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The Healer

Published April 15, 2022 by tindertender

The old healer said to the soul,

It is not your back that hurts, but the burden you carry.

It is not your eyes that hurt, but the injustice you see.

It is not your head that hurts, but your thoughts.

It is not your throat but that which you dare not tell.

It is not your belly but your soul that cannot digest what is happening around you.

It is not your liver that hurts, but the anger inside.

It is not your heart that hurts, but love.

And it is love itself, which can heal all this pain, the most powerful medicine.”

~ Author unknown

Affirmations ~ November 13, 2021

Published November 13, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

A Young Daughter of the Picts
Jacques Le Moyne de Morgues, ca. 1585

I experience a bold and fearless trust in life, becoming further empowered to live it. I am right where I need to be.

I am here now as a testament of my spiritual growth.

I do not need to carry others fear for them. I have my own process to attend to.

I am vigilant against the darker forces within me. They possess intensity, but I stay in my heart. I stay in compassion. This is a spiritual test. I navigate this challenge.

I hold stable enthusiasm in this challenge.

I am protected by unconditional love.

Possibilities are endless.

I am in complete control.

I stay grounded. My responses are a choice. I make choices based on love. I regain my sense of strength.

My values have changed. The world is a different place for me now. I move away from the idea of separation, understanding that I am in relationship with all that is. I am moved by compassion for life.

I allow life to support me.

I continue to come from a place of love.

I allow love to change my perception. I allow it to bring me happiness.

I drop the shields of shame, resistance and fear. I no longer need to hide these gifts I have. I will shine.

I move beyond limiting thoughts, emotions and patterns.

I release petty disagreements.

I embrace my Power to Will.

I take charge of my mind.

I take command of the words I use. I consider the affect they have on others and I choose wisely.

Another beautiful day in the wilderness

Published March 17, 2021 by tindertender

My boss gave me the day off due to slow business.

I took advantage of it!

Began my day with a wonderful drive and stopped for breakfast … avocado eggs Benedict.

Then I went for a nice mineral bath and wrap.

I stopped by the store and picked up a bouquet for GAIA.

Went for a walk near her waters and left the flowers for her.

Walked some more, picking up trash others had left behind as I went.

A little history:

This rock face along the River is very nice, I love the structure of it.

Some little flowers …

And the wind … oh how lovely!

Humanity’s Viruses

Published October 14, 2020 by tindertender

Scientists … sometimes working for the benefit of life and others to its detriment.

HIV/Aids was a manufactured virus, HPV also, both of which were released, knowingly, onto the citizenry.

It need not be said, but I’ll say it anyway … the ramifications of contracting either is soul crushing in more ways than one.

Shame, guilt, the denial that arises in mind of ever loving again, of being intimate occurs. Anger develops, not at the ones who unleashed these things into the public, but to the partner who carries it, and to self for allowing self be vulnerable to such things.

Consciousness, a good conscious, will go celibate, denying self of the privilege of intimacy, feeling dirtied and not wanting to dirty another. Or, they will put it out there in the hopes of connecting with another who has suffered the same contraction.

These viruses are bio-weapons used upon the populace. Governments and scientists and researchers will deny it, yet it is the case, nonetheless.

Meant to harm the psyche, the individuals sense of self-worth, of value. Toying with a persons emotional and mental package is the name of the game. It always has been.

Covid-19 is also a bio-weapon.

The purpose of these Bio-weapons? To keep people separated, to stop them from creating union which in turn generates powerful love energy, to replace the love energy with loathing/disgust and to keep people feeling lack in themselves, or fear of harming another so they stay away from them in regard an intimate manner. Supreme manipulation of the masses and their energetic outputs.

My hope is that people will stop slandering each other for things out of their control. Accepting and loving each other has nothing to do with sex, yet many make it the primary focus of the beginning stages of love. Once procreation is no longer viable, then really, what’s the use of it anyway beyond self-gratification?

There was once a time sexual interactions were utilized to generate an abundant creative power. Indeed, many still use it in this fashion. The average person tho only seeks gratification.

Being a creator, ALL being Creator, the sense of insufficiency must be put aside.

The whole of the world is toxified in one form or another, purposefully.

All we can do now is see it for what it is … a manipulation of the human body, genome … which will really ramp up when the forced vaccinations begin. The forced vaccinations which will not keep anyone healthy, but keep them in decline instead.

When the world looks at a person as tho they are dirty, it is an infection that gets on the people they view that way, in their mind and heart. When a person is looked at and viewed in this manner by enough people, they start to feel themselves in a degraded sense of being, viewing their own self as “less than” … simply because they begin to carry that energy which has been placed upon them.

This is not what a loving society does to each other.

Just like drinking a glass of wine will cause one person to get DUII and many others not, it is roulette. Someday, it, or death, will come to all who drink.

The marriage of individuals rarely lasts any more. There will be multiple partners. Being together is risky business, because not all will be upfront, honest and truthful about their past, they’ll be so focused on gratification, or the seeking of new ‘love’.

Sometimes it is best to simply learn to love ones self.

A reality forced upon an honorable person via science, and covert war tactics.

Is this knowledge of a requirement to generate love of self a good thing, or negative?

Perhaps it is both.

Remember … a healed person will not blame or shame you … including Self.

Oracle Reading 8-30-2020 p.m.

Published August 30, 2020 by tindertender

Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Compassion for another’s situation is important at this time. Consider another person’s point of view and choose connection rather than separateness.

Hold on to your dreams even through adversity. Develop faith in yourself and in a spiritual power. Trust is important. You must trust your own leadership abilities, or improve them. Be not afraid – you were born for this.

Do not doubt yourself. You can trust yourself. Developing self-trust is a necessary part of positive growth. You will be able to succeed in your goal if you believe in yourself. Sometimes you need to say no.

Justice will be done for the good of all. Take responsibility for your actions. The chaos in your life will end; natural order will be restored.

Romantic love comes into focus. Build your love of self from the inside out. You only fear because you lack self-love and acceptance. Jealousy is unnecessary.

Reading from the deck “Goddesses and Sirens” created by Stacey Demarco

Oracle Reading 8-12-2020

Published August 12, 2020 by tindertender

Be the Light

Take the higher road and choose the light. Remove yourself from lower energy experiences.

No matter what is happening to you or around you, you have a choice. Choose not to be pulled into drama, bickering or energies that are just going to limit your joy. If you are surrounded by people who are hostile towards you or someone else, or you are in a negative situation, you are being invited to be the light. You are an incredible person who can really bring light. So how can you change the energy? How can you redirect the conversation to love? How can you protect yourself? How can you help the person that is being picked on? Or are you the one who is guilty of causing a drama? You will know the answers. Know also that you are being encouraged to shine the light you were born to share.

Be Graceful in Movement and Action

Slow and steady. Breathe and flow. Take a gentler approach.

You are being guided to flow like water, blow like air and connect with your purest intentions. Don’t feel you need to rush ahead. A gentler approach will be more fruitful and rewarding. Move with subtlety and grace. Reach high, but also ask yourself how you can move with the flow of life rather than pushing against it. Do you have the capacity to refocus your gaze at this time? Can you slow down? Or take more time to soften and breathe as you move forward? All of this will be incredibly beneficial for what happens next.

Reading from the deck “Angels and Ancestors” created by Kyle Gray

Photo: https://unsplash.com/@ludomusae

Authenticity

Published August 1, 2020 by tindertender

Embracing who we are as individuals is a difficult task.

Through life many of us were neglected, and when we did receive attention, it may have been negative.

Growing up we may have developed the idea that somehow we were not worthy of love, or respect. Perhaps we entered the adult world and picked up where others left off and became our own worst enemy, abusing self, and allowing others to do the same.

Once we begin to cultivate self-love, and self-respect, denying others the right to harm us in words or deeds, we can never go back, no matter how minor the offense.

Others may try to tell you your “words” are not acceptable, that the way you express your thought is not sufficient, or lacking in some way.

It never fails … they will always be there, waiting to try and mold you into their preferred version of you.

Ppfffftt ….

Once we get to a certain point, it cannot be tolerated, not even in the slightest.

Embrace your authenticity. If it “rubs” people wrong, the issue is with them, not you ….

Of course, to be understood and have your ideas and perspectives accepted or at least pondered on by others, a certain tact must be used in the verbiage chosen.

I’m still working on tact.

And while I appreciate, and am grateful for suggestions, a cold, and seemingly superior ‘instruction’ as to my BE-ing will always be rejected.

No one usurps my will …. no one …. not any longer.

May you embrace your authentic self in a fierce manner which leaves no room for manipulation by others.

Respect …. when you have it for self, you tend to demand it from others.

And if they are not capable, if they insist on looking down their nose in a superior fashion … Let. Them. Go.

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