Love and happiness, yeah Something that can make you do wrong, make you do right
Love Love and happiness But wait a minute Something’s going wrong Someone’s on the phone Three o’clock in the morning Talkin’ about how she can make it right, yeah Well, happiness is when, you really feel good with somebody But nothing wrong with being in love with someone, yeah Oh, baby, love and happiness Love and happiness Love and happiness (love and happiness) oh
I have to say Love and happiness (love and happiness) Love and happiness (love and happiness) You be good to me I’ll be good to you We’ll be together, yeah We’ll see each other Walk away with victory, yeah oh baby Love and happiness (love and happiness) Love and happiness (love and happiness)
Hey, hey, hey, hey Make you do right, love’ll make you do wrong Make you come home early Make you stay out all night long The power of love
Wait a minute Let me tell you Oh the power Power of love Power of love, power Make you do right, love’ll make you do wrong Ha yeah (Love and happiness, love and happiness) Say love (Love and happiness, love and happiness) Make you want to dance Love and happiness
Love is, wait a minute, love is Yeah, walkin’ together, yeah, talkin’ together Say it again, say it together, yeah Say wanna moans Moan for love, say, hmm Moan for love, hmm Moan for love Talkin’ ’bout the power
Those who limit you to or judge the shape your body takes, the way it moves, the way it feels, the way it looks.
People who project their insecurities or fears onto you and are often facing a new trigger or issue.
People who cannot hold your no, your s*xuality, your boundary, your hurt, or your truth.
People who condemn your values, choices, s*xuality, needs, desires, boundaries.
People who do not know what their values, choices, s*xuality, needs, desires, fears, or boundaries are.
The perpetual child-like partiers drowning their emotions and depression in drugging/s*xing, etc.
Those spiritually bypassing their feelings and using crystals, gurus, as the primary way to enlighten self and grow.
The ones who give their energy/attention/affection/trust to other lovers/potential lovers, when they are triggered by you.
The ones that you often experience their emotional absence, when you are needing support.
Those who are unwilling to get help or do their own personal work, requiring difficult emotional labor and standstills in your intimacy.
You need not avoid those that have been through trauma or heartache or loss
These are not signs that anything is wrong.
In fact, those that have been through the most loss are often the most incredible lovers, if they decide to lean into the dark, explore it, shine light onto it, instead of ignore it or hide it away.
Because you deserve to explore the dark together with someone who will never make you responsible for their healing. Who will bring to the table deep value through their own healing + self-awareness and mastery.
To getting what you need and deserve, and letting that in.
Surround yourself with people who talk at you, instead of with you. People whose problems always seem worse than yours.
Those that like to hear themselves talk. Who use you as a sounding board. They are always facing something they need to get off their chest.
Surround yourself with people who always have a new pain they need you for. Using your touch, your energy, as a way to reduce their discomfort.
Caretake their needs. They need more help than you do, you rationalize. Therefore you never have too many emotional needs. You never ask for help, for you can see how lonely Needy Vulnerable Other people are.
Let yourself s*xually and/or emotionally give to them, as a service. It is too hard creating boundaries. You don’t mind just being who people need you to be at all times.
How depressed people stay depressed, is by never getting angry. Always bending over backwards and being flexible.
Choosing loved ones that mimic dad or mom. People who ignore Invalidate Who you are. People that lean too hard on you at all times.
Have an ex lover? Or someone you are interested in? Stay energetically open to connecting with them, even when the relationship is unclear or unhealthy. When it gets in the way of you trusting and deepening with someone else.
Have frequent daily reminders of this relationship around, always taking you out of the present moment. Unconsciously making you hope for or live for the possibility of connecting with them.
Keep photos of the past, the ones who have died to you literally or metaphorically. Do not replace them with photos that reflect what is true today.
Live in a mental graveyard of the dead. Of regret. What happened always making you fear what COULD happen.
Love people who do not really care too much either way. Who encourage your addictions to suffering and loss of self, because they get something out of it. Because you have more focus and energy on them, when you do not treat yourself all that great. They can always get what they want when you don’t honor who you are.
It is easy to be a master at being depressed, especially during the aftermath of continual attack and murders of people of color. We are also facing the numbers of deaths crawling back up from the virus. You must, MUST, be even more diligent on owning your energetic boundaries Asking for help. Getting good help. Being with people who see you, instead of use you as an escape. Be with people that you cannot escape with because they want to look into your eyes and feel you really looking back.
Do not stay in the cozy prison of your numbness. It will only get worse there. Get help, even if you do not know what to say. Let people love you, by speaking up. Let people see you, by letting yourself be seen.
Depression makes you think no one really cares all that much anyway. So why bother? The truth is the world deeply cares. Especially the moment you decide you are worthy of being cared for.