All Must Have Prizes

Published December 20, 2021 by tindertender

At last the dodo said, “Everybody has won, and all must have prizes.”

“But who is to give the prizes?” Quite a chorus of voices asked.

“Why, she, of course,” said the dodo, pointing to Alice with one finger; and the whole party at once crowded round her, calling out, in a confused way, “Prizes! Prizes!”

While it seems like a lovely message – how wonderful for everyone to have won and to have prizes! – there is a hidden shadow. For there is no winning if all have won, and there is no prize if all have acquired the same thing. In other words, there does not seem to have been a test of excellence here – merely an exercise which seems to have tested people. But, at the end of the day, they will all get the same reward. This message comes to those who are tasked with evaluating the work of others and are trying to choose who has done well. It comes to parents, to teachers and judges.

This message also comes to those who wish to please everyone ad do not wish to fall out of favor. Thus, they will proclaim that everyone has done very well and offer prizes to each and all, to avoid the discomfort of true assessment. It is hard to have to decide, to make a choice and to know to whom the victory belongs. It is challenging to be discerning. We often prefer to be like the dodo, trying to make sure everyone is happy.

Consider the choices you have before you – is it best to reward everyone in the same way, even if some have offered more than others? Is it better to reward those who have excelled, either through effort or talent? Would you refer just to give prizes to all and keep everyone happy? These are your choices at present and it is up to you to decide which way is best.

Trying to keep everyone happy. Treating everyone as equals and rewarding those who have not worked hard. Playing nice, wanting to please. An ability to choose who or what is best for you. Trying to be fair, but avoiding difficult decisions is not fair on yourself. Maintaining illusions, to avoid disappointing others.

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Storms of Grace

Published December 19, 2021 by tindertender

Storms so wild
Storms of grace
I call your blessing
Into my heart now

May I release and let go
May I be revitalized and grow
I open up my heart
To you now

Storms of grace
I stand my ground
As I allow your magic
To cleanse and surround

Any outgrown energy
Which I no longer need
Anything which will sap
Or deplete rather than feed

Storms of grace
Merciful earth
With your help
I experience rebirth

~ Alana Fairchild

Image courtesy of Lee Junda-Insplash

Affirmations ~ December 19, 2021

Published December 19, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Photo: Public domain image from Wikimedia Commons

I stay in the heart.

I do not need to prove myself or fight against the darkness.

I do not need to heal the dark. I let it be.

I stay connected to the light of compassion in my own heart.

I face my challenges.

I expand.

I seek the blessing in my experiences.

Inspiration pulls me toward my dreams.

I drop the tug-o-war of duality and enter a field of power.

I turn my intentions into manifestation.

I create space to embrace all aspects of Self.

I take the first steps along a new path.

Possibilities are endless.

I plant my seeds.

I cut ribbons to old ties and vows not conducive to my greater good.

I remain committed to my dreams.

I am open to the wisdom of my elders.

I am reliable.

I seek the eternal.

My base is solid.

I let go of the idea that I need to search for my path. I get out of the way and let it flow.

I love, honor and accept myself in all circumstances.

Law Is Not Justice

Published December 19, 2021 by tindertender

Rules that are not fair.

“Let the jury consider the verdict,” the King said, for about the twentieth time that day.
“No, No!” said the Queen. “Sentence first – verdict afterwards.”

The situation Alice finds herself in is patently unfair. No-one should be judged, convicted or serve a sentence prior to the evidence being heard, but this is the situation Alice finds herself within. This could be what is taking place in your world. Unfair as it may be, someone wants to judge you before they know you, convict you before they understand your side of the story, and they most certainly have not examined any evidence. Nevertheless, they wish to judge.

As Alice so bravely does, you must speak up and say it is unfair and wrong. It is not right for you to be judged, but another person wishes to do so. Unless you speak up, there could be very strong consequences. When you are told to be quiet and to tolerate the judgements being made about you, you are urged to speak up against injustice and object to what is taking place.

Your opinion of yourself is what is most valuable. You can state your case clearly, with strength and power, and doing so will help you remember just how very strong you are, how very admired you are, how worthwhile and decent you are. You’re worthy of respect, fairness and kindness. If you are being treated poorly, speak up! When you do so, the spell will be broken and people will see that your side of the story is well worth listening to. Never allow another to steal your self-worth!

Someone may have the authority to impose the law, but the law, or the rule is ready to be questioned. Following the law, even though it is unjust. Condemnation without knowing the full story. Being judged by people who do not know you or have a biased view. You may be judging people you do not understand. Be sure to have a fuller picture, and avoid condemnation and judgement. Be discerning but be sure to be fair and just.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Intensity Increases

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

Written by @SoulLight777

The excitement continues to build as we rapidly approach a very powerful energy portal. We speak of the 12/21/2021 gateway, the light of which will be felt at the core of all beings.

All of the major energetical waves that we’ve had in previous years, up until now, will culminate at the 12/21/2021 gateway. In addition with new portals being open, giving Earth and Humanity a great push in this process. This is going to be a huge one.

The light continues to intensify, the Earth and humanity reaching a new energetical peak. A time to rejoice, for this will be an in your face wake up call. Even those most asleep, won’t be able to help but notice the shift wherever they look.

Now, they can choose to make of this whatever they wish. If just for one second they allow their mind to wonder about this process and what has been unfolding, that will be enough to trigger a new process in their beingness, towards a higher awakening.

These higher waves of light will amplify people’s ‘curiosity’. This will be the start of a new journey for many. We cannot emphasize enough how important it is to go within. Spend time alone, in nature, get in touch with the Divine in You.

You hold the keys to the Universe’s secrets. It’s time to remember who you are. The truth is it does not matter how any one else sees you. It does not matter how angels view you, & other higher dimensional beings, or even Creator for that matter. Why do I say this?

In simple terms, no one outside of you can change you. So if you see yourself as a weak, miserable, unworthy being, that is what you will remain. However, if you begin to awaken, give yourself another chance, believe in yourself.

Tune into the light within, realize your true divinity, realize your godliness through self love, you will have forged a new path for yourself, a brighter future. The light of the Divine rests within you. The purity, the wisdom, the love, all rests within you in this moment.

The time has come for you to claim your power, and go forward in leaps and bounds. Use this energy of the 12/21/2021 portal, and uplift yourself into a new reality. You are bound by nothing. Allow this portal to be the New Year for you.

A new beginning, where you see yourself, talk, and walk as the master that you are. One who has done this many times before, and now only needs to REMEMBER. You are loved beyond your wildest dreams. You are a blessing to this world. All the light to You!

We are aware of your strong desire to speed up the process of upliftment. You CAN do this. Especially for yourself. Though the vast majority only have the desire. That’s it. You need determination, discipline, commitment. Daily meditation, affirmations, mantras.

Any thoughts of limitation which arise, originate from outside of you. They are not yours. Why hold on to them? You are an infinite divine sovereign being, limited by nothing but illusory programs of the matrix, which you can dissolve with the power of your heart.

The heart center is your portal into the fifth dimension.

In meditation, or whenever you feel a past moment coming to the surface where you felt hurt, allow it to come, observe it, and send love to those timelines in your life, make peace with everyone involved, and release it into the light.

In truth you hate nothing outside of you. What you dislike, what you judge, become angry at, are nothing more than *reflections of *your *own *unhealed *lower *energetical *aspects. Everyone needs to realize this now.

Everytime you have an imbalanced reaction to something, your vibrational frequency drops.

Listening for Truth

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

Isn’t that something ….

Behind her looks to be density, matter, and viruses … cogs in the wheel, gears for that which turns muck into life …. in front of her is the flower of life, a galaxy and stars, beautiful, glistening light.

She is between both worlds, deciphering the truth, with the help of a shell …. “you can hear the ocean” and so much more…

There are many tuning in now. Still hinged on the chaos of the material plain, striving for the stars, the outer worlds.

Yet they are listening ….

Be certain to focus on the ringing in the ears, and not so much on “words” coming in a steady stream.

The universe speaks in feeling, in emotion, in a manner just below the conscious level most times and our guides and friends use very little verbiage, but they use words that mean a whole lot, be they few.

Any entity that is streaming a novel deserves scrutinizing.

Protect your balance….

Discernment is necessary.

I Am, I Can, I Will, I Do

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

If something is said such as, “I will not fail this test” … “will” cancels out “not” and the universe hears, “ I fail this test.”

Say instead, “I will pass this test.” You’ll get much better results.

The language was purposefully created to disconnect our truest intentions with the power that is … with those who are here to assist us in manifesting our dreams.

Choose your “I” statements carefully.

Affirmations ~ December 18, 2021

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Image by Stefan Keller from Pixabay

I change unhealthy and harmful thoughts and beliefs about self, and refuse to speak ill of others.

I choose to encourage, and support through kindness and strength.

I reconnect with the light essence of youth.

I remember perfect trust, fearlessness in others and total self-reliance.

I do not distance myself from life and those around me.

I offer support when someone in my circle is in need, without hesitation or question.

I am confident solutions to anything ailing me is being taken care of.

I choose the path which makes my heart and soul sing.

I release all expectations.

There are many directions to take, none of them wrong. All hold perfect opportunities to grow and to learn.

I choose with my heart.

I am a point of power for the divine plan which works unfailingly through me. Having set my will to follow the highest within, I am strengthened to express the victorious life.

I am transported by my Power to Will.

I am in the driver’s seat.

I appreciate how far I’ve come.

I am right where I need to be.

I rest, regenerate and simply be.

I stay alert to sabotage.

I do not need to carry others fear for them. I have my own process to attend to.

I release internal criticism of Self.

Lead the Way

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

Be a leader – Show others how its done – You can help others!

Alice led the way and the whole party swam to the shore.

Alice takes on a new role – that of a leader. She did, after all, create the problem that they are all experiencing, albeit accidentally. She is the one who thinks through what has happened and tries to calm the creatures about her – even though that doesn’t always go right. And, she is the one being who takes charge and leads them out of the pool of tears and onto land. Just as you must do right now.

There is an emotional situation about you and it is affecting not only you, but other people, too. And, they are finding it hard to make their way back to steady ground. They are floundering amidst this sea of emotions within the present circumstances. It is up to you to lead them to the shore – to bring them back to the land. Now, this means you are to help everyone calm their emotions and come back to a more grounded, clear and stable place.

Even if you have been very emotional yourself, it is time to show leadership, set for the shore and help others make it there safely, too! Show everyone how its done – demonstrate what is best to do. Help those who, like you once were, are overwhelmed by their feelings. All you need to do is show them the way.

It is time to step into a leadership role. Others are looking to you to solve a problem or show them how to work through an emotional situation. Help others by showing them what needs to be done, not by telling them what to do. Calm your emotions, ground and center yourself, so you can be of greater service to others. You cannot help others overcome emotional distress until you have learned how to calm your own feelings. Be steadfast, strong, and encourage others by your own calm example.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish