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Remember Your Sacred Nature

Published April 11, 2019 by tindertender

Relaxed, I am ready for the day. It is still quite early as I sit here to record a few thoughts.

It perplexes me how some refuse to assist each other, and others say, “At least we can try”. I do not know what creates such a mind set, and am certain I’ve had both at some time and another. Hopefully I’m wearing the “At least we can try” these days.

The heart of today’s issue seems to be New Beginnings, which is great and exactly what I work toward, as I’m certain many others are … and the Universe is conspiring with us to make it happen.

Sometimes it is hard to let go of what no longer serves us and to understand that the old must symbolically die before something new blossoms. Resistance to change hinders the start of fresh cycles. Shed the old, make room for the new.

Self love can be a challenge, especially after decades of being told we ought to be ashamed of who we are, or how we’ve responded and acted to situations that have accumulated in life.

Meditate on these things which inhibit your ability for self-acceptance. Think on these things deeply … then wash your hands in a bowl of salted water and say,

“I wash away all doubt. I wash away all that does not serve me. I wash away the lack of love I have for myself.”

Now close your eyes and think of a time that you felt positively about yourself, feel the self-esteem as it bubbles up inside of you. Remember this, and carry it with you.

Allow what you no longer need to be destroyed, or reduced. Build your emotional authenticity and know that you are protected when expressing your true emotions in appropriate ways.

We aren’t always taught how to healthily deal with sadness, anger, depression, or even jealousy, but they aren’t strange or unnatural emotions. Everyone feels them at some time or other. How we express these energies makes the difference in our lives, and the lives our life touches. Express them in a healthy way, release them and move on. Surrender these ‘stuck’ things you no longer wish to posses.

Great Goddess, your breath like fire, your eyes golden in the sun,
I am grateful for your attention.

There is a need for a balancing of ‘power’ … in body and mind, in relationships, in governments, and in this world. Should you experience, or see someone suffering, speak out …

Is This The Great Experiment?

Published March 21, 2019 by tindertender

Why is someone always attacking the energy of the heart? How many heartbreaks can a human endure and still maintain ability to care, or better yet, to love still?

Love songs are so beautiful. Love is so beautiful! Love … has it been lost in a scar-filled Sky? Sometimes we can convince ourselves there is no more love. It can get depressing and suck the hope right out of a soul.

… But …

Love is real, and it IS still here despite the heartbreak, heart-ache and the shoving of destruction down our throats, every moment of every day by those who broadcast into homes. Choose wisely who you allow to influence your space. Occasionally at least, turn off the teli and dance, and sing about the love you once believed in … I hope you still do.

When things are right no one is messing with the weather or tweaking time. Outside influencers lose their reach and lose their hold over minds … once again Love, Joy and Family will be the most important thing on this earth.

No! I am not taking another walk down memory lane … I am moving forward! It seems many people are stuck in repetitive cycles of living in the past rather than purposefully creating a new and brighter future.

Is this life a race toward something … a goal? … or very important task? Humans fall constantly but continue to rise and progress. It is pretty incredible if deeply pondered, humans are so resilient!

I for one have never been good at pretending. I’ve never wanted to be good at pretending. I do not claim to have the answers, or what you need to fix your life. I’m simply living and sharing from the heart those thoughts which dwell in my mind.

We, all of us, are more alike than we could possibly imagine. If we are not willing to get to the core of who we are, to seek those traits that are buried deep in the subconscious of the psyche, truly seeing is not possible … and shallow assumptions and opinions are all that are born into the world. This practice of soul diving must begin in the mind, evaluating and examining the deepest part of self. From the mind this understanding develops in the heart, filling the self with a connection to that which is beyond time. Once that is done it becomes easier to see similarities between other people, aligning with our own reality. Separation simply falls away.

Some things must always be worked upon. Consistent effort need be applied to understanding if we are to smooth the current experience into something less traumatic. As a family this is the purest gift we can share with each other.

The Past Is Gone

Published March 14, 2019 by tindertender

If those who thrive on chaos were wise, they’d be certain to influence the minds of humanity to stop killing each other and other life forms. One day they might discover everyone has gone and it is just they who remain. BIG oops. Who will they antagonize then?

Have you ever loved so completely you actually walked away from yourself to be with them? And years later when they decided to leave, you had a bit of trouble finding yourself again? Ya, don’t do that anymore. The right one will love you as you are and encourage you to be the best version of yourself you can be. You may find that this one turns out to be you. Walking away from your self is the worst thing you can do to you.

Kick the repeated phrases out of your mind, those that do harm. The mind is your space, you’ll find that you share it with those who are fascinated by you, they will show love for you, or they will show their need to be angry with you.

Liking to be destructive is the complete opposite pole to pain. Those who destroy are covering up (mostly) secret pain … and pain, of course, has many different sub-categories.

What do you suppose cancer does when it comes upon cells infused with cannabinoids? Does it get stoned and die, or just get stupid and forget how to grow?

All that anger and hurt … denied acknowledgement.

The elasticity of Life has a shell that won’t crack. It’s fresh, flexible, with a super hard casing, which appears soft, and sometimes is believed to be so.

When people have a certain vision, say .. a photo … and a story that explains the person in the photo, and this story and photo are passed down generation to generation. The energy poured into this story actually creates its current and lasting reality, gives it an energy mass filled with millions of thoughts about it, not all good … it becomes real, but only in a sense.

Once people understand the way creation works they will choose more wisely that which they pour energy into, and what they use their imagination and creative energy for.

This is why global, or mass meditation with a common theme is so potent. So much energy with focus and intention is very powerful! Add emotion, such as love or even fear and it becomes ten-fold. Why do you think there is so much propaganda being used to create fear or anger in people these days? Someone needs the energy. They use it to manipulate situations and events.

Could it be that humans just like to get overly involved in certain topics? Sometimes we as people obsess for days, weeks or years on things.

Just thinking of these topics could be classified as obsession, but what better obsession than the one that opens eyes, ears, mind and heart?

Be well … bless you.

‘Owning’ Lifes Experience

Published March 4, 2019 by tindertender

Note to self: Do not give other people more authority of my experience than I give myself.

There is always someone in this world who claims to know the fix to what ails you. In most cases, they may be familiar with the symptoms, but not the reality of the story, for they have not had personal experience of the same.

At times the assistance of those familiar with symptoms is needed, for they have the authority and access to many medicines which can make it possible to calm the storm in the heart and mind while the person affected gets a clearer knowledge and understanding of what is happening to them. Eventually they will be able to leave the symptom recognizer and handle their own affairs, should they choose to do the work.

I am amazed at how many people read stories in books about the Spirit Realms and take them to heart, believing that all who are not in body are bad. You ask them if they believe in God, most say yes. Ask them if they believe what they hear may be of God, and they say it’s the devil.

Some say that God would never speak to folks because he respects their sovereignty, but people have been messengers of Spirit for a very long time. This relationship was at one time more intimate, now everyone is trained to fear it, medicate it, and deny it.

Fear has had its day in my mind and life. I’m going to move forward with a different frame of mind, a mind of acceptance, and a curiosity that brings blessing to reality, not fear. Yes, I know there are many people who behave very badly, they are not who I speak of. I speak of that intimate connection with those beyond, who simply wish to be heard, not feared, not slandered, not hated.

There has been too much rejection in this world, and not enough embrace. Unless I permit myself to love it, it will never reveal its true self to me.

People have been trained to eliminate everything that doesn’t feel comfortable. Getting stressed? There’s a pill for that. Anxiety getting you down? Here’s something to calm you. Can’t sleep, too many dreams? Here, take this 1/2 hour before bed time. Having conversations with those no one else hears? Take this, it will stop them from speaking … and on, and on … anything and everything to help you not deal with the way things are, just so things can continue in the manner which has brought upset to so many lives, without actual change. Honestly, this current system is not about helping people understand, it is about keeping them quiet and docile.

“We are so captivated and entangled in our subjective consciousness that we have forgotten the age-old fact that God speaks chiefly through dreams and visions.” … “People will do anything, no matter how absurd, to avoid facing their own souls.” ~ Carl Jung

Sources for more quotes of C.G. Jung:
http://freudquotes.blogspot.com/2014/02/cg-jung-quotes.html
https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Carl_Jung

Claiming Authority Over Ones Own Life

Published February 14, 2019 by tindertender

Have you ever been told you were wrong … wrong for not allowing another to impress their will over your own? It seems there are those who believe certain people have the right to squash what makes a person happy and at peace, forcing individuals to do what makes them happy instead.

This is what I see has upset the cart for humanity. Yet I also see historically, humans have behaved in this manner for millenniums.

Looking back through the years I see myself and others doing what was requested and suggested, folding under pressure to the will of another. How can it be that people are so easily convinced they are not good enough, or responsible enough, or worthy, or capable of making their own decisions? How is it people allow their self to become the ‘mini-me’ doing what another wants, what makes them happy, forgetting their own comfort or longing, denying their own peace and happiness?

As time passes, it may be realized this is no longer an option. We see everywhere in the world people rising and refusing to give up authority over their own life. I give a short little laugh now (as I remember personal history) but it isn’t funny in the least.

Decisions made in the past, made to please another, are not done in best interest of anyone. Pretend love leaves a cavern in the heart, it’s quite depressing once what was thought to be love becomes obvious as mere lust, lies and coercion. After time and deep reflection many would rather be alone than play these games.

The future will be built upon personal free-will, and guess what? Most people will not agree that the decisions made are good or right. In response, say, “My decisions are not good or right for you, but for me they are perfect.”

It is infuriating to see so many people trying to direct the lives of others, often forcing themselves and their will upon them. Entrapment, enslavement, coercion and denying people the right to live according to their own terms, values, and heart space should cease immediately.

Courage … Originally meant “to speak ones mind by telling all ones heart.” While the ‘norm’ has been to not lay all ones cards on the table, truth is, there is no need to hide from each other any longer.

There is massive courage in showing vulnerability. When we see those that do, we are also able to see others who attack. More and more people are preferring to lay it all on the line, sick of the game, tired of pretending. It takes far to much energy.

In the end, giving up ones self, becoming who another wishes one to be, is never enough to make ‘love’ stay. When it goes, the person who tried to be what someone else wanted will have to ‘rediscover’ who they are and begin again.

Union and Transformation

Published January 21, 2019 by tindertender

I suppose you don’t know me. I suppose I don’t either.

Poles: Frustration – Ease; Anger – Calm; Sad – Happy; Bored – Excited; etc.

I find it very hard to ‘hate’ things. I tried it, I do not want to any longer, haven’t for some time now.

There are no favorites. There are only those who offer ‘hope’ of some kind, and those who do not.

Who do you think you are? What gives you the right to play with consciousness the way you do? How can your practices be halted? What are you vulnerabilities?

If you were Pure Consciousness your voice wouldn’t sound unique … you would send messages via feeling, no voice needed, it would be relayed via a sense of ‘knowing’.

So … who are these distinct voices, and where are their locations? What are their intentions?

The Lower unseen: It seems apparent that the intention of these is to cause chaos in the minds of people everywhere. Their need for it is what feeds them and keeps them alive. The immense energy spent on chaos, spewed into the open arena of space and time, and flowing into the beyond, are nutrients for those who no longer have body, yet have chosen to remain in an area of influence over humanity.

That is one sector …

The higher unseen works to combat them, working for peace for humanity. When these are joined by the people who intentionally work with sound and positive thought forms, a great shift can be felt and seen.

Humanity is the magnifier. Via choice, people will grow chaos and fear, or they will focus on the opposite pole of these, using the higher Law to transmute the lower Law, bringing harmony rather than chaos.

Let us assist each other in this battle of the mind. Let us share our efforts to produce a better, more harmonious world.

Love / Hate Relationships

Published December 6, 2018 by tindertender

The impostor would have you believe in their ‘innocence’, when their only intention is to make one falter, and fail. The differences, seemingly subtle, are quite stark in contrast … do not be fooled.

If there was honor in consciousness the task would be dealt with and done. Those who stay and pretend to care have one objective, and it is not peace … it is destruction of peace. If it were otherwise we would be seeing and experiencing peace by now. This is how you can distinguish between the chaos maker and the truth.

These liars are very good at playing innocent. Their goal is distraction, for they wish to keep you from your purpose of building a sane society in which people actually care for others.

When people benefit from the hard work of others, without contributing anything in return, replenishing that which has been utilized, then supply is depleted for all. There are takers, those who feel privileged to receive that which others have worked for, taking and taking, and there are others who would share, paying it forward. Should supply be worked for and paid forward, it eventually comes full circle once more, benefiting the original ‘gifter’, benefiting all in a continuous cycle.

Get out of here pretender. I am sick of your lies. There may not be a happy ending for you, nor for me, but there will be an ending … and there will be a new beginning.

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