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What Does Equality Really Mean?

Published June 17, 2018 by tindertender

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To me, equality means being equally valued. There are different roles which must be filled in order to create harmonious balance, every position cherished and honored.

City life is a challenge, in that the definition of equality has been skewed. It’s about equal pay, voters rights, the freedom to choose. And while all of these things are important and necessary to be considered, the aspect which makes them poor, and will always see they remain so, is the lack of honor and respect shown toward each other.

There must be an inner desire to see others be successful in whatever they choose to take part in that is of benefit to someone other than themselves (which in turn is benefit to them). The logic, which is really very simple, has been jacked all out of context.

For the most part, it is my observation, this imbalance revolves around ‘greed’ and need for ‘power’. Lack has been bred into the system we find ourselves in, leaving folks scrambling for money needed to acquire enough for their families. The most prevalent problem in today’s environment is that there isn’t opportunity to earn enough anymore. Although wages have increased, they in no way measure up to the demands, that have also increased.

Essentially, the only way to combat this hole most of the world has been stuffed in to, is unity. Coming together, merging resources, working as a team and having honor and respect for each other for all our contributions.

The shackles which the powerful and greedy have given average people to wear must be shed. The system they’ve created isn’t working. It only serves to entrap and enslave. There is no real freedom.

There is possibility for freedom though, and it is in the hearts and minds of all people. It is up to each and every one how to go about breaking chains, for each and every experience has its own structure. Only those within the structure can organize an exit, one which will be easiest on those loved and cared for, while merging into a larger, more beneficial whole.

Cooperative Union

Published June 17, 2018 by tindertender

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Falling back, head into the grass, I turn my face and see you looking at me through its blades. I rest there and I watch the clouds. Logic says they would flow with the wind, but no, the center one moves left and right, and the left cloud moves right, while the right cloud moves left, reaching for and merging into one another.

I’m called to the ladies gathering and we discuss the needs of the group. We plan on how to best serve all members that gather here, we make our lists. I am amazed at the beauty before me. I think of the city and its definition of what beauty is. I am sorry for those who have not had the opportunity to sit with people such as these.

The men are gathered and they discuss repair and modifications that need to me made for the safety and comfort of people living with mobile challenges. They make a mental note of tools needed and schedule a time and day for the “work party”. Although I will not take part in the labor, I will be there to provide nourishment, I am honored with such a task.

I’ve yearned for this type of exchange my entire life. A conscious, cooperative union, working together as a team. It is quite beautiful. At the end of the day my eyes long to close. My heart is at ease and a smile rests upon my face.

Arriving in the city once more I begin to search for, and acquire, items of benefit for the future. This giving of ones self is the most satisfying experience. It is not a challenge, it is a desire to make life a bit easier for others, and for enjoying these little things with them.

My heart remains with each and every one of them as I sit here typing these words. The sun is going to shine on their heads today, and on mine … equally giving of its warmth.

Climbing Mountains

Published June 14, 2018 by tindertender
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He said, She said … How long has this been going on? Argument … consistent, never ending, argument. Who is right and who is wrong? Is there any such thing?

Has a human ever found it easy to place themselves in a situation they find someone else in, before making an assessment? I am aware there are many cultures who cultivate certain responses, certain controls of self, and nurture their ability to have compassion and understanding for others.

There are others who practice thinking before speaking … resting with emotion, and rather than let the emotion be in charge of what comes out the mouth, they choose to not say a word, until later, after the adrenaline slows.

It seems the tendency to jump to conclusions is prevalent nowadays though … it is seen plainly, every day, wherever one may find themselves.

Becoming older, learning to break habits and alter the ‘training’ learned from youth, to shed the person of the past, is a true blessing. Just to have the opportunity to recreate that which we are is HUGE!! So many people never see it, so many people stay in the strangle hold of that which someone else gave them to wear.

In youth, it is often that someone else forms who we are. How the hair is worn, what fashion is adopted, if any, how we speak, or act in public, what we eat, how we chew, whether we say please or thank you, or ask permission at all, whether we take, or give, acknowledge lack peacefully, or strive to have more and more.

If fortunate to live long enough, this point becomes noticeable, opportunity arises to recreate that person-hood who we walk through life being. Shedding habits, forgiving others, in order to hopefully, one day forgive self, lightening the load of humanity and assisting in making positive change for the world, bringing light and song and joy to the day, every day that is consciously chosen.

There will always be someone to try and stop it … to create doubt and feelings of insufficiency … this is their reality and they try to impose it into others lives … to make others wear who and what they are (… in that particular moment).

You do not have to bear that load for them, the energies you produce will always be spent on what you allow them to be spent on.

Power is in Choice … every day, you wield it.

 

What Is Your “Job”?

Published June 13, 2018 by tindertender
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Entering this life you developed amnesia. You learned how to form words with the human mouth, you learned what is hot, and how all of the body senses work. You discovered emotions, and have learned, or are learning, how they can be manipulated.

You have been ‘schooled’ on how to behave, on what is deemed important and valuable. When you do not conform to these ideals, you experience something unsavory, you are manipulated over and over again until you succumb to the ‘program’.

Your job, our job, has been a calling for reinstatement to the earthly plain. We are here to create positive and beneficial change for the whole of life here on the planet … of course, there are others who’s task is to destroy it.

Climb out of the little box your grand self has been conditioned to stay in. Begin to consider the bigger picture, the larger scheme. You are meant to hinder, and bring to an end, destruction which humanity and all life has been plagued with.

Do not let anyone sway you from this truth. Remember your purpose, and take action … with honor, with truth, with compassion and care. Summon your integrity, guided by your inner moral compass, and apply the now hidden knowledge you came here with, as Michael Meade calls it, The Genius within you.

This task? You were certain you could complete. And you were correct. You are much more powerful than you have been trained to believe. Shed human teachings and remember … you know the world is relying on you.

You are a Warrior in a very real sense … of mending, of healing, of harmony. These changes will occur once you escape the grip of that which has taught you of destruction. Habits taught are made to be broken. Shine your alchemist light on the world, do what you came to do. Transform it, transform everything you see in the shadows (which are now coming to light).

We’ve been waiting for you.
The whole world has been waiting for you.

What Are You Afraid Of?

Published June 12, 2018 by tindertender

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So much time wasted on fear, fear of what others think, or what they might do. Fear of not being accepted, or of being denied, forgotten, abused.

Extreme fear has the capacity to render one immobile, frozen in place, unable to function. Often just the thought of what could be is enough to succeed in this paralyzation of people.

There are times when one can be so sure that disaster, or ill harm is going to happen. Most times this is all that is needed … the manipulators only have to introduce these ideas to people and the rest is … well, it is actually what we see in the world today.

Television shows us boogeymen (and women) in a fashion that is quite exaggerated. More often than not, the truly awful and dangerous stuff isn’t quite as easy to discern. Disguised as something good and beneficial it can be too late to alter course once the reality is seen, too late to change direction smoothly anyway.

Facing the innermost fear is indeed a challenge. Mustering up courage to walk into that which one would rather run from is very difficult. But in most cases this effort will bring reward, and that reward is the knowledge that what was feared is not capable of living up to the imagination of its power.

Laying in a tiny room she knew they were waiting for her, outside. A friend tried to comfort her, she could not bring herself to believe what he was saying, she did not trust that he knew what he was talking about. He was forgiving and did not get upset, for he knew her dilemma. Finally, she rose, determined to exit the space, thinking to herself, “if I die, so be it.” Lo and behold, she walked out and found she was free. No one was there to harm her, her imagination was the only thing which held her prisoner.

Facing fear will be the hardest thing ever done, but once done, an understanding of how powerless these imaginings are will be known. Most times, the imagination will give something much bigger and scarier to a person to think about, much larger than the reality.

Gifting ones self this exercise is empowering, for in facing that which robs one of personal capacity, that which was stolen, and more, will be obtained.

Telling The Truth Isn’t A Crime …

Published June 10, 2018 by tindertender

… Or is it?

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We’ve seen many people lose their lives for telling the truth, or for the intention of telling the truth. There is a long list of these people, and to name only a few … Ruqia Hassan; Don Bolles; Syed Salem Shahzad; Seth Rich; Serena Shim; Justice Antonio Scalia.

Others who are still living: Julian Assange; Edward Snowden; John Bolenbaugh; Spc. Bryan O’Neal; Judge Jean-Marc Connerotte; Erin Brockovich; Dane Wigington; Barrie Trower.

It seems that those who wish for the truth to be known are intensely gone after by those in the darkness in order to silence them. Those who live in shadows wish to stay this way and anyone threatening to bring their dirty deeds into the open is often killed, threatened, and chased around, lives made miserable by the constant harassment and threat.

Stories are spun about those who wish to have a transparent and safer space to live, those who risk their own lives to bring light into the world.

Truth seekers, and truth bearers, are often forced to live a life on the run, and/or life with continuous threat. Their lives may be slandered by others, making many believe they are telling falsehoods, conspiracy theorists, paranoid. Often these same people wind up dead, and ridiculous tales of ‘suicide’ are told about their demise.

It is important to glean information from many sources before making a personal opinion. Too many instance have been proven to be surrounded by lies, and it becomes known at a later date that sinister workings are ‘working hard’ to keep their shadow world hidden.

Fear is birthed in the lives of many, in those who wield the truth and move forward despite the threats, and in those who see what happens to truth tellers and remain silent.

There are the doers, despite the risks, and there are the ones who remain silent, even amid the ‘stories’ which they know to be false.

Where is the line nowadays? The balance is shifting, even while some may think it is not … thanks to the courageous ones who give their lives for truths sake, for the betterment of the world… for ALL life.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2017/11/02/when-journalists-get-killed-without-impunity-whole-world-loses-david-callaway-column/818243001/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_journalists_killed_in_the_United_States

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_federal_judges_killed_in_office

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/belgium/1456107/Judge-tells-of-murder-plots-to-block-Dutroux-investigation.html

https://www.honeycolony.com/article/mysterious-holistic-doctor-deaths/

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Barrie_Trower

Recognizing Personal … And Others … Pain

Published June 9, 2018 by tindertender

There is a tendency to push the load, to give it to someone else to carry. Often life’s experiences are so painful the weight cannot be shouldered alone.

When time is taken to look deeply into the emotional life, the pain which is ours, and that which has been given us to carry for another, can be seen clearly.

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Although we may think we are helping someone by carrying their load, in reality this only depletes personal ability to utilize energy for that which is wished to be seen in the world.

In truth, unless people are willing to look at their own suffering, come to terms with it, and then work toward healing it, it will not be healed. No matter how much energy we dump into it, or into them.

It is sad, for we want to help those we love. We want to heal them and make them whole. All the while, being so busy with this, we haven’t looked into our own personal stuff to see if there is anything which must be faced, dealt with and worked on for personal healing.

If not careful, too much energy will be spent on that which is outside us, and if not received and results seen, the temptation to become angry or upset happens, for all that we have given may seem to have been wasted, and many times that is the truth of it.

Focus on healing your own wounds. Recognize that which is yours and that which belongs to someone else. It is possible to love someone while putting personal health first. It is crucial, for if we allow ourselves to be depleted, we can do no one any good.

What you may have believed to be your own burden may actually be the load of another you’ve become accustomed to carry.

Gift yourself freedom.
Freedom to love and care for you,
while still loving others.

Capacity to give love, and care, and compassion, are greatly increased when we become healthy.

 

 

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