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Affirmations ~ November 1, 2021

Published November 1, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

I release any thoughts of deserving punishment. There is no shame in my process.

I leave behind the need to compete.

I embody the light of peace.

I do what feels truthful.

I live in wholeness to my best ability.

Everything I need for success is within me.

The next phase of my life will naturally happen.

I welcome a return to Divinity.

All guilt or shame I’ve embodied around having needs, I release now. I move beyond it.

I accept the gift of happiness.

I nurture harmony in my life.

I ask that the beauty in my life be shown to me.

I use my words in a constructive way that supports sweet relationships.

I allow my creativity to come alive.

I honor the path of my love.

I release false belief.

I take steps that will bring me closer to my dreams.

I stand in my light.

I am blessed with this life.

I accept divine gifts coming to me.

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Affirmations ~ October 31, 2021

Published October 31, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

I open myself to receive.

The oppression I’ve been under is being released. Freedom is near.

I live on impulse and with faith.

Life is changeable and I flow with it.

I welcome connection with like-minded souls.

I claim my power. I see it in all of my choices and actions.

I embrace the wholeness of self.

My senses tune in to the variety of life.

My soul is nourished.

I release old patterns. I create the environment which invites the new.

I create magnetism in my life.

I fill my world with gladness.

My choices are rooted in love.

I am not chained to a specific outcome. I do not limit possibilities with pre-conceived notions.

I move gently with change. I conserve my energy.

I gift others my attention. I hear them when they speak. I seek to understand what is important to them.

I open the windows of perception to see a greater truth.

I seek balance as I flow with life.

I am not alone.

Signs and messages are all around me.

I set foot in a new direction.

Shadow Work

Published April 23, 2021 by tindertender

When you were little, were you afraid of the dark? Most of us were.

And I doubt we ever thought to question this fear. We were almost naturally taught to be afraid of the dark, because the dark is full of unknown things that might hurt us.

But what usually happened when you turned the light on? You learned the unknown things were not so scary. And they were not so unknown. They were just part of the environment.

We learned to associate darkness with scary and unknown, and we learned it’s better not to speak with our dark thoughts and emotions.

Turning the light on our emotional shadow is a lot more challenging than flicking a physical light switch on. So we avoid it. Superficiality is easier. But this darkness of our soul has a life of its own which thrives, whether or not we choose to acknowledge it.

It’s there, and it’s powerful.

Understanding Darkness

This fear of our emotional complexity grew as we grew, and with time became our shadow.

It’s a hidden part in us that influences our choices more often than we are aware.

In truth, much effort goes into repressing and hiding it from ourselves and others. It’s our dark side. The parts we are ashamed and afraid to show. But through denial, we fail to see that in the obscurity of darkness also lay our strengths.

For reasons originating in the past, we have decided to negate and hide this dark side without exploring it further. And so in return it keeps us distant from truly expressing ourselves.

In many ways, hiding our shadow can be considered the highest form of betrayal.

By concealing this part of us, we are saying we don’t deserve to show our complete selves, thereby betraying ourselves. In return, secrecy, manipulation, and pretending take over large parts of our lives from fear of being ‘exposed’ and rejected for the part of ourselves we are hiding.

As mentioned, our shadow can show itself as weakness or strength. Becoming aware of our complete self allows us an opportunity for expressing strength. Ignoring these qualities, however, will always produce a damaging result.

The more we repress these dark corners of our being, the more we face disorder in our personality.

This can manifest as,

addiction

anxiety

intentionally failed relationships or jobs,

…or other behaviors that cause destruction to ourselves and others.

To become aware of our shadow is to shed light on our earliest wounds and to give ourselves a chance for healing and transformation. But as long as we choose to close our eyes to this, the wounds will continue to decay while emitting poison into our lives.

To Deepen Our Spirituality, We Must Pass Through the Shadow

Any spiritual work must entail exposure and understanding of our shadow.

Solely focusing on finding our light keeps us away from places of shame, guilt, jealousy, greed, competition, lust and aggression. But it is these very emotions that must be worked through first before coming near our lighter sides.

Even certain spiritual practices like meditation can become difficult when we try to ignore our shadow self. Its repression shows up when we shut our eyes, and we’re left with only our thoughts.

As with all strong emotions, what we don’t want to look at always keeps us contracted and in rejection. Deep down we know these qualities and feelings reside in us, and hiding them leads us to a life of in-authenticity and sometimes incomprehensible self-destructive behavior.

If our shadow is not acknowledged and embraced, the depth of our spiritual and personal growth is limited. Denying to look at the darkness is rejecting ourselves the need to be received in totality by others.

We start to over-identify with the side of ourselves acquired through our own perception of reality. This in turn shapes our personality, the superficial side of us, which the world meets.

Our roles and personality try their best to help us feel worthy and lovable. For some, it is by being intelligent, successful, and powerful while for others it is the opposite. In whichever way our personality tries to control life, it remains just another attempt to be loved for something we know we’re not.

As long as this partial picture of ourselves is kept intact, we create separation.

The message is,

“I don’t want to look and feel certain parts inside me and I prefer to judge others for showing and living what I choose to reject”,

…hence choosing separation, inside and out. It is a painful cage of continuous isolation.

Embracing The Complete ‘You’

The way to our light is through darkness.

Whether we want it or not, the dark side in us is very active even though it is concealed and not evident to the outside. But we know it’s there, continuously asking for recognition.

The shadow should be met in a safe and loving environment. Otherwise, it is too afraid that its face will cause devastation and result in further isolation. When it’s safe we can start looking, seeing, and expressing what has been hidden from our awareness.

There are many unpolished diamonds of strength, creativity, and beauty, which we’ve kept limited so that others close don’t feel small, intimidated or scared. Speaking to our shadow is an immense step towards healing and self-love.

Initially, when we embark on this exciting and necessary journey, we may not be sure who we really are. But this is only because we are so used to our masks that expressing our true self is like meeting a familiar stranger.

Soon new possibilities, choices and, perceptions appear.

Suddenly we can face the many question marks in our life from a place of strength and authenticity. We strengthen our capacity to be in this world more fully and completely.

So, are you ready?

Shadow Work: The Ultimate Guide + Free Psychological Test
https://lonerwolf.com/shadow-work-demons/

Connectedness in Relationship

Published April 10, 2021 by tindertender

Relationships that are harmonious, truly connected and successful are that due to the amount of nurturing and care we put into it … the consistent effort. Key word … Consistent.

Any time we do something half-assed, expecting full beneficial results is simply an effort wasted.

This goes for our physical relationships … friends, lovers, family … as well as our relationship with Spirit … the Angelics, our Guardians, Guides, Ancestors and others beyond the physical who’s desire is to assist us.

We must create the “connection” … the silver thread or cord that allows us Union.

In the physical, we do this by assisting, by listening, by caring and the sharing of our heart, our innermost self. By allowing others to be who they are without negative judgement, and expecting the same for self. If the “allowing” does not sit well with us, it simply means we are not a vibratory match and it’s time to move on.

In the Spiritual, we do this through prayer, through ritual. The prayer (or as I like to think of it, “conversation”) and the ritual must be consistent, a daily practice, preferably at the same time every day.

Although I am not a religious person, I am fully aware of our brothers and sisters in the astral realms who have capacity to influence life … some beneficially, others in different ways … to be utilized as “lessons”.

Whatever connections we intend, we must be consistent, and mentally present in our desire for connection.

If we wish to create a positive experience, we must consistently focus on its creation. Think positively, see the beauty in life, be grateful for the challenges and appreciative of the lessons learned through the experience. Love the Earth, spend time in nature. It nourishes the Soul and our connection to the Living Elementals.

If we are consistently thinking about how shitty life is, that consistent thought trail will grow stronger and it will be what we see more of.

If we wish for assistance and union with the Angels, Guardians, Guides and Ancestors, we must include them in our prayer, private spiritual conversations, and ritual … Daily. We must nurture the relationship just as we would with a physical partner, or friend.

Change and assistance does not come by periodically evaluating the circumstances of our lives, and finding them dissatisfactory, making prayer of assistance, pleading for things to turn around.

No thing “turns around” or transforms until we become an active, consistent participant.

Long story short ….

If you want a healthy physical relationship with companions, family or friends, you must nurture it and be fully present with it … otherwise the beautiful silvery cord of that connection with desolve and disappear.

If you want the Angels, Guardians, Guides, Ancestors to be present in your life, speak to them daily, have ritual inviting them in. You must, in order to grow that silvery cord of connection. Similar to an umbilical cord … it gives the relationship Life.

Nurture that which you wish to grow and be healthy in your life.

We have so many helpers in the unseen waiting for us to strengthen our connections so they can properly assist, with power and vitality.

Who you are connected to depends on what you are nurturing.

Everyone has choice.

Focus on crap, you’ll get more crap.

Focus on nurturing, on beauty, on friendly, powerful, loving connections, you’ll get more of that.

It’s simple Laws of the Universe.

What’s in your heart will manifest.

http://www.desarrolloconsciencia.org/eng/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/2_The_Laws_of_Universe_and_Life_PROTEGIDO.pdf

I am fully aware of those who usurp our will with their own, causing us pain and suffering of all kinds. I am aware that many do not survive these instances.

While we have Choice, let us use it wisely, and to our benefit, for the relationships we build, seen and unseen, benefit ALL participants … and the outcomes for each.

The Silver Cord of connection to the Angelics
The Master Rituals of Protection in this book are very useful and will help you create that bond, that beautiful and powerful connection with the Archangelics.

If you are interested in taking charge to create positive change in your life and are looking for materials, I highly recommend Mastering Alchemy. There are many opportunities located at their website, https://masteringalchemy.com/

One of their books:

Here is a link for many YouTube discussions, very good place to start if you are unsure of a commitment to the courses just yet.

https://youtube.com/c/MasteringAlchemy

Self-Awareness Is Everything

Published April 1, 2021 by tindertender

When you’re actually self-aware… you’ll find there’s no time or space to focus on what other people are doing with their lives… this journey is not a competition.

We carry our attachments, trauma, and pain in our bodies… as we let them go… our bodies, our actions, and our lives change.

I’d rather get hurt from loving too much than hurt someone else because I’m full of hatred.

NO ONE can knock me off my healing and growth path unless I let them…

And that is my Power.

Source: @cjzingle

Message 3/30/2021

Published March 31, 2021 by tindertender

As I drove to the ocean I tuned into the energy and saw beautiful diamond mirrors falling from the sky. I heard these mirrors are reflecting the higher aspect of self, that which is of the angelic kingdom, into humanity. We are in a time when we are sprouting our wings and we are able to transcend the third dimension in order to live from the higher aspects of self.

The second image I see are angels of the ancient mariners. They are here to claim victory in the oceans and to take back that which is of the Creator in the seas.

They are reversing the polarity that had been used for purposes of miscreation & are bringing it back into alignment with the Creator. All glory and power belongs to the Divine Creator.

The third image I see is a garden of light pink roses. The garden has a tall fence made up of golden crystalline frequencies. I hear this is the garden of childhood innocence. This energy is being anchored into the planet and is the antithesis of the darkness.

In anchoring this energy, the power of this frequency creates zones around the world in which darkness is repelled.

The energy of the child once again is revered and is aligned to the Creator. It has a strength and power unsurpassed by any in its capacity to love.

As I sit by the ocean I noticed the strong wind and see there are a lot of whitecaps on the waves. This represents an unleashing or a lifting up of darkness trapped on the bottom of the ocean. It is brought up to the surface where it mixes with the surface waters and then it is cleansed and purified by the sunlight and released from the earth.

This is the time of the great purification. That which was intentionally miscreated and reverse engineered by the darkness is being brought back into alignment with the One, the Creator of all. All that is of the darkness is allowed no longer. Their time has expired.

Tuning into the energy I hear, “Ah yes, we are with you. Today we are sending in platinum energy in the form of platinum diamond rays of the 12th dimension & beyond to help balance cranial capacity and repair any misalignments with thinking, processing and assimilating new material into the human nervous system. This energetic upgrade is allowing for the ability to hold and process ancient information returning to humanity.

The human temple needs an upgrade as is the case when a person realizes it is time for a new car; they simply outgrew the old one. The old human framework could not handle the capacity and the speed with which information is transferred, so we are hoping to upgrade you to a new and better model, you see? As a result of this upgrade and recalibration there could be moments of forgetfulness & fatigue. This may present itself as simply forgetting what it was that you were doing for a moment.

This is one of the issues that go along with the recalibration of the human nervous system. However, all is well and this is very exciting because it means as you continue to ascend you will continue to upgrade. The result is a new temple will be built from the old one, you see? So the person you see standing in the mirror today is different from the one you saw a few months ago. You are a new improved model being prepared to live in the five dimensional world. We see events are progressing rapidly, so we are working together with our cosmic brethren in continuing to adjust, recalibrate and upgrade your systems in order for you to best handle change and adapt to living in a world of higher frequency.

This is why you are receiving new cocktails of frequencies, higher than ever before. In addition to the diamond coded frequencies and brilliant plasma light, we are sending you the emerald green frequencies in these upgrades to your nervous system. These will make you the best and most aligned version of yourselves, capable of integrating those higher aspects of self in order for you to most easily live in the 5D world. This world is with you. You are walking in it’s energies. We are so pleased to see the progression of humanity’s ascension.

Source: https://twitter.com/lightworker4441?s=21

Just A Dog …

Published March 30, 2021 by tindertender

From time to time, people tell me, “lighten up, it’s just a dog,” or “that’s a lot of money for just a dog.” They don’t understand the distance traveled, the time spent, or the costs involved for “just a dog.”

Some of my proudest moments have come about with “just a dog.” Many hours have passed and my only company was “just a dog,” but I did not once feel slighted.

Some of my saddest moments have been brought about by “just a dog,” and in those days of darkness, the gentle touch of “just a dog” gave me comfort and reason to overcome the day.

If you, too, think it’s “just a dog,” then you will probably understand phrases like “just a friend,” “just a sunrise,” or “just a promise.”

“Just a dog” brings into my life the very essence of friendship, trust, and pure and unbridled joy.

“Just a dog” brings out the compassion and patience that makes me a better person.

Because of “just a dog,” I will rise early, take long walks and look longingly to the future. So for me and folks like me, it’s not “just a dog” but an embodiment of all the hopes and dreams of the future, the fond memories of the past, and the pure joy of the moment.

I hope that someday they can understand that it’s not “just a dog,” but the thing that gives me humanity and keeps me from being “just a man/woman.” So the next time you hear the phrase “just a dog,” just smile–because they “just don’t understand.”

Pendulum Alchemy and Healing

Published March 25, 2021 by tindertender

By Erich Hunter: https://www.pendulumalchemy.com/

When I started this work I inherited the idea from my predecessors that light played a role in Pendulum Alchemy and Healing. This view started in Europe. The American Raymon Grace was not aware of this, and he independently invented the concept of using pendulum commands with no awareness that light played a role in pendulum work.

The light concept ties into the shape of the pendulum. The original idea was that different pendulums would influence light in different ways. This is where the idea of using differently shaped pendulums comes from. This is also why Raymon Grace does not recognize that you need a particular type of pendulum and he says you can use anything you want. Because he is not aware of the energy/light issue.

This is also how Biogeometry got the idea that shapes could influence energy. They however, took the original teachings about energy and light and went in their own direction talking about vibrations while still using light terminology which I find very confusing and misleading. This is why they still believe in the Negative Green concept because they use light terminology to describe vibrations so they can’t see the impossibility of Negative Green for pendulums and pyramids. They have a blind spot due to their belief systems. But I digress.

Back to the subject.

When you send light with a pendulum two things are going on.

1) The shape of the pendulum will act like a prism and subtly influence light reflecting off it from the environment. This low level light can stimulate a healing response and stimulate changes.

2) When you use a command you invoke an archetype of light. In magic there is an idea of correspondence. One thing in nature represents another and has the same influence. This is where the term “As above so Below” comes from in Alchemy. It is similar to the idea of universal archetypes of Carl Jung.

So when you say a command you don’t literally send the light. Instead you invoke the archetypal or fundamental quality of that light energy and that is what is sent via the command+pendulum.

I summarized all this below with Blue Green.

The top diagram shows a person passively sending Blue Green light to another person. This Blue Green is coming from the environment and it is reflected off the the pendulum. No commands are being used.

The bottom diagram shows a person using a command to invoke the archetypal force of Blue Green and send it another person. Notice that in the bottom diagram no Blue Green is actually sent. Instead the person is sending the archetypal quality of Blue Green (e.g. summertime, health, the Sun, etc.). This is where Pendulum Alchemy crosses over into magic. Magic uses invocation of archetypal forces all the time. Religion does as well.

If you want to learn more about how pendulums use light for healing please take this course on the Universal Pendulum.

https://pendulumalchemy.thinkific.com/courses/the-universal-pendulum-application-theory?fbclid=IwAR3wzuYdMTZXt8MdV-egZtlmHvuz1A8GGzmxzPJd8hPWWTMFD5tm3yRapUc

You don’t need to own one of these pendulums to benefit because you can use pendulum commands to invoke the archetypal forces of light and use that for your Pendulum Alchemy and Healing work. The course explains all the different types of energies and their uses.

Thank you.

Erich Hunter

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1459496000803321/user/100028130173276

https://www.pendulumalchemy.com/

Just Dance

Published March 24, 2021 by tindertender

Live your Hearts Song!

Listen to the Beat Within!

Dance..

With

The Wind 🍃

Dance..

With Fire 🔥

Dance..

In the Rain 🌧

Dance..

With Grandmother Earth 🌍

Just Dance… 🐾 🐾 🐾

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Do You Hold Stuck Energy?

Published March 24, 2021 by tindertender

Women – Do you unconsciously hold the energy of others in your ovaries? Breasts? Butt? How did it get there? Here’s a tool to begin to clean it out, heal it and return to balance.

Men – What is your experience of this changing dynamic?

Unconscious patterning … absorbing “others” opinion about our body parts and “storing” that thought and the emotion behind it in our body … in our mind.

Release all of it … “you are okay”.

Take back your Power … Adopt a daily ritual of cleansing the attached energy (thoughts and feelings), the opinions of others.

https://masteringalchemy.com/