“When you are transparent, you become unmistakable—no shadows, masks, or veils to blur the truth of who you are. In your transparency, others can look through you and into the core of your being, where your heart and essence glow with an unfiltered light. You stand as you are, clear and direct, with a kindness that needs no explanation.
There is no mystery to untangle, no enigma to decipher. You leave no one puzzled or lost in the aftermath of your words or actions. You are not a riddle but a presence fully understood. In your honesty, you refuse to hide. You carry the courage to show up fully, stripped of pretense or armor. You are bravery embodied, raw truth in human form.
In this nakedness, you don’t waver or seek approval. Your transparency is not a weakness but the purest strength. It is a declaration: “This is who I am”. You let yourself be seen, and in that openness, you stand out in a world that often shrouds itself in layers of pretense. Your authenticity shines like a beacon, guiding others toward their own.”
Awhile back I heard a masculine exclaim, “I just need to figure out what the F it is!”
And I remembered days long, long ago when my hair was to my waist, all nice and perfectly straight. I used to comb the hair in front and wear glasses and pretend to be “Cousin Itt”.
You will recognize her because she makes genuine eye contact with whomever she meets… She is not afraid to be direct and honest about how she feels
She charts her own course And is willing to meet whatever comes Because she has faith in her journey She’s aware of her own strength
She delights in enabling the wellbeing and the empowerment of others But she refuses to subject herself to energy drainers… She sees through bullshit instantly She knows how to protect herself She is obedient to her own inner knowing, She is willing to break the rules made by others in order to be authentic to herself
Her truth comes directly through her heart She uses her mind as the servant to manifest it
She is inwardly and outwardly aware She responds more than she reacts She no longer waters illusory drama She no longer feels the need to control what is
She is deeply connected to her creative source She is her own work of art in progress She can create beauty from whatever is in front of her
She is in tune with her intuition and instinctual body She lives in the present Because she is willing to relinquish the past And allow the future the space it needs to unfold
She understands that life is an ever changing flow from one moment to the next… She willingly goes with it.
She feels deeply connected to the earth and stays close to nature, She recognizes that she is not separate from it… Being connected to nature is essential for her health and wellbeing
She has simplified her life Released the non-essentials so that she can be spacious and free
She values her aloneness, She waters her soul with it But she also values quality time with like minded souls
She doesn’t need a man to complete her Her relationships are on an equal basis of respect and sharing Unbridled sensual pleasure…
She has no time for gossip She’s invested in raising the sisterhood up rather than cutting it down
She celebrates the beauty and power in other women She celebrates the beauty and power within herself
She is just as willing to receive as she is to give She fills her own cup for herself and overflows it for others
She understands the futility of unsolicited advice So she shares her wisdom through living it
She envisions the healing of the world She offers her gifts as a contribution towards it
Love is her religion Unity is her gospel Laughter is her grace
She loves to play through her inner child Sing and dance through her inner maiden She nurtures her body mind and spirit daily through her inner mother
Others seek her for her wisdom Are irresistibly drawn to her unpredictable mystery
They feel seen and accepted in her steady gaze… Peaceful in her sacred space
They are shocked by her irreverent humor But secretly inspired, uplifted, Given permission to be themselves
She is Maiden, Mother and Crone In one She is Goddess
― Caroline de Lisser
art credit: Maiden Mother & Crone by Sulamith Wulfing
Your crowd can’t be found if you’re hiding. If you’re afraid to express yourself authentically and transparently, If you’re afraid to be vulnerable, rejected or ridiculed, You’ll never find those who are in resonance with your Soul. Your Tribe. Chosen Family. Making decisions based out of fear will cause failure in a person’s life. The goal is to expand, to elevate, Not shrink.
I woke this morning as I do, starting the day in ‘prayer”. I was recognizing the presence of our Divine Masculine, working so hard to clear tough issues now, acknowledging the great divide between them and the offenders wearing their bodies, speaking with their voices, doing so much harm.
As I finished up and started readying for the day, lyrics of a sweet song began to run through mind. Thank you Divine … thank you for the healing, the love and the gentle care. I am so grateful you exist!
Somewhere out there, someone loves me. My heart is warm and full.
Be certain you pay attention to the subtle gifts, family, these beautiful communications as they gently roll through mind.