All posts in the Ethics category

May 5th – Red Dress Day

Published May 8, 2022 by tindertender

Did you know that today is Red Dress Day? On this day, we wear red dresses or shirts, or hang a red dress in the trees in our yard to represent the estimated 4,000 missing indigenous women in Canada and the estimated 6,000-10,000 missing women in the United States.

Did you know that: “One in three Native women will be raped in their lifetime, and three in five will be physically assaulted. Native women are more than twice as likely to be stalked than other women and, even worse, Native women are being murdered at a rate ten times the national average.”????

That’s right. They have a 1 in three chance of being raped, a 3 in 5 chance of being assaulted, are twice as likely to be stalked, and are 10 times more likely to be murdered than women of any other descent.

We need to change those statistics.



Published May 8, 2022 by tindertender

Working Class Hero

Published April 30, 2022 by tindertender

As soon as you’re born, they make you feel small
By giving you no time instead of it all
‘Til the pain is so big you feel nothing at all
A working class hero is something to be
A working class hero is something to be

They hurt you at home and they hit you at school
They hate you if you’re clever and they despise a fool
‘Til you’re so fucking crazy you can’t follow their rules
A working class hero is something to be
A working class hero is something to be

When they’ve tortured and scared you for 20 odd years
Then they expect you to pick a career
When you can’t really function, you’re so full of fear
A working class hero is something to be
A working class hero is something to be

Keep you doped with religion and sex and TV
And you think you’re so clever and classless and free
But you’re still fucking peasants as far as I can see
A working class hero is something to be
A working class hero is something to be

There’s room at the top they are telling you still
But first you must learn how to smile as you kill
If you want to be like the folks on the hill
A working class hero is something to be
A working class hero is something to be

If you want to be a hero, well, just follow me
If you want to be a hero, well, just follow me

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: John Lennon

Working Class Hero lyrics ยฉ Lenono Music

I Truly Love Our Divine Masculine!

Published April 21, 2022 by tindertender


Published March 15, 2022 by tindertender

Who do you symbolically kill and eat every Sunday in order to be saved from your own โ€œsinsโ€?

Sacrificing the innocence of someone else, animal or human, in order to save yourself from sin is a cowards way out. How about you focus on improving your presence in the world instead?

Making someone else pay the price for your poor essence in the world is wrong in so many ways.

Did you ever stop to think he isnโ€™t free right now because you keep sacrificing him every week?

The story they fed you about him being in heaven is bullshit. Your actions keep him in a state of suffering.

He did not give his life for you. His life was stolen as sacrifice, the bond of which keeps humanity bound … and they do it to themselves.

What you do to one you do to yourself also.

We All Make Mistakes

Published March 12, 2022 by tindertender

People often complain, and want perfection. They behave as if they have the right to punish others if they do not carry out their ‘assignments’ perfectly.

The same applies to Soul assignments. Despite what our Soul wants to learn, we often head off in a completely other direction. Thankfully, our Soul will not punish us, but we do need to work to make things right.

While you may be tempted to cover things up and not be open about what has happened, especially to yourself, it is best to see what can be done to rectify the wrong.

A Blessing

Published March 12, 2022 by tindertender

Years ago, anthropologist Margaret Mead was asked by a student what she considered to be the first sign of civilization in a culture. The student expected Mead to talk about fishhooks or clay pots or grinding stones.

But no. Mead said that the first sign of civilization in an ancient culture was a femur (thighbone) that had been broken and then healed. Mead explained that in the animal kingdom, if you break your leg, you die. You cannot run from danger, get to the river for a drink or hunt for food. You are meat for prowling beasts. No animal survives a broken leg long enough for the bone to heal.

A broken femur that has healed is evidence that someone has taken time to stay with the one who fell, has bound up the wound, has carried the person to safety and has tended the person through recovery. Helping someone else through difficulty is where civilization starts, Mead said.

We are at our best when we serve others. Be civilized.

~ Ira Byock

Everything Will Change

Published February 28, 2022 by tindertender

A New Structure is being secured. This platform will be well guarded.

This New Structure is potentially built upon the advice and information of a false prophet who is deceiving Big Powers in this world for personal gain. There could be some unreliable deals made, as someone’s being sneaky and swiftly moving away, but they are seen and found-out.

The time is approaching where truth will be known. This will cause quite the upheaval, a mighty confrontation could ensue or the population may rage over the information they are told.

The storm will clear very quickly and economic stability will take place. An agreement will be reached and a commitment to this agreement will be made manifest.

19 ~ Full guidance and blessings on the path of destiny. The task at hand will be of positive impact. Don’t depend on anyone while on the journey to greatness. Show respect and humility to those less fortunate. Share your success and you will be rewarded greatly.

6 ~ Cultivate a charitable heart. Become selfless, make a difference in peoples lives. Stay balanced, it is not time to give up yet.ย 

14 ~ Better days are coming. Focus on your goals and dreams, no matter what is happening around you. Work on yourself and let nothing overwhelm you to the point of giving up.

9 ~ It is time to bond with the divine and spiritual. Stay on a path of peace, love, and joy. Be kind and humble to others. You will lead many people to the path of success.

37 ~ Your efforts are bringing you closer to abundance and prosperity. Think positively. You can handle anything presented to you.

4 ~ You are on the path of greatness. It is time to focus on creating a solid infrastructure. Be patient and calm while you await the good things to come.

25 ~ Not everyone is happy with your progress. Keep your circle of friends small. Strength, courage, and confidence will help you come out of hard challenges victoriously. Transformations you are contemplating will help you.

1 ~ Release negative energy. Embrace change. Be optimistic and positive. Open your heart to the influence of the divine. This is a period of starting over. New beginnings will bring you joy and happiness.


Published January 25, 2022 by tindertender

Man, proud man!
Drest in a little brief authority,
Most ignorant of what he’s most assur’d,
His glassy essence, like an angry ape,
Plays such fantastic tricks before high heaven
As makes the angels weep.

~ Shakespeare

Authority intoxicates,
And makes mere sots of magistrates.
The fumes of it invade the brain,
And make men giddy, proud and vain;
By this the fool commands the wise
The noble with the base complies.
The sot assumes the rule of wit,
And cowards make the base submit.
~ Butler
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