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Lost In Love

Published December 23, 2018 by tindertender

I woke this early morning with three words in mind, “Lost In Love”. I google the song (I often receive messages through song). Although not certain what this particular message relates to, I share the video with you here.

May love find you this holiday season, and stick to your side and never leave.

I do not wish for you to ‘be gone’ … if can, I will carry you home.

The Dance

Published December 20, 2018 by tindertender

Gods of the underworld, how many have you trapped? It seems you haven’t capacity to feel anything, except for being ‘pissed off’. Perhaps you are not ‘gods’ at all.

I feel my strength returning.
Only this time there is experience behind it.

Which little blurb would describe you best? (muskrat love enters mind). I understand that life is but a dance … it seems many of us have forgotten how.

https://youtu.be/xBYV_7a0FQs

What if there were one person (or better yet, a few) who were strong enough to absorb all of the bad, or negative entity energy, who are able to transmute those energies to a positive loving nature? … releasing the negative hold over the human mind? Humanity’s mind as a whole.

If enough people became like ‘the body of the Christ’ and absorbed this negativity in small doses, those energies of war and anger (among other destructive energies) could then be transformed to love and joy … the world would soon be cleansed.

Are there enough people able, or willing to do this?

This could be a good time to practice … http://unify.activehosted.com/index.php?action=social&chash=5ea1649a31336092c05438df996a3e59.2345&s=66bd221fae2e0345609844d68c983eb7

Love Story

Published December 16, 2018 by tindertender

There once was a woman who loved a man, and he loved her also … both of their hearts intertwined.

The woman was desired by a wealthy man, she new her ‘family’ relied upon her willingly allowing this man to ‘possess’ her, otherwise he made it clear he would ruin them.

One wishing to love her mightily, the other swore to ‘make her famous’ and have a comfortable life.

The wealthy man vowed to have the other man killed should she decide to be with him, so in order to save his life, she had to make him believe she did not love him, and actually preferred the wealthy man. Of course, he did not understand this and became angry.

In the end, she made it clear to the young lover and to all others that her love for him was still quite strong, and she chose love over possessions … having them, and being one.

Unfortunately, she died, and the young man was broken hearted … but knowing she loved him, and he she … rather than being an angry, bitter man.

Love ~ it is the most wonderful thing this world has to offer us, even if only for a short time. It would be wise to build upon the base offered, growing love, rather than swimming in sadness and anger that arises at the loss of it.

Love ~ it often morphs into friendship … which is better than becoming enemies.

May each and every one of you reading this remember what drew you into love, and that which nurtured it. Should it be torn from you, may you release anger or sadness, and work on building love once more … love of self, of others, and yes … even those who have decided they no longer wish to be part of your life.

Calling On The Light

Published December 13, 2018 by tindertender

“Shake me into wakeful gratitude.

As I remember how to merge with you.

How to be embraced by you.

How to know that I am you.

And In my remembering

Love me in my letting go.”

~ Clare Dubois, Founder of TreeSisters

Excerpt from Nature Prayer

Balancing The World

Published December 10, 2018 by tindertender

In frustration male #1 vehemently says, “Fine!”
Male #2 responds, “We have a job to do.”
Male #1, “How are we going to __________ her?”
Male #2, “We adore her.”
Male #1(?), “She’s accelerating.”
Male #3, “One or the other.”

The Infinite Self is a rebel. As a child, and any child you hear having conversation today, many questions are asked, typically in the form of “Why?” There is a presence here which knows the Infinite Self is a rebel, and Strong. It breaks the child when they are young and leads them into conformity. You see the many systems which are in place to complete this task.

Should the child grow, or be stubborn enough to rebel, sometimes recklessly, then this ‘presence’ must work over-time to tame the heart of them, toying with the mind, implanting self-doubt, breaking down self-confidence. This child, by now young adult, must continue to “buck the system’ so-to-speak, if they wish to hold onto their inherent power.

Many people are influenced to assist in this ‘breaking’ of the spirit of the rebellious one. Often it ends in suicide, or uncontrolled rebellion which ends in someone getting hurt, and then prison, where they no longer are able to threaten the ‘system’ which is in place.

But sometimes … they survive. 
Sometimes, they remain free.

After trauma, and should there be survival, this rebellious one will climb from the pits of darkness and enter the light once more. From this place, having been intimate with that which has tried to destroy them, they are much stronger than before, and have knowledge of the tactics used to try and rid them from this reality.

Lessons learned, a grace forms in the mind as they see the affects of these ploys upon people in their surroundings. Compassion grows as they witness others fighting this attack. Understanding has formed in their minds and they are able to assist, should one ask, or be open to suggestions on how to beat this charge.

There are many here who have walked through darkness, who have shed that which does not serve them, or the goodness of life. While  climbing from the pit of this darkness, they left behind that which allowed them to be put there in the first place. They suffered a ‘rebirth’ and now utilize their lives for healing what remains broken in their own hearts and minds, and then allowing compassion, care, and love to overflow into this world.

Embrace your inherent power, your strength. Shed cocky arrogance, go deep into the heart of things, see yourself in others around you. We are more alike than (originally) may have been admitted.

Healing your own heart, mending your broken spirit, you learn techniques which can benefit others … by healing yourself, you begin to heal the world.

It is a difficult task. It is painful to look deep into ones own psyche and critique it, tossing aside that which brings chaos, and replacing it with that which brings harmony. This is the most sacred work anyone can do … for this is what will heal and balance the world.

Once this work is complete, all things needed for balance in this world will occur. Alignment must happen, and it begins in ones own heart and mind.

Remember, this work you do not only benefits the life you can see, but that which you cannot. Those waiting to be born need us to do this work, so they have a safe environment to enter, otherwise, they’ll have to arrive and show us how it is done.

You know already what needs to be done … it simply needs to be put in motion. You are fully capable and able … are you willing?

True Love Needs No Coaxing

Published December 4, 2018 by tindertender

I love many of the old love songs from the 70’s, they are my favorite. One thing I notice about them is they are singing of the need to convince someone of the love in their heart. I suppose this was the beginning (or perhaps the 60’s) of the shifting of love.

It seems the more we try to cling to love, the quicker it slips through the fingers. Love cannot be held, owned, possessed or controlled. Love must be set free, acknowledged for its power, and honored when it presents itself, in all forms, and also released when it’s purpose in our life (or the others) is complete.

Often when someone professes love they are laughed at, or outright attacked. Love is gentle, it is kind, it is open and free. There IS a force influencing this world to tear it down. The unconscious person flows with this attempt and acts upon it. It is no surprise that barriers have been erected to protect the heart.

I have been fortunate to love deeply four times in this life. Every time when it came to end, I was crushed … absolutely crushed. The final two times rendered me useless for the world for a time. The last especially … my mind disintegrated.

Rebuilding self I understand now that love flows, just as the shadow forms around everything, love is also intertwined there. It is a dance many call heartache. The heart aches with pure joy, and it aches when that joy decreases, or morphs into a new appearance. It is our concept of what love should be that causes this, for when it does not match our ideals, this is when the pain comes.

Love can last for short, or long times. When it stops flowing for us we tend to cling to it. The fact that love cannot be bound, is free, and moves whether we wish for it to or not often leads to pain. People have this habit of trying to force things, only making the pain worse. They forget why they loved, and it becomes anger, even hate. Rather than honoring loves flow they lay claim to it and retaliate when it is discovered to have grown wings.

It is thought that love is obligated to oblige the heart of others. Love is not obligated to anything but flow, to giving freely. I am not talking about being promiscuous or loosey goosey, but becoming part of this flow which is free.

It is a pity that love has actually come down to the physical involvement: sex. Sex is not love, it is something that accompanies it. Yet love exists even when sex is not involved. Love is so simple it is hard to understand. Humanity has complicated it with rules and stipulations. This is another one of those things that has become bastardized in this time.

There is coming a return to love, true love. Love owes us nothing, love is something we grow in our hearts until over flowing … this is how it enters the world, yet many people are looking to fill their cups from outside sources and are left wanting, every time.

Loosen up. You will begin to see the flow and a gratefulness will fill your heart when it flows your way, and you will be grateful for the next person who experiences that love which has touched you, knowing what a blessing it truly is. You will be happy for them, you will be happy you’ve had the experience, and you will be happy for the person who is sharing love with the world.

You will recognize that because love is no longer being poured into you from an outside source does not mean you are empty of love. The love within you is amplified by these gifts, and you can continue to grow your sweet garden of love yourself. Someone will come along that joins you again, and again, and again … it does not mean there will be sex involved, it means you will know what true love is, and participate in its advancement in the world.

Beautiful, whole, and free.

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