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Building Back Better

Published October 8, 2024 by tindertender

When they tried to destroy my mind, I decided to take control and be the destroyer.

Then I slowly began building back, better, and they didn’t know it because they believed it was they who thrust me into darkness, into chaos.

I suppose this is why they got confused.

Plus, being connected to Source, sharing the entire experience, this unconventional method of approaching mind rape, helped a lot.

I do hope there have been new discoveries made by this seemingly insane and perhaps psychotic approach to dealing with parasitic attachments.

It certainly felt to be at least a little reckless.

Sometimes change requires us to get a little crazy.

Gut-Healing Vegetable Broth

Published September 29, 2024 by tindertender

By Crissy Joshua

A healthy gut impacts virtually every aspect of our body by improving our immune system and supporting the health of organs such as the heart. This has important knock-on effects on our daily lives by promoting healthy sleep and a better mood.

Our gut microbiome is made up of hundreds of different types of bacteria, some necessary and good (or friendly) and others that can be detrimental to our health. For that reason, it’s important to look after your gut and keep everything working in harmony. Certain factors can contribute to gut issues such as lack of sleep, too much stress, taking antibiotics, eating processed foods, or having too much sugar in your diet.

Some signs that your gut may be in trouble include:

  • An upset stomach e.g. bloating or gas
  • Losing or gaining weight without changing your diet or exercise routine
  • Poor sleep or insomnia
  • Food intolerances

Let’s look at how to improve your gut health by making a simple but healing vegetable broth. First, I’ll explain how the different ingredients support a healthy gut and then share how to make the recipe.

Gut-Healing Properties of Vegetable Broth

I’ve used the following ingredients in this recipe: cabbage, mushrooms, carrots, garlic, miso paste, ginger, coconut oil, and turmeric.

  • Gut-Healing Properties of Cabbage: Cabbage is probably one of the best-known vegetables for being gut healing. The soluble fiber it contains is great for feeding the friendly gut bacteria and the insoluble fiber helps to maintain the digestive system by promoting regular bowel movements. Cabbage is also high in L-glutamine, a building block of protein, that helps to heal the lining of the gut.
  • Gut-Healing Properties of Mushrooms: Mushrooms have been used in medicinal remedies for thousands of years. In terms of gut healing, mushrooms help fight bacteria which helps to keep a healthy microbiome. They are also good prebiotics that stimulates probiotics in the gut.
  • Gut-Healing Properties of Carrots: Carrots contain pectin which is a soluble fiber. This slows down your digestion of starch and sugar. It also feeds the good bacteria in your gut helping your gut cells to stay healthy. Consuming carrots regularly can even prevent the formation of a gastric ulcer and other digestive issues.
  • Gut-Healing Properties of Garlic: Garlic has been used in medicine for over 5,000 years and it is a superfood on many levels but is especially good for the gut. That’s partly because garlic is high in a non-digestible carbohydrate called inulin that feeds good bacteria in the gut. This helps your gut function better overall and stops the growth of disease-promoting bacteria.
  • Gut-Healing Properties of Miso Paste: Miso paste is made from fermented soybeans making it full of probiotics that improve your gut health. One particular probiotic in miso paste, Aspergillus Oryzae, naturally helps maintain a good-bad bacteria balance.
  • Gut-Healing Properties of Ginger: Ginger has a calming effect on the stomach and has gut-healing properties. It also aids digestion and stops food from sitting and fermenting in the intestine by helping your gut move it along. Ginger has over 100 bioactive compounds with anti-inflammatory, antioxidant, and antiemetic properties and it’s many of these that aid digestion. It also stimulates digestive acids and supports the absorption of nutrients.
  • Gut-Healing Properties of Coconut Oil: Coconut oil helps to absorb the other nutrients in this broth and also has properties that destroy bad bacteria and lower stomach acid. It also works to restore a healthy balance when there is an imbalance in the gut.
  • Gut-Healing Properties of Turmeric: Turmeric has long been used to treat digestive issues in ayurvedic medicine. Turmeric is beneficial to the gut in several ways: it helps the stomach lining, promotes the growth of good gut bacteria, and can prevent bloating or gas while food is being digested.

However, turmeric does negatively affect some people’s digestion, especially where they already have issues. If you know that turmeric doesn’t sit well in your stomach then leave this ingredient out of the broth.

How to Make This Gut-Healing Vegetable Broth

This is a very simple recipe to prepare and should only take five minutes or less. It will then take one hour to cook, roughly 20 minutes to cool, then you need to strain it at the end. You should take this three times a day if you are experiencing gut problems or once a day or every few days if you are looking to maintain your gut health. You can make larger batches if you are going to be taking this regularly to save yourself time. If you divide the quantities below into four serving sizes each portion will have approximately 40 calories.

Ingredients

  • 4 Cloves of garlic
  • 1 inch knob of ginger
  • 6 Mushrooms
  • 10 oz. (250 grams) of cabbage
  • 4 Carrots
  • A Pinch of black pepper
  • 1 Teaspoon of ground turmeric
  • 1 Tablespoon of organic virgin coconut oil
  • 1 Tablespoon of miso paste
  • 8 Cups of filtered water

Utensils

  • Large pot
  • Chopping board
  • Sharp knife
  • Strainer
  • Large bowl

Method

Slice 10 oz. of cabbage up into strips and place them in your pot.

Cut 4 carrots and 6 mushrooms into quarters and add them to your pot.

  1. Bruise 4 garlic cloves with the side of a knife then throw these in.
  2. Roughly chop your piece of ginger (you can leave the skin on if it’s organic, otherwise peel it first) then add this too.
  1. Add 1 tablespoon of coconut oil, 1 teaspoon of ground turmeric, and a pinch of black pepper.
  2. Cover all of your vegetables with water (about 8 cups) and put the lid on your pot.
  3. Bring it to a boil then turn down the heat so the water is simmering and leave it for 1 hour.
  1. Take it off the heat and allow it to cool somewhat before the next step so you aren’t dealing with hot liquid.
  2. Wait until the soup has been taken off the heat and then stir or whisk in the miso paste. It will melt into the soup thanks to the residual heat of the stock
  1. ***Miso is a fermented food, meaning it contains live, active cultures of bacteria. Adding it to boiling water will kill the probiotics in the miso, nixing the health benefits it typically offers, like better digestive health.
  2. Strain the liquid into a large bowl.

You can take some straight away or put it in the fridge. It will also keep in the freezer for a couple of months if you store it in airtight containers.

Takeaway:

The gut microbiome is host to an abundance of intestinal flora that can make (or break) your physical and mental health depending on if it is balanced. From immunity to nutrient absorption, anxiety and depression to weight loss, the gut microflora plays a crucial role in our overall well-being. Many don’t give a second thought to gut health until an issue develops. However, this is a mistake. If you would like to truly thrive, caring for your gut should be a top priority. And one of the best ways to do this is through diet and medicinal herbs.

The Battle of Solaris

Published September 26, 2024 by tindertender

https://www.story.com/story/other/the-battle-of-solaris

An Originator

Published September 26, 2024 by tindertender

Outcast, mentally tormented and stripped of memory

Treated as an unworthy guest in their own house

By those who couldn’t even do the upkeep

Rebirthed

Reborn

Transparency

Published September 25, 2024 by tindertender

“When you are transparent, you become unmistakable—no shadows, masks, or veils to blur the truth of who you are. In your transparency, others can look through you and into the core of your being, where your heart and essence glow with an unfiltered light. You stand as you are, clear and direct, with a kindness that needs no explanation.

There is no mystery to untangle, no enigma to decipher. You leave no one puzzled or lost in the aftermath of your words or actions. You are not a riddle but a presence fully understood. In your honesty, you refuse to hide. You carry the courage to show up fully, stripped of pretense or armor. You are bravery embodied, raw truth in human form.

In this nakedness, you don’t waver or seek approval. Your transparency is not a weakness but the purest strength. It is a declaration: “This is who I am”. You let yourself be seen, and in that openness, you stand out in a world that often shrouds itself in layers of pretense. Your authenticity shines like a beacon, guiding others toward their own.”

~Katie Kamara

She Is Goddess

Published September 24, 2024 by tindertender

She is Maiden, Mother and Crone
In one…

You will recognize her because she
makes genuine eye contact with whomever she meets…
She is not afraid to be direct and honest about how she feels

She charts her own course
And is willing to meet whatever comes
Because she has faith in her journey
She’s aware of her own strength

She delights in enabling the wellbeing and the empowerment of others
But she refuses to subject herself to energy drainers…
She sees through bullshit instantly
She knows how to protect herself
She is obedient to her own inner knowing,
She is willing to break the rules made by others
in order to be authentic to herself

Her truth comes directly through her heart
She uses her mind as the servant to manifest it

She is inwardly and outwardly aware
She responds more than she reacts
She no longer waters illusory drama
She no longer feels the need to control what is

She is deeply connected to her creative source
She is her own work of art in progress
She can create beauty from whatever is in front of her

She is in tune with her intuition and instinctual body
She lives in the present
Because she is willing to relinquish the past
And allow the future the space it needs to unfold

She understands that life is an ever changing flow from one moment to the next…
She willingly goes with it.

She feels deeply connected to the earth and stays close to nature,
She recognizes that she is not separate from it…
Being connected to nature is essential for her health and wellbeing

She has simplified her life
Released the non-essentials so that she can be spacious and free

She values her aloneness,
She waters her soul with it
But she also
values quality time with like minded souls

She doesn’t need a man to complete her
Her relationships are on an equal basis of respect and sharing
Unbridled sensual pleasure…

She has no time for gossip
She’s invested in raising the sisterhood up rather than cutting it down

She celebrates the beauty and power in other women
She celebrates the beauty and power within herself

She is just as willing to receive as she is to give
She fills her own cup for herself and overflows it for others

She understands the futility of unsolicited advice
So she shares her wisdom through living it

She envisions the healing of the world
She offers her gifts as a contribution towards it

Love is her religion
Unity is her gospel
Laughter is her grace

She loves to play through her inner child
Sing and dance through her inner maiden
She nurtures her body mind and spirit daily through her inner mother

Others seek her for her wisdom
Are irresistibly drawn to her unpredictable mystery

They feel seen and accepted in her steady gaze…
Peaceful in her sacred space

They are shocked by her irreverent humor
But secretly inspired, uplifted,
Given permission to be themselves

She is Maiden, Mother and Crone
In one
She is Goddess

― Caroline de Lisser

art credit:
Maiden Mother & Crone
by Sulamith Wulfing

False Fantasy

Published September 20, 2024 by tindertender

I don’t believe others fantasies about my life.

I won’t involve myself in them.

Wish an Mn F-er Would

Published September 19, 2024 by tindertender

Spirit’s getting irritated … just DO it already antagonist!

The pipe to the poet:

I am a poet's pipe, His nurse, and: I put his Beast to sleep.

When his blinded chimeras
Come to collide with his forehead, I smoke...And he, in his ceiling, Can no longer see the spiders.

….I make him a sky, clouds, The sea, the desert, mirages;

- He lets his dead eye wander there...
And, when the cloud becomes heavy, He thinks he sees a known shadow,

- And I feel my pipe biting...

- Another whirlwind unties
His soul, his shackles, his life!

….And I feel myself fading.-he is sleeping-

-Sleep again: the Beast is calmed, Follow your dream to the end...

My Poor!.. the smoke is everything.

-If it is true that everything is smoke...

The yellow loves
Tristan Corbière

Find Your People

Published September 18, 2024 by tindertender

Your crowd can’t be found if you’re hiding.
If you’re afraid to express yourself authentically and transparently,
If you’re afraid to be vulnerable, rejected or ridiculed,
You’ll never find those who are in resonance with your Soul.
Your Tribe.
Chosen Family.
Making decisions based out of fear will cause failure in a person’s life.
The goal is to expand, to elevate,
Not shrink.

Endless Love

Published September 18, 2024 by tindertender

I woke this morning as I do, starting the day in ‘prayer”. I was recognizing the presence of our Divine Masculine, working so hard to clear tough issues now, acknowledging the great divide between them and the offenders wearing their bodies, speaking with their voices, doing so much harm.

As I finished up and started readying for the day, lyrics of a sweet song began to run through mind. Thank you Divine … thank you for the healing, the love and the gentle care. I am so grateful you exist!

Somewhere out there, someone loves me. My heart is warm and full.

Be certain you pay attention to the subtle gifts, family, these beautiful communications as they gently roll through mind.

I love you.