uneasiness while conversing with them?

Where thoughts go

A psychic vampire can feed one of three ways, and how the vampire feeds may depend on the situation and the vampire’s tastes.

  1. Contact
  2. Proximity
  3. Tendril

Please visit the above link for details.



I Rise, I Shine

Published April 2, 2017 by tindertender

Bang, Bang, Bang …
The ball drops.
I hear it hit the backboard
And drop again.

Sleeping dogs lie.
Surrounded by sound,
The stomach flip flops,
Unease fills the body.

“Breathe” I say,
Draw it in and fill the lungs.
“What are you doing?” he says.
I respond, “What are YOU doing?”

Breathe again,
Feel the breath move through the body.
Swallowing doubt,
I release the holds on the mind.

There is a shift,
Many feel it.
I am not alone,
Love prevails.

Manipulation, control,
They have no place here.
Here, freedom dwells,
Clawing at the walls I climb.

I climb from the darkness
Called “ownership” and I claim my right.
This life is mine,
I choose where time is spent.

Before time, He was there.
After time, He will still be there.
I wait, I learn,
I rise, I shine.


If you hurt, I hurt. Let’s fix it together.

Published April 1, 2017 by tindertender

“Welcome to Whole Again, the site where you will find solutions to your problem without too much talking and a lot more action. We can explain everything we do, it all works according to natural logical systems and patterns. Nature is full of them, everything is created according to systems and everything has logic behind it. It is people who make it chaotic and try to push everything into their own chaotic views limited by their understandings. “

Please visit the above web page if you are in need of assistance in the form of energetic connection. Remco is an astounding healer, he is a straight to the point, no frills, get the job done kind of fella.

You will be glad you stopped in and presented your questions.

This photo and writing below are not affiliated with, yet I love it and want to tell you, Remco and those who work with him, will help to make things a little easier.

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