All posts tagged Astral

Black Tourmaline

Published February 23, 2021 by tindertender

If you find yourself in shady places with shady people in your dream life, find some way to wear a black tourmaline crystal on your heart space, wear a bra to bed and put it there, or tape it on somehow.

Last night, (and other nights) I’ve been “placed” in spaces that are not good … in fact they are quite nasty. Last night in particular, I woke and grabbed the tourmaline off my end table and wedged it between my breats.

Although I was “placed” in other spaces afterward, they were not as “dark”.

Give it a try.

And remember, drink a LOT of water throughout the day, it’ll help “wash away” anything that has attached to you in the night. Be grateful to the water, and do not complain about having to use the bathroom quite often.

Water is our Friend.


Wisdom Gained

Published February 22, 2021 by tindertender

Wisdom comes via experience. You can read all the books and learn all the theories, but without experience, you won’t taste the sweetness of walking the inner landscapes and enriching your spirit.

~ Blessings

Art: Susan Seddon Boulet


I avow my Gratitude to The Man on The Mountain, Guardians, Master Teachers and Guides, Ascended Masters, The Blue Avian and all other benevolent ETs who work on behalf of Life here on Gaia, for being present here with me, and for Witnessing all that I am experiencing. With Great Appreciation I thank this benevolent team of mine for assisting during my conscious and subconscious states, in the manner you know is necessary so as to eliminate confusion, helping me to Rise and become my Highest and Greatest, my Fullest Potential. Thank you for Blessing me with your presence, your Care and your Love.

Thank You

Published February 19, 2021 by tindertender

Years ago I had something happen which nearly ended my life, and actually DID end life as I knew it.

For years my mind was in chaos, and only since August of 2020 has it smoothed out.

In these moments, when power is out and life has gone basic, I am finding that I Am coming more into alignment with my Soul Essence, which I have seen on 2 occasions in the astral.

Pure Love, welcoming with joy all that she sees … all that I see.

Only in the last 2 days have I really looked at my defensive nature toward things, people … seen and unseen.

I Am learning how to release that portion of self … there isn’t any need for it in the New World … the world I very much long to be a part of.

My most sincere apologies to my visitors in the astral.

I know I have not been the easiest person to visit.

It is a challenge, this transition, especially because of the way it started for me, all those years ago.

I am grateful for your persistence and patience.

I cannot promise that I have achieved a full liberation from the old me, but I am in process and looking forward very much to returning to that place of Love unconditional, in all instances.

I know it will be reciprocated.

I Am so happy you did not give up on me.

Thank you
Thank you
Thank you

With Great Gratitude …

Lucid Dreaming

Published January 26, 2021 by tindertender

Do you remember your dreams? Dreams are important. Most Native People believe that dreams are an extension of reality, an opportunity to travel other realms and communicate with ancestors and spirit guides. Dreamwork is highly encouraged by remembering your dreams and journaling them into a special book. Black Elk Speaks had dreams that revealed rituals for his tribe. Your dreams can be just as important.


Art by David Bradley

I’ve been testing the Blue Lotus Flower and something called Dream Herb for lucid dreaming. It seems to help. I was told smoking is the best way to get the herb into the system, but I do not like to smoke. I will try it as a tea blend instead. I am curious what tradition calls for.


Published January 5, 2021 by tindertender

As some of you may know, I have a very active astral and telepathic life. It has been an extreme challenge, for telepathy was not a natural state for me. Becoming accustomed to invisible people having judgements on behavior and lifestyle is unnerving and feels very invasive.

I spoke to someone thru DM today who gifted me with kindness, explaining to me certain things, and offered suggestions on how to reframe my thinking around specific experiences.

I am grateful.

My next challenge is to shift perspective, using techniques offered (visualization, affirmation, prayer, making requests).

What I truly loved about this communication was the respectful way the discussion was approached and maintained.

It helps me to bring a gentleness to current experience, rather than a hard-nosed rejection.

Affirmation Sampler

Published January 1, 2021 by tindertender

I’ve been noting a lack of ‘power’ while out and about in the astral.

A book I’ve been reading, “Astral Dynamics” suggests that the further away the astral body is from the physical body, the less power it is able to carry through the connection. Sort of like an electronic connection through a long vs a short cable.

I am learning about the importance in the use of Affirmations and Commands, and am excited for these written words to play out on the patterns of my mind.

I travel the astral planes and return safely with full memory.

I remember my dreams.

I love to astral project.

Take me to my friend.

Take me to the beach.

Give me Light!

Give me Clarity!

I’m feeling BIG change coming in 2021. It might feel like an avalanche … it may actually BE one.

We’ll see.

Patterns of integration most always appear as chaos first … at least, this is the current perception.

The Bodies

Published December 30, 2020 by tindertender

Received my new book today.

It is fascinating to learn about the different energy bodies and what they bring with, or leave behind during OBE.

I was just wondering about the variances that seemed to be present between the conscious mind and the astral mind, the subconscious.

I wondered at the level of WILL one has the authority over when “dreaming” or as we know often as “astral travel” and experiences.

Seems there are certain traits, or characteristics we simply don’t take with us at specific levels of presence.

Well, perhaps the incorporation of all aspects of self we are experiencing as a collective will have an affect on the way energy is currently being distributed between the bodies.

I am very grateful for the teachers, the writers, those who share knowledge and technique so certain practices can be studied.

Inner Child as Goddess

Published December 4, 2020 by tindertender

The child in me and I are one.

We love each other, care for each other, appreciate each other and will always belong to each other.

My inner child is not afraid.

The adolescent within me is learning Order, she can set New Boundaries.

My inner child radiates Light in the darkness, she can meet her own needs.

The child within me is sexually alive, but her sex will not be used against her.

I am resourceful in helping my inner child.

I Will move ahead when things go wrong, nothing can stop me.

I affirm the wisdom of my inner voice.

I can see clearly now. Today I will use my mind to discern between fantasy and reality.

I let go of the need to be self-critical.

Today, I will contemplate the source of my strength … the inner child.

I Am safe.

I Am secure.

I Am Top Dog, Alpha.

I Am deserving of the Love and Protection I give to others.

I Am significant.

I Am perfect, precious and valuable. I claim ALL of Me.

My inner child Will be treated well, with respect and honored.

NO aspect of the masculine is permitted to usurp Her/My Will.

WE will not be used my the masculine in the astral … no making out, no sex, no intimacy.

I can be ALL of me … Inner Child and Protectress.

I Am integrated.

I transform experiences in the astral to add Value to the inner child.

She will not be used as a fuck toy.

She will not be manipulated.

Especially in the astral.

By anyone.

She is Me.

I Am She.

We are one.

Be Quiet, Be Small

Published November 18, 2020 by tindertender

There are many in the seen and unseen who wish for you to shrink, to be quiet, to remain small.

They threaten to exercise their ‘authority’ over you, they’ll ruin you, punish you in ways that’ll make you regret your life, for eternity.

They touch you in ways intrusive, they take privileges not granted, they demand you be the ignorant ‘lamb’ you’ve been your whole life.

They will find their way into the depths of your soul and they will twist your innards, flip flopping your energies, commanding your very presence.

They’ll suggest you must pay for the sins of humanity.

What do you do?

In the physical it is easier because often you can simply walk away and never look back.

In the unseen … well, that is different.

The unseen is where those who exercise their Will to create change in the seen dwell. They are not happy when one intrudes into their space.

They demand that you be silent, or everything good will be stripped from you, replaced by shit. They are quite pleased with themselves.

They’ll tell you your attitude is not acceptable, they’ll tell you to fight is only going to bring increased harshness to your world.

This whole “shine your light” business is a method of finding the strongest among us. Those that vibrate high and have Power.

Their plan is to eliminate these ones.

What will remain are those who can be controlled easily, the ‘flock’.

Do you believe as a Light Bearer you will be granted a place at the table? Think again. They view you, me, WE as long term cattle … we are not allowed at the table.

Stop doing their work for them.

Make them earn it.

If they mean to remove the strong from this plane so they can create a Utopia, a Utopia where they are the only ones ‘awake’ and all others are ‘sleeping’ due to their genetics being altered by a vaccine and other toxins in the food, well … that’s just crap.

They are not your friends.

You may think that there are two factions … the good and the bad … you may even believe there is no such thing as bad … that all is one.

Well, it is, in a way, one. Polarity is everywhere.

This world, believe it or not, is the ‘good’, while the other I’ve been exposed to is the polar opposite. You think its awful here?

Don’t get on board a ship.

Do your best not to get sucked into a wormhole, a portal, which they can open anywhere, anytime.

Some say, “Stand your ground”. HA

Exercising ones Will requires a quiet determination.

Ranting and raving only expends the energies quickly.

Stay calm.

Just as every physical being does not have your highest interest at heart, it is the same with the unseen. Not all cherish your life for anything other than the Power they can syphon off you. You’ve already been exposed to this by ‘humans’ we call energetic vampires … they are everywhere, here, and there.

My hope is that the good guys wind up in my life, in your life. That those who intend harm are washed away. The challenge has been great, and ramping up now.

Prepare yourself.

Remember … if we were truly as nothing, they wouldn’t be trying so hard to possess our soul.

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