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Let Difficulty Transform You

Published January 11, 2026 by tindertender

” Let difficulty
transform you, and it will.
In my experience,
we just need help in learning
how not to run away. ” πŸ’«
– Perma Chodron

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β€œDon’t power walk. Saunter slowly in the sun, eating chocolate, and carry a blanket so you can take a nap.” ~ SARK

Mantra :: This is a journey – not a sprint – so I take breaks and reward myself along the way.

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Sure, I could imagine the worse case scenario and try to prepare for it. I prefer however to use my skills of imagination, my inner vision, to generate future details which bring joy to my world. Not to say one shouldn’t be prepared.

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I can think whatever I want without interference. They don’t get to crowd my present moment any longer. So refreshing!!

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People might question how I did it, what techniques do I use. I simply reply, resilience and perseverance. Sometimes inner fortitude is all that works.

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In the forest, when all goes silent, it’s the animals waiting to determine if predator is present, or just nature doing its thing.

Similarly, when all goes silent in the world, you can be certain the real danger is near, or the true bringer of change has arrived.

Pay attention.

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Seems the norm in this world is to β€œchallenge” people.

I’ve been called challenger and adversary, with no intention of entering the game.

I’m here for expansion and knowledge, thank you very much.

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A poem by Charlie Chaplin

Published December 1, 2025 by tindertender

A poem by Charlie Chaplin written on his 70th birthday on April 16, 1959:

When I started loving myself
I understood that I’m always and at any given opportunity
in the right place at the right time.
And I understood that all that happens is right –
from then on I could be calm.
Today I know: It’s called TRUST.

When I started to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody
When I tried to force my desires on this person,
even though I knew the time is not right and the person was not ready for it,
and even though this person was me.
Today I know: It’s called LETTING GO

When I started loving myself
I could recognize that emotional pain and grief
are just warnings for me to not live against my own truth.
Today I know: It’s called AUTHENTICALLY BEING.

When I started loving myself
I stopped longing for another life
and could see that everything around me was a request to grow.
Today I know: It’s called MATURITY.

When I started loving myself
I stopped depriving myself of my free time
and stopped sketching further magnificent projects for the future.
Today I only do what’s fun and joy for me,
what I love and what makes my heart laugh,
in my own way and in my tempo.
Today I know: it’s called HONESTY.

When I started loving myself
I escaped from all what wasn’t healthy for me,
from dishes, people, things, situations
and from everything pulling me down and away from myself.
In the beginning I called it β€œhealthy egoism”,
but today I know: it’s called SELF-LOVE.

When I started loving myself
I stopped wanting to be always right
thus I’ve been less wrong.
Today I’ve recognized: it’s called HUMBLENESS.

When I started loving myself
I refused to live further in the past
and worry about my future.
Now I live only at this moment where EVERYTHING takes place,
like this I live every day and I call it CONSCIOUSNESS.

When I started loving myself
I recognized, that my thinking
can make me miserable and sick.
When I requested for my heart forces,
my mind got an important partner.
Today I call this connection HEART WISDOM.

We do not need to fear further discussions,
conflicts and problems with ourselves and others
since even stars sometimes bang on each other
and create new worlds.
Today I know: THIS IS LIFE!

Devil Ozone in the Penthouse of Thought being removed

Published November 22, 2025 by tindertender

Roseanne says the Devil Ozone in the Penthouse of Thought is being removed.

No Devil Ozone ….
They’ve been evicted!!!!!
I testify their name interference of the midnight hour seems to be waning.

Sanskrit Chant for Healthy Mind & Body | Healing Frequency

Published November 18, 2025 by tindertender

Fire is in my speech.
Speech is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Air is in my vital breath.
Vital breath is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Sun is in my eye.
The eye is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Moon is in my mind.
Mind is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

The directions are in my ear.
The ear is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Water is in my creative fluid.
This creative Source is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Earth is in my body.
The body is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Herbs are in my hairs.
Hairs are in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Senses are in my strength.
Strength is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Rain is on my head.
Head is in my heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Splendor is in my mind.
Mind is in the heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Self is in my Self.
Self is in the heart.
Heart is in me.
I Am Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Again and again
I go to my Self
Again I beseech the Self
To bestow long life
And strong Prana
To let the Fire
And the Light grow
To let the digestion be well
So the protections of
Immortality may be
Well established in us.

Heart is in me.
I Am in Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Heart is in me.
I Am in Immortality.
Immortality rests in Brahman (the Supreme Being that underlies All of Existence).

Loves All Things ~ Clan Mother of the Seventh Moon Cycle

Published November 12, 2025 by tindertender

A reading from the 13 Original Clan Mothers by Jamie Sams

THE TRUTH ABOUT BEING SINGLE

Published November 9, 2025 by tindertender

What people don’t realize is that some people are single in this generation because they are healed, which makes them incompatible with trauma bonds.

Unfortunately, trauma bonds are the template of our culture at this time.

Those who choose peace over trauma will have difficulty in relationships because most people that we meet are emotionally damaged in some way.

Healed people seek healthy bonds. These bonds hold space for authenticity and correction. It’s kind of like an oxymoron.

About 90% of the relationships/marriages that we see are actually trauma bonds. Those involved β€œneed” the other person to make them feel whole because they’re both broken mentally, emotionally and/or spiritually.

Let that sink in for a moment…

With so much love,

Unknown

(Image credit: Ben Smith)

The doctors told her the glow in her bones was “healthy energy.”

Published November 1, 2025 by tindertender

By the time she could no longer walk, her jawbone was crumbling in her hands.

The photograph from 1963 shows a well-dressed woman reclining in a medical chair, two doctors in pristine white coats standing over her. A massive X-ray machineβ€”the size of a car engineβ€”hovers inches from her throat, aimed directly at her thyroid. She looks calm. The doctors look confident.

The room looks sterile and professional.
No one is wearing protection.
Not the patient. Not the doctors. Not even a lead apron in sight.

Because in the 1960s, radiation wasn’t fearedβ€”it was celebrated.

This wasn’t ignorance. This was the height of modern medicine. X-rays were miraculous. They let doctors see inside the human body without cutting it open. They were fast, efficient, andβ€”everyone believedβ€”perfectly safe.

So safe that department stores installed X-ray machines to measure children’s feet for shoes. Mothers would bring their kids in weekly, watching their tiny foot bones glow on the screen while salesmen found the “perfect fit.”

So safe that dermatologists aimed radiation beams at teenagers’ faces to “cure” acne, delivering doses we now know were catastrophically high.

So safe that companies bottled drinks laced with radiumβ€”a radioactive elementβ€”and marketed them as “energy tonics.” Athletes drank them.

Socialites swore by them. One brand was called “Radithor.” The slogan? “Perpetual Sunshine.”
The man who drank it religiously, Eben Byers, died in 1932. When they exhumed his body years later, it was still radioactive. His bones had disintegrated. His skull had holes in it.

But by the 1960s, that was old news. Medicine had moved on. X-rays were routine. Radiation was modern. Progress meant pushing forward, not looking back.

The woman in that photographβ€”whoever she wasβ€”probably went home that day feeling grateful for advanced medical care. The doctors probably filed their report and moved on to the next patient. The X-ray machine was likely used dozens more times that week.

None of them knew.

They didn’t know that radiation accumulates. That every exposure adds up. That the thyroidβ€”that butterfly-shaped gland in the throat where the machine was aimedβ€”is exquisitely sensitive to radiation damage. That years later, thyroid cancer rates would spike. That the doctors themselves, standing unprotected session after session, would develop leukemia and die young.

They didn’t know because no one had done the long-term studies. No one had tracked the patients.

No one had asked the uncomfortable questions, because asking meant slowing down, and slowing down meant falling behind.

Progress was the priority. Caution was for the timid.
It took decadesβ€”and thousands of victimsβ€”before medicine finally confronted the cost of its overconfidence.

In the 1970s and 80s, regulations changed. Lead aprons became mandatory. Exposure limits were established. Radiologists started working behind protective barriers. Dental X-rays went from annual to as-needed. The industry that had once treated radiation like magic finally admitted it was poison.

But the reckoning came too late for the generation in that photograph.

Too late for the women who had radiation beamed at their thyroids and later developed cancer.

Too late for the factory workers who painted radium on watch dials and died with their bones glowing in the dark.

Too late for the children whose feet were X-rayed every time their mothers bought them shoes.

The photograph haunts us now because we know what they didn’t. We see the danger they couldn’t.

We understand that the doctors in their clean white coats and confident postures were, unknowingly, harming the very people they meant to heal.

But here’s the harder truth: we’re still doing this.
Right now, there are medical procedures we consider routine that future generations will look back on with horror. Technologies we trust that haven’t been studied long enough. Chemicals we use liberally because the consequences won’t show up for decades.

We just don’t know which ones yet.

The woman in that 1963 photograph believed in modern medicine. The doctors believed in their training. Everyone in that room believed they were doing the right thing.
And they were wrong.

Not because they were careless, but because they confused innovation with wisdom. They mistook novelty for safety. They believed that moving fast mattered more than moving carefully.

The history of medicine is not just a story of breakthroughs. It’s a story of bodiesβ€”real human bodiesβ€”used as experiments in the name of progress. It’s a ledger of invisible victims whose suffering taught us what we should have learned another way.

That photograph isn’t just history.
It’s a warning.

The doctors looked confident. The machine looked advanced. The woman looked safe.
None of it was true.

And somewhere, right now, in a sterile room with modern equipment and well-meaning professionals, someone is receiving a treatment that future generations will see as barbaric.
We just don’t know it yet.

πŸ‘†πŸ»OP: The Two Pennies

Our medical industry’s history is littered with mistakes & is still just as dangerous today. Today, they are responsible for a leading cause of death in the United States, yet so many people still put all their faith & trust in them.

Looks Far Woman ~ Clan Mother of the Fourth Moon Cycle

Published November 1, 2025 by tindertender

A reading by from the 13 Original Clan Mothers by Jamie Sams

Played with Love ~ Lost Love

Published October 31, 2025 by tindertender

They didn’t do their research before burning U. This narcissist sabotaged their self. Disconnected.

Curator refuses to let go. Gonna get himself martyred for this continuous adversity. He’s afraid because he has no idea how to take care of himself. He lost. Could not stick their many crimes on you.

God is being fierce!

Daughter, they did NOT know what they were getting themselves in to when they came for you. You will no longer be sharing hospitality with those who are ungrateful, who don’t have a thankful heart.

Remembering the Shattering

Published October 7, 2025 by tindertender