I posted a short about this sweet child seeing me from behind as I looked in the freezer section at the grocer, thinking I was his grandma. “Grandma! Grandma! He said.” I turned around to this sweet boys love and was touched in my heart space.
A masculine posted on the short, “What are you doing?!?! Stop now!! It’s not going to end well.”
He took report of a sweet moment and accused me of wrongdoing, based on his own misperception and possible history. While I feel for those who have been hurt, it does no one any good to accuse all “grandmas” of thinking like that. Some of us actually Love the sweet innocent ones, purely.
Apparently people I’ve never met are out there “explaining” me to others. This verbal accosting by a masculine accusing me of foul thoughts and intentions regarding this child is offensive.
People who believe slander and accuse falsely, without even having the maturity to do research first, are responsible for much unwarranted suffering in the world.
Heal your trauma.
Not every grandmother wants to bring suffering to innocence. Most of us love purely.
Some “feed” on the “energetic fuel” of riling others deceitfully. Some enjoy playing with a mind and kicking back to observe their handywork. Those who have been violated and remain unhealed are great puppets for a lying narcissist.
I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light
I see us on the shore beneath the bright sunshine We’ve walked along St. Thomas beach a million times Hand in hand, two barefoot lovers kissing in the sand Side by side, the tide rolls in I’m touching you, you’re touching me If only it could be
I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light
Through each dream, how our love has grown I see us with our children and our happy home Little smiles, so warm and tender looking up at us Blessed by love, the one we shared Till I wake, and reach for you And you’re just not there
I like dreamin’ ’cause dreaming can make you mine I like holding you close and touching your skin Even if it’s in my mind Oh, sweet dream baby, I love you Oh, my sweet dream baby, you’re in my dreams every night Oh sweet dreams, I like feelin you Oh sweet dreams baby, Don’t keep me waiting all my life
Children should all have pets, so they can get used to managing themselves through the pain of losing the love of the connection. It’s gentler than losing an “intimate” union and love. If we cling too tightly, we can become a monster, we can heart and soul shatter and wish to destroy the entire world for the pain of it. Practicing this release makes the loss, or change within union, bearable, while remaining open to loving again. I really don’t like it when my doggo leaves me, but another comes, and teaches me to love again.
In the middle of the city’s hustle and bustle, where people walk past each other without noticing, a man stands out not for what he says, but for what he represents. He has no home, no wealth, and no certainty about what tomorrow will bring, but he possesses something far more valuable than all that: the unconditional love of his dogs. He lives on the streets, facing the unforgiving cold in winter and the scorching heat in summer. Despite the hardships, he never complains. He asks for nothing for himself, only for them. These dogs are his family, his reason to keep going.
Every morning, before the city awakens, he rises and gently strokes the backs of his companions who sleep by his side, trying to share the little warmth he has. He carefully adjusts the makeshift blankets he’s created from scraps of fabric, making sure they are comfortable and protected. While he endures hunger and loneliness, his only concern is ensuring his friends don’t feel the same abandonment. He shares with them every crumb he receives, sacrificing his own food so they won’t go hungry.
Some passersby look at him with curiosity, others with disdain. “If he can’t take care of himself, how can he take care of these dogs?” they wonder. But they don’t see what he does when no one is watching: how he checks their paws to make sure they’re not hurt, how he covers them with his body when it rains, how he speaks gently to them when they’re scared. To him, these dogs are not a burden, but his reason for being. Each wag of their tails is a silent thank you, each loving gaze a promise they’ll never abandon him.
So, night after night, he keeps going, no matter the cold or the obstacles. Because to him, these dogs are not just animals, they are proof that true love cannot be bought, but is given unconditionally, with the soul, expecting nothing in return.
Now’s the time for all good men To get together with one another We got to iron out our problems And iron out our quarrels And try to live as brothers
And try to find peace within Without stepping on one another And do respect the women of the world Remember, you all had mothers
We got to make this land a better land Than the world in which we live And we got to help each man be a better man With the kindness that we give
I know we can make it I know darn well, we can work it out Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can, can, why can’t we? If we wanna, yes, we can, can
I know we can make it work I know that we can make it if we try Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can great-gosh almighty Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can
And we gotta take care of all the children The little children of the world ‘Cause they’re our strongest hope for the future The little bitty boys and girls
We got to make this land a better land Than the world in which we live And we gotta help each man be a better man With the kindness that we give
I know we can make it I know, darn well we can work it out Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can, can, why can’t we? If we wanna, yes, we can, can
I know we can make it work I know that we can make it if we try Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can great-gosh almighty Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can
I know we can make it I know darn well, we can work it out Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can, can, why can’t we? If we wanna, yes, we can, can
I know we can make it work I know we can make it if we try Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can great-gosh almighty Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can
Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can, can, why can’t we? If we wanna, yes, we can, can Oh, yes, we can, I know we can, can Yes, we can, can, why can’t we? If we wanna, yes, we can, can
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I know we can make it I know darn well, we can work it out Yes, we can, can Yes, we can, can, why can’t we? If we wanna get together, we can work it out
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I know we can make it I know darn well, we can work it out
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