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Does Fear Of The Unknown Rule Your World?

Published February 11, 2019 by tindertender

The future is built from choices made today. If these choices are made out of fear, then the future will be built upon fear. Rather, make conscious choice to build the future based on decisions coming from a place of love, compassion and care … for self, embraced by peaceful intention.

Being aware of different ‘cycles’ of communication while not getting intertwined with the ‘story’ is key to understanding any situation. Observation is crucial in order to make a decision based on knowledge, rather than the emotion these different ‘cycles’ can bring up. There is no need to understand the story (often these stories are not understandable anyway), only what the cycles are, if they change, or if it is a repetitive way of being.

Make a choice. Do the cycles you find yourself enmeshed in cause you joy, or frustration? I’ve heard that if the frustration outweighs the possibilities of something worse, one should just live with it. Hhhmmmm … living with a constant state of frustration doesn’t sound all that appealing. It certainly is not all that healthy either.

This is an example of making decisions based on fear … fear of “what if”. What if it’s the wrong decision? Perhaps the crap isn’t as crappy as it feels. What if what comes after leaves one feeling even crappier?

Life … in this current awareness, we have one. Sure, a person could stay in a frustrating or abusive situation out of fear of the unknown. A person may start to dislike themselves for not having the courage to face their fears. The heart begins to wither, self-worth deteriorates, and then comes self-harming habits … drinking too much, or anything else that could cause further damage. Then death arrives and the obvious comes to mind … You haven’t even lived, or even tried.

Just the thought of this is depressing!

Action, or inaction. Choice is always ours. Action can be put into motion, or stagnation and a drowning in the norm can be. You have probably already experienced your soul screaming for change at one point or another. I know I have, and it’s happening right now.

Secret Balance, No Secret At All

Published November 1, 2018 by tindertender

Someday I would like to learn to play these and purchase my own. To sit in the wilderness, seemingly alone, and play would be so wonderful!

What holds a person back from doing what they wish to do?

Issue: Remember to hold on to your dreams, even through adversity. Develop faith in yourself and in spiritual power. Trust is important. You must trust your own leadership abilities, or improve them. Do not be afraid ~ you were born for this.

Challenge: Build love of self from the inside out. Fear is born because of a lack of self-love and acceptance. Without a healthy love of self, we reduce our personal power, often falling into petty jealousies, judging our bodies, and numbing our minds.

Solution: Healthy fierceness is required. Strengthen your physical body. Walk forward in pride and know that you can fight any battle. You need to strike a balance between masculine and feminine.

Make it a point not to get too wrapped up in the physical. Life is so much bigger than that! While our energies are ‘tied’ to physical form, we have the ability to transcend this flesh … through meditation, through the beauty of music, art, and nature, through conscious choice to embody love, care, and compassion, for self and others, including all of the animals of this world, including the earth itself.

Have you ever experienced a moment of giving so purely that it seemed your body disappeared? Have you sang on stage and felt all faded, leaving you there glowing from the inside out? Have you cared so deeply for another that you yourself seemed to fade?

A balance is needed in giving and receiving, in fight and in flight, as well as in standing ground … peaceful, yet watchful and aware.

This existence is connected to other life, not only that which you can see, but also that which you can sense. Acknowledge this and you will be magnified, your world will grow wider, and more free.

Personal Boundaries

Published September 14, 2018 by tindertender
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Photo by Nathaniel Flowers

Childhood teaches us to behave in a certain manner. How often we allow our own personal thoughts and ideas to be superseded by others … it is trained behavior.

Some of us do not live long enough to come to this realization. Sometimes the fact that our inner voice becomes just that, inner, is when identity becomes lost, or skewed. Trying to please those around us all of the time, it can be noted that the one we will spend the rest of our lives with (our self) loses the battle, and is shoved into a closet while the world on the outside is catered to.

What are your boundaries? Those created through training from others are only habits, a practiced manner of being. Habits are meant to be broken, especially if they do not honor self.

I had an experience with a friend recently, a friend I love dearly. I’m still trying to figure out if I’m overly sensitive (a story fed me day after day in youth) or if my reaction and response to certain things is warranted. I tell myself I would not have had a reaction at all if there were nothing wrong. Yet at the same time, miscommunication, or lack of it, is often the culprit behind misunderstandings.

Our language is so complex. There are many ‘short-hand’ ways of speaking to each other, but to one who is learning the language, it may be quite confusing. (No reference whatsoever to my friend). I have been told by some that the way we speak leaves out much detail of what is really happening in our mind, therefore the listener cannot possibly understand properly, no fault of their own.

It is easier to walk away from someone than to try and hash out misconceptions. Old triggers, once flipped, can shut doors for a lifetime … indeed have already shut many doors. How can doors be opened if speech is so frivolously tossed about?

This may be the cause of many of the issues we face in the world today. For all the schooling we’ve received there is a profound lack in the ability to be clear with one another, as adults, speaking exactly what we mean.

Boundaries … it could be that triggers get flipped and life goes on, simply bringing to our attention a wound, or lack of thought going into a process, allowing us to try to do it better next time around … and there will always be a next time … faces may change, but situations will come ’round again.

If we find a friend who is willing to work with us as we delve deep to unravel those strings and unhinge the hooks which keep us trapped in hurtful scenarios, then we ought to hold onto them … should they wish to hang around, doing their own work, reciprocating healing to old stories.

War Among People

Published June 29, 2018 by tindertender
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Early morning … I begin typing before I get sucked in to the negativity of the world … it seems this is the news our audio/visual programming wishes for us. The energies created when these stories are told and heard is huge and unsettling … the nerves are raw, raw emotion boils in the mind and something must be done about it!

Although it is tempting to point at this and/or that and state, “You must stop! You must change!”, this frame of mind only solidifies the fact that many are not looking within their own character to see what in their life needs changing, what attitudes they are putting into the world which need altering.

Honestly the change we wish to see in the world begins in our own heart and if we go at it in a warring like manner, that is what is created.

Today, I will not watch world news … it is quite clear there is war brewing among the people. Today I will not participate (or at least give it a go …).

Letting Go Is Never Easy

Published May 5, 2018 by tindertender
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My entire life has been spent listening to people tell me the details of what is wrong with me. It’s like being slapped over and over again, just for being me.

I have listened to people tell me I have no capacity for peace, or truth. I’ve heard them say I lack the necessary skills for this or for that. I’ve had them horde knowledge like it is gold that they refuse to share.

They say if I changed, didn’t say ‘this’ or do ‘that’, then things could be different. There are so many people who think I should be something other that I am.

It is this judgement, this tearing down of a person that is so injurious to the world. We are all guilty of it, if not now, then at some point.

It is difficult to stand tall while being hit with the barrage of negativity. They say they are trying to help me be better, but in reality, they only want me to bend to their will and accept their judgement. To seek their ‘righteous’ teachings and opinions of who I ought to be.

Trying not to let anger or sorrow cloud my vision and truth, I say so-long, adios. I am glad they find peace in this behavior. They can maintain it … away from me.

River Of Life

Published March 25, 2018 by tindertender

“You can’t do that!” she said, and slapped the cuffs on and hauled her off to jail.

The drug epidemic is huge and many people fall into it’s trap. Hurting so much from the pain they’ve experienced they would do anything to find relief, but most are not equipped with knowledge of healthy techniques to handle it, nor are there meet ups which will help them learn. So they turn to the thing that others in their community may have turned to, a mind altering substance which will numb the pain, and for a moment make them feel better.

The jailer wanted to understand, so she purchased what the young woman had been taking and tried it herself. Little did she know she would then fall into the same trap.

Life is like a river.

River

Sometimes we get carried off by it, tumbled among the current scraping on the rocks at bottom and then churned to the top again. If we work hard, or are thankfully exposed to a method which helps us to see more clearly, we will find ourselves on the bank of the river … watching it flow by while marveling at the beauty and power of it. Yet there comes a time when we may slip off the bank and once more find that we are tossed about in the current of it, and hopefully have the strength to once more make it to the banks. There are others who graduate to flying above the river, seeing life as those tossed and on the banks cannot. They soar above seeing it all. Seemingly they are impervious to the snare, but even they, when diving for fish, can become caught in the raging flow of it and once more have to make their way to the banks, and then to the air.

ALL people start out in the river. Depending on the amount of work one wishes to put forth will depend on the situation they create for themselves. It truly is all about choice from the moment one realizes they are in the river called life.

 

Seven Levels of the Human Energy Field

Published March 23, 2018 by tindertender

The Human Energy Field:  The Vehicle That Carries Your Energy
By: Barbara Ann Brennan, Light Emerging

The human energy field is composed of seven levels. Many people have the erroneous idea that this field is like the layers of an onion. It is not. Each level penetrates through the body and extends outward from the skin. Each successive level is of a “higher frequency” or a “higher octave.”

Each extends out from the skin several inches farther than the one within it of lower frequency. The odd-numbered levels are structured fields of standing, scintillating light beams. The first, third, fifth, and seventh levels of this field are structured in a specific form. The even numbered levels– the second, fourth, and sixth–are filled with formless substance/energy. The second level is like gaseous substance, the fourth is fluid like, and the sixth is like the diffuse light around a candle flame. It is the unstructured level of the energy field that has been related to plasma and dubbed bioplasma.

Remember, these are not scientific terms we use here because experimentation has not yet proven what it is. But for lack of a better term, we shall use the word bioplasma. The bioplasma in all three of the unstructured levels is composed of various colors, apparent density, and intensity. This bioplasma flows along the lines of the structured levels. It correlates directly with our emotions.

The combination of a standing light grid with bioplasma flowing through it holds the physical body together in its form, nurtures it with life energy, and serves as a communication and integration system that keeps the body functioning as a single organism. All of these levels of the human energy field act holographically to influence each other. These levels, or energy bodies as many people call them, cannot be considered less real than our physical body. If all of your energy bodies are strong, charged, and healthy, you will have a full life in all areas of human experience. If your energy field is weak at any level, you will have difficulty having experiences that are associated with that level, and your life experience will be limited. The more levels or bodies that you have developed, the fuller and broader your life experience will be.

We have the tendency to assume that all life experience is the same as it is in the physical dimension. It is not. Rather, life exists on many vibrational levels. Each level is different according to the makeup of energy-consciousness in that level. This gives us a wide variety of life experience from which to learn. The seven levels of the auric field correspond to seven different levels of life experience. Each level is different in vibrational frequency range, intensity, and composition of bio-plasma. Each therefore responds to stimuli according to its makeup. It reminds me of how exciting it was, in applied mathematics, to derive equations of fluid motion under different conditions. I was surprised to see that the same equations worked for air in fluid motion as for water.

The difference was that certain factors in the equations were more influential than others as the medium changed. The same was true for the equations that describe the movement of air close to the surface of the earth and the movement of air higher up. Air movement close to the ground is more influenced by the friction of the trees and shrubs than the air mass above it. as you move up away from the ground, it is necessary to decrease the friction factor in the equation that describes air movement. Results show a shift in direction of air flow. This shift of direction is called the wind shear.

I’m sure you have noticed that clouds at one level usually move in a different direction from the clouds at a higher level. Micrometeorology describes short-distance movements of air in small local conditions that were very different from the macro-movements of air across the oceans, where the motion of the earth comes into play through the Coriolis force. Yet the same equations function for all. Different parts of the equations become more influential with different conditions.

I applied the same ideas and general principles when trying to make sense of auric field interactions.

The energy-consciousness of the auric field flows differently and is influenced by different factors on different levels of the field. That is, the composition of the energy-consciousness of each of the field levels is unique, different from all the other levels. Each responds differently to different factors.

Another way to surmise what is going on is to say that the bioplasma of each level of the field probably has its own frequency range, intensity of charge, and composition. So it most naturally responds to stimuli accordingly. Another type of study, used in astrological as well as earth observations, influenced the way I looked at the auric field. It is common practice for science to build instruments that filter out extraneous wavelengths and then to make observations within only a narrow wavelength band.

Observing the sun in this way yields pictures of the solar atmosphere at different heights. That is how we get pictures of sunspots, or of solar flares, which look very different from the energy deeper within the sun or in its outer layer, the corona. The same principles can be very useful in auric field observations.

By changing one’s HSP (Higher Sense Perception) to different auric vibrational levels, different levels of the auric field become more clearly defined. Once these levels are clearly defined, it is easy to work directly with them. The following description of the configuration of the levels of the auric field, and the life experience associated with each, arises from my observation, study, and experience during twenty years of healing and thirteen years of teaching. The below figure shows the seven levels of the auric or human energy field.

Levels of Energy

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