All posts tagged Responsibility

Oracle Reading 3-6-2021

Published March 6, 2021 by tindertender

Embrace the Masculine ~ Within ourselves there are two aspects to our nature – the masculine and the feminine. Here in the present, you need to embrace the masculine aspect of your nature and let it guide your steps. Now is time to be assertive, to act with authority, and stand up for both yourself and your truths. Fight for what you believe in. Do not allow others to tell you that you must not or cannot. But remember, whilst you allow your masculine self be dominant, you need to temper your assertiveness and determination with gentleness and compassion.

Love without Condition ~ Do you often find it easier to give advice to others, whilst hiding from the truth that the advice you give is advice that you, yourself, neglect to follow? Do you find it easier to nurture others and show them kindness and compassion? It is time to be kind and gentle with yourself; to love you – strengths and weaknesses – without reservation or condition. Nurture yourself. Be kind to yourself, for you are deserving of the same unconditional care and love that you give to others.

You were Born to Create ~ You were blessed with the ability to create with thought, intention, action and emotion. Be conscious of your power and aware of what your actions and reactions create within and around you. Cherish the gift and use it in both a wise and productive manner. Create beauty, and inspire a desire within others to do the same. Create a future that both fulfills and delights. Do what you were born to do.

Messenger Oracle created by Ravynne Phelan

Psyche versus Soul

Published March 5, 2021 by tindertender

*Psyche Comes from the Greek psykhe, which means “the soul, mind, spirit, or invisible animating entity which occupies the physical body.”

*In psychology, the psyche /ˈsaɪki/ is the totality of the human mind, conscious and unconscious.

*Today psyche is one of the four big parts that makes the sum total of the non-physical aspects of a human being; the others are consciousness, mind and soul. Whilst psyche only exists in the body and is connected to the body, soul refers to the part that is unfading.

Some people say there is a war for the human Soul. I happen to agree. However the Soul isn’t some mysterious thing that people cannot ‘place’ … oh no, no, no.

The Soul is the Psyche, in other words, the Mind … the conscious and the subconscious.

Peoples minds are being jerked around over politics, over vaccination, over the skies being sprayed with toxifying substances, by riots destroying cities and businesses, by wearing a mask or not … among many others.

When you think about what I’ve just said, can you really say your Soul is not possessed? Your Psyche being manipulated and controlled?

Heck, even now, people are actually being manipulated to be angry with, and attack, those they once considered friend.

It’s all too obvious.

Most people are Soul Hacked.

We are ALL fighting this battle for our Soul, for our Psyche, whether we choose to acknowledge it or not.


Life Dance

Published February 27, 2021 by tindertender

That “you” that is in memory still exists. That part of yourself that did not have a Are in the world is still within you.

It is your base.

If you do not appreciate where life has taken you, reach within.

Begin again.

Free yourself from fear of others perceptions.

Do not self criticize.

You are perfection in motion, and the flow that is you makes the Universe sing.


Oracle Reading 2-27-2021

Published February 27, 2021 by tindertender

Nourish the Soul ~ Drink in life. Use your senses to explore your world – to see, touch, taste, smell, hear and experience all that is within you and around you. Your journey through life is meant to be a sensory experience. Your life is meant to be a rainbow of color, full of emotion and sound. It is not meant to be a bland, tasteless existence of simply black and white. Be sensual. Explore yourself and your world every day and nourish your soul with every moment.

Seek Your Answers Within ~ If you find yourself confused, your intuition and inner voice drowned out by the answers, wisdom and advice of others then it is time for you to step away. Withdraw to a place of solitude. Like the bear, it is time for you to hibernate, to go within and seek the void, and to embrace the silence that dwells within. Within that silence are the answers to your questions, and because they are answers born of your truths, they will be answers that move you forward, instead of holding you still.

Be Without Malice ~ You have been hurt, disrespected or disappointed by others. Another has let you down or betrayed you. It is normal and natural to experience feelings of anger, hurt and disappointment. To feel any and all emotion is natural, but you have a choice always in how you respond. Do not allow your hurt to become a source of infection. Acknowledge it. Learn from it and your experiences, and then let the anger, hurt and disappointment go. Do not allow them to inspire retaliatory acts born of malice or spite.

Good Morning My Loves

Published February 20, 2021 by tindertender

I hope this morning finds you well, warm and comforted in the many ways possible, your desires being met.

I woke to a warm house, what a blessing after six days spent in 35 degrees, the luxury of the things power provides missing for that time.

Today I travel to my fathers house in the piney woods, where I will load my car to the maximum with firewood for when the electricity goes out again. I will do this every time I visit him, creating a stockpile … if not for Self, then for whomever is present in this space should I transition.

I Am so grateful for those recent six days, for it has allowed me knowledge of the things I have done which helped in the situation, and given opportunity to recognize the things I can collect for the next time, to make it more comfortable for Self, my pets, and anyone who is present with me.

With great gratitude I thank those who have participated in the manufacturing of suffering, for they present an opportunity to grow stronger … testing our resilience.

I understand no one wants to hear this, but I was told while coming awake from a sleep that half the life upon this planet is going to be eliminated. This message came from those who introduced themselves as “the satan”.

It is a hard truth.

Please take advantage of each test to build your resilience, to collect that which is needed to make your life more comfortable, and survivable, in the coming days.

Goodwill and other thrift stores have blankets, used candles (which can be melted down and reformed into votives) among many other things that are handy in times such as are coming.

Remember to wake and create a mental note of that which you are grateful for. Do not allow your mind to slip into misery … misery feeds the beast.

I love you.

Empower yourselves, and remember you are fully capable of withstanding the storm.

It will get worse before it gets better.

Chin up ….

You are a portion of Source Creator.

You are the savior you’ve been waiting for.

Communicate with those who have weathered the cold climates for many years. Gain knowledge from them. Band together, share your experiences, learn from each other.

Each one, standing in their power, assists so many.

You’ve got this!


Knowing Full Well

Published February 19, 2021 by tindertender

“We’re not supposed to be targeting people” he said.

“What’s the name of the cattle?” another asked.

They know, understand, and cannot deny it.

I Am grateful to be in the role of Witness. I Am grateful to relay information to my Higher Self, Higher Knowledge, Guardians, Master Teachers and Guides … and last, but definitely not least, the Man on the Mountain.

Thank you for blessing me with this responsibility. My hope is that I Am doing a good job … succeeding in my role.

“Be careful what you say around her”, they are warned.

Love Letter to Me

Published February 11, 2021 by tindertender

Dear Self ~ I love you … and find you the most fascinating person ever!

Through everything you’ve experienced you are willing to remain open to Love and to Loving.

Bravely, you shatter internal barriers that could keep you from Love.

Courageously, you remain open to receive fully this Love, knowing full well being wide open could also lead to suffering.

You understand that Love has no price not worth paying.

I am so proud of you as you continue to hold the doors open to your sibling and parents even though they do not show care or concern for your existence.

The way you continue to hold Love in your heart for others is amazing! Your ability to forgive, seemingly, immeasurable.

You are gentle and kind.

I am so sorry I treated your body, heart and mind so roughly while allowing others to do the same.

I will spend the remainder of days making it up to you, with proper care from me, and the insistence that it be shown by those who have placement in your life.

I apply intention, and effort, into healing your heart. You’ve been through a lot emotionally, energetically, and physically.

You have needed to be ‘tough’ all your life. It seems you are a magnet for those who long to possess your light, your beautiful essence. Seen, unseen … they continue to try.

Focus, dear, on the Love that resides in you. Pay no attention to those who’s entire existence seems to be intent on interrupting the personal Will of you, of others.

I want to walk with you, to talk with you, to Love you as no one ever has. You deserve my devotion and the devotion others have for you.

Allow it to flow from me to you, fully. Accept it from others. Be willing to recognize Love coming to you through others daily on behalf of Source Creator.

I Love the way you laugh at seriousness, at incredible absurdity and in the face of fear. May you always release Love in the face of anything or anyone who attempts to overpower your senses or your devotion to Self and to Soul.

I am going to start cooking for you again. Wholesome, nutritious meals, tasty even.

I am going to dress you in fashion appropriate for your personality … all of them …. that wascally character.

I am going to give you more time in nature, to smell the flowers and feel the breezes.

You are the best thing to ever happen to me.

Our relationship has been tumultuous. I have allowed others to do you wrong.

From this moment on I will do everything in my power to Love you fully and to eliminate from your presence anyone who does not honor you, or cherish you as you are, and as you deserve.

You are a Queen … a Goddess, even.

The Star of my most Brilliant life.

Forever Love, Me

Oracle Reading 2-7-2021

Published February 7, 2021 by tindertender

Inner Truths ~ There is a lot of depth to your feelings. You are on your way to understanding your feelings and desires more clearly. The next steps on your path will soon reveal themselves. Stay vigilant to new opportunities that may lead to the beginnings of novel projects or assist with current ventures. Look around you and within you. Be willing to do the work at the deepest level, as you will find jewels of wisdom, knowledge and the inner voice all waiting patiently to assist you. Nature’s crystals are created deep within the earth. Go deep and find your own treasures!

Fresh Approach ~ Time to step out of the box and an old way of doing things. You are being challenged to try something new. Look at how to create magic in your world. Create with the intention of filling your life with joy and happiness. Achieve your desires while experimenting with new activities. You always have options. Don’t feel limited. Even when you aren’t in motion, you are making a choice. You are being prodded to make a decision now. Don’t worry about not making the right one. Every mistake brings us lessons and opportunities. The amount you can learn is immeasurable. Base your choice on love and the best option for you. Imagine that ‘failing’ is not part of any of your choices. What will you choose?

Ideal Course of Action ~ It is easy to be overwhelmed in the planning of a new endeavor. Simplify your plans. Clearly envisage what you would like to accomplish and find ways to ensure you can stay on path. Eliminate self-sabotage or other behavior that might derail you. Determine what you desire next. Do this through daydreaming and visualizing what delights and inspires you. Trust that this is an important phase that is necessary to maintain alignment and clarity.

Vulnerability ~ You May be feeling like you should withdraw. This is an opportunity to wait and regroup. You are in need of some rest and relaxation. You might even be feeling overwhelmed. Take some much needed downtime. Take in your surroundings. Notice the season and the changes that are taking place out in nature. Things are continually evolving. Think about the clouds you see in the sky. They are constantly moving, changing and reshaping themselves. Allow yourself to connect with Mother Earth and nature in a deeper way. Align your rhythm with the heartbeat of the Earth and slow your thoughts and emotions down. Trust that everything will work out. The signs that things work themselves out are all around you. Take notice.

Keep Your Dreams Alive ~ Start to identify plans and actions that will lead you to achieve your dreams and goals. Your dreams can become your reality. This is a time when you need to be able to apply detailed planning in order to manifest your dreams and realize goals. You need to remain focused on the practical side of things. Keep your feet firmly planted on the ground. It is easy to be distracted by more ideas and concepts. Keep focused on what is realistic and achievable. Your common sense and pragmatic approach will lead you to a solution that actually works. Begin taking steps that will bring you closer to your dreams.

Nature’s Whispers Oracle Cards created by Angela Hartfield and Josephine Wall

The Light You Are

Published February 7, 2021 by tindertender

The entire world has been predicting outcome over the last several months based on what we have been indoctrinated to expect through a massive social programming campaign.

This is a huge mistake as where vibration is directed energy flows and outcomes are created.

“They” have used fear tactics for centuries to control the outcome in this realm to suit their wants and desires at the cost of ours.

This point in our evolution is no different. 

However, the choice has never been more clear.

If you can train your mind to see something you once viewed as frightening as an opportunity to evolve beyond, all the while recognizing the Divine as its true nature (what it is beyond what it presents AS) you can intentionally lift your energy/pierce the shadow, to lift it energetically to the light of its true nature.

This is an example of transmuting darkness & it is very much within everyone’s realm of possibility!

As you align to the Divine nature of GOD AS ALL, you stop discounting the inherent Divine in yourself, in all else, and lift the landscape in ALL YOU VIEW and have a relationship with.

Unity is the truth of our being.

Separation of any kind is the lie.

If you can change your purview our world will shift around you.

Resurrect the innate Light of Truth within you be recognizing it in all without exception!

Know this: the campaign of left versus right, right versus wrong, Democrat versus Republican is a trap to promote division and control outcome.

Dominion is the ability to claim the Divine beyond fear or separation, in ONE & ALL.

God expresses in a multitude of ways. You just need to learn how to see beyond it to dissolve the barrier/illusion of separation.

The emancipation of your Soul is underway.

Do you have what it takes to stay the course?

Will you free your mind and allow yourself to see the basis of all things is the Divine/God Self expressing in infinite ways?

Aligning YOUR LIGHT to this ONE truth shall set you free!


Catherine Nisbett


How to Ascend in a Dysfunctional World – Learn Discernment

Published February 6, 2021 by tindertender

To improve clarity and inner peace in a largely dysfunctional world, we will be required to develop our personal Discernment in order to assess conditions more accurately. This may require attitudinal behavior guidelines, such as clearing negative ego behaviors and practicing holding observer awareness. Observer awareness helps us to overcome the insanity of the Archontic Deception Behaviors and their anti-life forces which abuse its mechanism throughout the death culture.

The most IMPORTANT thing is to TRUST YOURSELF. As more as you become aware and awaken as more you will be guided genuinley to what you have to know.

In a time of intensified psychological warfare, propaganda, and disinformation being circulated in the outer world, it becomes a critical survival tool to comprehend the importance of personal discernment and truth-seeking. Strong discernment comes while finding an inner connection to our core self through regular spiritual practice, and utilizing our higher intuitive senses by paying attention to the energetic subtleties in a situation.

Most people may not realize that powerful skills of discernment are actually not based in the intellectual areas of the mind, but are anchored in a solid spiritual core that calls upon the intuitive ability of higher sensory perception. Cellular Knowing is connected to strong discernment skills and is the result of soul integration and spiritual body functioning. When we are disconnected from our heart, soul, and spirit, if we suffer from a lack of inner coherence or emotional fracturing, we will have very poor discernment.

From this state of perceiving the reality with the ego-mind, our attempts to find discernment will easily falter into ego judgments. Discernment and making judgments are not the same thing, yet the subtleties that exist between the two states are easily confused by most people.

Discernment for the dedicated spiritual seeker is one that devotes themselves to the pursuit of truth above personal comfort, which is actually the nature of true and accurate discernment. It is impossible to gain strong discernment from the limitations of the three levels of ego, strong discernment is actually sourced directly from spiritual embodiment and higher consciousness levels.

The ego-mind tends to confuse discernment with wishful thinking or confirmation bias, these are ego defense mechanisms from the subconscious that are designed to make yourself feel better about what you already have developed as a personal belief system.

We all have formed some kind of belief system to make sense of the outer reality we live in and experience.

Discernment includes a long process of developing insight from life’s experiences and observations made in truth-seeking while integrating and verifying that knowledge within your heart’s core resonances.

Every individual must be willing to seek and know the truth, even if it’s emotionally painful. Discernment requires that we must let go of an obsolete or inaccurate belief system that we have when we first awaken to the realization that it was not accurate. This means as we seek truth and discernment in situations, we have to be willing to be wrong and learn what needs to be done to change our beliefs, so that we can be more aligned in truth.

Finding strong discernment may also take you on a quest of investigating inquiry, while you go back in time to understand how you developed inaccurate assessments of the world that led to self-deception. What beliefs or perceptions did you inherit from family, friends, and colleagues who influenced you along the way? As you seek truth and answers you learn what is more accurate in this moment of self, finding an overall understanding of the entire process of consciousness growth and learning.

The closer we are to accessing true knowledge that is accurate at the moment, the more truth one can accumulate into conscious awareness. This helps us to better understand the past, master energies in the present, and this aligns us to our higher potentials to actualize our spiritual purpose in the future. Belief in outer deceptions superimpose self-deceptions upon our ego-mind, we cannot know ourselves accurately through our inner truth and core self until we remove or correct the outer deceptions that cloud our belief systems because they are inaccurate.

Deceptions are untruths, it does not matter if another believes it to be true, that does not make it true.

When connected to our inner spirit, our spirit will always guide us towards understanding more truth. Over time, we gather this truth through our life experiences and verify it through our heart resonance in order to accumulate more knowledge and wisdom.

Strong and accurate discernment occurs when bringing the outer experience or situation close to our heart resonance, and when we are spiritually connected, our heart resonance will give us impressions that are resonating with clear vibrations of coherence, or discordant with vibrations of disconnection.

Truth holds coherent vibrations that align to the natural ease of flow.


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