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Epiphanies Rolling In

Published April 13, 2018 by tindertender

Epiphany

Anger, it accompanies many people as they age.  Inconsideration’s, some sort of hurt, or any number of things may be blamed.

This anger one has (for some), may have crept from one thought, they feel responsible for their parents pain. They did not cause these pains they witnessed, although they shared in the experiences. As a youngster, being witness to suffering over and over again, a feeling of responsibility comes over them.

I do not know why children take on these responsibilities, but they do. They see their parents or others suffer and in their young minds they think they must have caused it somehow, maybe just by being alive they somehow did this to them. It can feel that way when out of suffering the parent may yell or spank the child, making them believe they did something awful which deserved harsh words and punishment.

Cause and Effect: In reality, frustration and pain from others seep into the tender lives of the young ones, leaving them quite confused. Later in life they may seek relationships which affirm they cause suffering for others, or they may become experts at self-harm for they believe they deserve it.

It was brought to my attention recently that even when we try very hard not to hurt anybody, there will always be someone who gets their feelings hurt. Shrinking from life will never stop this truth. 

Learning to be authentic and true to ourselves can be a tough journey. It has been the ‘norm’ to hide certain realities, to pretend that all is well.

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Everyone has troubles. Many of us have the same exact troubles, yet we have been conditioned to hide them and show all the world that everything is super fine, why? Because there is a fear of what the world may think of us when we fall. Because some people find it most appealing to kick others when they are down …

It takes a real bad-ass to show the world the inner life .. the hidden things … allowing a vulnerability to show. In so doing, it will become obvious that the solitude we’ve experienced has been a cage of delusion.

We are more alike than we currently have understanding of.

Real ~ Like A Ton O’ Bricks

Published November 17, 2017 by tindertender

When did the format of our questions change?

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As children we would ask, “Why is the sky blue?”, among many other ‘curiosity’ questions. As adults, it is more along the lines of, “Why would they do that?”, or, “Why would God allow this to happen?”

We enter this life full of happiness and interest, eager to discover the wonderment’s it will offer. Soon though, our excitement shrinks as we experience harm, hurt, and betrayal of all kinds. This comes from parents, ‘friends’ and governing bodies. The system proves itself to be broken, and it fosters a broken reality, indeed, it creates what it has become.

Joy and embrace are replaced by bruises and disgrace.

How can the beauty of a child alter the fate of the world, instead of a corrupt and broken world altering the fate of the child? This current structure must ‘flip’, the balance is no longer there and the whole of the world is off kilter.

How can health be part of an organization which is ill in itself? It cannot. This structure is full of people intent on fixing everyone else, while ignoring their own bullshit.

1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.

     ~ Matthew 7:1-5 KIV

Hypocrites, everywhere.

In order for this change to occur, people must demand the reintroduction of their inner child. We carry around these pains from our youth, we’ve buried them and think ourselves strong for overcoming trials.

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The truth though, is unless we embrace that vulnerable child within us and allow it to have a voice, giving it permission and freedom to finally be heard, using our adult common sense and compassion, change will be very slow in coming, if not impossible.

Our obligation to ourselves, if we honestly choose to be free, is to accept liability for the stuff we’ve crammed into the depths of our soul under lock and key, and to also be its liberator, all the while embracing that fragile, and now knowing, inner child.

Many of the people in this world are choosing to foster care, compassion, forgiveness, patience, and acceptance of self, which in turn make it easier to see the need for, and have the desire to grow it, elsewhere on the earth.

It is time to water our garden folks. There is no better nourishment to be provided but for the gift we have capacity of giving ourselves … and each other.

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1 Corinthians 12:26-27
26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. 27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each of you is a member of it.

Is This All There Is?

Published October 6, 2017 by tindertender

Some feel that this is it. Once this life ends, we either move on to heaven or hell, one shot at it.  What if this is all wrong? What if it is only a control mechanism to keep people subservient? What if we all really are equal, and the deeds we do, and the acts we perform, will be the determining factor on what remains upon our return to this beautiful planet?

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Let us say, for a moment, that this is not all there is. That you will return again to this planet for another life. Not because you are being punished, but because the task is not complete … the task of cleaning up and beautifying this earth for all.

Change the worldGreed and chaos run rampant. Minds have been manipulated into the ‘consumption’ way of living, many have been made to believe that more is better. So they do whatever it takes to gain it, and they forget about the backs they have marched over to get where they are, those that they have left behind while pursuing their addiction to things. I do not for a moment believe it is anyone’s fault, per se, instead I view it as an illness … much like gambling, drinking, or drugs, or any other addictions one might think of. This illness is fostered by those who wish to fill their pockets. Look at the billboards advertising powerball and the ‘potential’ for winning. See the people pour their savings into this lure, many losing their homes.

Tomorrow will come. You might return for another life. Would you like to return to green pastures and forests, alive with the music of joy? … Fresh running streams and rivers that you can actually drink from? Would you like to see people who are not afraid to reach for one another, without the potential for harm?

ripples in waterOnly you have the power to change your part in this path. Only you can control the waves you leave in your wake. Every action you take affects all life in your path. You may not see it, or even be aware of it, however the ripple effect of your life is powerful, and you just may feel the affect of it should you return.

This is what is meant by karma. Not as punishment, but as in creating that which you will return to, should you choose to believe this is possible, should you choose to plan for it. What harm can building a more peaceful world do? For even should you believe you will not be back, your children, grandchildren and others will follow in footsteps left behind.

 

Dangers Of WiFi

Published September 2, 2017 by tindertender

Wifi is a dangerous thing when held to close to the body.

Just now, I lay on the couch, phone in hand, surfing the net. My hand went numb and from the elbow down it tingles, not from falling asleep though. The muscle in my forearm has been feeling swollen and achy.  I’ve noticed this lately, every time I involve myself in this activity with this device.

My abdomen felt achy and hot when I lay my laptop on my lap to search the internet and work on-line, and when stopped, deciding to keep the laptop on the table and not use it on my lap any longer, my stomach area quit aching.

There are severe dangers the public is not readily told, in fact completely and adamantly lied to about, while we purchase and use these things ~ the manufactures rake in the dough while our health suffers.

Radiation poisoning is very real. While we have the access it would behoove us to use this “tool” to educate ourselves.

Genetically damaged children beget genetically damaged children, on and on until the end of the family line.

“Wirelessly” Harming Your Health

https://www.avaate.org/IMG/pdf/who_setting_the_standard_for_a_wireless_world_of_harm.pdf

https://www.globalhealingcenter.com/natural-health/10-shocking-facts-health-dangers-wifi/

http://themillenniumreport.com/2016/06/physicist-blows-whistle-on-microwave-weaponry-exposes-assaults-on-populations-everywhere/

http://willthomasonline.net/secrets-of-microwave-cookin.html

BPA: Sex Hormone In Canned Food

Published July 22, 2017 by tindertender

Many couples in today’s world have a difficult time conceiving.

I would love to say scientists can be trusted, yet, it is scientists who created this plastic liner in all canned goods, which has caused serious issues around procreation.

There is an option of having a lab fertilize the eggs and implant in the female, and as much as I would like to believe intentions are pure, I do not.

Baby formula also has this liner and babies drink this every day. What is happening to their proper development of hormonal balance?

Many will deny it, but this, combined with other obvious chemical exposures being inflicted on humanity, shows that the human race is being chemically castrated.

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