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Parenting the Inner Child While Raising a Family

Published April 23, 2019 by tindertender

Are you sure your child wants to do what they are doing or are they doing it to soothe your insecurities about being rejected by society? If they are doing it to appease you, do not let them. If you allow this, children will learn to sacrifice peace within for approval of others.

And before you know it, your child is doing things they would never do in a million years only to be accepted by a group.

Spiritual warfare is teaching your child to give up their voice, innocence, MIND BODY AND SOUL. What are you doing to protect them as much as you can to prevent this from happening? What are you doing for yourself to be a better guardian to prevent this from this happening?

We may not be able to do everything. Because parents are suffering and under attack, too. But we can always do at least one thing. And then build on that. And then more and more each day. Doesn’t matter where you are at. What matters is that you start NOW.

Children who are not allowed to express anger or frustrations when someone crosses boundaries will slowly lose their sense of self and voice, and their understanding of the unique needs and boundaries which by nature, are designed to protect them when caretakers are not around.

This is why the shaming of anger is one of the weapons used in spiritual warfare to silence children and slowly degrade them of their natural free spirited innocence.

Parents, you cannot be around your children all of the time. So, what are you teaching your children at home. What are you modeling for your children at home that will help them protect themselves as much as they can when you are not around?

If someone tries to hurt your child and you are not there to protect them, don’t you want them to know how to protect themselves? Don’t you want them to know how to stand up for themselves? This world is doing everything possible to prevent them from doing so.

Be the best model you can possibly be for your children by simply being honest. And this doesn’t mean telling them everything. Because of course, like any healthy relationship, there are boundaries. Spaces in between. But those boundaries never withhold truth or perpetuate lies.

Do you know how to play with your child in a way that keeps their inner child alive and thriving? Do you let your inner child come out to play with them? Or do you hold back?

Children need to be taught how to express their emotions in a way that helps them navigate the world that will inevitably not be accepting of their authentic free flowing expression of self.

For example. Your child needs to learn it is ok to cry and necessary and not to “suck it up” or hold it back but also not to cry in front of strangers or those they do not trust or feel comfortable around. Teach them find a space in solitude where they can release.

Those who play roles have forgotten their inner child. Those who suppress their emotions to play those roles have forgotten their inner child. Because children don’t play any roles. Children just are who they are. Free. Which is why they are under attack. So they will forget.

Anger wouldn’t feel so bad to you if your inner child hadn’t been shamed by someone who was ashamed of their own anger. Make peace with this emotion so that you don’t feel the programmed guilt designed to suppress it when it arises.

If you think your child is not watching your every little move, YOU WOULD BE WRONG. Children pick up on everything. And yes, they will model after you. If they see you playing a role, they will play a role. If they see you being authentic, they will be authentically THEMSELVES.

If you have a child but have not yet remembered your inner child, then yes your child is going to be the one reminding you. DO NOT SHAME THEM FOR YOU NOT REMEMBERING. DO NOT PARTICIPATE IN THE WARFARE TARGETING THEIR INNOCENCE.

If you as a parent know how to self soothe, then your child will learn how to self soothe.

Children are learning to play roles at a much earlier age because of social media and because they model after their parents who perform on social media because parents have not learned how to truly be themselves because of social norms designed by evil to suppress AUTHENTICITY.

When you suppress or shame emotions like anger, you are silencing and shaming your inner child. You are also teaching them that it is wrong for them to have boundaries and to protect themselves.

Don’t lie to your children. This doesn’t mean you tell them everything. BUT don’t lie to them. If they ask you a question you are not comfortable answering because you are not sure how, tell them you are not comfortable and that you will think about it. But do not lie to them.

Lying to your children is normalized and it starts with the insanity of Santa Claus but lying to your children is part of the indoctrination.

~ Sarah @morteperamore

At Least There’s Music

Published March 13, 2019 by tindertender

Do you think we’ll ever see the edge of tomorrow? Some say that was yesterday … but that is only wishful thinking. Tomorrow never comes or so I’m told, for it is always today, this moment … but still, it would be awesome to see time fold.

It never ceases to amaze me at how abrasive we are to each other. Not all times, but sometimes … it happens. I would love to see more people begin to pay attention to this behavior, and work toward eliminating it.

White and gray kitty peering around the corner, half out of site. The deck wood is weathered, grayish in color. But not as beautiful gray as the hair of the cat.

It can be fixed … of course it can. Where Splendid Energy goes …

Men and Women put their lives on the line every single night in effort to keep their districts citizens safe. This morning at 2 a.m. they arrested a person who ran after a traffic stop … right into my back yard. They apprehended him and no one was hurt. True American Heros. Considering the amount of crime in this city, the amount of negative publicity is minimal.

I would so much rather be laying in bed at 3 a.m. eating a Kit Kat and listening to love songs than staggering around after a long night at the bar, drinking.

What do you suppose is going to happen to those who forced innocence to fight in unnecessary war? I wonder if they even considered it when they fabricated reasons to kill. I do not think they have.

I believe ALL people actually care about something and if they had looked at the actions followed by reaction, response and outcome their capacity to care would have stopped the behavior. So no … I do not think they’ve actually considered outcomes. It’s all a Great Pretending … those who pretend to care but behave in a manner that shows otherwise.

This Is A ‘Civil’ Case

Published March 12, 2019 by tindertender

CERN is closed for the next year and a half or so. The ‘upgrades’ which this program is undergoing is of great concern. What could possibly go wrong with a Large Hadron Collider (LHC) ?

The use of CERN’s upgrades have the potential of destroying the earth magnetosphere. If this happens, we will be 100% exposed to the sun, and all things in space. Literally, this planet will fry and become as Mars.

There are people here who have far too much power. Having authority in this world, they push forth programs which bring harm not only to the people and animals, but to the very planet which supports life.

It is beyond me why a powerful force such as our government would ever build CERN in the first place, unless their intention is to bring ruination to this world, as well as parallel worlds, under the guise of science and helping our planetary life.

They will succeed in the end of life on another planet, this one, if civilians do nothing. Trusting corporate and government entities is very dangerous ground, especially when examples of their non-care for life abound.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/space-facts.com/mars/amp/

Where We Go One, We Go All … Or Do We?

Published February 22, 2019 by tindertender

The sun was shining, warm and comforting. I thought it a shame to sit in the house all day so decided to go for a drive. Grabbing my 22 ounce water bottle and some lunch I headed out the door getting in to my vehicle.

The winding roads in back country were lined with foliage, alive and green. When the wind blew into the rolled down windows of my car it carried with it the aroma of forest and flowers, a sweetness incomparable.

I pulled into a park deep in the country. Getting out of the car I walked a trail which moved closer and closer to the river as I went. Ducking under branches, and stepping over a web of fallen limbs I made my way to the waters edge. I packed with me a folding chair and set it up there, surrounded by dense brush and trees.

I watched the sun glisten off the water as it flowed. The birds were singing, the squirrels chirped, the bugs crawled and flew. Occasionally I would see a little fish jump out of the water for a brief moment, playing in the waves of the current. The beauty was magnificent.

It always surprises me how much better food tastes when immersed in the wilderness by a clear running stream. I waded in the cool waters by the rivers edge where there was a bit of sand and then sat in my chair for a while more.

As the sun began to lower in the sky I carried my load back to the car and left the park. I drove though the curves of the rural roads, windows down, soft music playing, happy.

After a time I found myself back in town. Not ready to go home yet I went to another park. People were loading up their belongings getting ready to go home for the evening … not me. I sat there watching them, and the geese and the ducks and the squirrels. Soon though all were gone, at their homes, or asleep in their dens and nests.

I found myself looking out across the expanse of grass, paths wound through it for walking, but no one was there … or so I thought.

I squinted my eyes, for it appeared as though the ground had opened and shadowy figures began to pop up and out, spreading across the scene. I heard them laughing, then I heard them swearing … foulness which I had never experienced before. It was as though hell had entered the world and no one knew it.

There has been a tear between worlds which is allowing a ‘mixing’ of the good and the bad in the unseen realms and we are caught between them. Those who are of the foulest nature have been influencing the behaviors of humanity, and they have disrupted the peace of those in the higher realms of the unseen.

Our assistance is needed in order to heal this rift, this tear, but when our aid is requested by those who dwell with guides and guardians, the nasty, foul ones mimic the request and turn it into a chaotic ugly mess which is difficult to discern and keep separate. Human instinct is to turn it off, to medicate, to shut it out, to label it and lock it away, but this horrific and massive problem persists in growing because the call for help is not being heeded.

What if reincarnation is the rule as told by youngsters who have vivid memory of previous life? If we destroy this planet and allow nasty escapees from hell to eradicate us, where will we go? Do you supposed good people and bad people will be living together in an etheric type of atmosphere, fleshly bodies released? Why would it be any different than it is here?

Those silent, deadly, dark wisps of negative beings who have escaped and are running rampant, destroying the peace, must be harnessed, bound, and sealed away from the majority who desire Love, Harmony, Compassion, Care and Joy. Where there is a Will, there is a way, especially when good people band together in force.

I have been working on a few healing meditations which are linked in a page at the top of my blog spot. I’ve also linked the two that are complete here for your convenience should you wish to assist in visualization for the greater good of life, seen and unseen … our current home, and the one we will go to.

Bless you for blessing life with the power you contribute to this healing.

Cleansing Meditation
https://wordpress.com/block-editor/post/opensenseme.com/43576

Weekly Synchronized Global Meditation
https://wordpress.com/block-editor/page/opensenseme.com/43489

The Answers Are Within

Published February 14, 2019 by tindertender

Questions without yesterday,
Answers without tomorrow.

Have you noticed yourself or others asking questions, or giving answers to questions without consideration of the past, or of the future?

While awake, many people work diligently to solidify their views of the world, of their surroundings, of their lives. They do their utmost to imprint on the minds of others a certain message. If some of the past is shared, often it is not the whole of it, and the future is scarcely considered but for the need to be feared somewhat, idolized perhaps, or simply respected. Whatever it takes, the truth is spun to gain it.

Does anyone really care to know themselves? I hear people use words to describe their self such as mother, father, brother, sister, artist, creator, builder etc., etc. Yet do they dig deep into their own psyche and discover those pesky triggers, fears, and stubborn desires and try to release them from their mind?

How many do you think journal about their dreams? How many take the subconscious messages seriously? It seems to me many people chalk them up to be inconsequential, meaningless and of no value. There is an important message being relayed … one which needs deciphering.

Chaos and turmoil are chosen tools of some. They use these things to confuse and distract from seedy, shady doings, all the while spinning a story which helps to maintain control. This can occur in the household, in state sectors, and in governments. Should anyone try to buck this system, they are often quieted by any means necessary.

The earth will cleanse all chaos from the mind, heart and body. This is why it is so important to visit the land, the trees and the streams in this world. We are an extension of this place, and this place is also an extension of us. Should we become disconnected, we can lose balance, peace and the ability to be calm.

Do you often find it easier to give advice to others while neglecting to follow it yourself? Do you find it easier to nurture others and show them kindness and compassion?

It is time to be kind and gentle with yourself; to love you ~ strengths and weaknesses ~ without reservation or condition. Nurture yourself. Be kind to yourself, for you are deserving of the same unconditional care and love that you give others.

Thought, intention, action and emotion ~ these things are tools which assist in creating. Be conscious of your power and aware of what your actions and reactions create within and around you. Cherish this gift and use it in a wise and productive manner. Create beauty, and inspire a desire within others to do the same. Create a future that both fulfills and delights. Do what you were born to do.

People’s Choice ~ Taking The Lead On Energy Shifts

Published February 3, 2019 by tindertender

They don’t like it when you disrupt their energy grid with your light and consciousness… tampering with their food and especially in larger cities. Many of you are sensitive enough that you can FEEL the density and anguish in the air manifest as physical pain in your body.

Use this gift and have courage… if you desire to accelerate the shift then explore your local cities and areas of infrastructure that were used like an electronic circuit board to entrain and agitate the life giving energies of our world. She is calling out for you … there is no physical action necessary other than using your own body and merkaba to sense the energy nearby and enliven our with your compassion.

As you open your field in meditation to sense the wound… draw it into your heart with compassion and a co-creative intention to heal the suffering not through force but through acceptance. If you need additional or hyperdimensional support first ask nature to anchor you by creating a bind point in space/time so if any experience becomes too intense, you will have a safety net of unconditional love.

You can accomplish this by enfolding or compressing your energy and awareness into a focal point in the heart while connected or touching a tree. Place your hands gently on the tree and ask for energetic assistance while you tune the quantum field with co-creative intentions. You may feel a strong pulsing or vibrating quality to the energy in the area as it begins to respond.

As you begin exploring the area first use the infrastructure to guide you to dense and stagnant areas where pain, suffering or lower density thoughts, emotions are common place. Then locate a spot to meditate or sit safely.

Close your eyes and bring your awareness fully into your heart center with your breath. As you breathe in through your nose, visualize a column of energy rising up from your spine and building pressure up in near the crown of your head. As you exhale, visualize the energy bursting outward like a fountain and wrapping around your entire body in a toroidal field that cycles faster and faster. The breath is the throttle, faster it’s not always better though in highly dense areas. Temper your experience with grace and dignity to allow the energies to dissolve. Once you feel satisfied with your work, explore the area and carry your light into the darker places ensuring that you clear your biofield with your hands and intentions when your work in these areas is completed.

If ever you feel as if you are taking on too much or that perhaps psychic wildlife has targeted you, return in consciousness to your bind point and request assistance to clear the distortion. Often times our subconscious will communicate like a GUI that only you can decipher.

It’s not important to draw attention to yourself as most of your “work” can be done in the astral with the spiritual eye. There you can sing, dance, move the energy and allow your emotions and co-creative intentions to set your spirit free!

Thanks be to Xalos@Turboxyde on Twitter for sharing.

The Line We Walk

Published February 3, 2019 by tindertender

Every single person has a shadow side, and a side dwelling in light. Whether they turn his way or that, both will be upon them at the same time in equal portion.

While some feed the shadow, and some feed the light, both are still upon them equally. In the end it will be the one they’ve built greater relationship with that will determine their state of consciousness.

Do you choose Heaven or Hell? Joy vs Anger? Gladness vs Madness?

An old Cherokee was teaching his grandson about life.

“A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy.

“It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”

The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”

This reality has been known for centuries. When people stop listening to wisdom, or caring one way or the other … then there will be serious need for someone(s) to step in and force a change. If humans cannot govern their own minds and actions, taking care not to harm other life … then they have proven they are not worthy of the freedoms bestowed upon them.

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