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Women’s Idea of “Treasure”

Published September 2, 2026 by tindertender

Is this Love that I’m feeling?
Women, Mother’s and Wives …
I Am So Surprised at Times.
Bliss Your Heart!

In the Hopi Prophecy …

Published July 30, 2026 by tindertender

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Happy Independence Day!!!!

Published July 4, 2026 by tindertender

Empress has earned double High Priestess status. Unification, return to wholeness, Sun, and Sacred Shadow.

Spirit says, “You did very well.”

Interspecies Love Story

Published April 19, 2026 by tindertender

An amazing, interspecies Love Story.

Not every “relationship” requires sexxual activity.

Sometimes, it’s really just about Love.

Dear Women

Published December 21, 2025 by tindertender

Dear Women, have you ever realized how powerful your thoughts are for the man in your life?

Saka Ana Lorenza, a Kogi Saka and spiritual leader, speaks about the quiet but immense importance of women in the lives of their men. She explains that it is not only what women do or say that shapes a man’s path, but also what they think about him in the privacy of their own mind.

When a woman holds thoughts of trust, respect and blessing for her partner, this creates a field of support around him. Even when she is not physically present, he can walk with more strength, clarity and courage. Her inner agreement becomes a kind of spiritual protection that helps him move through obstacles and stay connected to his purpose.

When her thoughts are filled with constant criticism, disappointment or contempt, even if she never speaks them aloud, this too has an effect. The relationship may begin to feel heavy. Conflicts appear without a clear reason. Success may be blocked in subtle ways.

According to Saka Ana Lorenza, many women do not realize how central their inner stance is for the wellbeing of the man and for the harmony of the family.

This is not about blame. It is an invitation to remember the sacred influence that women carry. Their love and their clarity are not small. They are forces that can either nourish or weaken the life that grows around them.

The Kogi see relationship as a spiritual responsibility that both partners share. And the thoughts of the woman are one of its deepest foundations.

May your thoughts become a blessing for you and for those you love.

When a Woman Who Gave Everything Is Betrayed

Published December 21, 2025 by tindertender

If a man can walk away from the woman who gave him everything her body, her heart, her sleepless nights, her dreams poured into building a family then his betrayal is limitless.

True character isn’t measured when life is easy.
It’s measured in how he treats the hearts that once trusted him completely, in how he protects what he helped create.

When a mother is broken by someone who promised love, the wounds don’t stay with her alone.

They echo in the children who watch quietly, learning what trust, safety, and respect mean—or don’t.

They see the heart they should have been able to depend on crumble.

They internalize the fear, the doubt, and the uncertainty.

They begin to question what love should feel like, and whether it is reliable.

A real man does not destroy what made him a parent.
He does not take for granted the devotion, the care, the nights spent worrying and planning and nurturing.
He stands firm.
He protects.
He stays loyal.
Not because it’s convenient, not because anyone is watching,
but because it is sacred.

Betrayal is not just a personal failure.
It is a fracture in the foundation of a home, a lesson taught to children that love can be abandoned.

And while wounds can heal, the reverberations linger unless accountability, care, and integrity are restored.

To honor the love that built a family, a man must remember: the women who gave him everything do not exist merely for convenience—they exist as pillars of life, love, and legacy.
To abandon her is to abandon the sacred trust of parenthood, the love that shaped the next generation, and the respect that defines true character.

He may never be judged only by his words,
but by how he protects, cherishes, and honors the hearts that once trusted him fully.

That is the measure of a man. 💔

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Compassion Doesn’t Come with a Price Tag

Published December 6, 2025 by tindertender

I almost let a teenage girl freeze to death on Thanksgiving Eve because of a stupid sign I hung on my own wall.

NO LOITERING. NO SLEEPING. NO PETS.

I run a 24-hour laundromat in Chicago—where winter doesn’t show mercy, and if you show too much, your business turns into a free hostel. I’ve learned the hard way that if I let one person nap on a folding table, by sunrise I’ve got a whole encampment of them.

Rules keep the doors open.

Or at least, that’s what I told myself.

Last Wednesday, the wind was doing that sideways snow thing, the kind that slaps your face even when you’re indoors. I was in the back, grumbling about mopping floors instead of being home with my wife’s turkey, when the door chimed.

A girl walked in. Seventeen, maybe. Thin as a coat hanger. Hoodie soaked. Sneakers squishing with each step.

And beside her?

A monster.

At least, that’s what I thought.

A massive gray Pitbull mix. Scarred. Shivering. Built like he could bench-press a sedan. The type of dog people avoid by crossing an entire street.

“No dogs,” I barked, tapping the No Pets sign like a judge swinging a gavel.

She winced. “Please… just ten minutes. The shelter’s full. I just need my toes to stop hurting.”

The dog—Tank—pressed his whole body against her leg, as if trying to fuse himself into her for warmth.

“Fifteen minutes,” I muttered. “He makes one sound, I’m calling the cops.”

They retreated to the coldest corner. I retreated to the security monitor, looking for any excuse to kick them out.

Then I watched her pull out a handful of coins—pennies, nickels, a dime that looked like it had survived the Great Chicago Fire. She counted them over and over until she could afford a pack of those terrible orange peanut-butter crackers.

She sat on the floor, opened the pack…

and didn’t take a single bite.

She broke a cracker and held it out to Tank.

“Eat, buddy.”

Tank sniffed it. His ribs showed. He needed food desperately. But he pushed it back toward her.

She insisted. He refused.

And in that moment, on a grainy black-and-white screen, I watched a starving dog protect the only person he loved by refusing to let her go hungry.

My throat tightened.

Then things got worse.

Mike—the drunk regular who occasionally slept behind a dryer—stumbled over, reeking of whiskey.

“Got a dollar, sweetheart?” he slurred.

Tank stood up—not snarling, not attacking. Just planting himself like a shield between the girl and the man.

A living, breathing wall.

Mike reached toward her shoulder.

Tank growled—a low, seismic warning that said, Touch her and you’ll wish you hadn’t.

The girl wrapped her arms around Tank’s neck and begged, “Don’t hurt him, please! He’s just scared!”

That was the moment my rules stopped mattering.

I grabbed the baseball bat, marched over, and pointed it—not at the dog, but at Mike.

“Out. Now.”

He left so fast he forgot his bottle.

I locked the door. Flipped the sign to CLOSED. The girl looked up at me with terrified eyes, bracing for the moment I’d kick her out into the blizzard.

But I just walked to the back, grabbed the Tupperware my wife had packed—thick turkey slices, mashed potatoes, gravy—and set it in front of them.

“The dryer in this corner overheats,” I lied. “I need someone to sit here tonight and make sure it doesn’t catch fire. Job comes with dinner.”

She stared at the food like it was a dream she was afraid to touch.

“Sir?” she whispered, voice cracking.

“Eat,” I said. “Both of you.”

Tank waited—actually waited—until she swallowed her first bite before he took one for himself.

The toughest thing in that room wasn’t my bat. It was a half-frozen Pitbull who’d rather starve than let his girl go hungry.

That night changed me.

We spend so much time judging people by what they wear, where they sleep, or what they have in their pockets. We judge dogs by the size of their jaws and the scars on their skin.

But loyalty doesn’t live in appearances.

Compassion doesn’t come with a price tag.

And sometimes the best guardian angel you’ll ever meet arrives covered in frost, with a teenager on one side and a trembling Pitbull on the other.

If I’d followed my own rules, I would’ve shut the door on both.

Instead, I learned this:

Family isn’t always blood.

Protection doesn’t always look gentle.

And the biggest hearts often beat inside the bodies we’ve been trained to fear.

So next time someone walks into your life looking rough, tired, or “dangerous”…

maybe look twice.

You might be staring at the purest form of love you’ll ever see.

Talks with Relations ~

Published October 27, 2025 by tindertender

A reading from the 13 Original Clan Mothers

The Night Mother Chose Her (Daughter) Over Fear

Published October 3, 2025 by tindertender

Martha had buried one husband already, a kind man who never came back from the trail. When she remarried Clay in Dodge City, 1874, folks said fortune had smiled on her — he was tall, handsome, and the kind to buy whiskey for a whole room just to hear the laughter rise. To the outside world, he was charm in a fine hat. To Martha, behind their cabin door, he was a storm.

At first it was small things — a hard stare, a cruel word, a drink too many. But then his gaze shifted toward Eliza, Martha’s little girl, and the air in the cabin changed. Supper fell quiet, the child flinching at every sound, her smile gone. Martha watched in silence until the night she found Clay drunk, leaning too near her daughter’s bed. That was the line she would not let him cross.

She dragged him out by the collar, pistol shaking in her hand, and by dawn she was standing in the county office, signing her name to divorce papers while the ink still trembled. Folks whispered about her for years — not with scorn, but with respect. In a town where women often kept quiet, Martha’s courage was louder than any gunshot. And Eliza, grown and safe, never forgot the night her mother chose her over fear.

The Merge Cat’s Kiss

Published September 9, 2025 by tindertender

When your own kind doesn’t want you …

God gives you something better.


Apparently, it’s called the “Merge Cat’s Kiss”.

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Nobody blocked (his) work on this earth. You can’t take the life of one and give it to another … God took her back … this masculine frauds work wasn’t great.

When she survived the sacrifice, Divine Mother sated, “It’s a bad day for (him)”. God gave her a new mate … She WILL be loved … ya little rat bastard. She gets a new family tree, and your fraudulent one will be destroyed.

You gifted the world the grandest betrayal, you betrayed your own, God gifted Wife, you harvested her while she suffered, and painted yourself “grand” wearing her harvested energy … and now the Most High God has given her “gifts” to someone more worthy.

You, and all your mask wearing frauds, can go to another portion of the multi-verse, your masks have failed you.

Your “chosen one”, the replacement, will need to be enough … No more syphoning the essence of the true and dressing up your fraud.

Trust me when I say, the Divine Feminine doesn’t envy your “bride”, fool.

She actually lov(ed) you … and the Father Divine stated you will NEVER GET HER ENERGY OR SUPPLY BACK. Never again will she be forced to serve you.

Friggen buyer and seller of the mother’s divine energy in all of its forms … may you starve, friggen addict.

She doesn’t care that you are “addicted to her”.

Take your position at her feet, brutalizing coward.

I certainly hope the True Divine Masculine creates something “special” for you, considering what you’ve allowed to occur in the lives of the children.

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He threw her away at the start.

As soon as God wasn’t looking, he wrapped her up, shut her down, bound her in every way he could think of.

He didn’t expect her to rise and shine. He placed her upon an impossible path! She was supposed to be his “hidden treasure” of suffering energy, forever.

I pray he loses the privilege of calling himself a man … or a woman … he’s far less valuable than ANY of the animal kingdom …

Ooohhhhh the many knives he sunk into the Heart of Her Holy Spirit ….

Ooohhhhh the profit he gained from prostituting her energy to unseen masculine, and feminine entities, not human …

Her entire family of HUmans betrayed, syphoned, consumed, enslaved … extinguished.

This rat actually believed he had exterminated the entirety of “her kind”.

… and now, we begin again.

Back to square one.

May every single one who participated in genocide of whole species be removed from our new chapter …

May they receive the intention, and the action, they forced upon others.