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Published December 26, 2022 by tindertender

All the men who chase her say they are attracted to her fire.

Until they realize that she’ll burn them too, if they’re not respectful of who she is.

They’re full of ego and bravado, claiming they can’t wait to tame her-

Until they realize she’s a strong woman who won’t be tamed.

She just wants someone to run beside her.

She spots those would be suitors just as soon as they arrive, knowing they have no idea what she is all about.

She’ll never settle, make do or be okay being treated as an option.

She knows her worth, for she’s paid the price to learn who she is and what she is made of.

And it’s that same strength and fiery spirit that draws men in … and burns them down as they try to control her.

And so she continues to live her best life.

Happy to keep bettering herself, growing and making the most of her days and nights.

She doesn’t need anyone to fix her, save her or complete her.

Just walk beside her, accept her and love her.

She’s content to be alone until one comes along worthy of her love.

Because she’s not lonely.

Her life is full of love, light and beautiful moments.
No man will ever change that, for the right one will only amplify the most gorgeous parts of her life and her soul.

So, she’ll keep smiling and laughing quietly to herself as would be heroes pursue her relentlessly,
Only to discover they can’t handle her fire.

After all, she’ll never be easy, shallow or superficial.

Give her deep conversations, passionate love, and honest truths instead of temporary satisfaction.

She’s done everything else simpler and easier and those shallow pursuits never made her happy.

She needs more.

She deserves more.

And until she finds one who deserves her, she’ll keep burning brightly and living loudly.

And I know this to be true…
Because she is me.

~ Ravenwolf

Listening for Truth

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

Isn’t that something ….

Behind her looks to be density, matter, and viruses … cogs in the wheel, gears for that which turns muck into life …. in front of her is the flower of life, a galaxy and stars, beautiful, glistening light.

She is between both worlds, deciphering the truth, with the help of a shell …. “you can hear the ocean” and so much more…

There are many tuning in now. Still hinged on the chaos of the material plain, striving for the stars, the outer worlds.

Yet they are listening ….

Be certain to focus on the ringing in the ears, and not so much on “words” coming in a steady stream.

The universe speaks in feeling, in emotion, in a manner just below the conscious level most times and our guides and friends use very little verbiage, but they use words that mean a whole lot, be they few.

Any entity that is streaming a novel deserves scrutinizing.

Protect your balance….

Discernment is necessary.

Love Welcomed

Published February 2, 2021 by tindertender

My potential Love showed himself to me during meditation last night, ever so briefly. He has a very powerful presence. I’m looking forward to meeting him in person!

Dreamtime consisted of many vivid dreams, yet even though I smoked the Blue Lotus Flower before sleep, I was not able to recall these vivid relations in the astral upon waking.

I can say that there are those who would like to pervert the mind, dirtying the Soul and/or Spirit.

Perhaps they, too, saw my potential Love.

I woke and stated that my Love is coming to me this year, and their perversion attempts will be made null and void by our Sacred Union. These ones will simply fall away … by the grace of Love.

Maybe this is why they are trying so hard for me ….

I’ve got news for all who dare attempt to thwart me … we’ve been here before, and I’m still standing. The only difference this time, is that I will rise above it all, connection cancelled.

And Love welcomed.


With Grace.

What’s In A Name?

Published January 26, 2021 by tindertender

Could it be coincidence?

My Tarot Card Name is Queen of the Mountain, and as a 13 year old I was visited in the astral by a male who stood atop the highest mountain, and he, without words, told me he was mine. I’ve always referred to him as King of the Mountain.

For him … I wait.

Harmony With Shadow

Published November 17, 2020 by tindertender

It’ll be easier on your spirit if you live in harmony with your shadow, rather than trying to be all light.

You cannot try to eat one part of yourself, and still expect yourself to feel full. We’re dualist beings, co-exist with yourself.

Like the Ashanti proverb: Siamese crocodiles share one stomach, yet they fight over food.

Some people can’t coexist with the parts of themselves they don’t even like, how can we expect them to coexist with another person different than them?

Source: @ehimeora

Meditation Requests

Published October 15, 2020 by tindertender

Last night during meditation I asked to be connected with my Soul Tribe ~ those beings who are of the same frequency as myself.

I travelled to a facility where we were all working in the clothing line … packaging it all up, getting it ready to ship to differing distribution points.

I had a conversation with a woman (more like, I expressed an opinion) about the construction of a woman’s bra. She was not interested (understood by the look she gave me) and moved away from me with another woman without really engaging in the conversation.

Obviously, not my soul tribe.

Astral travels are intriguing in how they construct themselves.

I’ll keep meditating on it. Perhaps some day I’ll meet folks who care to have a conversation with me, without looking at me as though I’m an annoyance to them.

Or perhaps these ones simply don’t like newcomers … haha, wouldn’t it just be the case. Too similar to these days in the physical … every one suspicious of the other.

Oracle Reading 8-29-2020 p.m.

Published August 29, 2020 by tindertender

Make a Wish ~ As a child you may have been encouraged to blow on a dandelion and make a wish. As you blew the seed blossoms from the stem, they would be carried on the wind so your wish could be fulfilled. This is a gentle reminder to set clear intentions about what you wish for in your life. You are being asked what you would like. At this moment, anything is possible. If you were given one wish, what would you wish for? Trust that your wish will be granted at an opportune time and in the manner that supports you in the fullest.

Laughter ~ Laughter breaks up stagnant energy, gets things moving and helps relax you. Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress, pain and conflict. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh. Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hope, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded, focused and alert.

Acceptance of Love ~ Harmony of opposites, masculine and feminine. You have the ability to give love freely to yourself and to others. It is important to understand that you are whole, complete and perfect now and will enhance the life of another. Love can happen. Love is the truth of all situations. Love the soul embodied inside you. Express more love in your life and allow yourself to feel loved. Everything happens exactly when it is supposed to. In that order, everything that happens is what is supposed to take place. You bring light and individuality into this world.

Perfect Setting ~ If you have a goal or vision, be sure to provide the right surroundings for that dream to flourish. Positive self-talk, affirmations, being kind to yourself, celebrating your talents and successes – all of these create fertile soil for your dreams to take root and grow. Sometimes, when you push too hard it can hinder the harmonious unfolding of your journey. Trust the process, relax, and allow nature to take its course. Belief and positive support is needed to accomplish your goal. Keep in mind; Nature makes growing and blossoming look effortless but the secret is in all the details – position, sun, soil, air, water and nourishment. Make sure you are taking the steps necessary to attain your perfect environment.

Show Your Support ~ Take time to encourage a colleague, coworker, family member or friend. Be a strong shoulder or willing volunteer to run errands. Provide a safe space for another’s concerns and feelings to be discussed and be a good listener. Jump in on providing extra time. Sponsor someone else’s work. Share in someone’s success. All of nature continually shows us the value in creating a strong network. The trees provide shelter and support for many different inhabitants. We are a community and when we support each other, everyone gains.

Reading from the deck “Nature’s Whispers” oracle cards created by Angela Hartfield and Josephine Wall


Published July 13, 2020 by tindertender

The idea behind transcendentalism came about in the 1800s. The idea was that both men and women who pursued all aspects of nature became more connected with spiritual and magical forces there within. They used this power to transcend, experiencing more than just sight, taste or touch.

These naturists believed that through their own heightened intuition, people could trust themselves to be their own authority, their own judge in what is right or wrong. Like that of an animal choosing it’s next action according to its own instinct. These ideas were not religious beliefs but a more in-depth way of understanding life and our role in it.

Nature is powerful, we need to connect more often and explore the secrets hidden Beneath the branches. Man once relied on nature for food, water and protection. We have lost sight of that and nature is being abandoned.

Get out there and visit our Mother! She’s waiting to reconnect.

-Steven Mundy

Jekyll and Hyde

Published June 25, 2020 by tindertender

We all have them.

We embody polarity. It is impossible to get away from the fact all things dwell within us.

The good guy gets to stay out during the day … at work, on a date … yet as soon as the alcohol starts (or other substance) the alter ego comes out.

Some say it is spirits, taking advantage of our lowering of the guard, and it could very well be.

YOU are the gate keeper.

YOU determine on whether to lower your guard.

YOU decide to share your form with others, seen, unseen … permission is granted as soon as the guard slips.

As soon as you surrender control.

I used to think that surrender only came via the use of alcohol. I was mistaken, it is ALL things that affect our guard.

Whether lowering it and thinking negative thoughts, or opening it wide, making self vulnerable to outside influences, which in turn affect the mind, as well as energetic contributions and all other output.

We all have Choice.

Choice is where Power is.

Power dwells within Love.

Love resides in the Soul.

Will you ‘release’ the dragon?

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