Emotion

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Energetic Exchange

Published November 17, 2022 by tindertender

I can’t sit still for a movie in the comfort of my own home, let alone at an outdoor game, in a sea of chaotic emotional energy being blasted off people in a very close and intimate atmosphere. Never did get into it.

There are people addicted to the rush they receive at these events. I think that’s why many are so latched to their favorite sports competitors. The chemical stew released by the brain in all the excitement draws them back time and again, and most think they just like the team, or game.

Folks talk about drug and alcohol addictions and now gambling, but one can become addicted to most anything. It amazes me the lack of personal energetic and emotional awareness in people.

It’s always someone else.

Emotional Maturity

Published October 7, 2022 by tindertender

Written by: @Theholisticpsyc

A child who wasn’t able to emotionally develop, becomes the adult who: takes everything personally, is highly defensive, & struggles to voice what they actually feel.

HERE’S WHY

Our emotional development happens beginning at birth & through childhood, where we learn: how to identify and regulate our emotions.

Emotional maturity comes from this process.

In order to learn this, we need to be modeled it by a parent figure.

If we’re raised in a home where we are parentified (made to be the emotional caretaker for a parent), where a parent is too busy or overworked, or where a parents rage or emotional instability runs the climate of the home— we don’t get to emotionally develop.

The sole focus becomes staying safe in the environment.

So, we cope with hypervigilance.

Hypervigilance is the attunement to the environment. Meaning, we sense everyone else’s emotions or shift in facial expressions or behavior.

We know when a parents mood is going to shift & how that will impact us, when we might be blamed or shamed, or when a parent might withdraw from us completely (ie: the silent treatment.)

We learn & adapt quickly to caretaking the emotions of those around us. Or managing those emotions the best we can as children.

Sometimes this is mistaken as empathy— it’s not.

It’s a survival mechanism.

Long term hypervigilance creates nervous system dysregulation.

We become high reactive to those around us because we’ve learned that people are not safe & we must defend ourselves.

Everything feels personal, because at one time in our lives: it was.

With our awareness on the external, this leaves little time for self awareness, self reflection, or emotional regulation.

The result: we are emotionally immature.

Unable to know what we feel, how to express it, or if it’s even ok to feel what we feel (many of us have been shamed for our emotions: “stop being dramatic,” “don’t be so sensitive” “man up.”)

In earliest years we were made responsible for adult emotions.

This is never the role of a child.

Anger

Published September 27, 2022 by tindertender

“Anger makes you stupid” ~ Sister Sufi

Anger also makes you weak … spewing anger is “giving your power away” while hoping the target doesn’t figure it out.

Anger boiled inside of her,
strong and furious.
Reasons to lash out ran thru her head.
Arguments not to, countered them.
Tension, frustration and tears filled her.
And then the words came…
“my soul is my own.”
Suddenly the target of her anger lost its
power.
She would give it no more.
She turned away
and moved towards her Light.

—Terri St. Cloud

A Witness

Published April 10, 2022 by tindertender

I Am A Witness.

My life mission was “To learn as much as I can, about as much as I can.”

I didn’t really understand it.

I was put into many dark places.

I saw it all, I was in the thick of it. I WAS it.

Then 20 years ago my awareness of this unseen spiritual battle was birthed.

I became a witness for various places in the astral, dark places, places of cruelty. There was a lack of conscience in the people who did cruel things.

I’ve been to other planetary systems, I stood with the people there. I witnessed their world, and they in it.

I’ve been having trouble this morning over something said to me yesterday. I’ve actually been raging inside. I’ve thrown up my hands and determined astral/angelic family is no different than human family.

I’ve been so upset, cussing and spewing at the angelics and astral family. I’ve emotionally disconnected and become sick inside with disappointment.

I’ve quieted now, after 3 hours of spewing. And a thought form entered mind ….

“The only thing that has changed is your perspective.”

Now I have to study that ….

Emotions and Frequency

Published April 3, 2022 by tindertender

Fear, in scientific terms, is a VLF sonic vibration which means “very low frequency”. It is a cationic (in fail) vibration that keeps one locked into “starve mode” in terms of energy.

Joy on the other hand, produces what is known as a UHF oscillation signature which means Ultra High Frequency.

One of the biggest secrets there is, the closest-guarded key to happiness is the fact that the muscles in the human face are connected to your endorphin glands.

All you need to do is push down the corners of your mouth to trick your brain into thinking you’re sad to release what’s known as adrenocorticotropic hormones (ACTH) that actually makes you sad.

By pushing up the corners of your mouth, this also fools the brain into releasing beta endorphins which creates endogenous morphine. Morphine is also known as opium. Opium is also called cocaine.

This means that in order to be sad, all you have to do is frown and to be happy all you have to do is smile. Your face does that. Which means you can choose either one at will.

Try it. Next time you’re sad, look in the mirror. What is your face doing? Frowning because you’re on ACTH. Now smile and stand there for a few seconds and try to prove me wrong.

You can’t because you’re now on cocaine and the smile doesn’t want to go back down again because it likes how it feels.

We choose whether we are going to have a good day. We program it into our forecast by the words that come out of our mouth that sets in motion an anion ion (E-lectric, E-motion) toroidal flow in our brains that physically moves in the direction of positive bioelectric energy.

This the clockwise energy flow. We also choose if we are going to have a bad day, counterclockwise energy flow.

Because secretly while our consciousness isn’t looking, our subconscious is scheming ways to get ourselves into hot water so we’ll be able to manufacture a brand new drama dragon that will slap us around for a while so we can feel alive.

And just like getting paddled during a naughty interlude, that sting on our bottom releases the same beta endorphins as smiling, and so through the pain opium is physically released which turns that frown pointing the other way.

Either way, both sorrow and joy engage our opioid receptors. One stings and the other one doesn’t to get to the same place. Sadness is opium but laughter is also opium, so laugh. See how that works?

Just by choosing to “have a good day” or smile and wave to your neighbor you literally dictate what vibration your particles oscillate at which allows your eyes to see and your ears to hear things lower vibrationally-tuned beings cannot. This is science, not fiction.

All Love

-mission guide

https://twitter.com/decodingthehive?s=21

How to Recenter Yourself

Published March 18, 2022 by tindertender

Out of nowhere, a sinking feeling hits the pit of your stomach, your mind starts on a negative rant, you become agitated for no apparent reason.

When this happens, here’s a few tips to reconcile your emotional and mental bodies. Another really good thing to do is drink a LOT of Water.

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