All posts in the Courage category

Wonder Woman & The Fate Of Humanity

Published June 4, 2017 by tindertender

wonder woman.jpgIt is true the human race is under attack, the easiest way to formulate the story is by a physical war. This battle we wage is not physical though. Our thoughts are manipulated in ever so subtle ways, if we are not paying attention we will fall. We have indeed fallen and when we view the world as it is today we can see it quite clearly.

The message is the same in the trailers before the movie started ~ we are under attack, and the only way to save ourselves, is to change ourselves, not by pointing at another and saying, “You falter here”, but being brave enough to take that statement and ask ourselves, “Are we faltering here?”

Peace will never come about if we are intent on making everyone else ‘wrong’ or ‘bad’. It will only come about if we focus and work toward making our self ‘better’ than we were before.

Do you believe in love?

Can you find love in your heart? Do you look yourself in the mirror and pick apart the image you see? Are you constantly using negative self talk? If so, you are most likely using this same communication with everyone you encounter as well.

Habits are difficult to break. It is possible though to change the way we talk to ourselves, and others ~ to change the way we think. When we do this, the way we see the world will shift. If done on a grand scale, there may be hope for us all.

Peace is in our choice ~ so is a vile nature.
Which one will be fostered?

Transforming Hurt With A Hug

Published May 17, 2017 by tindertender

The easiest way to get past a perceived error is to embrace it and come at it from a different direction. Do not waste time stewing about it, reinforcing a negative mind set. HUG that event, and move on it with a positive attitude, break it down and transform it.

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Being vulnerable is a scary thing. Opening oneself up to further damage is very intimidating. However, this is opportunity for inner strength to be built, as well as opportunity for another to either participate in rectification, or further damage. Either way, karma works and will increase ten-fold, for all parties.


Forward, Ever Forward

Published May 13, 2017 by tindertender

Many will lash out in spitting anger, they will outright attack you. I see it every day, personally, and I know you do as well. Hold on, it will smooth out, it will take a little time yet, however time is a gift.

Time is a gift.pngTime is the gift given to those who have chosen to hold on to pain and suffering, and who choose, even if not consciously, to continue the cycle. There is still opportunity to turn it around.

Active participation in what is wanted is the key to positive change. The energies spent being shocked and appalled and voicing opinions as such, are better spent on working toward a peaceful, connected, and honorable reality. Take that power which is yours and apply it to the future you wish to see. Start with your heart, pay attention to the smile you offer people, instead of letting it fall from your face as soon as the walk away, hold it, hold it in place for just another moment and consider the conversation, the connection.

Smile_1Soon you will see that wearing a smile does something to the mind, it shifts thought patterns from a somewhat dark nature to an upward lift, something brighter, a spring might even form in the steps you take.

This power is in you. No one need give permission for you to gather this ingrained wonder which resides in your inner most being and utilizing it for the benefit of the future. I am not speaking of monetary gain or title, I am speaking of self value … what do you think when you consider your life? Do you find yourself on the defensive? Or are you embracing every moment, every opportunity for growth?

Patience.jpgIt is not necessary to convince another that you are worthy. When you are certain of your value in your mind, in your heart, life flows … what comes is meant to be, and what does not come is a hint of better things on the horizon.

Be patient.
Know that it is going to be alright.
All things needed for the benefit of all life are coming.


Welcome Home

Published April 26, 2017 by tindertender

With Joy in her eyes, she said,

“Welcome home, you have been missed.”

Life is not fully lived until we open ourselves to Love. Without thorough communication and a deep care for the another’s thoughts and feelings, it will be that we hurt each other. However, if we truly care, we will try hard to overcome these tendencies, to work diligently on eliminating the little things (or the big) that we are in habit of that cause unease and harm for another.

Doing for others what we wish for ourselves is key to peace in the world. When we recognize that we, and all others, deserve peace of mind, and a joyous heart, including all that is needed to sustain life, it will become easier to ensure that it happens.

Whatever negatives have been ingrained in our minds, we must release. We have the ability to break these little roads of pain in our minds, and we have the knowledge to rebuild highways of Love there instead ~ this knowledge is within us, and it has been all along.

You, like I, are incredible creators. We have what it takes to alter the course of life. We do not need anybody “out there” to do this for us.

All we need do, is choose.

Life? or death …
Love? or hate …
Light? or darkness …
Joy? or Sorrow …

The Pure Seed vs a Bad Seed

Published April 23, 2017 by tindertender

I toss and I turn every night, yet I refuse to take a pharmaceutical to help me sleep. It is poison, and I must be available to feeling everything as it occurs, as difficult as that may be.

I discovered a video from a US Military member who the VA has refused to see for diagnosis of his pain, he has made the attempt twice to visit them. Although they will not see him, they continue to prescribe, and mail, pain killers to his house. Why? Why would a facility send prescription medication to a man, a military man, who has experienced a bit of an unstable life since returning from war, pain medication, instead of helping him as they ought to?

Then there are those who have died because of this lack of care.

There are others. At least one I know personally … and many I do not know. The rate of suicide is high among ex soldiers, and these prescribed medications could have something to do with it. These drugs alter the chemistry in the mind and without repeated and continued monitoring, anything can, and does, happen. What do they do when something does happen? They lock them up in the VA jail.

My outlook is that since these soldiers are not in some country fighting, the government is pretty much finished with them. Their thoughts are that the sooner these men and women take themselves, or another out, the sooner they can just write them off even further. These drugs are an easy out for them. They don’t even have to put forth effort, for so many are completely at the mercy of their experience and just need relief.

These endless wars must stop. The excuses they use to kill other humans are benign and fictitious. Sure, there are bad apples in the world, and yes, they need to be managed, but not at the expense of innocent civilians, which is always the case. Many more civilians than perceived enemies are killed in these battles.

When a few bad seeds kill innocent people, and our government sends in troupes to kill even more, (in the name of targeting the culprits) it becomes criminal on all sides, in and out. There is no good guy any more, although they try very hard to get us to believe that illusion.

War and death will not end until the ones participating decide they have had enough of the killing. Simple as that. Just as a verbal argument fades and becomes nothing if one half chooses not to participate, all things fizzle when participation ends.


I see the ideology of the warrior needing to protect. I admire this mindset, and I would choose to befriend these protectors. However, there is “protecting” and then there is bombing the hell out of people with no stop to the civilian, no care of who dies, just as long as someone does.

With the many chemicals going into the land, water and air, there won’t be a vibrant life filled planet for the children … anywhere.

The elite are seeing that this occurs, filling the soldiers with pills and vaccines which cause them to “forget”. The only problem with this is, they wear off, and remembrance comes sooner or later, and the emotion that comes with the knowledge of what they have done kills them, and others, as they take themselves and their lives down.

My hope is that these men and women will refuse to be pawns in the hands of the elite, to choose a simple life instead, of growing their own healthy foods and medicines, to harvest their pure seed, and to nourish the land and the life that dwells on it. Indeed, it is my hope that humanity as a whole begins to take back their lives and choose a way of living that benefits the whole.

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Life over Death.
Joy over Sorrow.
Health over Sickness.
Integrity over Greed.
Morality over Abuse.

The training that soldiers undergo is very useful indeed, and when these survival skills are shared with the whole, we all can learn to survive … if Love over Hate is chosen.

The soldier goes into service with the desire to protect. Their needs are admirable and courageous. I believe it is seen now that what I write is true.

Government is not the answer out of the small town, community is. Let us begin to build villages in which we help each other, not squadrons where we hurt each other. A village will be grateful and benefit and will endlessly appreciate, there are many in the U.S. who are doing just this, search for them.

choices_4Help us. Help those who you know are following in your footsteps when you go into battle. Help your children. See to it that they will never have to suffer the experience of war.

All we need do is look around us to see what the elite are doing to the bringers of life … woman and earth, waters and air.

It Is Time

Published April 22, 2017 by tindertender

It is time.

We must lay claim to our own lives and stop relying on corporate systems to provide the comforts we have become accustomed to.

The fact is that although we have many quick and easy things now-a-days, in the past, working hard for that which was needed provided a healthier and more fit body, a better nights sleep, and eliminated a lot of the waste we see today.


It is time to become responsible for the foods we ingest.
It is time to take measures to pull the poisons from the waters we drink.
(which have been put there by our leaders)
It is necessary to recognize we are capable of, able to, and the ones most affected by efforts of living a healthy life.

The day for loving fully is here.
Loving ourselves, loving each other, loving all that is.

We are our own authority.

When we left home, we decided we were big enough to manage our own lives. For some reason, we continue to relinquish that right to those in high places.

Six More Years …

Published April 21, 2017 by tindertender

Six Years … The next four, and then two after. Hold on, practice firmness of mind. Many will try to pull the path crooked, walk the fine line. Do not take sight off the goal ~ Peace, Love, Joy, Compassion, Care, Honor, Integrity. Be genuine, be transparent, there is no need to hide.

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