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HOW A DEPRESSED PERSON STAYS DEPRESSED

Published June 29, 2020 by tindertender

Written by Maria Palumbo: https://mariapalumbo.com/; https://www.facebook.com/maria.palumbo.loves

Surround yourself with people who talk at you, instead of with you. People whose problems always seem worse than yours.

Those that like to hear themselves talk. Who use you as a sounding board. They are always facing something they need to get off their chest.

Surround yourself with people who always have a new pain they need you for. Using your touch, your energy, as a way to reduce their discomfort.

Caretake their needs. They need more help than you do, you rationalize. Therefore you never have too many emotional needs. You never ask for help, for you can see how lonely
Needy
Vulnerable
Other people are.

Let yourself s*xually and/or emotionally give to them, as a service. It is too hard creating boundaries. You don’t mind just being who people need you to be at all times.

How depressed people stay depressed, is by never getting angry. Always bending over backwards and being flexible.

Choosing loved ones that mimic dad or mom. People who ignore
Invalidate
Who you are.
People that lean too hard on you at all times.

Have an ex lover? Or someone you are interested in? Stay energetically open to connecting with them, even when the relationship is unclear or unhealthy. When it gets in the way of you trusting and deepening with someone else.

Have frequent daily reminders of this relationship around, always taking you out of the present moment. Unconsciously making you hope for or live for the possibility of connecting with them.

Keep photos of the past, the ones who have died to you literally or metaphorically. Do not replace them with photos that reflect what is true today.

Live in a mental graveyard of the dead. Of regret. What happened always making you fear what COULD happen.

Love people who do not really care too much either way. Who encourage your addictions to suffering and loss of self, because they get something out of it. Because you have more focus and energy on them, when you do not treat yourself all that great. They can always get what they want when you don’t honor who you are.

It is easy to be a master at being depressed, especially during the aftermath of continual attack and murders of people of color. We are also facing the numbers of deaths crawling back up from the virus. You must, MUST, be even more diligent on owning your energetic boundaries
Asking for help.
Getting good help.
Being with people who see you, instead of use you as an escape.
Be with people that you cannot escape with because they want to look into your eyes and feel you really looking back.

Do not stay in the cozy prison of your numbness. It will only get worse there. Get help, even if you do not know what to say. Let people love you, by speaking up. Let people see you, by letting yourself be seen.

Depression makes you think no one really cares all that much anyway. So why bother? The truth is the world deeply cares. Especially the moment you decide you are worthy of being cared for.

You are precious even now. Especially now.

To your preciousness.

Love,
Maria

Dark Night Metamorphosis and Dissolving the 3D Personality

Published June 23, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/Karina89350882?s=20

There are four main types of spiritual crisis or down-cycle events in metamorphosis that need to be clearly understood to prevent unnecessary suffering and secondary backlash:

LIGHTNING: This is a terror event of intense energy pouring up and into the body similar to a euphoric inner-conjunction of spiritual activation, but in this case it is an inner-conjunction of feeling great discomfort, anxiety, pain or fear. Here we descend deeply into our matter and flesh and experience inner fears or energy blockages, or experience external anxiety with no apparent cause. We may be accessing buried parts of our Unconscious Mind or cellular memories that are embedded in our bodies. This “negative” inner-conjunction mostly occurs during one’s first initial awakening stages which can help to surface hidden fears or pain located in the Pain Body. This terror or fear is the polar opposite to the spontaneous bliss awakening in a neophyte-body at the early Soul initiations for those that are unfamiliar with such intensity of Expanding Consciousness and energy.

SHOCK: White Death, or autonomic shock in the CNS that occurs immediately after a mystical or ecstatic experience with kundalini spiritual activation. That is the contraction and toxic overload after a significant opening to the extreme bliss of a euphoric inner-conjunction event or a spiritual initiation stage into a higher frequency or level of the Lightbody. Sometimes in this stage a person can feel numb, apathetic or in a void.

SELF-DIGESTION: Then there are the die-offs of toxins or waste which are a catabolic breakdown of the former structures through apoptosis due to oxidation by free radicals and then phagocytosis[2] by the macrophages[3]. This is a physical event and a spiritual-energetic event. Thus, one can experience a cleansing cycle similar to a detoxification through the elimination channels of the body. Detoxification at all levels of the body occurs, including a mental and emotional detoxification of the Pain Body and Ego/Personality. Changes in the hormonal structure, and endocrine functions. This is also the process of Ego Death.

BURNOUT: Lastly there is the exhaustion phase of the overall spiritual awakening cycle where the body’s resources of neurotransmitters, hormones, and nutrients have been used up in the climb to the escalation heights of the spiritual awakening peak. During exhaustion depression arises, yet there is permanent bliss or peace giving the sense of being dissociated from the depression.

So dear friends – and there comes more…..Love and Light is GREAT- but FIRST you go through this ALL and SURVIVE and THEN you can talk about Ascension……Sorry, but this is Truth – I have had to realize that humans can`t be just helped with “sugar” and “sweeties.

So – how many of you have experienced this??? Ready for more??

Dissolving the 3D Personality

The incarnated station of our identity that was our personality matrix, the aspect that was enmeshed with the lower three dimensional frequencies, is also dissolving. This equates to the dissolution of our personality matrix or station of identity that was located in the lower three dimensions, and moving that aspect of our identity into the higher frequency bands of our Soul matrix or higher station of identity.

What happens to the people on the earth who believe that they are only their personality identity, when it begins to dissolve? We can see the effects of that consciousness shift now in the global scape. The range of experience for some people is from sensations of great anxiety, stress, and mental confusion all the way to the descent into madness and insane behaviors. Most people are not aware they are losing Coherence, and are unaware of the causality of what is actually influencing the way they think and behave.

The lower dimensional contents that exist in the planetary collective consciousness fields are undergoing massive reconfigurations in multiple ways. This energetic change in the 3D reality has reached critical mass, which means it is greatly impacting all people of the earth.

Whether asleep or awake, the self-mastery that has been either lost or gained is measured in how you personally deal with stress and chaos. No person on this earth is exempt from the exposure to the massive fields of chaos, confusion and darkness that exist in the collective mind of humanity.

During this time, our inner energetic integrity is tested in order to hold neutrality, while facing the great forces of chaos. This is being tested in every person, just from the mere fact of being on the earth at this time.

How well are we able to adapt to change and hold neutrality in every kind of stressful situation?

We have to measure our competency level now. If we are not doing well with adaptability, flexibility and neutrality in our life situation, we must make adjustments to gain strength with this skill set.

This is the time to take stock of how well we are coping with the madness of the earth, as the collective mind of humanity travels the Dark Night of the Soul. What does this take and what is being asked of us? All people must take responsibility for the quality of their thoughts, behaviors, actions, as all consciousness that is created has a direct cause and effect.

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A bit more about the Dark night of the soul with more “practical advices” how to handle the symptoms.

Suggestions to Support Ego Death

Relax as much as possible in the down-cycle, Surrender and allow the process of the Dark Night. Make yourself comfortable without suppressing symptoms, without escaping to run away or propping yourself up with distractions and stimulants.

A spiritual die-off is a free radical storm which may induce stress. De-stress and take good care of your body, potentially consume superfoods or doses of antioxidants for protection. Also if guided, take support supplements, essential oils that help the thyroid (kelp, nettle leaf), the adrenals (licorice, Vitamin C), the nerves (Vitamin Bs, ) and the hormones (ginseng, gotu kola).

Drink at least 10 glasses of water a day, and take a bath to re-hydrate potentially in salt baths. The body has a huge demand for water and Biochemic Cell Salts during a die-off phase, detoxification and spiritual activation.

If one is accelerated in full detoxification of toxin die-off, one may experience Ascension Symptoms like Ascension flu. The immune system is essentially dismantling the body and all one can do is rest in bed, and not eat much of anything.

It’s best not to eat while the body is in catabolic breakdown mode, or digestion will draw energy away from the transmutation of the flesh and your resurrection will not be as complete. One may create toxicity and tissue damage if you work against the natural break-down cycle and ignore the bodies request for rest, cleansing or fast.

Now we come to the last part

Psychospiritual Crisis

The symptoms of psychospiritual crises represent a manifestation and exteriorization of the deep dynamics of the human psyche and Consciousness. The individual human psyche is a multidimensional consciousness and multilevel system with no internal divisions and boundaries. We cannot, therefore, expect to find clearly defined and demarcated types of spiritual emergency.

I will first present a list of the most important varieties of psychospiritual crises as identified and then briefly discuss each of them tomorrow:

1. Shamanic crisis
2. Awakening of Kundalini
3. Episodes of unitive consciousness (Maslow’s “peak experiences”)
4. Psychological renewal through return to the center (John Perry)
5. Crisis of psychic opening
6. Past-life experiences
7. Communication with spirit guides and “channeling”
8. Near-death experiences (NDEs)
9. Close encounters with UFOs and alien abduction experiences
10. Possession states
11. Alcoholism and drug addiction.

Remember …

Published June 18, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/TirsohCartoons?s=20

Angry people generally are not patient. There is a reason why this needs to take a certain amount of time. We can deal with that. We are psychologically stable. They are not. Time helps us and breaks them out of the spell they are in. (Yes witchcraft was used on them).

It may seem like “normal” people are the stable ones and the nuts are the crazy ones, but in reality, “normal” is just the media, corrupted churches, and many other places putting a specific set of expectations and ideas of what “reality” should be.

Those that actually have found logic, reason, emotional balance, and who have already broken the mind control may not always find it easy, but we can absolutely cope. Mind controlled “normal” people will not, no matter how well adjusted they may have thought they are.

So we get through this, they suffer a bit with breaking the mind control tactics while being in a very odd rough time, and eventually we get through this. But time is the ally that we need.

At this point the world has seen more than enough information for honest/diligent people to find a minimum level of love and understanding.

As beautiful and kind as most people are, you have to remember that those running our Eternal society have seen A LOT of people die permanently. I am not just talking about lets go to the next life, go through some therapy and we will be fine. I am saying that many are gone.

The reason I say this is that nature is coming. It may seem odd and stressful thus far in the Exposure that we are in, but as it gets worse, it will get to a lot of people. Remember that peace must come. Many societies and the world our eternal society came from are gone now.

The old world is still a radioactive wasteland where NO LIFE of any kind can survive. This fate is because too many bad people that no one was able to stop. At the time, our group was too small and not powerful enough to do anything to stop the bigger and more violent group.

The world where we really got our start is completely gone. Imagine if our Earth had done that and we were survivors living in another realm with our home world dead. That is one thing in science fiction and quite another in real life.

Let me make this very clear. WE ARE VERY STRONG NOW in our eternal home realm. Our leaders on the other side will NEVER at any point allow foolishness to continue past a certain point. We are not allowed to get to the point of risking that fate for real. It will never happen.

So you will see many unpleasant things here. Nature will ravish and destroy some lands. Many will die. It will be so many that it could lead people to question what possibly could have been done to merit that. Remember that they have seen many things before they cannot repeat.

Remember that they have far more advanced simulations and predictive models that show outcomes of current behavior patterns. Nature is not something they are bringing. They just cleverly timed this Awakening very well to coincide with the stuff that is coming.

While it is going to be scary and all countries should have things that make people nervous, the US is very well protected. The places which cannot and will not listen to peace, and who live in ways that lead to certain mass deaths will not be protected.

I have said that before, but I say that again because a billion plus deaths due to meteors, tsunami(s), and other is not something that shake most people to their core. This is the real world. Free will means that actions have consequences. Nature really does do bad things.

People do bad things, even when much of the time they seem peaceful. In the old world all are gone. The old, young, innocent, horrible… All died together. In the new era, the peaceful only need apply. All races without exception have been contacted many times over the years.

Every race, every continent, no exceptions. If you see marvelous things like great advancements in the far East way back in the day, the Great Wall of China, the Pyramids, and other advancements and gifts of knowledge to certain groups, it is based on laws.

To get something, another thing must be given. If the group is unwilling to listen, then nothing much is given and then our eternal group tries later with someone else. This is the way. They do not usually force their will on people. It is up to the seeker of knowledge to do.

To get something, another thing must be given. If the group is unwilling to listen, then nothing much is given and then our eternal group tries later with someone else. This is the way. They do not usually force their will on people. It is up to the seeker of knowledge to do.

Native Americans absolutely were warned quite a few times long before the problem with the mass migration happened. I know that is not what anyone wants to hear, but this is the reality that you will face in the eternities. They did not listen to quite a number of times that we visited. Free will is free will. They did not listen. We did what we could to make things better. Even as ugly as this was, it would have been far worse had it not been for early intervention and continued management of that problematic time.

Now the both continents North and South America are choice and protected lands that have a great future. Of course all lands have a great future, but things will not be as hard in these lands as in some places (in general, not necessarily every single place). The good people only are protected and there are lots and lots of good people ready and waiting to take the next steps towards rebuilding the planet for peace.

The point of this thread is to state yet one more time that reality is very hard. It is not the ideal dream scenario that most imagine.

There is a HUGE MASSIVE problem that free will plus stubborn ideas creates. It never ends well. Large amounts of people are still mad about what happened with the whole North America and South America thing and it was done as well as could be preserving free will of a bunch of mostly evil stubborn people on many continents. This next time, we do NOT have the luxury of getting people so mad that they hold grudges for the next thousand years. So nature is coming anyways. If people want help, they need to listen and change.

If they do not change to the point where the group is safe, the good ones will have a nice place in paradise, but large parts of many areas will be hit very hard. Nature this time is not something the deep state can control. It is going to do its thing.

The ONLY power that can stop it is the Eternal society we come from, and whom I represent here. If any group wants their help, then it MUST follow all divine laws, and result in a truly peaceful, sustainable solution. So basically, lets not complain about things going sideways.

Strong

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

When they see you as a strong woman, they think that you do not need anything or anyone, you can bear everything and will overcome whatever happens. That you do not mind being listened to, cared for or pampered.

When they see you as a strong woman, they just look for you to help them carry their crosses. They talk to you and they think you do not need to be heard.

A strong woman is not asked if she is tired, suffering or falling, if she has anxiety or fear. The important thing is that she is always there: a lighthouse in the fog or a rock in the middle of the sea.

The strong woman is not forgiven anything. If she loses control, she becomes weak. If she loses her temper, she becomes hysterical.

When the strong woman disappears a minute, it is immediately noticeable, but when she is there, her presence is usual.

But the strength that is needed every day, to be that kind of woman, does not matter to anyone.

Honor, recognize, respect and thank the strong women in your life, because they also need to be restrained, loved and feel that they can rest.

ASSUME THE BEST INTENT IN PEOPLE

Published June 16, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/ArchangelAmongU?s=20

Hello, my friends. My WiFi is out today so my message will be short and then I will be out the rest of the day.

When you get up and start your day, assume that those with whom you have contact will treat you well. and that your day will be positive. By doing so, you create, and send out energy that will bond with that of others who are positive, and repel the negative energy of others.

As Jesus states in his book we are discussing, everything in life is about “electromagnetism.” If you wake up and think your boss will be rotten to deal with, your energy will create that bond and situation. The opposite is also true. People will react accordingly to you.

Over 80% of all people in the world are either really good, or at least decent in how they treat others. The constant negativity in the media only highlights the negative 20%. You can choose to bond your energy with the 80%, or the 20%.

We can all really help the energy of the collective consciousness to remember and anticipate that the majority are just doing the best they can. They are also trying to figure out how to improve the quality of their lives. When we assume the best in each other, we show love.

I also want you to know I’ve asked an angelic gestalt team to check you all for implants. If you don’t want yours removed, they will know. If you have them and want them cleared, they will remove them so you don’t have to ask me individually.

Thank you all so much for being here. I appreciate the opportunity to be of service. Much love to all of you.

A Healthier Self and Planet

Published June 13, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by: https://twitter.com/StarSoul777

Grab a bottle or two of water, go to a place with water, a stream, or river, hold that bottle in your hand, or on your chest(heart), see a light from your heart filling and mixing with the water in the bottle, and say “may this bottle of light cleanse and purify the waters of Mother Earth, the rivers, the lakes, the seas, the oceans, may this bring joy to all of the Water Kingdom. So it is. And than gently pour the water in the stream, river, and SEE it reaching far and wide into the oceans. SEE the oceans sparkling with light.

If you wish to see world peace, than imagine this, visualize this, SEE A PLANET OF PEOPLE DANCING HAND IN HAND OUT IN NATURE, LAUGHING, HUGGING, SHARING GIFTS. See the Animal Kingdom being free, playing in joy.

We have stated previously BREATHE IN LIGHT, BREATHE OUT LOVE. This is especially important RIGHT NOW. What do you wish to SEE in this world? What do you wish to experience? What do you wish to create? Be clear in your intentions, and see ’em manifest with the light of your heart.

This is a time of amplified intentions. A great energy is offered to YOU now, what will you do with it? Will you allow the old ways to distract you, pull you into negativity, or will you use this energy like a master in your reality, to change your life and the world.

This new light is assisting your healing, cleansing, and activation of your DNA at a much faster rate. A whole lot of activity is occurring in your head, the third eye in particular, you will notice much more activity than usual there.

Also your high heart is receiving intense waves of light, self love and love for all is greatly needed now.

Be at peace with all, within and without. Eat less, eat light, drink plenty of water get plenty of rest, spend much time in nature. Your entire being needs to be at ease as you are receiving extra boosts of energy.

There is so much going on right now within your being, and without, on all levels. So what are you to do? The short and simple answer would be to BREATHE, relax.

Now we approach a very unique and powerful gateway, that will bring immense change to this world once again. Waves of light amplified, contributing to the deeper shattering of the illusions.

This is a chance for both(you and the star body) to prepare, to find the peace within, to open the heart more, and be ready to receive and to CHANGE one’s reality, through raising your frequency.

As we stated earlier, you are eternally connected to the rest of the Universe, stars, planets, galaxies. In certain timelines this connection becomes stronger, the energy amplifies due to the way the ‘star bodies’ are aligned. This is the Divine in ACTION.

You are made of the same light and love which the planets and the stars are made of. You are eternally connected. You are continuously exchanging energy. You have an impact on each other, positive or negative, the receiver decides. Day and night you “play” together.

Your DNA responds to Earth DNA. In a way connected. When Earth’s DNA activates, yours does as well. However, there can be obstacles on your end. And these would manifest as physical symptoms. Which brings us back to caring for your vessel.

What remains is the adjustments and upgrades to the physical vessel, because this is, for the first time in the Universe’s history, physical ascension. Hence the reason for this process being so gradual, so it may seem to many, or the human body would burn out.

Now you are anchoring a higher part of yourselves into the 5th dimensional matrix. At the same time through the activation of your DNA you are “pulling up” your physical vessels into the higher light.

The light from the Great Central Sun is infusing every star system in the galaxy. Our sun is bombarding each planet of the solar system with the new refined light.

Unnatural things cannot exist in 5th Dimensional Earth. From the food to medication. From the paved roads to the gas powered machines. And everything else that is composed of unnatural components, will gradually dissolve.

Much will also be transmuted by advanced technologies into something that Earth can use.

They fail to comprehend the magnitude of what is transpiring on Earth, so they label it as “new age stuff”.

The new reality is being anchored on this world similar to an ice tray being filled with water. The light flowing from Source to Earth will not stop until every dark or empty area has been filled with light.

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Grace

Published June 3, 2020 by tindertender

Poise, Charm

Courtesy, Manners, Decency

Beauty, Loveliness

Tact, Consideration, Style

Ease, Finesse, Allure

A desire for belonging, transformed into an embracing of self, in all of its wholeness / holiness.

Sharing, Caring

Compassionate, Considerate, Protective

Nurturing, Treasured

Union of the Collective

Harmonizing on all levels

Merging into Oneness

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