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Heart Speak

Published September 22, 2018 by tindertender

“Why did you choose him over me?”, he asked.

Centuries old question, arises again and again. It is clear the heart speaks its own language. Often the mind may say, “No” … yet the heart says “Yes”. One cannot deny the heart, for to do so would be untrue to self.

Since self is the one most definitely with us every day of life, self is the one we ought to be true to, regardless of what any other person thinks we ‘ought’ to do, or what they deem best for our future.

The brain does not control our heart. The heart beats on its own, chemistry either connects or repels, it isn’t a brain thing … it’s a heart and body thing, and energetic thing. Honor it … for it is trying to honor you.

When two peoples heart speak is different, let it go. Not everyone is going to feel the same as we do, they too are listening to their own heart speak. Honor their path just as you attempt to honor your own.

Really, it is hard enough to decide what is best in our own world, and many times it is discovered the decision we thought was correct, was not. Yet this is a wonderful opportunity for personal growth! Anyone who would deny an individual this freedom and advancement in knowledge is not ‘friend’.

Trust yourself, and remember, even when you think a decision was wrong, ask of the experience what is there for you to ‘learn’ and consider it a gift … every single time, for it is … the greatest gift one could ever receive.

Life lessons are priceless, even the ones that hurt. Never give up, be true to your heart, and always reach for the stars.

Joy and peace are creations of beauty … be that, share that. When it seems hardest to be the creator of peace and calm care, put that much more effort into it. The world will be of great benefit from your contribution, and you will enjoy the gift you give when you do it.

Healthy vs Sick

Published September 16, 2018 by tindertender

The difference between people in a healthy world full of relationships, is in the ‘healthy’ see potential in others and situations, whereas the ‘unhealthy’ search themselves, others and everything else for what they see as lack.

This world is very sick right now. We’ve been bred and trained to see lack in our self, in others, and in every situation we may be part of.

It is up to the individual to break the mold and rebuild their training, searching for potential in everything instead.

When we see our self in the mirror, if there are any thoughts of negativity directed at that image, at self, then immediate and hard work must be done to counter those ideas. It’s difficult, but necessary to break the cycle.

When one can finally look in the mirror and like the person they see … not all about the ‘looks’, but the strength behind the eyes, the endurance while wearing a smile through all trials, if anyone comes along to try and tear down that fresh new view, walk away from them quick.

No one has the right to tell you who you are, how strong you are, or what potential you have … that is for you to decide … or to one day ‘find out’.

Even when not making a decision, a decision is made. Be present.

Woman In Love

Published September 11, 2018 by tindertender

Woman in Love ~ doing anything to keep peace within her life, and the life she shares with the world.

True … some are lost in the realm of creating and experiencing deep pain … but each and every one of them start here … whether as a child, or otherwise. Love does not require war … it is a simple letting go of that which brings us pain.

Great strength is in Love … in sharing it, in growing it. Moving through pain and continuing to bring love to the world despite what it may throw at us … and first and foremost Loving the ‘love of our life’ … our self.

Don’t ever hurt yourself, in cherishing all that you are it will become easier to cherish all else that you see in the world, and to care for every aspect of it.

Just Like The First Time ~

Published August 21, 2018 by tindertender

Lately I’ve been immersing myself in Love … remembering how it felt to be in a world that played these songs every day, and actually lived love. I really believed in love at that time … still do. The impostor, parasite, and killer of that which is good needs to be reigned in. For too long they’ve been allowed to promote harm in this world.

While I feel … while I cry … while I remember the purity of this love … while I recall the truth of it … I envision you doing the same.

It is said that our words live in the hearts and minds of seven generations. I am grateful for the words of those from the 50’s, 60′ 70’s and even some of the 80’s. They say we will return to the world we give the youth. It seems many doors have been closed and the individuals ability and power for transformation forgotten. My hope is there will be a rebirth, a quick one, in which memories from recent past ignite and take flight, swooping across lands, eliminating darkness and pain.

There are those who wait for your knowledge, the experience you’ve cultivated. Share wisdom with them, encourage harmonious action, inspire courage. A time for victory  and peace is on the horizon. It is not created from ‘war’, but from the refusal of it.

The more you can appreciate your achievements and quickly free your spirit once again to go on, the less the world will have to challenge your position. Move, grow, continue your journey of self-awareness. Debilitating doubts creep in at every level, stagnating the flow. Dance on them. Lift yourself to new heights. You have the energy and experience to do so.

Your protection is your ever-expanding vision that comes to include the good of all. This is a shield against jealousy and greed. Set your spirit free.

Remember … you are not what others think of you. You are the words you allow to dwell in your mind. Listen, observe, trust not words alone, but the power behind them. Listen to the essence of what is being spoken. Your inner sense knows the truth. Learn its way. Listen with your whole body.

And Love breathes new life into everything.

Energetic Keys of Restoration

Published August 10, 2018 by tindertender
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Photo by Katy Belcher

It is tempting to focus on the path others are on, however energy given to these things only fortifies their purpose and goals. Rather, pull your mind back from them, gather your energy to yourself, balance it … then emit it out into the fields which you desire in this world.

Most of us long for peace, safety, and a life filled with enough. Some others long for chaos, the power to instill fear in humans and animals, and stealing the ‘enough’ from people so they have a glutenous horde of wealth.

You can see from looking in the recent past where energies are focused. The news guides minds to the path they wish for them to take, energy is focused there, and then they win … time and time again.

Creator Soul ~ this is your world. Do not allow the parasite to feed off you any longer. Claim your power. Focus, with intention, that which is yours for creation. Use your word, your heart, your energies, and your action. Compassion, care, love and joy are all possible realities and can be grown in abundance just as, and more so, that those things we have seen promulgated.

This land IS your land, this galaxy IS your galaxy, this life IS your life … and through sharing and caring and recognizing yourself … your pain and suffering, joy and happiness … in others, you recognize what it truly means to be family.

The rest follows, as union is made and creation amplified.

Choice is your power, and your Will enforces it.

And so it is …

Lilith ~ Can’t Get You Out Of My Mind

Published July 30, 2018 by tindertender

LilithI can’t get Lilith out of my mind. I think of how she must have felt when a mere man behaved as though she were less than he, attempting to keep her under his thumb, ordering her around as though she were his puppet. I have lived life and experienced this myself! And I do not blame her one bit for telling him to go screw himself.  And I don’t blame her for being angry … for that ‘man’ caused her to lose her home, and her children.

I imagine she would like to return.

If you ask how Lilith herself, the first wife of Adam, became evil, the answer lies in her insubordination to her husband Adam. It is her independence from Adam, her position beyond the control of a male, that makes her “evil.”

Ever wonder who created all these ‘stories’ religions preach about? Ever wonder why the woman is seen as less valuable than dirt? Responsible for everything that has gone sour in this world? Who do you suppose planted this poison in minds?

According to the “first Eve” story Lilith was created by God from dust and placed to live in the garden with Adam until problems arose between Adam and Lilith when Adam tried to exercise dominance over Lilith … 

Lilith fled the Garden of Eden to gain her independence. Adam told God that Lilith had left and God sent three angels, SenoiSansenoi, and Sammangelof, to retrieve her. The three angels found Lilith in a cave bearing children but Lilith refused to come back to the garden. The angels told her they would kill 100 of her children every day for her disobedience.

Can you just imagine being in her position?

The ultimate betrayal! How is it that what is good for one is not good for the other? Who dreamed up this out of balance wheel that has been turning this ‘life’ since time began? It’s no wonder chaos has nearly ended everything.

Perhaps there is still time to make it right. Perhaps it is possible to heal the wound(s) that have haunted this planet for it’s entire existence.

http://witcombe.sbc.edu/eve-women/7evelilith.html
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lilith
https://www2.kenyon.edu/Depts/Religion/Projects/Reln91/Power/lilith.htm

Flying High

Published July 27, 2018 by tindertender

Drama can be extremely tiring! I wonder why so many people wish to instill the feeling of inadequacy and insufficiency in others. Could it be they are damaged and must try to tear down the world around them?

Overcoming doubt is not a challenge for the faint of heart. A fierceness must be lived, but in balance with a gentleness which can only be ‘cured’ by the experience of dismay and disappointment.

How does one unbind the self?

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Photo by Daniel Curran

Shedding beliefs that have been embedded in the psyche isn’t easy. Words spoken by others play in the mind like an old worn out record, memories fade but never really disappear. For most of us what we hear about ourselves plays over and over, so often, that one day it may be mistaken for an actual personal thought or belief.

From my perspective, the best way to ‘combat’ living memories which spawn emotional charges is to counter them with positive responses, new phrases created by self. I have challenged these memories which have lived in my mind for so long and am pleased to notice clean thoughts of my inner house are multiplying while the ‘others’ fade.

Balance is coming along nicely and I plan on enjoying every minute of it. Of course there are moments which spring up where the emotional energies are a bit amped. But right away, or nearly so, it settles and an even flow remains. Maybe this is the true work of humans in life … Learning to manage the flow of energies while in the densest of forms … for once this form changes, the spigot will be in the ON position, all the time.

Too often humans are willing to embrace and absorb anything negative, however when something of a positive nature crosses the path, it is met by a blockage in the consciousness. Walls are constructed everywhere … in the mind, between countries, in our languages (communication). A great effort must be made to soften and become open and receptive to all things which align with love.

Gifting each other gentleness which requires no return is a natural skill we brought with us when we entered this world. Something dwelling here sets about stripping this purity from the memory, and usually doesn’t take long to set up camp, constructing more of the same destructive mechanisms … planting them in the brain, over-riding the original message we came with.

Living in this environment is not for whimps … and none of us are, for we have prevailed against some very strong forces and are beginning to shine so brightly once again.

Pause, and enjoy this truth as you study your experiences of the last 10 or 20 years and more. Remember, there is always time to take the next step, to grow seeds of peace, to unite with others on similar paths. Sharing wisdom and courage and strength with each other will help everyone involved realize their potential quicker.

Potential … what do you see when you think of that word? Are you envisioning something as big as the world, beneficial for all? Have you learned to see as the eagle does?

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Photo by Mathew Schwartz
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