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Slipping Out Of Their Hands Now

Published March 18, 2018 by tindertender

“Don’t listen to their threatening language, just do your thing.” 

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There are those who wish to use you for their own agenda. There are those who wish to stop you from being all that you can be. They see the light in your eyes and the positive energy you emit and they want to close it down, save it for when they have opportunity to manipulate it.

The scourge of the earth slinks about unseen, using others to do their dirty deeds.

Products world wide are laced with toxins. These toxins pollute the mind and body, they dull the senses and make connection difficult. Sickness comes upon people and they are so focused on the pain of it they cannot see the root cause. Doctors today treat the symptoms, rarely discussing origination of the dilemma … and the body and the mind become even more polluted than before.

And then we die, and change which we arrived to incorporate never occurs.

“Just listen … back and forth between sobbing and serious contemplation of the situation. Mind warp at its best.” But is it good enough to fool you? You decide. Will you allow your emotions to be toyed with, or will you step into your inherent power ~ that which you arrived with, that which is deep within you?



Open the door and let the light shine. Light the incense and watch the smoke rise. A bed of sand insulating the heat, aroma wafting through the air.

This is your time. There may not be much of it, use it wisely. Many of the older people did not know, being raised by another with belief that the reason for living was to simply survive. You know better.

The young have limited DNA damage caused by the poisonous market. Their bodies and minds sharp, their desires for peace potent. I consider it a blessing to see them rise and work what some call magic, but I call creation. Intense, honest, free from greed, they see the damage done to the world. They see how it is pushed onto the masses, they see right through the lies.

They are the future. YOU are the future.

Plastic Ocean

Published March 16, 2018 by tindertender

My hope is that those with ideas and solutions for this clean up will be financed by those who have abundance, instead of pouring their money into plastics and oil.

If you aren’t for planet health, then you’re for its destruction.

Little changes in day to day life can have a tremendous impact on this issue. The transition is difficult for we have all been led right into this ‘convenience’ … at the expense of the world and all life upon it.

We All Do It

Published March 9, 2018 by tindertender

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All people live life while trying to determine future events. We walk around dreaming up scenarios for this and for that, imagining all different possibilities. No one knows for certain what will happen to them, or to anyone for that matter, yet try to figure it out anyhow.

A waste of precious energies … rather than spending time on the here and now, so much of thought is spent on these waking ‘dreams’. Lured here by others who tell us “you have no idea what is going to happen …”. They are right, and rather than allow them to lead thought down a road of guessing, delve deep into a subject in the present moment.

The future is not a threat. It is a field of limitless possibilities. All too easy it is, to get trapped in a box of fear, shrinking when thinking of possible hazards. It amazes me how the mind always attempts to go there, rather than positive results which could be, when appropriate actions are put into place.

Paranoia, fear, negative expectation … whatever you call it, it is theft in action, a robbery of possible joy which can be created now.

Every human has the ability to gather these emotions, these energetic impulses, and re-apply them to something else, somewhere else. For instance, if fear or anger crop up, start counting the things in which you are grateful for … the air, water, music, poetry, breathing, food, flowers, etc. There is so much to be grateful for … as this list grows in your mind, you’ll find a shift takes place. Now fear and anger shrink, and hope and beauty grow, all due to your conscious application of thought.

This power is yours, always has been. No one is subject to anything … the power of the mind can transport a person anywhere. So yes, while I have no idea what is going to happen to me, I dream of peaceful tomorrows, and joy filled todays. I will never give up on that thought, it will never be replaced by gloom … for this is what I wish to create, and with every breath I take, I will be working toward that today, and toward that tomorrow.

There Is A Coldness In My Heart

Published March 5, 2018 by tindertender

Cold Heart… It was fostered in the past by others. I’ve lost the ability to sympathize with people who deliberately do things to compromise their lives, who do not try to help themselves. I suppose this comes from having received the same … I wish it were different. I try to foster empathy and compassion and give it freely, however I balk and recoil from attempts to manipulate my emotions. I have decided to take a stand on that front and just say no … no more will my emotions be tossed and turned like a salad by anyone.

While I care deeply and wish well for all, in reality people must help themselves, or at least try. In trying comes a willingness to assist, but if people know what they do, and then suffer for their choices, well … I suppose this is the lesson they must learn ~ Just as I did, just as I currently am still.

Shiny HeartSo my focus is spent on what can I do to improve my life and my connection to spirit. This effort takes all the energy I can muster, and although it may seem like I am being selfish and stingy, it is a survival skill in motion. Spreading of this energy to a situation which cannot be helped is only robbing myself, and a waste.

Sound cold? Yes … it does. Is it true? Currently, for me, yes.

As I try to nurture this shiny heart that was original in my chest, to grow it and heal it, I find it difficult at times, especially when confronted with any type of manipulation attempt. As soon as I discover it, I tend to shut down, and move on. There is a thin line …

tearsSome things are addictive and once started, very hard to escape. Some things are intentionally done to cause a situation to gain pity, or, it appears to be … At any rate, perhaps it is best that I remain alone … for my brutal honesty tends to hurt folks. Or maybe it is this cold heart that was formed by my past … whatever it is, it’s best avoided by those seeking gain, for I haven’t much to give it seems.

It would be nice to be loved for loves sake, and to love for loves sake … dropping all of the mind games and just being with each other. Sadly, many are so well practiced in the latter, it does not seem possible.

“Don’t play me.”

Abuses, World-Wide

Published February 28, 2018 by tindertender


Bombs continue to drop in countries accused of using chemical weapons. Civilians who have alerted others are being killed by these attacks. Why is this so, when every country in the world has highly trained elite forces who can go in and eliminate the decision maker of this horrible chemical abuse?

Yes, I spent the morning watching world news before I sat down to write my thoughts. Shifting gears will be quite difficult.

People are tired of being bombed for the error of their government, and others are tired of having their paychecks robbed in the form of taxes which fund billions of dollars of weaponry used to inflict these attacks on innocent civilians. Yet governments continue to do just that.

This war making has little to do with eliminating harmful threats, for if it did they would send in special forces trained to take out these threats, and not blanket bomb entire cities and countries. No, this is a much deeper and more sinister issue that many people really do not want to acknowledge.

The only thing this never ending war making accomplishes is gain for the greedy. It makes civilians weak, destroying their food supplies and their waters, making them eager for a takeover which will bring in these supplies. The one appointed to lead the way to ‘regrowth’ will then have power over the resources of the land and do with it what they will … which will be in agreement with the ones who destroyed everything to begin with.

This is the strategy. Tear down, destroy, offer assistance to rebuild, claim resources. It’s purely tactical, without care at all for the civilians.

This greedy war making and fighting for control of the world and its resources must end. Those in governments do not represent the people. No, they are nothing like the kind, hard working individuals who are robbed while complying, and beaten every single day for non-compliance. They practice tearing down the spirit of humanity so they can retain power over them.

I see the people speaking out against this insanity, and I am quite happy to note it. The young people are rising and they are indeed the future. The old men in the big house will die, whether they choose to acknowledge it or not. It will not matter if they have 7 heart transplants and other organ replacement, eventually they will die, and the young will take their place.


The young, who are sick and tired of being stamped down for greed, who are tired of being killed and jailed for some payoff between factions, treated as though their lives mean nothing.

Yes, those in government see it too … and they lack what it takes to work with them on resolution to this madness, for all they know is madness. Their persons will be replaced soon enough, I only hope that these old men do not destroy the world before then.

“None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free.”
     ~ Goethe

Time To Heal

Published February 13, 2018 by tindertender

Divinity, in my mind, is about respect, compassion and honor. It doesn’t force itself on anyone. Instead, it sits back and allows people to live their lives as they wish, waiting for the time when they will be in a position to kick back and dwell in the afterlife of their choosing, the world they create.

Become awareUnfortunately, there are many who live in a constant state of chaos and ill will. They spin hurt and harm wherever they go, in all of its forms. This is the world many create, and when the body quits them, they will do everything they can to escape their fate. This includes butting in on other humans lives, trying to find an escape route into something more pleasant.

This could be why so many are behaving in such a brash manner, being completely selfish, for they are under the influence of these others who have realized too late their error.

Humanity is equipped with a will so strong it can overcome all obstacles, ALL of them, yet they often choose to be embraced, and then to return the embrace, of ill will. This is no excuse for bad behavior.

The bulk of energy spent in life should be given to self, as one fortifies their own mind in ability to withstand these attacks, and come back to center, stronger than before. There’s a difference between caring for self, and being selfish.

Anger is a serious issue. I know this is true … personal experience has brought all kinds of it to my mind and life, leaking into the lives of those around me. I also know it is choice which allows the release of it. The human will is strong and determined, whatever it is applied to will be.

The fate of the world really does lie in our hands, in our determination. Pain and anger will cause a person to retaliate, often upon those who had nothing to do with the creation of their pain. Many times, the ones we think cause our pain or anger, have only set our triggers of an underlying issue. Until this is dealt with, all people we deal with will eventually flip a trigger, and we’ll swim in pain and anger. Not only personally, but it will be inflicted into the world, causing the same ol’ same ol’ crap we’ve seen, over and over in its cycle.

Time to heal_1Often it is the pity we have for those suffering which keeps us trapped in scenarios which are hurtful. The fact is, we are the most important factor in our lives. If we do not show sufficient compassion to our self, we will never be able to give proper care to anyone else … truth.

Here is the advice of one … people who suffer anger and pain ought to delve deep inside, find the cause and deal with it, heal it. Those who suffer at the hands of those in pain and anger … walk away, reclaim your energy and do not let it be used to flame the fire of this persons issue. Instead, harness it and use it to heal yourself.

Where attention goes, energy flows.
It’s time to starve out anger and pain.
It’s time to heal.



Real, Or Fantasy?

Published February 12, 2018 by tindertender

Years ago I entered the Twilight Zone.

Twilight zone

It was quite frightening! I previously had no idea that it was a real place.

Now, I realize that this twilight zone is only an entryway into Star Trek.

Star Trek

There are plenty of folks in the world who actually believe these two examples are only a made up story, fiction which was born from the mind of people who were quite creative.

The writers of these series were indeed very creative, but more than that, they were open to receiving insights most people are not aware of.

Until humanity comes in tune with reality, they will dwell in the land of denial and blame. I’m pretty certain by now most people are aware that this is not the most comfortable situation.

There is so much more to living than what we’ve been told, what we’ve been led to believe. I think this is why people like to watch television so much. It is a great escape, a place where fantasies can be played out, where people can live vicariously through the stories told.

But not everything we see on the screen is fantasy, now is it? I think we could agree on that point.

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