All posts tagged Prayer

Belief Manifest

Published January 12, 2023 by tindertender

Look … sometimes you have to pray about it for years. Especially if you don’t do it regularly. You have to align your mind and your emotion with the reality of what you want. I’m not a pro, but I know enough.

I’ve been praying for, and working toward manifesting my blessings for five years, and they are taking form in my life now … don’t give up. Don’t ever give up. Feed the dream. Every single day. Taste it. And remain positive it is in the works. Alignment WILL occur when it’s ready. Keep the faith.

Another very important thing … don’t be rigid or determined the blessing can only be such and such … the Divine know what we need better than we.

Practice seeing the blessing in every little thing. Envision what you love coming into your future. Don’t let fear (of betrayal, or anything) keep you from it. Move forward, first the mind, then the heart and all energies fresh and pure and loving.

Allow yourself to be vulnerable, even while you stand strong. That’s Courage. That is Strength.

My Guardian said something to me once. He requested I practice patience. Since then I’ve realized it is the gift we give ourselves, disconnecting from the hurried way folks move in this world, and with each other. With the practice, we allow ourselves release from demand.

A Prayer

Published December 10, 2022 by tindertender

Great Spirit

Protect myself and those I love, seen and unseen.

Bless those who risk everything on behalf of the sacred, on behalf of life.

May peace come upon all hearts, and strength to all lives who wish to live in Love, Honor, Respect, Kindness, Compassion, Morality, Integrity, Authenticity, Transparency and Truth.

May we learn the art of communication so we may better relate to each other ~ in understanding ~ with Eternal Love!

And so it is.

Humans of New York

Published September 22, 2022 by tindertender

“Get a plant and name it after yourself. I tell that to everyone, especially if they have trouble with self-love. Take care of your plant every day. Water it, make it beautiful. If your plant is growing and nourishing, that means you’re growing and nourishing. If it’s dying, you have to ask: ‘What’s going on with me?’ Every time you see a dead leaf, pluck it off. Say out loud: ‘Get rid of dead relationships in my life.’ That means anyone who is lingering, stealing your energy, blocking your blessings. You need to put yourself first, second, and third. When you’re back to one hundred, then you can take care of the world. I learned that the hard way. I’ve been working since the age of twelve. I’ve been on my own since the age of sixteen. In my apartment there are four plants named after me. There’s Jiu Jitsu Deisy; she’s delicate but dangerous; the vines look like they’re choking each other out. There’s Yoga-Horoscope Deisy; she represents my spiritual life. There’s Rocio, which is the middle name of both me and my mother. I hated that name for a long time, until last year, when I made amends with my mom. Then the last Deisy is Little Deisy. She’s between six other plants, named after women in my life who have nourished me.”

Releasing Disfunction

Published July 3, 2022 by tindertender

Each person has methods used, tools, to inspire them, to give cause for thought expansion.

Some like to judge these methods, these tools. They tell you you shouldn’t use them. That the only useful information comes from the silence.

It’s good people are so firm in their beliefs.

Now if they would allow others to remain firm in their beliefs also.

It’s called honoring another’s path without judgement.

I can see the need to be critical if it causes harm to self or others.

This is usually not the case.

Usually it’s simply an emotional status of one trying to force another to see things their way …. then you get two emotional statuses trying to make the other see things their way. Then others will choose sides.

It is time to put away childish behaviors.

Division is a sickness, fostered by woundedness.

Healing is so important. But it requires effort. It requires pulling apart everything we believe about self, evaluating it and making adjustments as “self” determines necessary …. not an other.

Sharing is caring.
If it is done respectfully.

April 16, 2022

Published April 16, 2022 by tindertender

Focus on how far you have come, not how far you have to go. You will find help in unexpected places.

Affirmation: I am a beautiful, courageous traveler on a journey toward ultimate happiness. I am grateful for how far I have come and how much I’ve been given. I am grateful for the companions I find along the way. I will remember that I have been placed on this Earth to discover what I really want to do and to be true to myself. I will find my own way and I will live my dream.


There is a time to rest and a time to rise. Today you might need to summon a great strength of purpose. The spirit of Boudicca, the legendary Celtic warrior queen is with you. She holds steadfast, knowing just the right time to claim her victory and stand her ground in adversity. Her strength is in her soft side and she offers forth various gifts of energy and focus. Breathe with her into the calmness that you need for this difficult phase and explore her many animal totems if you feel drawn to them. Her shield and spear flash with pyrite, the ultimate protection stone. It will shield you from negative energies in the environment and within, strengthening the auric field.

Love That You Are Different

You have strengths and weaknesses, and both are worthy of love. Know them, honor them, and do not heed those who tell you that you must change in order to fulfill their expectation of you. You will never be who others expect you to can only be the unique individual you are meant to be. Love that you are different for it is your differences, and loving those differences, that make you truly beautiful.

Clear Endeavor

Something you truly desire requires a bigger commitment from you. This could be physical, emotional or mental. Identify what your needs are at this time. Actually commit to this goal and be willing to put in the time to make it become reality. Commitment plus hard work will assist in bringing your goals to completion. Once you decide, give your best to everything that you do. It gives plenty of new opportunities for you to reach your goals in no time. Pay attention to signs along the way as nature works to assist you.

Move Beyond Ancestral Patterns

You have the capacity to move beyond the limitations that have been placed upon you. If you have had expectations of success, failure, sadness or even sickness placed upon you by your family, it’s important to know that you are here to create your own story. You will undergo personal healing that will bring healing to your family lineage, past, present and future. Know that you get to decide what you take on. Also know that your ancestors are rooting for you and are sorry for any setbacks they have created for you.

Recognize the Call

You are catching a glimpse of creative, sexual, and spiritual possibilities. Right now you are being given a general view. Focus and concentration, zeroing in on one aspect, will come later. You are being magnetically drawn toward fulfillment. This could be a period of excitement and anticipation, accompanying a feeling of readiness.

A possible pitfall at this stage is the tendency to trade your creative/sexual/spiritual energy for money, acceptance by another, or to set it aside for a philosophy. In other words, there is a possibility for self-denial. Instead, you must recognize your potential and seek only to find ways to unite it successfully with the powers of others and the world. The more you dwell on your highest vision, the more you will counteract this tendency toward self-denial and draw support toward yourself.


Great Spirit, I see many possibilities. You have given me a world that is full. Let me know what you would wish from me this day, what work my life may accomplish. I am setting aside things of distraction, that I might hear your words and receive your vision. Guide me along the way that will accomplish your goals. Lead me into relationship with all who will illumine my way.

A Prayer

Published December 12, 2021 by tindertender

Though my trade may seem humble to many, I am skilled in inner ways. My job may not appear to change the world, but in my consciousness, every movement of my hand corrects a wrong. If I turn a potter’s wheel, I turn the Earth and visualize the healing of this planet. If I swing a hammer, I nail a thought of God to someone’s house and bestow blessings on each room. When I plant a tree, I put in the hole my power, to grow beneath it, making it strong and making me free. I look like your ordinary worker, but I am learning a higher trade. I am in the school of sacred studies and all life is a lesson to me. Mother Earth is my professor, Father Sun, my guide. My work I do for these who sustain me. Humbly, I carryon through the density of Earth’s materiality. Mater, Mother, Matter, you are the expression of all love embodied.
~ The Medicine Woman Oracle

Creation —————- Protection
Intuitive Messages —– Guardian Angel
Renewal of Peace ——-Acceptance of Love

Awakened Seeker

Published April 10, 2021 by tindertender

For truly the awakened seeker is caught between two worlds. Not necessarily stranded or snared but certainly aware of and needing to relate to worlds that seem very separate. Responding to the demands of physical incarnation, the need for supply, warmth, shelter, food, clothing, and all the considered necessities of the life is, in itself, not an easy or simple task.

The question of worth is always present. What is worth more, free time or more money? What is worth more, intensity of effort or material success from effort? Questions like this are not easily answered and in the context of an everyday life it seems that these demands of supply and finding ways of meeting [the] challenge of each day create more than enough opportunity for new things, new experiments, new ways, and new directions.

At the same time as this world of the horizontal takes up the three dimensions of your days there is at the same time within you, a vertical life that seeks always to reach higher and to go deeper, to find the springs of inspiration within the roots of consciousness and to find the guidance from up above. And it comes through earnest desire and persistent asking.


Artwork by Silvio Vieira

Connectedness in Relationship

Published April 10, 2021 by tindertender

Relationships that are harmonious, truly connected and successful are that due to the amount of nurturing and care we put into it … the consistent effort. Key word … Consistent.

Any time we do something half-assed, expecting full beneficial results is simply an effort wasted.

This goes for our physical relationships … friends, lovers, family … as well as our relationship with Spirit … the Angelics, our Guardians, Guides, Ancestors and others beyond the physical who’s desire is to assist us.

We must create the “connection” … the silver thread or cord that allows us Union.

In the physical, we do this by assisting, by listening, by caring and the sharing of our heart, our innermost self. By allowing others to be who they are without negative judgement, and expecting the same for self. If the “allowing” does not sit well with us, it simply means we are not a vibratory match and it’s time to move on.

In the Spiritual, we do this through prayer, through ritual. The prayer (or as I like to think of it, “conversation”) and the ritual must be consistent, a daily practice, preferably at the same time every day.

Although I am not a religious person, I am fully aware of our brothers and sisters in the astral realms who have capacity to influence life … some beneficially, others in different ways … to be utilized as “lessons”.

Whatever connections we intend, we must be consistent, and mentally present in our desire for connection.

If we wish to create a positive experience, we must consistently focus on its creation. Think positively, see the beauty in life, be grateful for the challenges and appreciative of the lessons learned through the experience. Love the Earth, spend time in nature. It nourishes the Soul and our connection to the Living Elementals.

If we are consistently thinking about how shitty life is, that consistent thought trail will grow stronger and it will be what we see more of.

If we wish for assistance and union with the Angels, Guardians, Guides and Ancestors, we must include them in our prayer, private spiritual conversations, and ritual … Daily. We must nurture the relationship just as we would with a physical partner, or friend.

Change and assistance does not come by periodically evaluating the circumstances of our lives, and finding them dissatisfactory, making prayer of assistance, pleading for things to turn around.

No thing “turns around” or transforms until we become an active, consistent participant.

Long story short ….

If you want a healthy physical relationship with companions, family or friends, you must nurture it and be fully present with it … otherwise the beautiful silvery cord of that connection with desolve and disappear.

If you want the Angels, Guardians, Guides, Ancestors to be present in your life, speak to them daily, have ritual inviting them in. You must, in order to grow that silvery cord of connection. Similar to an umbilical cord … it gives the relationship Life.

Nurture that which you wish to grow and be healthy in your life.

We have so many helpers in the unseen waiting for us to strengthen our connections so they can properly assist, with power and vitality.

Who you are connected to depends on what you are nurturing.

Everyone has choice.

Focus on crap, you’ll get more crap.

Focus on nurturing, on beauty, on friendly, powerful, loving connections, you’ll get more of that.

It’s simple Laws of the Universe.

What’s in your heart will manifest.

I am fully aware of those who usurp our will with their own, causing us pain and suffering of all kinds. I am aware that many do not survive these instances.

While we have Choice, let us use it wisely, and to our benefit, for the relationships we build, seen and unseen, benefit ALL participants … and the outcomes for each.

The Silver Cord of connection to the Angelics
The Master Rituals of Protection in this book are very useful and will help you create that bond, that beautiful and powerful connection with the Archangelics.

If you are interested in taking charge to create positive change in your life and are looking for materials, I highly recommend Mastering Alchemy. There are many opportunities located at their website,

One of their books:

Here is a link for many YouTube discussions, very good place to start if you are unsure of a commitment to the courses just yet.

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