All posts tagged Fear


Published March 15, 2021 by tindertender

In The Four Agreements, Ruiz writes about the domestication of the human by means of punishment and reward. “The domestication is so strong that at a certain point in our lives we no longer need anyone to domesticate us”, Ruiz explains and lays out how we create a comfort zone of lies to uphold this domestication. We rather go in denial, he suggests, than giving up the lie which would mean death. The solution? According to Ruiz, we agreed to the domestication and lies. Hence, the way out is new agreements.

The first agreement: Be impeccable with your word. Speak from love, integrity, joy, harmony. No self rejection. No self judgement.


Fear and Love

Published January 19, 2021 by tindertender

Let me quickly tell you something about fear and LOVE

The Cellular Memory and Imprint of Fear

Throughout the annals of Western history, you have passed down an imprint of fear. When Family of Light incarnated over two thousand years ago, they were adepts of Light and Love, capable of many miraculous feats, and those in authority felt threatened. They did not want these teachings brought to the masses, and so there were many opposing factions from the beginning. (*The Pleiadians say “Family of Light” are system busters who travel through time to systems in need of change, helping facilitate the collapse of the system.)

The Roman Empire was the Piscean version of the New World Order — a karmic parallel of the Aquarian Age. Both orders, old and new, offer the possibility for a domineering, world-conquering force. When you manage people, you must first convince them they need managing. So they create the problems and then let the people cry for solutions. Fear is distributed throughout the land — not love. Fear has a very powerful vibration, and when one holds fear in the body it transmits everywhere rather quickly with the same “catchiness” as love.

There was a battle over love and fear. If love had prevailed, then the people would have understood their higher powers: the ability of the human mind to transcend the body, to astral travel, and to feel connected to All That Is. If that had occurred, then humans would have ended their separation.

Well it was not to be. In the last two thousand years, you have moved deeper into separation rather than deeper into unity and love. Fear won. If you question this conclusion, we ask you to open the fan of history and see how many people have died in the name of a higher power.

How many books have been burned and how many people have been raped and tortured? How many indigenous lands have been wiped out and ancient manuscripts destroyed?

And What About Love?

You have all been touched by love at least once in your lives, and many of you come here over and over again just to experience love. When you find what is important to you, what is worth accruing, and list your values, we ask you to reflect for a moment:

How important is love? Love comes in many many flavors and experiences. Love is the heart opening through an energetic connection between electrical fields that unites people, touching you in a way that never leaves you.

We see over and over again that what moves you forward is this invisible force, this frequency that is called love. However some of you believe you are here to experience, to learn, to gather data, and to have a good time, and the importance of love is news to you. There is nothing wrong with these assumptions. Yet understanding the frequency of love is your ultimate lesson in living. To manifest it, all you have to do is feel it.

You must begin to manage yourselves as biological spiritual beings. Love is one of your major tools to living. How free you are with it, how self-generating and responsible, is the lesson that you have come into life to learn.

You know when you feel love it is quite contagious, is it not? Love spreads quite easily and is the opposite of fear. If you reflect upon fear and are truly honest with yourselves, you will see that many of the ideas instilled in you through your ancestral lineage, books, and history, are about fear. You are encouraged to be afraid of God and your bodies. You are convinced you must have an authority outside yourselves because you are not capable of managing your own biological beings. And now you are being convinced that even your local governments cannot manage you, that you need a larger global government to manage your world.

Limited thinking, encouraged and taught to your ancestors, is imprinted in the cells of your body. Your ancestors’ responses to these teachings over thousands of years, and to the times in which they lived — their reactions to violence, laws, and authority — were imprinted in their bodies in the course of daily living. Everything you deal with in daily living is recorded and stored in your physical body, and just because you do not consciously remember your experiences does not mean the cells of your body forget. Memories and responses to living are passed through your genes from one generation to another.

Love is The Great Solution

Your great solution, no matter what is occurring, is to love yourself and vibrate that frequency outside yourself. Doing so will allow many doors to open, and likewise many unwanted probabilities will simply pass you by, like a bird on the wing.

Today you are faced with a recurring opportunity. Imprinted in the consciousness of humankind are the experiences of all of your ancestors. When the ages shift, a great opportunity is at hand, so what will you do about it? Will you claim your power? Will you claim what is in your genes?

If you reach further back in your mind, you might remember another calendar point… about thirteen thousand years ago on the precession calendar, another important time of enlightenment occurred. It was a time when power was to be understood, a time that you yourselves remember as the final collapse of a very old civilization, a royal age unable to manifest because it was based on selfishness. No one in Atlantis counted love as their most important value.

Contemplate what their experience, thirteen thousand years ago, suggests to you. The Atlanteans were savvy with their technological skills, and they too understood the ether as an invisible spirit world, a world to travel into and to bring energies from. They understood the power of crystals and the power of the mind. More than that, they understood mind control, for the ability to control another human’s mind reaches deep into time. You seem to have developed your own perfections of it in late-twentieth-century Earth; however this practice dates back into the early annals of existence, as some already know and remember.

Your world may appear baffling. You may feel that there is so much to integrate, and wonder: How can I make sense of it all? You can. You will. You must. You are here to chart foreign territory and to pioneer an unnamed opportunity. By doing so you can truly discover one of your greatest abilities: that you are creators.

You are not victims. You are not flawed. You do not need authorities. And no one needs to save you. You do not need to memorize anything from books. You must learn to use the power of your will and your intent to discover the great flowering and blossoming of life that is occurring in your Now.

Your world is marketed for separation, for meaningless living; with all the sins, heavens, and hells, it is a wonder anyone wants to be born any more. However, love is here in a form that is beyond what you can ever experience any place else.

Source: @Karina89350882

Time to Practice Self Care

Published January 19, 2021 by tindertender

When things are appearing to be really dire on the external, please remember that things are not at all what they seem to be. Right now, we are in the height of false flags, agent provocateur, controlled opposition, blatant lies and falsity, deep fake videos and every propaganda tool they can come up with to keep the public confused and terrorized.

It is important to keep an open mind, learn how to become more flexible and adaptable to spontaneous changes of perception, and to stay calm, peaceful and in the observer consciousness. This is a momentous time for human liberation, but we will need to become more discerning and become aware that the propaganda machine is military grade warfare used to target us with demoralizing fears.

Do not succumb to the fear, work your spiritual tools, pray and meditate, realizations of betrayal may be prevalent so this is the time for radical self-care and knowing your limits, while supporting loved ones and friends as best we can.

Source: @Karina89350882


Published January 18, 2021 by tindertender

As long as you don’t have fear, you are invincible.

If our education was of any use, children would be taught how to be fearless, and how to connect with their inner self. Instead, the education system does the opposite.

Your level of fear is equal to your failure rate.

The universe doesn’t waste talents.

Once you are able to accomplish more spiritually, the challenges that will be loosened against you will be more.

Thus, you won’t have a choice but to level up.

The more we align ourselves to our true Source nature, the easier it is for the Sourceless beings to identify us and launch more surgical attacks.

The war doesn’t get easier as we awaken, it gets more lethal.

To add misery to injury, religion is also a field where fear is cultivated, instead of being eliminated.

So, tell me, who owns religion?

Your guess is as good as mine.

Source: https://twitter.com/chieflord999?s=21



Published December 14, 2020 by tindertender

AND FREEING ONESELF FROM OPPRESSION. Good evening, old and new friends. Tonight, due to the things taking place in the world, I’m going to leave our discussion on health and start a new discussion on what drives oppression.

As we’ve discussed before, in addition to “anchoring light,” simply by incarnating here on Earth, lightworkers have four primary tasks: To lead, protect, teach and heal Humanity. As part of leadership and teaching, it is important for us, as a team, to understand “Oppression.”

What is oppression? Oppression has three main definitions. First of all, it is the state of being under mental pressure or distress. Secondly, it can be the state of being subjected to unjust treatment or control. Or, it can be prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control.

When we discuss oppression, I will mostly be referring to the third definition: the prolonged cruel, or unjust treatment or control of people. Can you think of situations affecting some part of the human (or lightworker) experience that meets this definition?

We don’t really need to look too hard to see that many of those around us are suffering right now. Millions of families are losing their homes, because they lost jobs and income. Millions of souls are unhoused, living on the streets, not knowing when they will eat again.

These types of situations are obvious oppression. But the less obvious, misunderstood type of oppression is what Jesus, in his service mission, fought over 2000 years ago: Oppression by organized religion and by governments.

When we all committed to come and serve Humanity on this planet, we committed to do our best to teach “Unity Consciousness,” where every soul is valued and cared for, despite their situation, and every soul is represented by their government.

In Unity Consciousness, no one dies because they can’t afford medical care–the community provides care and heals them as part of their commitment to each other. No one goes hungry, even if they cannot provide food for themselves.

But here on modern-day Earth, people are taught to hate and fear the homeless, the immigrant, the refugees, and the hungry. How did this ever happen? Why haven’t we been able to establish Unity Consciousness on Earth?

There was a scholar named Dr. Howard Thurman (1900-1981), a Black man who was mentored by Mahatma Ghandi, and who went on to mentor Dr. Martin Luther King. Dr. Thurman wrote a book called JESUS AND THE DISINHERITED.

In that book, Dr. Thurman discussed Jesus’s mission–to serve the “disinherited”–the oppressed–members of the jewish society of his day. As we know, Jesus actually taught the Law of One, although he did not call it that. He did that to try to help the Jews to free themselves.

Dr. Thurman noted that in the time of Jesus, as was the case in Dr. Thurman’s lifetime, and still today, there are three awful things that are used to oppress people, which he called, “The Hounds of Hell.”

The Hounds of Hell were not dogs, but are three things that politicians and organized religion and other people and organizations use to oppress people. The Hounds are FEAR, HYPOCRISY, AND HATRED.

One of the reason Humanity is oppressed, as a soul group, and many of us along with them, is that we adopt the oppressive language of our oppressors–the Hounds of Hell–which divides us and makes us hate each other, rather than serve each other. Then, we can be controlled.

Another popular weapon to divide and oppress us are conspiracy theories. Although many people today think conspiracy theories are fairly new, since the last century, they’ve been happening since the time of Atlantis. Conspiracy theories use all three Hounds of Hell to oppress.

And in using the Hounds of Hell–Hypocrisy, Hatred, and Fear–conspiracy theorists don’t inform of actual facts, but lead people to believe the absurdities that will be used to get them to commit atrocities, as we have discussed before.

I told you a few months ago about my lifetime where I served as a Jew in one of the concentration camps of the Third Reich. The Third Reich came to power because of conspiracy theories, where the Jews, and monsters, and demons, were blamed for all the problems in German society.

The essence of any conspiracy theory is always the same–that one group of people, or perhaps two, are the root of all evil in society, and by getting rid of them, we can end the evils of society. Does this sound familiar to you now?

The thing that is the most sad about the Third Reich is that many lightworkers added to the power of those conspiracy theories that resulted in the deaths of 6 million innocent people. Lightworkers tend to get caught up in conspiracy theories more than souls of human origin.

On this planet, since soul group Humanity voted for the “Duality” system (which provides the most opportunities for developing either Service to Self or Service to Others polarity), all of the groups targeted by the Hounds of Hell are providing service opportunities to humanity.

The homeless, for example, are providing opportunities to develop either polarity. By ignoring them and their needs, and blaming them on a politician, we can easily develop Service to Self polarity.

Or, we can serve them–provide them with shelter, mental health and addiction counseling, food, clothing–and develop Service to Others polarity. The homeless agreed to teach the rest of us hard lessons in this incarnation.

I ask you to consider what you think about when you see a homeless person, or a refugee, or a person of religious beliefs you don’t understand. What comes to your mind? Do you find yourself afraid, or hating them, or wishing for an outcome you would not accept for yourself?

Have you, as a lightworker, adopted the Hounds of Hell talk of our oppressors, thrown out to scare people into voting for a particular individual? Have you been taught by oppressors to fear providing medical care to those who can’t otherwise afford it, or food, or shelter?

All of us, with our responsibility to lead and teach Humanity, have to always question what we are thinking, and examine whether we have adopted the language of Humanity’s oppressors, the Fear, Hatred and Hypocrisy, or whether we are teaching Unity Consciousness.

When billionaires are supported with favorable public policy, who pay their employees so little that the employees have to go on public assistance, we are helping to oppress Humanity if we are not speaking out for the oppressed employees who work, but still can’t buy food.

Unity Consciousness is so different than what we are living with on this planet. There is one lightworker for every seven souls of Human origin on this planet. We have the voice, we have the understanding to help Humanity turn things around to Unity Consciousness.

But first we have to go through every thought we personally have, and see if it supports the Hounds of Hell, or whether it supports Unity Consciousness. Oppression has affected all of us while we’ve been here. It’s time for us to shed the energy of oppression.

I ask you to consider what you accept from the talking heads in politics and religion and other groups. Hear what they are advocating for, and whether it will lead Humanity to Unity Consciousness, or to more misery and lack of positive growth. Speak out. Speak up!

Your voice as a leader is needed now, more than ever. But first, you have to sort through every thought, and make sure you are leading the right direction–towards unity, not following the Hounds of Hell.

As we teach the Law of One–love, forgiveness, and nonjudgment for ourselves and each other–we will defeat the Hounds of Hell, and those who speak those words. We will lead, as we came to do, showing Humanity a better way, just as Jesus and the Buddha tried to do.

The fact that you came to this planet shows that you have the strength to help Humanity turn things around, during this, their Ascension Transition period. You can do it, if you change your own thinking first, and reject the language of the oppressors.

The next six weeks is a critical period for Humanity. A lot can happen if the Hounds of Hell become more powerful and accepted, and Humanity becomes more and more divided. Please step forward and defeat the fear, hatred, and hypocrisy with your own voice of LOVE and UNITY.

Please go to the website, at loveandlightworks.com, and read about how to pull more Fifth Dimensional energy down and ground it into the planet. This is really critical right now, along with examining each thought and action.

I am honored to serve among all of you. You are all amazing beings of light, serving in one of the toughest places in the entire galaxy. Together, there is nothing we can’t do, if we work on, and fix ourselves, first. Much love, my friends.

Source: https://twitter.com/archangelamongu?s=21

A Beautiful Place

Published July 22, 2020 by tindertender

I astral travelled last night with a group of souls. We came upon a body of water and the others began to play in it.

I said, “Don’t put your feet in the water.”

This, I believe, was a fear response due to a previous visit, where I saw people being placed on mounds in the river, and being eaten by slimy, ball shaped life forms I can only call ‘alien’ who LOVE the salt from humans.

I am uncertain if this was the same place … it may not have been, only the memory may have been present.

Just as I said this, the ‘veil’ came up and I awoke.

Fear is a dis-ease.

In the waking world I am surrounded by it, as are all of you. Many are immersed in it, with little hope of extracting themselves, because they cannot see the cage that has been placed over their minds.

In the waking world I seem to do fine.

In the astral, I’m not so sure.

Life is so much bigger than the seen …

Let us embrace it, and heal it, for self, for others … for ALL who live … in all life’s forms.

Let it begin with me.

Photo: https://unsplash.com/@andersipsen


Published May 10, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: decodingthehive –dot- info | 5/10/20

I want you to take a long hard look at this picture because this is the reason “aliens” don’t want to talk to you. Not a joke, but for real.

I know, because I don’t just know them, I’ve known them, personally, for years. OFF-planet beings, not this nonsense of “Pleiadeans” acting like they come from that constellation when in fact they’ve been sequestered right here, underground, for eons and eons of time during Tara Urth Quarantine – hiding from surface “human” man and hiding their higher technology that could have stemmed this tide many times over by now. I mean from the actual beings who have absolutely the last word on what happens or doesn’t happen on this planet.


Fear isn’t just a matter of being weak in the knees when surprised by a tiger in the jungle, it is a condition brought on by millions of years of being tricked and subjugated so many times they have officially lost their way and now succumb to the notion they are no longer gods, but actually physical bodies walking around entirely by happenstance alone as if evolution -you know, that incredibly insane myth that DNA alters itself to suit its surroundings and magically somehow just grows a different and secondary set of lungs or develops the ability to produce real fusion light in the absolute darkness they live in at the bottom of sea- that kind of evolution supposedly just changes all on its own. The hysterical, illogical and often infantile notion that genetics actually works this way. Let me tell you now, it doesn’t and let me remind you right now that you are no more a body than you are a plant.

You were never “born”. That concept is equally deluded. You WERE. You ARE. And you will always, always BE.

Read that last sentence again, because if there was ever one thing I’ve ever tried to pass along to this evolution is that. You. Are. God.


You CHOSE to come into YOUR OWN CREATION to see what it was like to touch someone, something, anything. Something cold. Something “wet”. Something “material”, because where you come from there is NO SUCH THING as anything cold, wet or material. At all. There is only awareness.

And that gets damn old damn fast.

Especially to an awareness that has a clock speed millions of times that of the processor you call your human brain right now while you are in total lockdown, total isolation and total enslavement.

Let me make this one thing extremely clear right now, if you are willing to be so fearful of manifesting IN YOUR OWN CREATION that you are willing to wear a personal tent to protect you from YOUR OWN CREATION, you have just stepped over that edge where you are literally, in real life, giving away what we would refer to as your “crown”. You know, that thing that is supposed to herald a birth rite, a possession or what is secretly called your ESTATE as a living, breathing embodiment of the all-powerful, all-knowing, ever present creator god. That is creator with a lower-case, ABSOLUTE OMNIPOTENCE LETTER c and a lower case and equally OMNIPOTENT (look that word up right now) letter g.

I am nearly finished with this mission and will soon be out of your hair forever. But before I go I will do everything in my power to convey to you this one thing: you made everything you see before you.

You imagined it, studied it, engineered it, made prototypes of it, then you rebuilt it, then you rebuilt it again.

And again.

And again for millions, billions and trillions of times until it finally worked like what you see before you today. To say that mankind hasn’t even the faintest, SLIGHTEST notion of what the human body actually is, what the flora world actually is or the fauna actually took to bring into “creation” (holographic, 100% PROJECTED LIGHT) “reality” is a rudimentary understatement.


YOU have NOTHING to fear being here in manifest form because you CAN. NEVER. DIE. You will only take another shape. Another form. But like all “energy”, you simply change shape into your next journey. The next odyssey. The next ADVENTURE. But what you will never do is fall victim to “life”. Awareness. Presence. Because simply put; “you will never cease to be aware. Ever.”

Because where it is you come from doesn’t have beginnings or endings, there is only the now. And now has always existed and will always exist with a different sunrise (IF YOU INVENT IT) and a different sunset (IF YOU PAINT THAT PICTURE) because YOU willed that from before any creature ever moved. Any sunrise or sunset ever existed. The TEMPLATE that you gave the “cosmeias” was that it would be forever adapting, changing and refreshing itself so the boredom of simply awareness would never overcome you again.

And THAT is what this WHOLE THING has been about since DAY ONE as far as “time” ever goes back: There HAS to be a spark of life in order to keep anyone -even a human who uses less than 10% of their own brain- from ever experiencing boredom and nothingness ever again.

This is a DRAMA folks. It was never EVER about “spiritual perfection” or “ultimate wisdom”, it has always been about entertainment. That’s why when you put a wooden spoon in the hands of a toddler he is thrilled for hours. Or when you place a car under his seat when he comes of age he is thrilled for years. Always extending excitement relative to the education and preparation of his awareness while within limited manifestation.


Where a god LIMITS her senses. LIMITS her abilities and LIMITS her awareness down to 1/1728th of her actual capabilities in order to create a sense of ANTICIPATION.

There is NO SUCH THING as something more exciting than anticipation. I don’t care if you’re talking about wine, women, song or m$ny, nothing compares to a creator god’s ability to imagine the most outrageous, intense and utterly mind-blowing scenarios that come from anticipation.


So you can just forget all about the spiritual bullshit right now, because I am telling you after 16,000 hours on this non-stop train from hell to wake up Indigos and humans to prepare for the shift that is RIGHT NOW IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE that I’ve never one time heard the term “spirituality” from the being you have called god since the first day you stepped onto this playing field. Not one time I can recall now. What I HAVE heard about so often as to become mind-numbing though has been things like “taking self-responsibility” and “standing in one’s own authenticity” and being forthright, fair, just and honest and treating this planet and all living things with honor and respect above all else because every single tree branch, every snowflake, raindrop, desert, forest and field and EVERY FACE you have ever seen has been your own reflection against the looking glass.

That bully in school, your best friend that stabbed you in the back in jr high, your closest buddy you gave up everything to throw in with on his new venture that he wound up screwing you on – as well as every waterfall, sunset and breathtaking moment you have ever shared- has been…. you.

You, god. You creator. You the ONE I AM that brought all things into existence with the vibration of your word. You did that. And when I tell you that YOU DID THAT, you can know this one thing:

I would never, under ANY CIRCUMSTANCES mislead you about this, because I am tied hip-and-waist to you and YOUR FUTURE for the rest of what you can deem as “eternity” if I fail to get my message across authentically and ethically while you are within this last and final Stellar Activation Cycle, or the very last time while you are within your current personality or “flavor” of being you will ever know. If you fail this transition and you were ready and heard this voice, then I fail right beside you.


So you can call this selfish if you want to, my trying so hard to get you that one final message or spark for you that one last inspiration if you like. But from what I’ve been told (and I do mean face-to-face with the being who brought you into this current manifestation), this is a good thing and not a self-service because it is in harmony or in so many words sympathetic harmonic resonance with the grand scheme of the aether. Helping you that helps me is very much a win-win in all things related to an evolution. At least this is exactly how I understand her message to be.

So now that I have spoken and revealed to your local fb cops where that message is coming from, you can expect a couple of things. One, this group will likely be taken over by their in-house team that has every reason to stop you from ever understanding that it was YOU who designed and created this world and the rest of the cosmeias, and two, in that event this may be the last message you’re ever allowed to hear from me. We can only wait and see which hand they choose to play.

I came to you 7 years ago with one message: to understand that you created everything you think is material existence and you will never, not now, not tomorrow, not 100 trillion years from now, ever, ever die.

I have given everything in this world to bring you that message. My home, family members who I haven’t seen one of since the day I abandoned my old reality immediately after that moment, all my possessions down to 2 suitcases from a sprawling estate that would take a month to move out of, my patents and claims on products now in circulation around the world and spent 2 solid years living out of a car and eventually a little trailer that didn’t have so much as a bathroom or shower, dying and being brought back to life in replacement bodies 3x in order to bring you this. I would mislead or lie to you exactly the same time I succumbed to forced vaccination: not in the coldest day in hell.

This is all about to be over folks. Make no mistake. The pawns have all been sacrificed, the Bishops, Castles and Rooks taken and all that is left now are the final few squares on this chessboard that will be referred to for millennia and eons across time as one of the most epic, traumatic and eventful evolutions to ever come into being in the history of all things. You will more than likely witness that transition, because it will be far sooner than man may ever expect. Label me insane now, write this off as delusion, but make no mistake, you are now down to the final wire of your experience as Gai Urth Tarans. That is about to change to either Aqueous Sun Tarans or Weasadek Phantom Matrix Antiparticle Tarans. Take your pick.

Like the fraternity I have worked with since contact, the IAFW, my deepest desire is to see you make this grade. If you have been sitting on the fence about decoding the hive or mission guide, I would suggest you give this another thought. The resonant tone of fear in the human body vibrates at exactly the same Hertz as the metagalactic black hole that has been recorded and measured by science that vanquishes and deletes life. The answers to what that is has been covered so exhaustively in the human handbook series that there is nothing left for me to write other than good luck. This is the transition. If you want to make it, you will stop the fear and welcome your next level.


Be STRONG and be well.

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