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Do Not Give Power to the gods of Lesser Will

Published November 28, 2023 by tindertender

We are encouraged to believe that the present time is intrinsically advanced and superior by virtue of it being here at the end of the long, inferior past. There are many falsehoods in this, including the belief that there is only one past and that the future has yet to happen.

They want us to witness their depravity. It’s part of their foul occult spell. They want us to strengthen that frequency with our attention. They benefit energetically from our pain and outrage. Glance and look away. Keep your eyes lifted, Beloved. The Kingdom is here.

Starve them of attention. Do not say their names. Cut all cording. Rise above all emotion response. Transmute the frequency of fear into love. Be loyal to Truth & steadfastly refuse lies. Align with Divine Creation. Do not give power to the gods of lesser will.

Nietzsche’s Herd Mentality

Published November 21, 2023 by tindertender

The Herd got in line to get vaccinated.
The Slave shamed the people that didn’t get vaccinated.
And the Higher Human never got vaccinated.

Nietzsche was very accurate when he explained the Herd Mentality vs the Higher Human. Herd Mentality needs to fit in, it obeys, it’s afraid of judgement, it executes orders., it likes comfort. Herd mentality believes in what the majority says even if it goes against their personal values.

But Nietzsche also described a subcategory of the Herd Mentality which is the Slave, and the Slave is not the same thing. The Slave is weak and wants to destroy the Higher Humans under the false pretense of equality and whatever their masters tells them is best for the Herd. Because they are too sick to think for themselves.

On the flip side the Higher Human doesn’t care about that. They have a mission. They are creative. They must be free from the Herd. They are noble often alone and they will suffer greatly for what they believe is their calling.

In other words you can say that:

The Herd got in line to get vaccinated.

The Slave shamed the people that didn’t get vaccinated.

And the Higher Human never got vaccinated.

This is the End

Published November 20, 2023 by tindertender

No more stolen children.

I woke several times in the night Saturday to record dreamy messages. I listened to it yesterday after church and want to share a portion of it.

Apparently “they’ve” been siphoning energy from the golden eggs. I took this to mean the sacred energies of the feminine portals and the life they birth/create.

I also recorded that all vitality stolen, and all that had been manifested using that energy, will be purified and returned to their source.

(I have omitted a visual showing me the binding of perpetrators and their symbols because I don’t want to interfere in the success of the strategy).

Oh my God ……

Heavenly Fathers family, they birth their children into the golden eggs. Then the child in that egg is birthed through the human female into this realm The Jack wagons were siphoning the energies from the children of God while they rested in their golden eggs … literally, the children of Gods family.

When they are birthed, they have no memory, they are weak, fragile, and disconnected from their true “parents”.

I Started Succeeding When …

Published November 20, 2023 by tindertender

I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. She smiled and said to me..

“I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me…
I stopped fighting with my in laws…
I stopped fighting for attention…
I stopped fighting to meet peoples expectation of me…
I stopped fighting for my rights with inconsiderate people..
I stopped fighting to please everyone…
I stopped fighting to prove they were wrong about me….
I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight…

And I started fighting for
my vision,
my dreams,
my ideas and
my destiny.

The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful & so much more content.”

Some fights are not worth your time….. Choose what you fight for wisely.

An Analogy of the Heart, and Union

Published November 18, 2023 by tindertender

Many of us are like this couch. Top of the line quality leather and construction. Cold, elegant, unwelcoming even on its own, even tho It be impressive.

We cover ourselves in that which brings comfort and warmth. An inviting and friendly area offering a seat, a wrap in a cozy home-made blanky, with pretty pillows.

What else does the cover do? I protects from scratches, from anything “sticking” to it, and also it prevents debris from getting under the cushions.

This is what the feminine offers the masculine. A warm embrace. He is sturdy and strong under all that warmth, built to last.

We must ask ourselves, how do we feel about this union? Are we willing to pair, with respect, allowing the warmth and cozy to be supported by the firm and lasting?

Or will the blankets be stripped and thrown in a closet for whenever they are “needed”?

I’m sad because the warm and cozy had to become firm and strong. Being tossed aside until needed forced many to reach beyond the inner pull, becoming their own foundation.

Hopefully the past will offer brand new relationship qualities, better, stronger, more resilient, in the upcoming Kingdom Unions.

Gotta Let Them Go

Published November 16, 2023 by tindertender

I’ve decided …..
I’m going to attend Unity Church on Sundays.
I’m going to find a yoga studio and get serious about flexibility.
I’m going to find a gym so I can rebuild muscle and fill out my skin.
I don’t need approval or permission. I don’t need company.
If I meet someone along the way who is interested in what I am, also, perhaps we’ll be friends.
I’m not going to force myself into someone else’s idea of what my life should look like.
It took me 20 years of shadow work to get where I am. Folks who have barely meditated, coming in to steer me … denied.
I’m not a “member” of anything other than Life, and the Love it should embody.
I flow into what brings me joy.
When it stops, and begins to bring me upset, I cut out whatever it is. Not because there’s no love, or any disrespect. But because I love, honor and respect myself enough not to let her drown in others opinions about what is right and best for her.
I’ll figure it out for Self.
She deserves her authentic and transparent heart to live in beauty without these trespasses and abuses which attempt to squash her heart, strip her song, and replace it with their own.
Just because someone gives you a gift doesn’t mean you have to relinquish yourself.
Just because someone shows you a kindness doesn’t give them permission to reformat you.
Leave the kindness if you must.
Pack up, live in a tent.
Whatever it takes to come back to Self, and it’s connection to it’s own higher self, and to God.
No one can walk your path for you.
Although many will insist you’re doing it wrong,
And disapprove.
Trying to force you into their mold.
Gotta let them go.

Words of Wisdom

Published November 12, 2023 by tindertender

Nobody watches you harder than the people who can’t stand you.

You will reach a point on your path where you do not require a single person to understand or relate to you.

You become a more positive, peaceful & harmonic person when you don’t react to people who use you as a mirror for their own insecurities & self hate.

When people say “you’ve changed” – there’s a 99% chance that you just stopped tolerating their bullshit.

Apologize to yourself for letting someone get comfortable with treating you like you’re average.

No longer responding or reacting to people who trigger you is one of the ways to strengthen your spiritual muscles.

No matter what’s going on in your life – always prioritize self-care.
Some people may not like you because your light illuminates the shadow work they refuse to do.

Being happy is a very personal thing & it really has nothing to do with anyone else.

The key to breaking a pattern is to respond differently.

You know you’ve grown when the old you would’ve reached out by now & the new you never will.

What’s for you won’t lower your vibration – that’s how you’ll know.
Any time you find yourself giving more energy than you receive – fall back.

Before clarity – there is confusion. Before healing – there is hurt. After pain – there is purpose.
You’d be surprised how many things fall into place when you learn to follow your spirit & speak with your soul.

We can only share worlds if our vibrations meet at a common state of honesty & love.

Find your equal – not your whole.

Grace over grudges.

To fully heal you must understand why your subconscious prioritized their manipulation over your self respect.

Trust the process – even when it seems like it’s not processing.

The heartbreak that comes from leaving a one-sided relationship is never as painful as the loneliness that comes from abandoning yourself in order to stay.

A big fuck you to anyone who used you to make them “feel good” until they didn’t need you anymore & then left you wondering where you went wrong.

The ego wants more – the soul needs less.

When someone ghosts you – respect the dead & never disturb them again.

Any relationship that requires you to be quiet or a watered down version of yourself for it to “work out” – is not the relationship for you. Never allow someone to control your narrative. Feed your soul – not play a role. The journey of freedom awaits you.

Love does not leave someone traumatized. Whatever happened – it was not love.

Sometimes the Universe will hold you back temporarily until the road is safe & clear to continue. Be thankful for the stall.

“We’ll figure it out together” is a love language.

Trust what you feel – not what you hear.

Never let irrelevant people control your mind, feelings & emotions.
Peace of mind is the real bag. Secure it.

Never be so loyal that you betray yourself.

Seeking validation from others is a reflection of lack of self-love – accept yourself in order to be your authentic self. Your soul doesn’t give a shit about impressing others – it seeks fulfillment over validation.

The more healing you do – the more sensitive your body is to recognizing bad energy.

A person who finds peace instead of revenge can never be bothered.

You know you’ve mastered a soul lesson when the circumstance has not changed but the way you respond has – that’s true energy self mastery.

Stop chasing what your mind wants & you’ll get what your soul needs.

Can You Help Us?

Published November 6, 2023 by tindertender

Turtle woman is making an offering of wampum to the plants of the river.

“Please”, she asks, “can you help us?”

She explains how we need the rivers to be clean and she acknowledges the plants as the cleaners of the river.

She speaks to the wampum and thanks them also for the light they bring the world.

She talks to the plants for a long time. Telling them what is happening. She explains that the two legged have lost their ways. But there are still some who remember. She tells them about the babies that are coming who need clean water. She cries for her grandchildren.

The plants, being loving and generous, wait for her to finish speaking and then they tell her they have heard her prayers. They agree to help. They are gentle. They never have an unkind word to say about anyone.

From the shore a young person sings a turtle song. Unbeknownst to them, turtle woman is pleading for the world only a short distance below at the bottom of the river.

#TheEarthIsMyGoverment

It’s All About The Dance, Hon!!

Published November 5, 2023 by tindertender

Get it!!!!

Rare and Beautiful Gift

Published November 3, 2023 by tindertender

My daughter handed me her school progress report. Although it displayed a steady stream of positive check marks, there was one check mark standing dejectedly alone from the rest.

“How am I doing, Mom?” my child asked with a level of maturity that did not match the small dishevelled person gazing up at me with smudged eyeglasses that teetered on the tip of her nose. With her small finger, she pointed to her teacher’s neatly printed words next to the lone check mark.

It read: “Distracted in large groups.” But I already knew this. I knew this long before it was written on an official report card. Since she was a toddler, this child has offered astute observations of the world around her.

After pointing out all the positives on the progress report, I told her what was written. Upon hearing the news, she gave a tiny, uncertain smile and shyly admitted, “I do look around a lot.”

But before my child could feel one ounce of shame, one iota of failure, I came down on bended knee and looked her straight in the eye. I didn’t want her to just hear these words, I wanted her to feel them. This is what I said:

“Yes. You do look around a lot. You noticed Sam sitting off by himself with a skinned knee on the field trip, and you comforted him.”

“You noticed Banjo had a running nose, and the vet said it was a good thing we brought him in when we did.”

“You noticed our waitress was working really hard and suggested we leave an extra good tip. You noticed Grandpa was walking slower than the rest of us so you waited for him.”

“You notice the beautiful view every time we cross the bridge to go to swim practice.”

“And you know what? I don’t ever want you to stop noticing because that is your gift. It is your gift that you give to the world.”

As I watched my daughter beam with the glow of acceptance, I realized her approach to life had the power to change the world.

You see, we are all just waiting for someone to notice—notice our pain, notice our scars, notice our fear, notice our joy, notice our triumphs, notice our courage.

And the one who notices is a rare and beautiful gift.


~Rachel Macy Stafford, author of “Hands Free Life.” Her author page is @TheHandsFreeRevolution on Facebook.