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Published December 24, 2025 by tindertenderUnion
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WHEN GOD IS PORTRAYED AS AN ABUSIVE HUSBAND 💔
Published December 24, 2025 by tindertenderThere is a reason Scripture uses marriage language when speaking of God and humanity.
Because marriage reveals love most clearly —
and abuse most obviously.
Scripture says:
“No one ever hated his own body,
but nourishes and cherishes it.” 💍
That statement alone exposes a massive distortion.
Because if God truly hates, tortures,
or eternally punishes His creation,
then God would be doing
what no healthy husband ever does.
So let me tell this as a parable.
📖 THE PARABLE 📖
There was a man who married a woman
and told her he loved her.
At first, everything seemed fine.
But soon, he began to find fault.
She didn’t wash the dishes correctly.
She didn’t cook the food the way he liked.
She didn’t fold the clothes the way he expected.
He told her,
“If you really loved me, you’d do better.”
Over time, his love became conditional.
“You’re still my wife,” he said,
“but you disappoint me constantly.”
Eventually, he told her:
“Because you didn’t live up to my standards,
I will now torture you forever —
and this will prove how much I loved you.”
When people recoiled in horror,
he replied:
“You just don’t understand love.
I warned her.
She chose this.”
No one would call that love.
No one would call that justice.
They would call it abuse.
Yet this is precisely how God
is portrayed in much of church culture.
🧠 THE PSYCHOLOGICAL FRACTURE 🧠
When people are taught that:
- love includes torture
- justice requires endless punishment
- forgiveness still demands payment
the psyche splits.
The mind is forced to hold two opposing ideas:
“God is love”
and
“God will torture you forever.”
That contradiction cannot be integrated.
So the soul fractures.
Some become fearful.
Some become cruel.
Some become numb.
Many begin defending abuse as righteousness.
This is what happens
when the carnal mind governs theology.
The carnal mind only understands
control, reward, and punishment.
It cannot comprehend restorative love.
🔥 WHAT JESUS ACTUALLY REVEALED 🔥
Jesus did not reveal a God
who punishes His bride.
He revealed a God
who lays His life down for her.
He did not say,
“I will destroy you until you comply.”
He said,
“Father, forgive them,
they do not know what they are doing.”
A God who tortures His own body
would be less loving
than a human husband.
And Scripture never presents God
as less loving than we are.
⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️
When the church teaches people
to worship an abusive image of God,
it doesn’t just distort theology.
It damages the nervous system.
It fractures the psyche.
It normalizes domination.
It trains people to tolerate harm.
People begin to believe:
- abuse is love
- fear is obedience
- silence is holiness
This is not the gospel.
It is trauma
wearing religious language.
✨ THE TRUE MEASURE ✨
Love does not torture.
Love restores.
Justice does not destroy.
Justice heals.
And a husband who hates his own body
is not a reflection of God —
he is a warning.
Spirits Whisper 🕊️
Love never needs cruelty to prove itself.
What terror demands, love freely gives.
God does not punish His bride —
He heals her memory of who she is.
Anything less is not holiness, but harm.
Dear Women
Published December 21, 2025 by tindertenderDear Women, have you ever realized how powerful your thoughts are for the man in your life?
Saka Ana Lorenza, a Kogi Saka and spiritual leader, speaks about the quiet but immense importance of women in the lives of their men. She explains that it is not only what women do or say that shapes a man’s path, but also what they think about him in the privacy of their own mind.
When a woman holds thoughts of trust, respect and blessing for her partner, this creates a field of support around him. Even when she is not physically present, he can walk with more strength, clarity and courage. Her inner agreement becomes a kind of spiritual protection that helps him move through obstacles and stay connected to his purpose.
When her thoughts are filled with constant criticism, disappointment or contempt, even if she never speaks them aloud, this too has an effect. The relationship may begin to feel heavy. Conflicts appear without a clear reason. Success may be blocked in subtle ways.
According to Saka Ana Lorenza, many women do not realize how central their inner stance is for the wellbeing of the man and for the harmony of the family.
This is not about blame. It is an invitation to remember the sacred influence that women carry. Their love and their clarity are not small. They are forces that can either nourish or weaken the life that grows around them.
The Kogi see relationship as a spiritual responsibility that both partners share. And the thoughts of the woman are one of its deepest foundations.
May your thoughts become a blessing for you and for those you love.
Marriage Is Not for the Deceptive, Cheating, and Manipulative Man
Published September 25, 2025 by tindertenderLet’s be clear, brother:
Most men don’t lose their marriage because they stopped loving.
They lose it to financial turbulence.
They lose it while giving their best as husbands.
Many get outplayed by deceptive, unfaithful, manipulative women.
But sometimes—the enemy isn’t outside.
Sometimes, it’s within.
Sometimes—it’s you.
Your need to twist the truth until it suits you.
Your urge to spread your seed far and wide.
Your hunger for pleasure, not purpose.
And when the destruction starts with you—
It cuts deeper.
Because you didn’t just lose a wife.
You sabotaged your own kingdom.
Let’s break it down:
- Deception Always Comes Back With Interest
You can lie to her.
You can lie to the kids.
You can even lie to yourself.
But the truth is undefeated.
Every hidden chat.
Every secret bank account.
Every double life.
It all returns—with compound interest.
And when it does, it costs more than honesty ever would.
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- Cheating Isn’t Freedom—It’s Suicide in Installments
They told you multiple women make you powerful.
They lied.
Every side chick is a liability.
Every affair is a trap.
Every secret kiss puts your empire at risk.
Men don’t lose their wealth in the boardroom.
They lose it in bedrooms they should’ve never entered.
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- Manipulation Is Weakness Disguised as Strategy
Some men think they’re smart because they can spin stories.
But leadership isn’t trickery—it’s trust.
You don’t need to outsmart your wife.
You need to outbuild your enemies.
And every time you manipulate her, you’re not leading—you’re losing.
Because the day she stops believing you is the day she stops following you.
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- A Lying Husband Trains a Lying Household
Your kids are watching.
Every secret, every shift of blame, every “little cover-up.”
And they’ll copy it.
You think you’re hiding flaws.
But you’re planting seeds.
And one day, you’ll look at your son or daughter and realize—
They didn’t inherit your wealth.
They inherited your deception.
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- Respect Dies Where Lies Live
You can’t demand respect while building your house on dishonor.
She may stay.
She may smile.
She may even play along.
But deep down—she doesn’t trust you.
And without trust, your crown means nothing.
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Final Word: Don’t Be the Man Who Buries His Own Legacy
Marriage is not for the deceptive, cheating, or manipulative man.
Because no woman can trust him.
No children can follow him.
No legacy can survive him.
The truth is simple:
You don’t destroy her with lies—you destroy yourself.
So if you can’t lead with truth, don’t lead at all.
And if you won’t be faithful, don’t be married.
Because marriage isn’t a game of strategy.
It’s a covenant of legacy.
And the man who plays games with it—
Ends up losing everything he thought he owned.
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Wolves
Published August 23, 2025 by tindertenderI did not know.
Look how calm she seems to be.
That is MY Horse
Published May 1, 2025 by tindertenderA few weeks ago I heard a masculine say to another, “That is my horse.”
It just came to mind again, so I googled what a horse might mean …
But first ~
The false telepaths who fancy themselves drivers of consciousness want folks to believe a person is no more than an animal, a commodity, a transport, from here to there, a work-horse which helps them complete task … this was part of the degrading verbiage the hidden interferers were pumping into the field of awareness during last Sunday’s mental attack as I was chopping wood in the forest.
What is a horse a metaphor for?
The metaphor of the rider and the horse. The rider is your rational thinking, your mind. And the horse is your emotions, your energy, your power, the animal part of your nature.
What did the horse represent?
In its earliest symbolic perception, the horse was disquieting and chtonian, but later became associated with the sun as a result of its domestication. It is most often a lunar animal linked to mother earth, water, sexuality, dreams, divination and the renewal of vegetation.
What is the spiritual meaning of a horse?
The Horse symbolizes travel, stamina, adventure and intuition, embodying the spirit of freedom and the relentless pursuit of new horizons. Wild Horses, with their unbridled energy and desire to roam, remind us of the deep-seated need for exploration in our own lives.
And just now, I’m thinking of the 4 horsemen …
The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, as described in the Book of Revelation, are four biblical figures who appear upon the unsealing of the first four of the seven seals. They are widely interpreted as representing Conquest, War, Famine, and Death.
Here’s a more detailed breakdown:
Conquest (or Religious Deception): The first horseman rides a white horse, symbolizing the conquering power that often precedes the apocalypse. Some interpretations also view this as representing religious deception.
War: The second horseman rides a red horse and is often depicted with a sword, representing war and conflict.
Famine: The third horseman rides a black horse, signifying famine and starvation.
Death: The fourth horseman rides a pale horse, representing death and pestilence.
Symbolism: The four horsemen are not just literal beings; they are symbolic representations of the chaos and suffering that will accompany the end times.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_Horsemen_of_the_Apocalypse
Some of you Suns and Stars are transport in this Spiritual Battle for Amazing and Skillful Holy Warriors from the Kingdom of the Most High … unseen … and you will not be falling, not this time. You Holy Steeds, whether you be a Stallion or a Mare, are Divine, and this is your Last Rodeo.
I heard the Divine state, “Lust will be your down-fall.”
When a warrior pays heed to the lustful energies they’ll be distracted, and someone may come along and steal their horse.
Be aware Family, whether you are the Rider or the Steed, be 100% present in all of your circumstances until the Most High Divine give the go-ahead, letting you know the war is over and it is time to relax and BE with one another. Don’t “jump the gun” or you may get shot.
Sweet Union
Published January 15, 2025 by tindertenderBeauty and the Beast❤️🔥
All the fire in my soul is for you❤️🔥
Let me touch and hold your soul🩷
Shower me in Miracles🩵
Can you handle me baby🩵
Right beside you, ready to embrace your vulnerability, Soul Deep Love ♥️
She’d rather have the heart of one man than the attention of many ♥️
Walk with me in darkness and light 🤍🖤
And we will find balance in our souls journey, together 🩵
Yes I do…🤍💫
Naked Soul🩵
I hold the Sun for you in my heart ♥️
My home is in me, but not without you ♥️
You found me. ♥️
You’re my dream come true🤍
I want you in my arms and attached to my lips, dreamlands 🩷
I don’t want to just love you. I want our souls to merge and burn brighter than any star found in the universe ♥️
Our love will ascend as high as we are rooted 🩷
Heart. Mind. Soul. 🔥♥️
A promise for eternity 🩷
Now rest your soul, we found our home 🤍
Authentic 💛
Still alive ❤️🔥
Your ‘Power Couple’ Union is Said to be the Strongest
Published December 21, 2024 by tindertenderBe aware of the subtle energies of those in your environment.
Realizing they were against you, needing your services. You’re not required to be “servant” to the envious, jealous, deceitful ones who plan to get in your energy and claim your gifts, unaliving you into suffering if they could. Tricking you into a bad outcome.
Allow the “Two to be One”.
This connection you share … the two, separately, already intertwined with the Most High Divine … as One … are very, very strong. Transmitter / Receiver of The Most High God, Divinity itself moving through this couple, United, as it moves through no other pair.
Do not let “people” interfere with the Power of the Divine moving in you. They aren’t in this connection, they aren’t the ones TMH moves through, as it moves through you.
Listen to the Divine
Let it guide you
Let it lead you
Let it provide the people what they need
While monitoring them
And removing them, should they have desire to remove you.
Trust.
Blind Faith.
Comfortable in the Unknown.
Allowing it to be shown,
In Divine Timing.
We’re In This Love Together
Published September 25, 2024 by tindertenderIt’s like a diamond ring
It’s a precious thing
And we never want to lose it
It’s like a favorite song
That we love to sing
Every time we hear the music
We’re in this love together
We got the kind that lasts forever
We’re in this love together
And like berries on the vine
It gets sweeter all the time
Its like a rainy night in candlelight
And, ooh it’s so romantic
We got the whole thing working
out so right
And it’s just the way we planned it
Tell ya
We’re in this love together
We got the kind that lasts forever
Don’t you know
We’re in this love together
And like berries on the vine
It gets sweeter all the time
We’re in this love together
We got the kind that lasts forever
We’re in this love together
And like berries on the vine
It gets sweeter all the time
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I am safe.
I am protected.
My family divine knows exactly what’s happening, intimately connected.
He won’t leave me, he who claimed me. Unlike, completely, those who harm me.
Perfectly knowing, and perfectly capable and willing, he handles my tormentors without fail, giving exactly what they have coming.
I rest.
I need not worry, or wonder how to survive … I’m no longer alone.
My family from above has very scary friends from many places. I love our scary friends and family. So much. They are quite a bit more frightening than those who thought they were competing … with me.
No, I’m not scary at all.
I never wanted the fight.
After all this time, my load has been made light.
Grateful. Grateful. Grateful.
I’m never alone.
Intimately united in all ways with truest family divine, within, and without, time.
How I love you.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Thank you, my beautiful, my scary, my everything, for this beautiful song on the day of love …
You’ll always be with me.
I love you.
I am grateful.
I’m never alone.
Protected.
Guided.
Guarded.
Our family divine, so glad you are here, my beautiful scary loves!!! Having you in my mental body is so much more pleasant than a skullcap full of adversaries!
Gather the Tribe
Published March 1, 2024 by tindertenderThe old threads are unraveling,
Get your needles ready.
We are stitching a new quilt
of Humanity.
Bring your old t-shirts,
worn out jeans, scarves,
antique gowns, aprons,
old pockets of plenty
who have held Earth’s treasures,
stones, feathers, leaves,
love notes on paper.
Each stitch
A mindful meditation.
Each piece of material
A story.
The more colour the better,
so call in the Tribes.
Threads of browns, whites,
reds, oranges
Women from all nations
start stitching.
Let’s recycle the hate, the abuse,
the fear, the judgment.
Turn it over, wash it clean,
ring it out to dry.
It’s a revolution
of recycled wears.
Threads of greens, blues, purples
Colourful threads
of peace, kindness,
respect, compassion
are being stitched
from one continent to the next
over forests, oceans, mountains.
The work is hard
Your fingers may bleed.
But each cloth stitched together
Brings together a community.
A world, our future world
Under one colourful quilt.
The new quilt of humanity.”
~ Julia Myers
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