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The Eternal Medicine

Published December 31, 2022 by tindertender

When you begin to take care of your energy, you start to attract better people, you start attracting better moments, you start feeling better.

*It all starts within you *

When you take care of your energy, no matter what environment you are in, the light is within you and nothing affects you.

We work our energy in the day to day, on everyday behavior, on the feelings we emanate, that we produce in ourselves and in others… in thought, temper and character.


And you must have realized that some actions have the power to drain our energy while others help keep it elevated.

You reinforce certain mindsets by repeating your own thoughts and emotions.

Obsessive thoughts and toxic feelings consume energy and attract negativity.

Gratitude has a positive effect on your vibrational frequency.

Develop the habit of gratitude

The simple act of gratitude has the ability to increase your personal happiness.

During your day, watch carefully what you offer to your mind as food. Seek to listen to music that do you good, watch and read things that bring some intellectual benefit or help you vibrate at a higher frequency.

Get rid of the habit of complaining and talking badly of others.

Try not to think or say anything negative.

Spend 24 hours without saying anything negative about the world, not about anyone, not about yourself. Watch how your life changes

Be mindful of your vibrational frequency.

Regardless of whether you have a religion or not.
Your energy is just as important as your physical health, take good care of it!

~ Author Unknown


Published January 28, 2022 by tindertender

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.
Never trouble another for what you can do yourself.
Never spend your money before you have it.
Never buy what you do not want because it is cheap.
Pride costs us more than hunger, thirst, and cold.
We seldom repent having eaten too little.
Nothing is troublesome that we do willingly.
How much pain the evils have cost us that have never happened!
Take things always by the smooth handle.
When angry, count ten before you speak: if very angry, a hundred.
~ Jefferson

Gratitude Is A Magnet

Published November 2, 2021 by tindertender

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.” ~ Melody Beattie

If you think about it, you have an unending list of things for which to be grateful. The secret to having more isn’t in strategizing on how to get the green grass on the other side of the fence. Radical gratitude is about beholding the miracle of the grass growing on your side of the fence. To rise to a higher level, you may even add your challenges and struggles to your gratitude list! With radical gratitude, you realize you are more abundant than you ever could have imagined. Gratitude is a magnet. It will bring you the best things in life, and give you even more to be grateful for.

Mantra ::
I am an attractor beam, magnetic to the best thing in life!

Artwork by Rassouli

The Hero’s journey dream oracle, by Kelly Sullivan Walden

Thank You

Published February 19, 2021 by tindertender

Years ago I had something happen which nearly ended my life, and actually DID end life as I knew it.

For years my mind was in chaos, and only since August of 2020 has it smoothed out.

In these moments, when power is out and life has gone basic, I am finding that I Am coming more into alignment with my Soul Essence, which I have seen on 2 occasions in the astral.

Pure Love, welcoming with joy all that she sees … all that I see.

Only in the last 2 days have I really looked at my defensive nature toward things, people … seen and unseen.

I Am learning how to release that portion of self … there isn’t any need for it in the New World … the world I very much long to be a part of.

My most sincere apologies to my visitors in the astral.

I know I have not been the easiest person to visit.

It is a challenge, this transition, especially because of the way it started for me, all those years ago.

I am grateful for your persistence and patience.

I cannot promise that I have achieved a full liberation from the old me, but I am in process and looking forward very much to returning to that place of Love unconditional, in all instances.

I know it will be reciprocated.

I Am so happy you did not give up on me.

Thank you
Thank you
Thank you

With Great Gratitude …

Heightened Gratitude

Published February 19, 2021 by tindertender

I have been without power at home for six days and haven’t showered for seven.

I Am Grateful that I have had a pretty significant crochet habit the past few years and have made several blankets, they are coming in quite handy at night!

Last year I went crazy and made a whole bunch of candles. Little did I know I would be needing them this year. I will replenish once I gain power.

I’ve also had a hobby of preserving foods the last few years. I am not in lack.

It is 38 degrees during the day here.

I still have wood for a fire this evening and have access to more should I need it. I have gasoline to make the trip for it too! What a blessing!

In the night my dreams are quite active. It seems my intention for my future is being polluted in the astral, but I wake. The night is the night and the day is the day, and once again the smile is spreading upon my lips as I sit and type this message, drinking my tea.

I still have employment, so have a nice warm place to go during the day. The work load is light, yes, but here I am still … Grateful.

My co-workers will need to avoid me as much as possible for even I am beginning to smell myself, haha. If the power is not on soon I will figure a way to heat water for a sponge bath. I’ve 3 – 7 gallon jugs of water that I filled and replace the water occasionally, specifically in the event I would need it.

My Higher Self, Guardians and Master Teachers and Guides have been looking out for me, and I’ve been listening, obviously, on a subconscious level.

Rather than focusing on what I do not have, I focus on the things I DO have, and I make a conscious effort to be grateful for these things.

I pour forth LOVE from my Core Essence, Grateful for You.

A message for you, from my heart. 🧡💛💚💙💜💗

PS: Here is an awesome idea we can all gather materials for, for the next time we have a cold spell …

UPDATE: I understand now that my intentions are NOT being polluted. I am simply being shown what COULD happen should my intentions materialize … and it is an OPPORTUNITY to re-evaluate … GRATEFUL.

HA Breath with Ho’oponopono

In Breath: I Love You
Hold: I Am Sorry
Breath Out: Please Forgive Me
Hold: Thank You

I Am Grateful

Published February 18, 2021 by tindertender

After a long night of manipulation in the astral, I once again reclaim my smile, my ease, my joy.

I Am Grateful that the night is the night, and the day is the day.

I Am Grateful …

On my way to work this morning, still tender from the nights “affairs” a vehicle pulled in front of me, nearly right after I left the house … the license plate began as 444. My beautiful message that my guardians and guides were, and are, with me, as requested.

Every time you see this number, say (out loud if possible) “all is well”. Take a moment to feel calm and confident in your situation. This number was sent to confirm to you that everything is working out and that you are on the right path.

I Am Love

And I Am Loved

“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorns have roses.” ― Alphonse Karr

Feeling Grateful

Published February 17, 2021 by tindertender

Thank you Source Creator, Higher Knowledge, and All which dwells in me, All that I Am.

I am grateful for this day.

I have been without power for 4 days, it is 35 degrees in my house. I was fortunate to be blessed with the ability to purchase firewood for my fireplace. I am blessed to have a roommate who is there all day to keep the fire going while I am at work.

I am blessed with the opportunity to earn pay, which (hahaha) keeps the lights on, usually, but that has allowed me to afford the wood now burning in the fireplace.

I am grateful to be here for a few hours, where the heat is working.

I am grateful, for the negativity in my mind seems to be subsiding.

Although I wake, on the defensive, knowing that my dreams (my subconscious) is being observed, I realized a few moments ago that those who interact with me in the astral are not all of the same caliper. Some I understand mean me a not so pleasant future … but then again, it could just be a reflection of my “attitude” towards my visitors, a misinterpretation of the plan.

I am grateful to know that I have the authority to change my stance on things, according to my Will.

I am grateful for the hard lessons I have received over the last 18 years.

Hard lessons for certain, which have built my character and my compassion for those in a “hard place” in the many various ways that shows up, and also for Self.

Hard lessons which taught me that “judgement” isn’t always righteous … toward others, but particularly, for Self. After all, what we see in the world is a reflection of what is in our own minds and heart … in order to change what is seen and experienced, there is a need to change ones own character.

Releasing the need to be on defense or offense is critical … the coming Utopia requires that we be kind, that we lift others, that we give of ourselves, and in so doing all of this will be granted us as well.

I read today, “The path of self enlightenment begins when you realize that all in the material realm is an illusion created by chaos and true balance in ones own life comes from how they perceive their own consciousness” and that “high vibrations allow negative vibrations to pass through unimpeded”.

And so I begin practicing, to allow negativity to flow through me unimpeded … feel it, think it, release it without responding to it.

Mastering the Self is quite the challenge!

I am grateful to the helpers and teachers who have assisted in the process, for me, and for others.

Understanding had been so elusive in life, only now peeking at me from a state of higher knowledge.

Thank you to everyone who has contributed to my journey.

Thank you to everyone who has shown me Love … even when that Love did not feel like Love.

I am grateful, knowing that while we all have separate paths, they will all meet someday in Unity.

I am so happy that I have been blessed to see my true essence in the astral, not once, but twice.

I Am Love.

I AM Joy.

I Am Grateful.

And I Am Blessed.


Published January 31, 2021 by tindertender

Gratitude today for the things that are rarely mentioned. Thank you to the herbs that we burn for ceremony and herbs we use to cook with. Recognition to the dirt, grasses and sands that cover Mother Earth for us to walk on. Grateful for the foods that grow on trees and vines to provide us with nourishment for a healthy body. Thanks to Creator for making us human so we can enjoy all that our Mother Earth has to offer.

Art by Simone McLeod


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