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Oracle Reading 8-30-2020 p.m.

Published August 30, 2020 by tindertender

Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Compassion for another’s situation is important at this time. Consider another person’s point of view and choose connection rather than separateness.

Hold on to your dreams even through adversity. Develop faith in yourself and in a spiritual power. Trust is important. You must trust your own leadership abilities, or improve them. Be not afraid – you were born for this.

Do not doubt yourself. You can trust yourself. Developing self-trust is a necessary part of positive growth. You will be able to succeed in your goal if you believe in yourself. Sometimes you need to say no.

Justice will be done for the good of all. Take responsibility for your actions. The chaos in your life will end; natural order will be restored.

Romantic love comes into focus. Build your love of self from the inside out. You only fear because you lack self-love and acceptance. Jealousy is unnecessary.

Reading from the deck “Goddesses and Sirens” created by Stacey Demarco

Oracle Reading 8-12-2020

Published August 12, 2020 by tindertender

Be the Light

Take the higher road and choose the light. Remove yourself from lower energy experiences.

No matter what is happening to you or around you, you have a choice. Choose not to be pulled into drama, bickering or energies that are just going to limit your joy. If you are surrounded by people who are hostile towards you or someone else, or you are in a negative situation, you are being invited to be the light. You are an incredible person who can really bring light. So how can you change the energy? How can you redirect the conversation to love? How can you protect yourself? How can you help the person that is being picked on? Or are you the one who is guilty of causing a drama? You will know the answers. Know also that you are being encouraged to shine the light you were born to share.

Be Graceful in Movement and Action

Slow and steady. Breathe and flow. Take a gentler approach.

You are being guided to flow like water, blow like air and connect with your purest intentions. Don’t feel you need to rush ahead. A gentler approach will be more fruitful and rewarding. Move with subtlety and grace. Reach high, but also ask yourself how you can move with the flow of life rather than pushing against it. Do you have the capacity to refocus your gaze at this time? Can you slow down? Or take more time to soften and breathe as you move forward? All of this will be incredibly beneficial for what happens next.

Reading from the deck “Angels and Ancestors” created by Kyle Gray

Photo: https://unsplash.com/@ludomusae

Authenticity

Published August 1, 2020 by tindertender

Embracing who we are as individuals is a difficult task.

Through life many of us were neglected, and when we did receive attention, it may have been negative.

Growing up we may have developed the idea that somehow we were not worthy of love, or respect. Perhaps we entered the adult world and picked up where others left off and became our own worst enemy, abusing self, and allowing others to do the same.

Once we begin to cultivate self-love, and self-respect, denying others the right to harm us in words or deeds, we can never go back, no matter how minor the offense.

Others may try to tell you your “words” are not acceptable, that the way you express your thought is not sufficient, or lacking in some way.

It never fails … they will always be there, waiting to try and mold you into their preferred version of you.

Ppfffftt ….

Once we get to a certain point, it cannot be tolerated, not even in the slightest.

Embrace your authenticity. If it “rubs” people wrong, the issue is with them, not you ….

Of course, to be understood and have your ideas and perspectives accepted or at least pondered on by others, a certain tact must be used in the verbiage chosen.

I’m still working on tact.

And while I appreciate, and am grateful for suggestions, a cold, and seemingly superior ‘instruction’ as to my BE-ing will always be rejected.

No one usurps my will …. no one …. not any longer.

May you embrace your authentic self in a fierce manner which leaves no room for manipulation by others.

Respect …. when you have it for self, you tend to demand it from others.

And if they are not capable, if they insist on looking down their nose in a superior fashion … Let. Them. Go.

The Battle

Published July 31, 2020 by tindertender

The battle for Souls is very real …. some would rather not admit this reality. Myself, I have 17 years experience with the ones who mean to enslave us … so if anyone wants to tell me to be mindful … I say, you can bet I AM.

Sugar coating reality does not help anyone.

This battle is unlike any other, you can’t see it, but you can feel it.

The way to counter those who mean to siphon you, or manipulate you, or ensanare you in any way is to:

~ Stop abusing substances, first and foremost. This includes, most especially (among certain others), alcohol.

~ If you smoke, make an effort to quit. If you choose to use the cannabis plant, ingest it rather than smoke. Smoking pollutes not only your lungs, but your energy. It lowers your vibratory output and makes you more vulnerable to psychic attack.

~ Turn off the television ‘programming’ and cut-off the media … they’ll poison your thoughts and keep you in a low vibratory state.

~ Claim your thought patterns, know they are influenced. You’ve heard that story, an angel is on one shoulder while the devil is on the other? It is true …

~ Recognize what thoughts are yours, and which come into the mind arbitrarily. Good messages, accept. Negative messages, toss to the side. Give them NO attention or energetic output … you’ll strengthen them if you give your power to it.

~ Master your emotions, do not be mastered by them.

~ You must claim your Sovereignty.

~ Stand your ground and become the best version of yourself possible.

~ Revise your self-talk. So often we say negative things to our self … when we mess up, when things don’t go right we might think it happened (Or didn’t) because we do not deserve it …. WE DO.

~ As soon as you recognize a phrase of negative self-talk in your mind, immediately rephrase the thought or statement into one which is positive. Counter attack those pesky belittling comment creepers.

~ Cultivate the power of self-forgiveness, self-care, and self-love. When this becomes strong, you’ll have sufficient prowess to assist others.

~ Clean up your diet. No more processed foods. Eat fresh, (organic if possible) fruits and vegetables. If you must eat meat, purchase from a local, organic and humane farmer. Drink a lot of water, the physical form needs it to flush out low-vibe energies.

~ Exercise. Go walking, dance in the living room, rearrange the furniture … anything that makes your heart work.

~ Quiet your mind for at least a few moments of the day, grow the length of quiet time as you get comfortable with it.

Health, Happiness, Wholeness … and FREEDOM are your right.

As with all things worth having, it will require you to do the work.

Gifts do not just show up … we must show our sincerity in a situation and do the steps necessary to fulfill that vision.

In time, with conscious persistence , we reformat our reality …

By choice …

From ones own point of Power.

You’ve got this!

Believe it! For the WIN starts in the mind.

Oracle Reading 7-28-2020

Published July 28, 2020 by tindertender

Do not doubt yourself. You can trust yourself. Developing self-trust is a necessary part of positive growth. You will be able to succeed in your goal if you believe in yourself. Sometimes you need to say no.

The Welsh goddess Rhiannon was a graceful young woman who married Pwyll, a Demetria’s king. When Pwyll first saw her, she was riding a stunning white stallion, her hair loose and fair, her smile sweet. He fell deeply in love with her, and they wed. Soon a baby prince was born to the happy couple.

Pwyll’s mother, who had up until now had the undivided attention of her son, became jealous of their love and kidnapped the new baby. She put fake blood on Rhiannon’s hands as she slept in order to frame her for the baby’s disappearance.

When the household awoke and found the baby prince sing and blood on Rhiannon’s hands, the immediately presumed she had done away with the child. Pwyll’s mother accused Rhiannon of hurting the child, goading everyone else to think that way too. Even though Rhiannon did not remember committing such a crime, she doubted herself and spoke aloud that it must have happened. Pwyll was brokenhearted yet could not sentence the woman he loved to death, and instead Rhiannon’s terrible punishment was to forevermore carry visitors to the castle on her back just as a horse would.

Thankfully, only a season went by until Rhiannon began to build the strength and self-trust necessary to question what had actually happened that night, coming to full recognition that she could never harm her child. Soon after, Rhiannon found the young prince, and so her mother-in-Law was banished. Rhiannon was happily reunited with her king and became a wise and powerful queen, never again doubting her own self or her own wisdom. Horses were made sacred to her and honored as a symbol of her hard work and transformation.

Like Rhiannon, there may be times in our lives when we doubt ourselves and even perhaps hand our power over to others. Self-trust is such an important thing to develop – it builds our confidence and makes our decisions easier. Sometimes, it is necessary to say no to someone even though that person would like us to say yes. Self-trust, the ability to know what is best for us and what our capabilities are, helps us cope better in a situation like being bullied or pressured into something that we are not sure we want to do.

As Rhiannon is a moon goddess, the full moon is a good time to do this invocation for more self-trust. You might also like to dress in white or silver. If you are lucky enough to have a horse, groom it and carry some of its hair in your pocket. If you have a piece of jewelry with a horse charm, wear it. If you don’t have access to a horse, print out (or draw) a picture of one and pop that into your pocket.

Create a circle around yourself. You can do this any way you like. For example, you might want to drop some flower petals or glitter around you ina circle. If you go outside to do this, draw a chalk line around you or arrange some leaves in a circle.

Sit down with a straight back or choose to stand in the middle of your circle.

Know that you are safe and loved within this space that you have created. Know that Rhiannon on her horse is with you.

Say:

Rhiannon, you were once like me. You doubted yourself. Fill me with self-trust. So more it be!

Shut you eyes and imagine being filled with trust in yourself. Breathe in deeply and imagine you’re breathing in the power of self-trust. On the exhale imagine breathing out any doubts or worries you may have.

Repeat this a number of times until you feel confident and all those niggling worries and doubts have left you.

Open your eyes. Notice how different you feel! More confident! Now thank Rhiannon and know that as you step out of the scared circle, you have more power that ever before to move out into the world in a more positive way.

Reading from the deck “Goddesses and Sirens” created by Stacey Demarco

I Am SHE

Published July 26, 2020 by tindertender

I am SHE,
Who has created YOU
Out of Divine LOVE
From the Light of the Fire
and the Dark Waters
of my Sacred Womb!
The Dark and the Light are
BALANCED,
like the Yin and the Yang
the Moon and the Sun,
Fire and Ice!

How dare you suppress ME,
the Divine Feminine
within YOU,
for We are ONE.
The True Light of Wisdom and Truth
shall Rise once again,
one not without the other!
And the Masculine shall yet be Divine!
One distorted shall NOT replace
another yet still distorted!

You did not heed our call.
Now you shall be purified
within the healing pink and green fires
of my burning, passionate
LOVE for YOU.
As I rewrite the Sacred Book,
we will Co-create together
once again, and
forevermore …

For I AM SOPHIA.

Release your fears. The Mother fiercely fights for and protects her children, sweet soul. Release and welcome Her Love.

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Oracle Reading 7-22-2020

Published July 22, 2020 by tindertender

Close your eyes, tune into your breathing, and allow yourself to sink deeply into the heart of the living creation that you are. As you notice your breath becoming steady and slightly deeper than usual, observe the urge within you that is begging to come forth in some alive action. Pay attention to any images, sounds, or feelings that beckon your awareness; and there you will find the key as to the manner in which to express this magnificent pulse.

Your breath is the crossover between Spirit and physical reality. Breathing comfortably and steadily helps you align yourself with Spirit, which then brings a clearer focus on what creative expression is preparing to be birthed through and from you. Discard any habitual thought patterns that would prevent the manifestation of what you are being prompted to bring forth. Allow yourself to take risks with this self-expression, and all of Creation will smile upon you.

In both subtle and more dramatic ways, you can shapeshift by your choice of clothing, hairstyle, adornments, and even mannerisms (such as facial expression, gestures, and the way you walk). By adjusting these along with your internal attitude, you can actually display different personas. When you experiment with these variations of self-expression that are not how you ordinarily present yourself, others will react to you, depending on the degree in which your persona contrasts with the one they are most familiar with. Be like the clouds as you try out different forms, stretching your limits at times, willing to move and adjust as necessary.

Lift your head up, square your shoulders, and stand tall such that your chest and heart open to the world, and note how this feels. You may feel vulnerable at first, but stay with it. Then let your shoulders fall forward slightly, pull your chest inward an inch or two, and let your head drop a little; observe how this feels.

Experiment with contracting your aura (your energy field), then expand it as far as you comfortably can. By this kind of shapeshifting you can consciously choose your expression into the world. Just remember who you are at the core.

The lethargy you feel is the result of a lack of activation – in other words, something that stirs your senses. This could be anything from walking outdoors, feeling the breeze on your body, or inhaling the different aromas that Nature herself provides. Or it could be finding the pleasure in a warm bath that helps you release the tension and stress from your mind and body. Music may activate your hearing, which sparks the pleasure centers in your brain. Art may activate your emotional responses. The touch of another human may activate a deep need to be physically held in some manner once again.

Now is the time for action. Engage in some activity and be fully present so that you forget about your surroundings and enter into that timeless and multidimensional experience of Union with the focus of your creative attention. Let your physical body be active. Movement alone – whether quietly dancing by yourself or hiking up that hill over yonder – will require you to be as present as possible in your body. Enjoy!

Reading from the deck “Earth Magic” created by Steven D. Farmer

Photo: https://unsplash.com/@jareddrice

Oracle Reading 7-20-2020

Published July 20, 2020 by tindertender

Call upon the elements. Focus your intentions. The greatest dragon is within you.

Right now I look to the Spirit within and I feel my inner power. I call upon the forces of nature for even more strength and direction. I will not waver from the task at hand for this is my time. I will go forth with courage and I will succeed, for life and power are on my side.

Laugh at yourself. Lighten your heart. Let nothing steal your happiness.

Today I will focus on joy. I am always completely myself and that is enough. Today I will honor myself and my personal integrity and rise up in its power. I will embrace the greater part of me and live with sincerity and honor. I will be honest with myself, live a life of truth, and I will be free.

Be bold. Rise up and stand tall. Feel the fire in your soul.

Today I will connect with my inner power and be bold. I will rise up and know my worth. I banish all uncertainty and remember with pride my accomplishments. I will let no one diminish me. I embrace the strong, beautiful presence that I am and I will go forth with courage.

We are all becoming. Surrender to your changes. Release your fear. Trust this powerful process.

Today I remember the infinite rhythm of life. I will not be afraid of the darkness for it is always followed by the light. I will not be surprised when the light seems to fade for it is just a part of the process. I know life is a circle of birth, death, and rebirth. I will not fear. I will embrace all that I am becoming and welcome change.

Let compassion fill your world. Offer kindness to all living things. What you give you also receive.

Today I will live in compassion, for myself and others. I will show kindness in word, thought, and deed. Right now, I will count my blessings. I will love myself, forgive myself, embrace my humanity and in doing so I will be able to do the same for others. For what I give I will receive and I will begin with me.

Reading from the deck Magical Times Empowerment Cards created by Jody Bergsma

Photo: https://pixabay.com/images/search/power/
Photo: https://unsplash.com/@lopezrobin

Lavender Delight Followed By Honesty

Published July 11, 2020 by tindertender

I discovered a lavender field that was open by ‘reservation only’ and purchased my ticket on-line.

Wandering around, bees were buzzing, gentle music was playing, and lavender was moving with the breeze.

Here is a little historical knowledge they shared.

There are many sights to see here.

The seating was unique.

And of course … the lavender.

I took a trip to Crystal Heart for an aura photo.

The quick interpretation was there are ‘helpers’ showering me with pink light, trying to get me to care for myself. Throat chakra wide open. Heart chakra shut down.

He suggested I journal and stated I’m pushing too many people away. He’s correct. I’m not too certain anyone deserves unlimited access to my heart or my deep, passionate love.

I suppose this ‘attitude’ would come after brokenness in relationship, where now the only thing offered is judgement.

Fuck ‘em. I’ve got flowers … and apparently a whole lot of release that needs done yet.

Here is the printed explanation of colors.

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