Courage

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This is YOUR Power!

Published August 14, 2017 by tindertender

Show them how it is done.

There are many critics now days, in ALL areas of life. I have have received a private message from one who wants to “connect”, only so they could throw an abundance of foul insult and degrading rhetoric into words. Of course I did not accept, however it amazes me that this is the energy that this individual chooses to put out there.

When we find ourselves faced with a communication laced with profanity and insult, it is important to shut it down immediately. Do not give that language room in your mind. It can be difficult, for I myself have had the experience of being backed into a wall with someone physically in my face screaming these hurtful and harmful words, performing damaging deeds.

They are possessed with an evil that lurks in the ether, and truly, I do not think they even know this. When they come at you, hurting you, simply remember that it is your light and your inner strength they hate, and they will try to break you … do not let them.

Shine your light so bright! Smile at them when they are hurtful, delete the comment before reading the whole thing, take away the power of this crazy vulgar mess … for it is using YOUR power to hurt you, do not let them have it. It belongs to you, and you have been, and must continue, to use it bringing additional light into the world.

You have within you the power to change the world, and you are doing just that. These mean and hurtful comments and actions … the people who spew them out there like liquid dung, straight from the mouths and bodies … they know, they see your light, and it infuriates them. But you are strong, and no matter what comes your way, the light you shine will assist others in being brave enough to follow suit, for they too have this beautiful light within.

Show them how it is done. Practice. No one said it would be easy, but this is why you are here. Deep within you, you know this to be the truth.

The Comfort Of Pain

Published July 19, 2017 by tindertender

Life, depending on the way it began, and then continued, can hold pain. Over time this pain becomes somewhat of a comfort, for it is often the only consistent thing in our life.

I have been comfortable in pain in years gone by, yes, I lived pain very well. Then I got tired of living pain very well.

Over the last 15 years I have focused on another way, a way of living joyfully.  I have decided that I had enough of the pain, so I looked long and hard at it, going very deep into my mind about it, and I began to heal.

Healing from past traumas can take a very long time, however with diligence and determination it IS possible to change the mindset around it all. It IS possible to alter the life journey.

Eliminating toxins is essential for clarity of mind.
A fogged and polluted body and mind aren’t fully equipped.

Have you, too, decided enough is enough? Have you mastered living in pain yet? Do you think it is time to be a master of a different way of life?

The choice is yours.
The only one holding you back is you.
The only opinion that you must live with for your entire life, is yours.

How will you choose to think of yourself and your life?
What will you do about it?

Peace is a real possibility, yet it takes courage and a lot of work.
You are capable … within you is a warrior who can surmount any problem!

Problems only have power when we allow them to have it.

You see, this power is YOURS.
Claim it, steer it in the direction which brings you peace.

Wonder Woman & The Fate Of Humanity

Published June 4, 2017 by tindertender

wonder woman.jpgIt is true the human race is under attack, the easiest way to formulate the story is by a physical war. This battle we wage is not physical though. Our thoughts are manipulated in ever so subtle ways, if we are not paying attention we will fall. We have indeed fallen and when we view the world as it is today we can see it quite clearly.

The message is the same in the trailers before the movie started ~ we are under attack, and the only way to save ourselves, is to change ourselves, not by pointing at another and saying, “You falter here”, but being brave enough to take that statement and ask ourselves, “Are we faltering here?”

Peace will never come about if we are intent on making everyone else ‘wrong’ or ‘bad’. It will only come about if we focus and work toward making our self ‘better’ than we were before.

Do you believe in love?

Can you find love in your heart? Do you look yourself in the mirror and pick apart the image you see? Are you constantly using negative self talk? If so, you are most likely using this same communication with everyone you encounter as well.

Habits are difficult to break. It is possible though to change the way we talk to ourselves, and others ~ to change the way we think. When we do this, the way we see the world will shift. If done on a grand scale, there may be hope for us all.

Peace is in our choice ~ so is a vile nature.
Which one will be fostered?

Transforming Hurt With A Hug

Published May 17, 2017 by tindertender

The easiest way to get past a perceived error is to embrace it and come at it from a different direction. Do not waste time stewing about it, reinforcing a negative mind set. HUG that event, and move on it with a positive attitude, break it down and transform it.

Hugging a hurt.jpg

Being vulnerable is a scary thing. Opening oneself up to further damage is very intimidating. However, this is opportunity for inner strength to be built, as well as opportunity for another to either participate in rectification, or further damage. Either way, karma works and will increase ten-fold, for all parties.

 

Forward, Ever Forward

Published May 13, 2017 by tindertender

Many will lash out in spitting anger, they will outright attack you. I see it every day, personally, and I know you do as well. Hold on, it will smooth out, it will take a little time yet, however time is a gift.

Time is a gift.pngTime is the gift given to those who have chosen to hold on to pain and suffering, and who choose, even if not consciously, to continue the cycle. There is still opportunity to turn it around.

Active participation in what is wanted is the key to positive change. The energies spent being shocked and appalled and voicing opinions as such, are better spent on working toward a peaceful, connected, and honorable reality. Take that power which is yours and apply it to the future you wish to see. Start with your heart, pay attention to the smile you offer people, instead of letting it fall from your face as soon as the walk away, hold it, hold it in place for just another moment and consider the conversation, the connection.

Smile_1Soon you will see that wearing a smile does something to the mind, it shifts thought patterns from a somewhat dark nature to an upward lift, something brighter, a spring might even form in the steps you take.

This power is in you. No one need give permission for you to gather this ingrained wonder which resides in your inner most being and utilizing it for the benefit of the future. I am not speaking of monetary gain or title, I am speaking of self value … what do you think when you consider your life? Do you find yourself on the defensive? Or are you embracing every moment, every opportunity for growth?

Patience.jpgIt is not necessary to convince another that you are worthy. When you are certain of your value in your mind, in your heart, life flows … what comes is meant to be, and what does not come is a hint of better things on the horizon.

Be patient.
Know that it is going to be alright.
All things needed for the benefit of all life are coming.

 

Welcome Home

Published April 26, 2017 by tindertender

With Joy in her eyes, she said,

“Welcome home, you have been missed.”

Life is not fully lived until we open ourselves to Love. Without thorough communication and a deep care for the another’s thoughts and feelings, it will be that we hurt each other. However, if we truly care, we will try hard to overcome these tendencies, to work diligently on eliminating the little things (or the big) that we are in habit of that cause unease and harm for another.

Doing for others what we wish for ourselves is key to peace in the world. When we recognize that we, and all others, deserve peace of mind, and a joyous heart, including all that is needed to sustain life, it will become easier to ensure that it happens.

Whatever negatives have been ingrained in our minds, we must release. We have the ability to break these little roads of pain in our minds, and we have the knowledge to rebuild highways of Love there instead ~ this knowledge is within us, and it has been all along.

You, like I, are incredible creators. We have what it takes to alter the course of life. We do not need anybody “out there” to do this for us.

All we need do, is choose.

Life? or death …
Love? or hate …
Light? or darkness …
Joy? or Sorrow …

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