Freedom and Gratitude

Published February 8, 2022 by tindertender

Freeing my parents from the feeling that I’ve been let down.

I free my children from the claim that they must live to make me proud.

Let them go the way of the joy of their heart.

Let them follow their intuition & follow their dreams.

Relieving my partner from the obligation to complement my integrity.

I lack nothing, I am constantly learning along with all beings.

Thank you to my grandparents & ancestors who met so that I could breathe life into today.

I free them from past setbacks & unfinished desires, knowing that they’ve done what they can to live their life’s circumstances to the fullest.

I honor, love & recognize them as free beings without any guilt.

I expose my soul in front of their eyes so they know I have nothing more to hide or owe, besides being true to myself & my own existence by following the wisdom of my heart.

I am fulfilling my life plan, without the consent of my family.

I know that I’m responsible for my peace & happiness alone.

I give up on the role of a savior who unites or meets the expectations of others.

I learn through love & only through love.

Therefore, I honor my essence & thrive on my being & its manifestations, even if others may not understand me.

I understand myself because only I am living my story.

Because I know myself, I know who I am, what I feel, what I do & why I do it.

I honor myself, love myself & accept myself without guilt.

I honor, love & accept you without guilt.

Honoring the divine in me & you.

We are free…

Prayer from the 7th century of Aztec language Nahuatl.

Animal Relatives

Published February 5, 2022 by tindertender

“The journey of life will place animal relatives to walk on our path beside us, they will bring a special warmth and teach many lessons on how humans should act.”
~ Lakota

Civility

Published January 29, 2022 by tindertender

The insolent civility of a proud man is, if possible, more shocking than his rudeness could be; because he shows you, by his manner, that he thinks it mere condescension in him; and that his goodness alone bestows upon you what you have no pretense to claim.
~ Chesterfield

LORD CHESTERFIELD AT RANGER’S HOUSE
The 18th-century politician Philip Dormer Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield (1694–1773), was the most celebrated resident of Ranger’s House. One of the foremost men of his age, he is now best known as the author of the famous *Letters* to his illegitimate son.
Initially a reluctant resident at Ranger’s, he came to love his Blackheath home and used it as a summer retreat. Find out more about his life at Ranger’s House.

History Repeats Itself

Published January 29, 2022 by tindertender

PDF of the document here: https://iiif.wellcomecollection.org/pdf/b30478637

Weaving A New Destiny

Published January 25, 2022 by tindertender

In Norse mythology, the Norns (Old Norse Nornir) are female beings who create and control fate. This makes them the most terribly powerful entities in the cosmos – more so than even the gods, since the gods are subject to fate just like any and all other beings.

Reconciliation

Published January 24, 2022 by tindertender

Remember the source of Love.
A loving action is all
you need to begin the process.
Reach out with a simple first step.

I pause and remember those I have left behind, my lost loves, and broken relationships. I will be brave and take a step toward healing the past. I will reach out with silent love but will expect nothing. For I know the most important mending needs to take place in my own heart. Looking back, I am filled with gratitude. For the good we had I am filled with joy. I will give myself all of the love that I ever needed. I will heal the past and I will be free.

~ Magical Times Empowerment Cards by Jody Bergsma

You Can’t Go Back To Yesterday

Published January 22, 2022 by tindertender

And the Gryphon added, “Come, let’s hear some of your adventures.”

“I could tell you my adventures – beginning from this morning,” said Alice a little timidly; “But it’s no use going back to yesterday, because I was a different person then.”

In this lovely moment, Alice is being asked to recount her adventures for the Gryphon who longs to hear them and is genuinely interested. Alice would love to share, too. But, she knows if she talks a great deal about what has happened and where she is from, she will never truly be able to move forward and find out who she is now that she has changed and is within the world of Wonderland.

The Gryphon wants her to share so she can be entertained, and perhaps get to know her a little better. But for Alice, the thought of reliving the past is no good, as it will not help him know her, as she has changed too much. And therefore, her history is not a way to true friendship. Perhaps this is the same for you. Focus on creating new memories, on sharing experiences, on getting to know someone and letting them know you in the present, through observation and conversation. Accept that you have changed.

As we change, the simple telling of who we were and what we did, is sometimes not as powerful as sharing who we are becoming and experiencing new adventures right in the heart of the precious present moment. Yes, we can share our past adventures and histories, but perhaps you were quite a different person then. So, consider adventuring forth and fully experiencing the present with people you have connected with. Your past will spill out of you, when the time is right for the sharing of such things.

You are more than your past. You have evolved and changed. Sharing your history is only to share who you once were. You are no longer the same person.

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Rewriting History

Published January 9, 2022 by tindertender

Those “rewriting history” should know by now that stating “I will fight you until the end” will never win a battle.

When we fight against something, we give our power and energy to it. The key is to remove self and all sources of energy that can be harvested, and allow the conflict to simply dissipate.

That which is self-sustaining will support itself, individually and collectively.

They still believe, and rightfully so, the masses of humanity are asleep and have no clue what energy does, or how it works.

BTW ~ they are still calling it his-tory. Which says all there is to be said about this rewriting ….. being done by the same violator dominators as before.

It is sad to me really… I thought being here was going to help. I really did. I believed my King …. and truth be known, I still do.

I’m lacking awareness of the current scenario and the attacks keep coming.

The virus caught me and has attacked my heart chakra. Feeling a little off. But as usual during these attacks, I will be resilient through them, endure it, and move on.

The actual new story of humanity should read,

“I will endure you until the end, at which time you shall be cut off from all access to all energies belonging to Primordial Light of Source Creation … You made your bed. And I allowed it.”

Pandora’s Gift

Published January 4, 2022 by tindertender

There is a mythic woman, much aligned throughout history, whose name means ‘all gifted.’ Pandora lives within us as our curious nature, yearning to conquer chaos, evil and darkness with the light of knowledge. She is the hopeful voice of our soul that asks the questions and, in doing so, triggers the process that brings answers. Sometimes it is through uncomfortable learning that we find our treasure. Pandora reminds us that the process of learning can take us to places that seem like the end of our world and yet, all is not lost. Even now, the light within you is stirring for new revelation, new life and new adventure.