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Affirmations ~ November 23, 2021

Published November 23, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Jacob’s Dream
William Blake, ca. 1805

I give myself permission to be fully myself. I am whole. I live freely.

What flows from me will eventually flow to me.

I send out my love. Love will return to me.

I go against the grain. There is always another way.

I listen to my heart.

I need not fear loss. What is meant to come to me will not be denied. It is safe for me to let go.

What I want wants me.

I trust in what I truly want, not its substitutions.

I hold this in my heart.

I do not give up on my vision.

I keep dreaming of my fulfillment.

I live as though my dream is real, right now.

I allow my truest self freedom of expression.

I open my heart to the sensation of love.

I unhide myself.

I have the ability to navigate through anything life brings to my door.

I trust in the love of my heart.

I am bringing myself to life right now.

I am shaking things up.

I permit my feelings to flow.

I will live a vibrant fresh new life!

I nurture it to fulness.

Release the Dark Wound, Let Love Live

Published November 23, 2021 by tindertender

If we detach something from its source too soon, trying to force it to become what it is not yet ready or willing to become, we can unintentionally sap it of its strength and kill it. There is a dark wound in the consciousness of humanity which demands perfection and denies process. If you are thinking of publishers before you have even written the book, if you are comparing your unfinished song idea to the latest best-selling pop release, if you have decided you are not good enough or worthy enough to succeed before you’ve given it everything you’ve got and asked for divine help, then this dark wound has you in its grasp.

You have to let go of the death-grip of perfectionism and let yourself and your ideas live. Love is abundant, creative and inspiring. It moves us so much more joyously and creatively than fear. Honor the path of your own love – what inspires you, what feels exciting, joyful and perhaps even rather different? Let that live! Release the dark wounding of false belief. There are countless stories of vastly successful artists who very nearly binned the project that was making their career, because of the despair fostered by their own dark nature. They doubted. They were uncertain. Was their work any good? Was it useless? They struggled to believe in the right of a work to come to life, whether it was accepted, revered or rejected by others or not. They nearly lost their work to fear. Undoubtedly there have been many times when this has actually happened, and the work was not saved, not allowed to live. Do not let this happen to you. Whether something is meant to be a commercially-oriented venture or a more personal creation for your own therapeutic healing, it must be allowed to be, without judgement, without criticism, even without premature evaluation. It must be allowed to be what it is, and only time, love, patience and attention will reveal it.

Act on this immediately so that your path can continue under the protection of grace and wisdom.

Healing process ::
Say the declaration below out loud three times. Be in your heart and really feel what you are expressing.
I now choose of my own free will to release all cellular memories and belief systems based in the dark wound of criticism, judgement, shaming and fear, so that my creative, loving energy may thrive in a nourishing environment conducive to growth. Through all time and space, through all dimensions of my being, through unconditional love, so be it.

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild

Affirmations ~ November 22, 2021

Published November 22, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

(Image credit: Tatiana Shepeleva/Shutterstock)

I nurture the things I care about.

I reflect on my strength and challenges. I see how far I have come. I recognize my gifts. I take inventory of my life. I offer myself approval.

I choose the light.

I remove myself from lower energy experiences.

I choose not to be pulled into drama that limits my joy.

I allow myself to be the light.

I bring light to situations which are negative.

I redirect hostile conversations to love.

I protect myself.

I shine brightly.

I focus on all things positive.

I check in with my intuition. There is a force within me, I direct it at my will.

I encourage the expression of the Highest Self in all I encounter.

All can be transformed.

I share the wisdom I have developed.

I encourage harmonious action.

I nurture relationships. I serve the Divine Being within life.

I aim toward my highest vision.

I am poised for success.

My Soul is here to assist me.

I let myself feel happiness without fear.

I am complete with my past.

I fully let go and move ahead.

Stand Up And Be Recognized

Published November 22, 2021 by tindertender

Behold! You are the inspiration you’ve been looking for.

I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. ~ Henry David Thoreau

In the dance of life, sometimes you move toward your purpose, sometimes you move away, and when the stars align, you receive your reward. Outward recognition of an inward quest can be a jubilant affair, and yet, it can be its own challenge. If you’ve been focusing in the essence of the quest itself, for its own sake, not for the applause, ask yourself what you shall do with your ego during this time of recognition. There is nothing wrong with your ego getting a pat on the back, because it has come through this journey too, as a passenger not a driver. Recognition is code for resonance. It says that what you stand for rings a bell in peoples hearts and inspires them. The best part of this privilege is in being an inspiration for others to either join your quest or to reach deep within themselves and find their own raison d’etre.

Mantra ::
I am a powerful giver and receiver of recognition!

Artwork by Rassouli

The Hero’s Journey dream oracle by Kelly Sullivan Walden

Seeing The True You

Published November 21, 2021 by tindertender

Sometimes we believe what others tell us we are, as though the self we see reflected back to us through their eyes is truth. Yet the accuracy of a reflection depends on the clarity of that which is doing the reflecting! If the receiver forms any opinion about what is perceived then what is reflected back to us will, at best, be distorted. It is not necessarily through ill will, it is just the mechanics of the situation. Even the moon reflects the sun in varying degrees of fulness and clarity. We can learn something of the nature of sun and moon, but not as much as through direct perception.

You have been putting rather too much faith in the reflections others have of you – to the point that you might not be honoring all that you are and all that you are becoming, because you believe too little of yourself.

There may be those around you that are able to reflect you more faithfully, and even help you to see more of your own greatness and beauty. These are the souls blessed with inner stillness. In the clear waters of their ocean of consciousness, you can come to recognize yourself with clearer perception. However, there are those who have not tended to their own ocean, and are unable to be still enough to genuinely receive and reflect your light back to you. There is no judgement here. Each takes the path of self-healing that is available and appropriate at any given time. However, to attempt to see the magnificence of a sun in a very partial moon doesn’t make too much sense.

If you are blessed with those in your life who can show you the beauty within you, wonderful. Begin the art of direct perception. This is the ability to recognize yourself not only in the eyes of others, but from how you feel about yourself, how you experience yourself and how you observe yourself (with compassion and kindness) from within. This is a step towards a radical empowerment that does not require perfection in order for you to recognize you are loveable and have much to offer. It is empowerment based on the acceptance of all that you are, working with your strengths, tending to your weaknesses and being loving, encouraging and nurturing of all that you perceive.

As you continue on this journey, you will not only see your human self, but the eternal within you. This is a breath-taking experience that opens you up to the creative energy that flows abundantly through all life! You are being nudged into that preparation, for when you have the experience of truly beholding yourself, all judgement, fear and doubt will fall away and you will just know yourself to be sacred. Then you will be asked to embrace the deeper journey of sacred rebellion against judgement and fear, and into passionate creativity and unconditional trust in life.

If you are getting confused about who you are and your motives or actions based on what others are saying or how they are responding to you, step back. In your quest to be a responsible person, you may be unintentionally taking on the feelings of others, making their reflections of you more than they are in truth. More often than not reflections are more about the state of the reflector that what is being reflected. Let those external perceptions go. Can you just acknowledge yourself? Do so and be free!

Healing process ::
Say with feeling, “I now break any contract I have ever made with another, consciously or unconsciously, that has given them power over me, power over my sense of self, the authority to approve or reject me or anything about me, including my voice, body, creativity, spirituality and way of living. Of my own free will, I now choose to directly perceive my own inner beauty and turn within with kindness and compassion to see myself though the eyes of unconditional love. So be it.”

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild

Affirmations ~ November 20, 2021

Published November 20, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

(Image credit: Tatiana Shepeleva/Shutterstock)

I respect my emotional boundaries.

I continuously seek to know myself, to love myself.

I show myself the same care I desire from others.

I honor my truths and dreams.

I seek the higher self in others.

I gift my care and compassion to others knowing it will return to me at another time, perhaps from a different source.

I have the ability to draw harmony into being.

I am meant to create beauty.

I will not fail. I have a safety net of support in place.

I will overcome my fear and experience a beautiful outcome.

I trust – and I succeed.

I remember that laughter is the best medicine.

I focus my will upon that which I desire. I do what needs to be done.

I relax into the moment.

I breathe and go into deep thought.

My body is a clear channel, energy freely flowing.

I put my full energy into all that I love.

I nurture growth and receive in abundance.

I overcome obstacles.

I move beyond what is known.

I take time to experience myself.

I am transitioning from one level of experience to the next.

Affirmations ~ November 19, 2021

Published November 19, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

(Image credit: Tatiana Shepeleva/Shutterstock)

I will master fear and doubt.

I stabilize myself.

I accept my emerging self.

I drop my shield of resistance.

I do not need to hide who I am or the gifts I hold.

I move beyond limiting thoughts and patterns.

I am being assisted in moving forward in a fearless way.

I am stronger than I have believed.

I turn inward to find answers and ideas. I experience profound psychic awareness.

I have learned to say no to that which does not benefit myself and to say yes to the things that nourish me.

I have moved out of the phase of judging and blaming others.

I shift my understanding.

I do not have to be perfect.

I do not stress about making the right choice.

I make choices based on what I feel, not on what others may feel.

All is going to work out perfectly.

I finally see things as a whole.

I have arrived at a clear idea of what is truly happening in my life.

There is much going on in the world. I move beyond the small details to see the bigger picture.

I open to potential.

I follow my instincts freely.

Bring It Into Form

Published November 19, 2021 by tindertender

Beautiful dreamer, you can imagine wonderful worlds of light. You can dream up so many possibilities. Now it is time to bring those possibilities of light into the world. They need to be more than ideas. They need to live, to manifest. The world needs not only your dreams, beautiful as they are, but also your creations. Get thee to thy desk! Thy easel! Thy computer! Work, beautiful dreamer. Don’t just dream, create!

Honor yourself with a commitment to complete your inspired tasks. This will help you grow and that is a wonderful reason to commit. But, there is another reason too – you know that your inspired ideas are worth translating into practical forms so that other people can access them and experience something special too.

If you have been thinking about writing a book, painting a picture or acting on an inspiration or idea, do it. Now. Don’t dally or dither about the details or worry about how it is all going to work out. The universe loves a bold spirit. Once you take a step, it will rush toward you like an enthusiastic and chivalrous lover – opening doors, hand gently guiding your lower back – as you are moved forward. You will promptly be provided with all that is needed to take the next step.

There is sacrifice in translating the perfection of an idea into the limited physical form. Although something may be lost when turning a multi-dimensional concept of endless potential into something concrete, realize that there is much more to be gained. You must become free of this inspiration so that you can receive your next inspiration. It is already waiting for you. So, on you must go.

The information you need to translate your ideas into form will be provided according to the higher wisdom of life. It may or may not happen by traditional routes. Even if it seems unimaginable, when it is time for something to be born into form, nothing can stop it. It will happen!

Feel assured that your path of success is not going to unfolds according to the usual rules and regulations. It might happen in ways that surprise you and others, but it will happen. It is meant to be.

Mantra ::
I am energized and empowered to bring my ideas to life. I release any fear that they won’t live up to the perfection of my ideas or fantasies. I give them permission to become what they want to be, in service to life. In releasing these ideas into form, I open up to receive new ideas and inspirations. I am helped with this process through unconditional love, for the greater good. So be it.

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild

Affirmations ~ November 18, 2021

Published November 18, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

(Image credit: Tatiana Shepeleva/Shutterstock)

I look forward to new experiences.

I gratefully acknowledge and accept my spiritual gifts.

I accept loving sweetness.

I say yes to assistance coming my way.

I trust in myself. I do not censor myself. I let life happen through me.

A change for the better is taking place.

I will be patient.

I trust the process and learn all I can from this lesson. I have grown and changed through everything that has transpired.

I am ready for a new adventure.

I let go of what was.

I allow a new self to emerge.

This is a start of a new chapter in my life.

I rise above adversity.

I choose with my heart.

There is infinite possibility.

I connect to the greater universal whole.

I allow the experience of growth.

I free my mind for creative pursuits.

Truth spoken brings me peace. I listen for the truth beneath the words.

I let go of old wounds.

I control my emotions and am not controlled by them.

I will master myself.

Affirmations ~ November 17, 2021

Published November 17, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

(Image credit: Tatiana Shepeleva/Shutterstock)

Clarity is coming to me now.

I am being helped into the next phase of my life.

I think about long-term happiness.

I surrender into the process with absolute trust.

I am patient and I trust in the Light.

I set clear intentions for what I wish for in life. Anything is possible.

I trust in all that I have to offer.

I am safe.

I open to love and to a higher consciousness.

This is a new beginning for me, a new opportunity.

Change is happening. Endings and new beginnings. Transformation.

I seek to grow beyond limitations.

Increased energy comes to me. I utilize this energy to move into wholeness.

I bless my foundation.

My power is great. I put it to good use.

I transform my goals into realistic action.

I notice synchronicities.

I am enthusiastic.

I forgive as necessary to move forward.

A new and better life is coming.

I open to discuss issues of conflict, knowing that a deeper understanding promotes growth.

I follow my inner guidance.

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