Choice
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Transparency
Published September 25, 2024 by tindertender“When you are transparent, you become unmistakable—no shadows, masks, or veils to blur the truth of who you are. In your transparency, others can look through you and into the core of your being, where your heart and essence glow with an unfiltered light. You stand as you are, clear and direct, with a kindness that needs no explanation.
There is no mystery to untangle, no enigma to decipher. You leave no one puzzled or lost in the aftermath of your words or actions. You are not a riddle but a presence fully understood. In your honesty, you refuse to hide. You carry the courage to show up fully, stripped of pretense or armor. You are bravery embodied, raw truth in human form.
In this nakedness, you don’t waver or seek approval. Your transparency is not a weakness but the purest strength. It is a declaration: “This is who I am”. You let yourself be seen, and in that openness, you stand out in a world that often shrouds itself in layers of pretense. Your authenticity shines like a beacon, guiding others toward their own.”
~Katie Kamara
There’s Somebody Playing With You Right Now
Published September 20, 2024 by tindertenderYou’re unbothered by it!
They don’t know what to do about it, ya’all.
No one got time for that!
“As soon as they thought their plan was going to work,
God created another plan for them.
If it’s a war they want,
It’s a war they’re gonna get.”
~ Intuitivegoddess333
False Fantasy
Published September 20, 2024 by tindertenderI don’t believe others fantasies about my life.
I won’t involve myself in them.
Wish an Mn F-er Would
Published September 19, 2024 by tindertenderSpirit’s getting irritated … just DO it already antagonist!
The pipe to the poet:
I am a poet's pipe, His nurse, and: I put his Beast to sleep.
When his blinded chimeras
Come to collide with his forehead, I smoke...And he, in his ceiling, Can no longer see the spiders.
….I make him a sky, clouds, The sea, the desert, mirages;
- He lets his dead eye wander there...
And, when the cloud becomes heavy, He thinks he sees a known shadow,
- And I feel my pipe biting...
- Another whirlwind unties
His soul, his shackles, his life!
….And I feel myself fading.-he is sleeping-
-Sleep again: the Beast is calmed, Follow your dream to the end...
My Poor!.. the smoke is everything.
-If it is true that everything is smoke...
The yellow loves
Tristan Corbière
Find Your People
Published September 18, 2024 by tindertenderYour crowd can’t be found if you’re hiding.
If you’re afraid to express yourself authentically and transparently,
If you’re afraid to be vulnerable, rejected or ridiculed,
You’ll never find those who are in resonance with your Soul.
Your Tribe.
Chosen Family.
Making decisions based out of fear will cause failure in a person’s life.
The goal is to expand, to elevate,
Not shrink.
Endless Love
Published September 18, 2024 by tindertenderI woke this morning as I do, starting the day in ‘prayer”. I was recognizing the presence of our Divine Masculine, working so hard to clear tough issues now, acknowledging the great divide between them and the offenders wearing their bodies, speaking with their voices, doing so much harm.
As I finished up and started readying for the day, lyrics of a sweet song began to run through mind. Thank you Divine … thank you for the healing, the love and the gentle care. I am so grateful you exist!
Somewhere out there, someone loves me. My heart is warm and full.
Be certain you pay attention to the subtle gifts, family, these beautiful communications as they gently roll through mind.
I love you.
Heel and Heal
Published September 17, 2024 by tindertenderIsn’t it odd that the command to a canine during training and such is the word “heel”.
(of a dog) a command to a dog to walk close behind its owner.
“these dogs are born with the instinctive urge to heel”
When we are ailing, we go to the doctor to heal.
What do they do? They command you to swallow synthetic medicines … which mask symptoms, but poison the body.
You “heal” your life and give sovereignty to another, you give them authority over your life, you make yourself subservient, reliant, weak.
You Won’t Ever Have to Question a True Friend
Published September 16, 2024 by tindertenderContinuing to share your gifts with those who want nothing more than to see you lose them is … insanity … and there are professional “drivers” out there.
There comes a time when you have to stop caring so much for people who don’t care about you.
No one can force you to believe a thing.
Choose your own system, allegiances and purpose.
Those who don’t believe in God, as you know it/him/her, will accuse you of spreading disinformation.
Let them go. You don’t need anyone trying to destroy your beliefs or connections.
Gas-lighters who tried to destroy you expect you to have sympathy for their fate.
There comes a point where a separation is made, or ‘forced’, by the need to preserve self.
That would be caused by a ‘hypothetical’ knife to the heart, killing all care or feeling … as the cord of connection is severed.
No anger, no hate, no remorse, no nothing, just done, finito.
No need to ‘feel’ any which way about it.
Although they will desperately try to make you carry their emotional distress regarding your absence, to make you ‘pay’ for their suffering.
You’ve won.
They can’t keep you.
TheAfroZen is on Fire!!!!! Pshshshshshs … steam! ….
If you buy a bunch of tomatoes, and one has a bruise, and you put it in the fridge, eventually that bruised tomato is going to destroy the health of the other tomatoes that are in contact with it. Same with the people.
Don’t hang with folks that are simply ‘surviving’. They are like bruised tomatoes.
LIVE.
You don’t have to be responsible for low vibrational ways of others. You’re not in alignment. You’re unique, your vision, a wonder.
In the Moment
Published September 14, 2024 by tindertenderIt’s interesting to me when someone says, “Be prepared”, or “Get yourself ready”.
All I know, is simply being present.
It is difficult to prepare for the unknown.
(So many assumptions and presumptions out there!)
Being open, aware and present, with an expectation of the unexpected, to me, is all one can actually do.
It wastes much less energy, and allows for gentleness in the moment.
Living in the moment,
Letting go and letting God …
It’s definitely where it’s always been,
Even though I once thought I was in charge.
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