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The Goddess

Published June 26, 2022 by tindertender

A reminder to any woman who looks at her body and finds it flawed: these are prehistoric carvings of goddesses. These represent the epitome of feminine beauty to those we seek to emulate when we go on “paleo” diets. Not a flat tummy, thigh gap, or gravity-defying breast among them.

These are bodies that are unique to their owners, and contain stories of desire, creation, hardship, and perseverance. These are bodies that are ready to hold you as you cry. These are bodies that worked every day to provide nourishment, resources and guidance to their communities while also caring for the next generation. They supported one another in their labor, holding one another’s babies while they worked crafting tools, collecting water & singing songs to teach the young about the goddesses they so closely resembled.

And these carvings weren’t found in just one area. They’ve been discovered nearly everywhere humanity has settled and thrived. Which means there was a time when womanhood, in all her power and capacity, was revered not as merely a sexual novelty or shunned as sinful temptation, but seen as a source of inspiration to create, to connect, and to find courage.

Today, our patriarchal society reveres conformity in women over all. It demands that women strive to achieve and maintain a form that resembles an untested girl. Our bodies must look perpetually untouched, unspoiled, a blank slate for a man to claim and use and write his own story upon. Instead of worshiping women as they are, we scrutinize and discard them as never good enough. And the more we strive to conform, the more we give up control of our bodies.

So have comfort, women: with each fat roll and jiggle you gain as you move forward in time, you come closer to resembling the goddess as she originally appeared in the hearts of humanity. She lives in you and longs to be seen and revered as she was before.

And you deserve to be worshipped.

~ Alaura Weaver

Power of the Goddess

Published April 30, 2022 by tindertender

As we have now entered the termination phase of the planetary liberation process, it is of the utmost importance to connect with the feminine Goddess presence and nurture qualities of love, compassion and tenderness to stabilize the transition and counteract the cruelty so prevalent on the surface of the planet:

People on the surface of the planet have been programmed to believe that being soft and caring for other sentient beings is a weakness. This programming has originated from the Archons,

then distributed through Jesuit and Illuminati networks and then through the mainstream media to the surface population through the meme of “survival of the fittest”.

The above meme was spread among the surface population to suppress the caring energy of the Goddess, which is the energy the dark forces fear the most.

Now it is time for us to understand that caring, loving, soft energy is the energy that will ultimately transform our planet and assist the Light Forces in removing all darkness from the planet. Being soft is NOT a weakness, it is ultimate power. It is also time now for all women to support and express the caring part of their Soul, anchor that energy in the planetary energy grid.

The divine masculine presence (the Hero) in each of us needs to be activated also.

The Hero is a warrior that moves beyond revenge and powerless anger into full fierce power of methodically removing the darkness in order to protect everything that is sacred and beautiful, to protect all children, women and men that can not defend themselves against the cruelty of darkness so prevalent on the surface of the planet.

Long time ago, the weapons of the Hero were the sword and the pen. Now, the weapons are his one-pointed mind, the scalar protection devices and computer keyboard. And Mjolnir.

The Hero understands that all suffering on this planet is artificially engineered. He understands that he can not force his fellow humans to awaken, as they have retreated into their Islands of Sanity (beer and football) to avoid facing the too cruel reality of Draco occupation of the planet with all horrendous child abuse and untold suffering.

It is time now for each of us to unite the Goddess and Hero archetypes inside, become whole and stop fighting with each other,and unify in this last stage of planetary liberation process.


Question / Answer

Published April 16, 2022 by tindertender

What is the fate of those who have violated humanity for so many millennia, in relation to our future?

They are recharging, slightly detached. They are in need of rejuvenation.

They are drumming up a high level of excitement, bringing it to folks on an emotional level. They will work through romantic relationships to gain advantage.

They are planting “seeds” in minds, hoping to drum up a great deal of creative energy.

They have financial backing from the past which is used to generate involvement from others in various ways.

They are focused on goals and finances, they are in fear of loss and are holding on tightly to what they have. Overly cautious, they do not feel inclined to share, so beware of false promises.

Emotions are stormy. Quarrels may escalate leading to separation.

Out of this separation is born in us love and happiness, more stability. Committed and contented love with permanence is birthed.

This new reality brings those in violation feelings of despair, anxiety and inner suffering.

We are to have faith that better times are ahead of us. Healing will come for the discord we’ve suffered.

The old phase is in it’s final death throes. We will experience major transformation. We are released from that which is not useful in our lives.

Welcome changes enter our life.

Money or resources could be lacking. Carefully review finances and reorganize the budget as needed.

The feminine rises. These women work tirelessly and solidly, running businesses and households very well. They are prepared to go the extra mile to achieve their objectives.

Triumph! It does not come without effort. Self-discipline will be required. Master this and Victory is achieved. Focus. Do not be scattered.


In this world, good and evil grow together.

‘The one who sows the good seed is the Son of Man; the field is the world, and the good seed are the children of the kingdom; the weeds are the children of the evil one, and the enemy who sowed them is the devil’

There are two sides. Either you want to fight in the war or live a life with happiness and everything is peaceful. Red stands for war or evil. Blue stands for peacefulness and happiness. One day you have have to choose the life you want to live.  These are two different sides of the world and you will have to choose which side you want to be on, and live in.

Never Alone, Never Have Been

Published January 30, 2022 by tindertender

When we begin to vibrate at a higher frequency, we become more aware of the bigger picture called life. This in relation to where we currently find ourselves, what surrounds us now, seen and unseen, and it also includes that which is vibrating lower than we, our awareness takes us to a greater view, a knowing that we may not have quite seen before, although we were immersed in it.

Being aware of something does not necessarily mean you are in alignment with it.

Remember this in the coming days.

Awareness of, does not equate to alignment with.

You’ve had much practice with this regarding the people you have interacted with. Some you connected with, others you were repelled by.

If and when telepathy comes upon you, whether it be quiet or obnoxiously loud, think of it as a simple awareness.

There are those who take great care with the human consciousness and do not infiltrate, coerce, or abuse.

Others will try to bend your mind into alignment, will try to snatch your attention and manipulate you into certain actions.

This is where discernment comes in.

Be the observer.

Then choose what messages … inspirations, intentions, and actions … resonate with your inner truths.

Awareness of does not equal alignment with.

I repeat this because if and when this occurs, in the beginning, which will actually be the finale of the ending, those who are phasing out will attempt to drag you out with them.

A visual for this:
Sitting at an outside table at a restaurant facility. You are sitting there with a companion and cars are whizzing by. You are in conversation, focused on your companion. The cars are going past, loud, some obnoxious, but you pay them no mind. You focus on your companion and just let the sound of the other fade out of awareness. You are not jumping in any one of those cars and going for a ride. You remain with your companion, fully.

Your Attention is the most valuable currency you have next to your Soul. And there are those in this world that want it, all of it.

You are in no way required to align with them.

Awareness does not equal alignment.

It is crucial that you understand this, and will be even more so in the coming days.

Your mind, your attention, your energy, your Soul … it is You, as the connector between the heavens and the earth that some are trying to take out.

Understand that those who are in the unseen to assist you through this process are more plentiful and powerful than those who will try to take what you have, to manipulate and control your mind, actions, and energy … to steal your attention and use it for nefarious reasons.

You choose where your attention will go. I understand that most of us were not trained how to hold a thought for at least a minute in order to affect change in this world, but the power of it is within you.

Call upon the angels, ancestors, star nation, and your perception of god and goddess and let them know you are open to assistance. As a free-will realm they will not do so until invited.

You are not alone.

You never have been.

Circle of Angels Dante’s Paradise Illustration: Public Domain

An Anointing Pours Forth

Published January 3, 2022 by tindertender

Oooohhh the Spirit GAVE ME the TEA ON SOME OF YOU!!!

An anointing is about to pour forth on you… Spirit is about to come through AND kick down them doors and obstacles in your way and that Midas touch is gonna hit like GOLD IS THE NEW WAVE! 🌊 …

Some of you are about to face STRAIGHT IN THE FACE of that hurt inner child and healing is gonna come like a new set of clothes. Fresh out the Box. The God Child in you is about to GLOW UP! LIKE WOAH …

Some of you have been struggling with addiction, self esteem, low energies … Y’all about to be shaken the fuck awake cause Spirit isn’t coming to play… He wants ALL HIS CHILDREN and if you ain’t getting RIGHT ..THEN YOU GETTING LEFT.

New Star seeds and Hybrids are about to EXPLODE on the scene like the NEW KIDS ON THE BLOCK. All you older ones are gonna have to remember that every baby has to crawl before they walk. So be patient cause they’re gonna work your nerves but they’ll pick up quickly.

New colonies are going to be formed. Borders and boundaries that once were separating are going to be crumbling like the Berlin Wall. And a REMEMBERING is about to slap some of you straight in to 5D.

Technology is going to be like WOAH this year. But what THEY wanted to use against us, it’s about to flip because their Story plot got trashed like a shit screenplay. WE’RE THE NEW SCRIPT WRITERS NOW.

2022 is NOT THE YEAR to doubt yourself. It’s not the time to SECOND GUESS YOURSELF. Spirit is saying IT’S TIME TO BE THE ROYALTY YOU ARE AND STOP PLAYING GAMES WITH YOURSELF. Head Up…Chest Out…Shoulders Back! TAKE THIS YEAR BY AIMING HIGH.

Self Care is A MUST. Get your Vision Boards together. Get your meditations done. Move in SILENCE. Stop telling your plans to people who are too small to handle YOUR GREATNESS! LET’S GO!!!!

Spirit is saying … STEP ASIDE AND WATCH ME MOVE! Things you been praying for is about to come to like Magnets. Vibe High. Don’t look down.

Understand that the Shadow is just you. It’s the parts of you that need the most healing and love. Who deserves your love more than YOU? You can do this!

You have another BIG shift about to happen. This one is going to play you in total alignment fully in heart, mind, soul. Instant manifestations will come. At first it’s going to surprise you, then it’s going to become almost like a comedy or game how easy you’ll flow.

It’s beautiful the vibe and aura I feel coming from you. It’s like a frequency turned up from the heart chakra and the beaming from the Crown Chakra. There’s a presence that is going to just simply command respect without opening your mouth.

Written by: https://twitter.com/aradiant1899?s=21

Lilith the HU

Published December 31, 2021 by tindertender

Lilith … “first wife of Adam” …. wanted to rest in her sovereignty. She refused to bow to Adam …. Adam was a creation of the fallen. Over time we were snared and Rebirthed into carbon bodies. Our light bodies were replaced with carbon bodies. Because Lilith did not bow to this fallen HUman…. because she was HU, she was told her children would die by the thousands …. child sacrifice, perpetuated by those who gain power by doing it. Well HU are here from beyond the sun. Lilith is also here, in a carbon body. She, like others, are raising her own, and that of the worlds vibration, her truest family here to support us as we do …Rising to meet their HU family. Fallen no more. There will be an end to the killing of her children. Quite soon. And we will rise as the HU we are. Unless some choose they like being big in a fallen slave matrix.

Bhadra Kali

Published December 27, 2021 by tindertender

Our wild divine mother knows when to become gentle with our hearts, bestowing sweetness that liberates us from fear. Though you may have faced much struggle and challenge on your path, though it may seem only the most powerful intensity could stem the tide of negativity, the dark mother of grace will conquer the obstacles to your freedom with gentleness. She manifests herself now as Bhadra the gentle. She will calm the waves of emotion, eradicate doubt and despair, and provide safe and graceful passage through all difficulties.

Bhadra Kali, or ‘wish-fulfilling Kali’, is an auspicious and gentle form of Kali Ma. She is Kalyani who gives peace and happiness. She is the giver of windfalls and blessings. She appears when a gentle way will best accomplish what is needed. Sometimes, we are drawn to Kali because we need her ferocity. Sometimes, what we learn as we connect with her is that we deserve tenderness, sweetness and gentleness, and that we have been far too hard on ourselves for far too long. Bhadra Kali reminds us that we are strong enough to be gentle with ourselves. If we have been subconsciously sabotaging ourselves, she softly and deftly breaks the pattern. We no longer need to engage in unnecessary drama under a mistaken notion that it is necessary for growth. Sometimes, the growth is in choosing to cultivate and apply the kindness, strength and wisdom needed to disentangle and disengage from drama. It is about finding the inner strength to be true to ourselves in a moderate and peaceful state of being.

Raksha Kali, without protruding tongue so often associated with fiercer forms of Kali, is an expression of Bhadra Kali or gentle Kali. Raksha Kali has two arms, blue skin and a gentler expression. She is celebrated on the eve of the Buddha full moon in May, which streams an abundant and blissful download of amplified grace to Earth. Her presence signifies a time when an unusually powerful cosmic wave of spiritual light is very soon to become available to you. Like a surfer sensing and paddling toward the perfect wave, you can attune yourself to this sublime current of divine energy, and allow it to lift, guide and move you. It is a prediction of an imminent, joyful and significant breakthrough. At this particular time, greater progress than usual is opening up for you.

Raksha Kali is worshipped for protection from epidemics and drought. These are literal and symbolic protections. An epidemic is a mass contagion. It can be a swiftly spreading disease of the body, but also of the mind. Fearful collective reactions, based on societal conditioning and manipulated through the media, can spread like wildfire. The collective psyche of humanity is consistently being influenced. There are abundant spiritual sources of goodwill and peace constantly broadcasting divine love to humanity. And, there are forces of negativity and mean-spirited disruption seeking to assert their agendas through the human collective, too. The Kali wisdom within our hearts recognizes fear-fueling energy for what it is (no matter if it is dressed up as something else) and knows when and how to say stop.

Kali’s presence in our being commandeers negative forces. Instead of undermining us, we respond to those energies in such a way that our peaceful inner light increases. We become increasingly skillful in redirecting our attention, intention and action along productive, healing pathways. The presence of negative influence does not need to be denied nor decried. It does need to be acknowledged without one becoming overly interested or engaged with it. Kali promotes fearlessness and confidence because she knows how to use all energies – including negative energy – to promote light and awaken and blissful freedom within the soul. Your heart has the wisdom to transform even the most negative experience into a source of healing and freedom. You will not be negatively influenced by others. Although powerful in effect, your healing path shall be gentle.

Another expression of the gentle side of our dark mother is Shyama Kali, the peaceful blue goddess. Her presence teaches us that it is not always effective to fight fire with fire or to try to overcome force with greater force. Her wisdom is that of a gentling nature, able and calm, disarm and diffuse. There is not always a need to try and grapple and conquer. Sometimes, the need is simply to let go. Nothing rightfully yours shall be denied to you. The simplicity of this can confuse those who have learned they need to pick up any gauntlet thrown by any person at any time. Just because another has created a reality for themselves and is attempting to draw you into it, does not mean that you must participate. You have the divinely-granted gift to choose where to invest your energy. Be strong so that you can know gentleness.

Out of the fire of divine wrath, your gentle form emerges, calming the raging waves of emotion and disturbed fluctuations of mind. In settling myself beneath your fiercely compassionate and tender gaze, I find steadiness, kindness and peace. In this eternal moment with you, I am no longer afraid. Bhadra Kali, Raksha Kali, Shyama Kali, my heart softens as I take delight in the realization of your generosity and sweetness. With humble mind and willing heart, I bow before you, ready to receive with gratitude, love and wonder at your divine beauty and kindness. You are the unscripted creativity of the gentle yet unyielding divine workings for the greatest good of all. Jai Ma Kali!

Artwork by Jimmy Manton

~ Kali Oracle by Alana Fairchild


Published December 13, 2021 by tindertender

The old patterns of interference have been broken.


Father Sky ————— Mother Earth
Harmony ————— Temple
Energy Shift ————— Laughter
Balance ————— Don’t Drink the Poison
Follow Your Own Rhythm ————— Legacy of Light
Dream Sanctuary ————— Ally in Disguise


Published December 8, 2021 by tindertender

The tantric priestess of karmic release manifests with the capacity to integrate higher divine energy into even the most stubborn patterning that has so far resisted healing. When momentum is building, and you don’t know how to stop fueling the fire or reverse the damage, she appears. Her presence indicates that this is a powerful time for spiritual work and healing practices. She will support the work, and much growth can come form it, particularly at this time. No matter how wild they may seem, the storms of your life shall be gentled. You shall emerge unharmed.

Goddess Kali as Bhavatarini is the tantric priestess of karmic release and spiritual blessing. She liberates devotees from karmic struggles, especially those who keep repeating the same patterns with different players. Sometimes the jolt of divine disruption is such a shock that it is temporarily unpleasant, and we feel, therefore, that it is unwanted or harmful. However, once we allow the workings of such disruption to realign our affairs, we will come to recognize and be grateful for what is taking place. We will see it as a saving grace rather than something we had to endure. A ceasing of restrictive or negative influences is predicted.

Ma is adorned with flowers in recognition that she is celebrated during puja. Unlike the fierce Kali who is adored in fearsome places in the dead of night, the kind Bhavatarini is adored in celebrations of the light. The puja, or ‘sacred ritual’, can be very simple, In its most basic form, it is a call to the divine ones to manifest on Earth. It is a creation of light and has a cleansing effect on those doing the puja and, if the intentions and receptivity are strong enough, on the surrounding people and areas.

Bhavatarini teaches that our spiritual activities can have a positive influence, more so than we think possible. She foretells of a profoundly positive and expansive energy that will become available to us if we are willing to open our hearts to her. She also reminds us that we don’t have to wait until things become severe to call on the Divine Mother’s assistance. Why not call for her daily, not only to resolve issues but to prevent them from gaining traction in the first place? If we align ourselves with such simple and happiness-inducing wisdom, our lives can become peaceful and free from unnecessary drama.

Bhavatarini can take the form of Kali Phalaharini to destroy the results of our actions. Phala means ‘fruit’, and harini means ‘a female who takes something away’. So, Phalaharini means ‘the woman who takes away the fruit of our actions’. This means that she can conquer our karma. Kali Phalaharini can cleanse our samkaras, or ‘mental psychic imprints’. These are the familiar grooves that keep the soul repeating patterns, lifetime after lifetime. They are comprised of habitual ways of thinking and behaving that prevent us from evolving into something new and more suitable. They are the karma of ‘stuckness’, limiting our freedom, creativity and expression.

Samskaras can be negative in quality – such as an inhuman compulsion toward prefection – but they can be something we consider positive, such as a repeated attraction toward being a healer. Although being a healer can generate spiritual benefit if we identify with it, it can undermine our freedom to grow spiritually. It can become overly restrictive, and even lead to suppression of aspects of our authentic being that don’t readily ‘fit in’ with the healer archetype.

In the example of a healer, the Divine Mother recognizes the goodness in your heart and your genuine desire to assist. Yet, she will do what is necessary to protect your spiritual awakening and free you from your attachments (yes, even the attachment to helping others). This doesn’t mean that you no longer want to be a healer or that you are blocked from doing so. It means you will not be able to prop up self-value using external roles. Ultimately, this is a gift, but it is a lesson that many healers find painful in the beginning. They need to learn how to offer their heartfelt work and not be attached to how it is received. If they see immediate results and powerful effects of the work, the challenge is to not identify with what is happening and make the divine grace about their own ego. If the ego is failing these lessons and getting caught up in feeling superior or inferior, then the Divine Mother will intervene.

The lesson is that you can relish the roles you play in your life without allowing them to define you. You are asked to take care that you don’t restrict yourself to the roles you play. Embrace the spiritual freedom and unconditional love necessary to be your full authentic being. You are asked to bear the discomfort of no longer relying on certain familiar patterns to give you validation. This will open you up to greater self-realization, self-possession, and joyful freedom to be your whole self. You are on the cusp of a beautiful breakthrough into a more positive era. To amplify her blessings, open your heart to the unfamiliar.

Say this prayer aloud:

Beloved Ma Kali, Bhavatarini, Kali Phalaharini, please help me release attachment to the outcomes of my actions so that your grace can manifest without inhibition or constraint. Please abort negative karmic momentum flowing from me or toward me. I place my trust in you. You are the strength that overcomes current, You are the peace that arises in letting go. You are the graceful and effective wisdom manifesting spontaneously for the spiritual benefit of all beings. May your beautiful kindness and liberating wisdom emanate within my heart, always. May I love you more than I love certainty and control! Jai Ma Kali! Jai Ma! Jai Ma!

See yourself seated upon a lion throne with thick garlands of red flowers about your neck hanging over your chest. Stick out your tongue and breathe out a fierce cleansing breath. Then become peaceful. Place your hands at your heart. Sense that there is a guiding presence that knows exactly what needs to happen and when for the spiritual benefit of all beings. You can trust in that. You now become willing to rest in spontaneous wisdom of the heart.

Place your hands in prayer and bow your head in gratitude and reverence. You have completed your healing process.

Artwork by Jimmy Manton

Kali Oracle by Alana Fairchild

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