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The Immature Man

Published February 25, 2020 by tindertender

Written by Maria Palumbo: https://www.facebook.com/maria.palumbo.loves; https://mariapalumbo.com/

The immature man will compare women. Say who has better breasts. Personality.

Who is more feminine. Who is the s*xiest.

Pitting women against eachother. Creating jealousy and competition and fear and insecurity.

Like a teenager, he will feel out of control. He will blame her for it.

The dangerous man will resent a woman alive in her s*x and try to make her pay.

How dare she be so beautiful?

How dare she make him want her so much?

He will blame her clothing, her body, her charisma, for making him feel out of control.

Instead of savoring his delicious lust, he will vomit it onto her.

He will hold her responsible for what every terrible woman in his life did. Every woman who did not show up for him, like they should.

You can feel the seething vile in such a man.

He is a walking volcano of hurt and self-loathing under the surface, because somewhere down the line, someone shamed him for his s*x. Abused it. Took charge of it. Did not protect it. Either energetically or literally.

When he was soft and needing and connected to his feminine, someone tore him from that place of peace.

He has been on a rampage ever since, trying to burn away his own inner feminine as to no longer feel that level of pain again.

It makes sense the feminine in the world infuriates him. Entraps his joy.

Ever since the day his joy in trusting in his inner feminine was taken, he will try to make a woman pay. He will try to protect himself and take what is his and never be vulnerable again.

Avoid commitment.
Avoid staying.
Avoid loving.

Then no one gets hurt.

The heart of toxic masculinity is pain.

“Why would you want me? I do not want me. I only cause harm.”

Toxic masculinity stems from the wounded sweet boy, that no one was tending to.

The confused child whose delicate innocence was smashed by people who should have known better.

This is why he cannot trust his desire. This is why he is haunted by his lust.

As a woman, it is not your job to help, heal, explain.

Do not cover up your s*x because it confuses or brings up an avalanche of pain and fear in men who have suffered.

Do not hide, play down yourself, re-parent, stay. You cannot figure it out for him.

Hold a mirror up to his wounds. Speak to the pain that was here before you. He gets to decide to do something beyond masking his hurt in the things society encourages men to do:

Get furious.
Drink.
F*ck a lot.
Do drugs.
Yet be a good boy.
Make money.
Don’t make a mistake.
Don’t let anyone down.

Or you will be less of a man.

The most loving thing you can do is let his rage have him. The rage that cuts him off from you and himself.

The only thing that can save him, is feeling the full weight of his actions. And then he finally has a choice:

Do I do as I always have done? Fear, hate, lie, condemn, kill the feminine?

Or

Do I reach out for something beyond this pain? Do I risk being truly hurt in order to let someone in? Let someone help me?

Being a strong man means being willing to go back to the places that were destroyed and slowly find the pieces that feel broken and make sense of them again.

Follow the thread of shame back to the heart: His tenderness. His need. His longing for love and his unshakable fear that he is broken beyond repair and does not deserve love.

That he has made too many mistakes.

To love the man in his toxic masculine is to leave him. Do not get stuck in the web of sorrow that surrounds him.
Do not play the games.

Only then can there be true healing.

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Natural Order

Published February 20, 2020 by tindertender

(Quoted from another post) 🙏🏼❤️

I see a need for my people and for all human beings because of the way things are today, to go back in time and bring back respect for one another.

My ancestor’s have always had a spiritual way of life and done things with respect. Aside from what people from the external societies think about our so-called religion, we do not call it religion, we refer to it as a part of our spirituality, our existence.

If we ever lose that part of our lives, we will surely perish. We would become a people within a lost world, at which time there would be no reason for continuing life in the physical sense. This has been part of our lives since the birth of our people.

Our land is not our land, we are merely part of the land. We must all, as human beings, treat each other with respect and more specifically, we must also treat Mother Earth with respect so that we can all survive in the future. Please let us all be united and understand each other, for the future of our children is in our hands.

Living in balance, which now amounts to trying to recreate a lost balance, is critical. Taoist philosophy has long recognized the importance of the balance between yin and yang–feminine and masculine energies.

The Earth is alive: rocks, waters, clouds, volcanoes, and all flora and fauna–not to mention the Cosmos of stars and planets.

Goddess, in Wicca and elsewhere, is not separate from the world, nor does she rule over the world–she is the world, as Spirit manifest.

We are all One organism, One in Spirit.

Our relationship to the Earth and other species that share it has been conditioned by our religious models’. The image of God as outside of Nature has given us a rationale for our own destruction of the natural order, and justified our plunder of Earth’s resources.

We have attempted to “conquer” Nature as we have tried to conquer sin. Only as the results of pollution and ecological destruction become severe enough to threaten even urban humanity’s’ adaptability, have we come to recognize the importance of ecological balance and the interdependence of all life.

The model of the Goddess, who is immanent in Nature, fosters respect for the sacredness of all living things. (Wicca) can be seen as a religion of ecology. Its goal is harmony with Nature, so that life may not just survive, but thrive.♥

Beloved Friends Of Earth!

Published February 19, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by: https://twitter.com/kabamur_taygeta

In These Sacred Moments, We Remind You That You Are Indeed Creating The Story Of You!

Your Life Experience Is Determined By Chosen Perception!

Everyone Is On A Journey And Can Only Perceive From Their Current Level Of Awareness!

Breathe Deeply Now!

As All Experience Is Recognized As Self Determined, A Fascinating Complexity Of Levels Within Will Emerge As Knowingness!

It Is Necessary For All Beings To Do Their Best In Contributing To The Collective, as One Literally Changes The Vibrational Frequency Of Self And Others By Actions And Words!

The New Earth, At Whose Brink You Stand In The Present Moment, Represents A Transitory Stage That Integrates The World Of Physical Form And The World Of Instantaneous Manifestation!

Breathe Deeply Now!

In This Moment, Which Represents The Crossroads Between Two Worlds,

Realize It Serves Nothing To Continually Blame Self Or Others For Inevitable Differences!

Find A Common Ground And Grow Together!

For The New Earth Is One Of Harmony And Love!

You Came From The Multiverses To Live This Dream Together!

Many Lost Their Way And Chose Darkness!

Many More Have Found And Remembered Their Light!

Be As One!

EN EEKE MAI EA!

Soon We Rise!

~AKATU

To make this perfectly clear:

Published February 12, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/decodingthehive; https://decodingthehive.info/handbooks/

A FALSE god is ANY being in existence that you pledge allegiance to. There is only one universal creator, that is the god-family collective of which you are members. You are the gods of creation.

It is time to remember and stop handing away your crown in return for bread and circus. We create all things and manifest all things into reality.

Your brothers and sisters are the aether particles who are here only to serve you and only when you personally take the actions needed to serve yourself. Save the prayers and get up off of your knees if you seek change.

NO journey ever taken ever led to that person winding up where they wanted to be without taking the first step, and until you do, the aether IS NOT CONVINCED that is where you want to be. Actions do not speak louder than words.

Actions are the ONLY words that the aether can hear.

Never, ever worship any being because they could well be your nemesis in disguise. You and only you alone will ever make it out of this, and it will come from your own inner wisdom. Never, ever forget this.

I am one being equal to you who chose to stick up for a single agenda, that of the human experiment. You are not that experiment, you are god. Never, ever forget this or someone will lead you off of your path.

Your path is yours and yours alone and no one anywhere can act like they know what’s best for you. I can’t, no one can.

Only your awareness is able to distinguish which trail through the woods is better for you. Never, never let your guard down for anyone. Ever.

You are that higher power and the savior you’ve been waiting for. This isn’t just a quaint phrase.

Be strong and be wise now. You are the gods from time immemorial and this is what you came for; the End Game. Shine.

All Love

-mission guide

The FDA Knew the Bottled Water Was Contaminated. The Public Didn’t

Published February 12, 2020 by tindertender

FDA inspectors have found some companies failed quality standards for bottled water, but the agency didn’t take significant action.

The government’s May 2018 report on Sweet Springs Valley Water Company, a bottled water manufacturer in West Virginia, was alarming. An inspector from the Food and Drug Administration, during a review of Sweet Springs’ test records, found that several months earlier the company had bottled and distributed water from a source contaminated with E. coli, a potentially deadly bacteria.

The inspector asked Sweet Springs’ manager, Mable Cox, whether she had considered recalling the bottled water, the report says. Cox had not. “She also stated the water had probably been consumed by this point, but she would conduct a recall” to alert people who might still have the water at home “if the FDA wanted her to.” That didn’t happen, either.

In other words, contaminated bottled water can still reach unwitting consumers, even if the FDA knows about the problem.

FDA inspections of bottled water facilities, though, declined by 33 percent between 2008 and 2018, according to data provided by the agency, and several years can pass between visits—meaning, as with Sweet Springs, the FDA might not become aware of contamination until long after it happened. Even when tests show contamination, in most cases manufacturers don’t have to stop bottling or alert the public—for instance, by issuing a press release.

“Companies should not be selling contaminated bottled water, so whenever their own testing finds a violation, they should recall that water,” says Michael Hansen, Ph.D., a senior staff scientist at CR. “If they fail to do so voluntarily, the FDA should require them to.”

Standards for Tap Water Differ

Unlike bottled water, municipal water systems must notify their customers of test results showing contamination that could pose an immediate health risk, according to the Environmental Protection Agency, which regulates tap water. And the public must be alerted, such as through the media or by mail, when contamination is found in their tap supply. For the most serious violations, like potential waterborne diseases, municipal systems must notify the public within 24 hours; with other contamination issues, they have up to 30 days.

The EPA routinely cites tap water suppliers for not meeting the requirements: More than 3,000 community water systems, servicing 2.9 percent of the U.S. population, violated the Public Notification Rule during the most recent quarter for which EPA data is available. But tap water suppliers at least have a legal requirement to quickly inform the public “whenever this is an acute health risk,” Olson said. “It appears for bottled water that type of notification is not being done. That’s really worrisome.”

One of the pitfalls of the FDA’s policing policy is that it relies on bottlers to diligently record their test results and to act quickly when contamination is found—but beyond the failure to notify customers about water quality issues, bottlers also don’t always carefully review their own test results.

In a 2011 case, an FDA inspector cited a Colorado bottler, Deep Rock Water Company, after a review of test results showed the company had produced water with 20 parts per billion of bromate—a possible human carcinogen—which is twice the legal limit. But an official at the company tasked with reviewing the tests “had not noticed the result was too high,” according to the FDA’s inspection, even though the test said “Fail” and “exceeds FDA limits for bromate.” (Deep Rock was purchased by DS Services of America, a bottling company, in late 2011.)

The FDA’s Turney said only that the firm “appeared” to have corrected the bromate contamination, though the agency did not collect any samples to test and confirm. No recall was conducted. Turney said the water had been distributed for sale to consumers. A spokesperson for DS Services said the company can’t comment on what happened as a result of inspections that occurred before it had acquired Deep Rock.

Full article below:

https://www.consumerreports.org/bottled-water/the-fda-knew-the-bottled-water-was-contaminated-the-public-didnt/

Suggestion: buy a distiller and distill your tap water. You’ll save money. Your water will be clean. Add the minerals back in yourself. A pinch of Himalayan pink salt will do.

Hello, dear friends

Published February 12, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/ArchangelAmongU

Today I want to expand on my message of yesterday about the ways you use, project, and combine your energy with that of others. By using your energy, you create the situations in your own life. By projecting it, you influence others’ experiences.

Someone asked an excellent question as to whether projecting your own energy is the same as “communing with God.” Actually, your own energy determines if you can recognize the fact you are always communing with the Creator. Your own energy expands the connection, or narrows it.

This all happens because your energy moves in front of you and creates situations at the frequency you are projecting. To not create the negative, you have to figure out why you feel off, work it out, and develop an attitude that creates a higher energy frequency.

Many of you feel very alone and isolated here on this planet. For some, the reason is because you are here to bring the energy of light to the planet. Your energy actually repels others who might be family members or acquaintenances who project energy at a different frequency.

The reason you don’t like to be around people in a bad mood is because of the energy that comes off them and hits you. The reason some places feel evil to you is your energy does not match the energy of that of the collective energy that has been brought to a place.

A great way to see how your own energy affects your day is to think of a time when you woke up feeling “off .” You open the cabinet for cereal and it falls out and spills. You get a speeding ticket on the way to work. Your boss treats you badly. The day gets worse and worse.

Please keep an open mind about everyone and everything. Almost nothing is what it appears to be on this planet. We’ve rolled off part of the veil to help you see the truth. The Jesus book will help you fix your own energy so you can’t be misled anymore.

Return to Center

Published February 11, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/HealthMentor1

There is no lesser energy among us, there is no greater, we are Pure Divine Love Energy from God, here, waking up, now, to rebuild everything thru Love, because we viewed everything & created everything thru hatred of the self, that is what the lesson was & now: Awakened =Love.

We have been thru the hardships, the wars, the ending of 3d old energies, now at the Awakened States of Higher Consciousness, we Can CREATE the New.

We are already doing it thru our Hearts, The Inner Love is pouring our & we can remove the darkness now, with just our LOVE.

The more the collective awakens, the more we shift into higher consciousness as a whole. One, awake here or there, is waiting for the others, we are all waiting for each other to awaken, & while we are waiting, we are actually shifting too, when more awaken, we shift higher

💖I just want to tell you, that we are walking each other Home, Now.

We’ve fought the war already, we’re goin home now, & Home is Higher Consciousness Existence, in Love Itself with Creator Source, when we shift into Love, we are already One with God, & we are already Home when we are One with God, & at the State of Be-ing, we Bring Heaven unto this Earth….Remember, We are the Game Changers, & now, we are Evolving into Higher States of Divine Love Consciousness, right here, right Now~ We Created the new Heaven Right here, & Right In this Now.

We Were Never Lost!
We just forgot….
And now, We Re-Member.💖

When we are in Purity within us, when we have removed the hatreds out of us, here in the physical form, we create the Temple of God thru our Vessel, & then God can work thru us, anywhere we exist & the Love we carry within The Temple, carries the Power of God within, to Create.

Why do you place so much importance on money when You are the Energy that has the higher value? This matrix has had humanity killing itself over chasing created paper$, when those who ‘create’ the paper$ money are using Human Energy as THEIR currency!
Wake Up!
Create from Within

Healing Effort

Published February 10, 2020 by tindertender

“To heal will require real effort, and a change of heart, from all of us. To heal means that we will begin to look upon one another with respect and tolerance instead of prejudice, distrust and hatred. We will have to teach our children — as well as ourselves — to love the diversity of humanity…. We can do it. Yes, you and I and all of us together. Now is the time. Now is the only possible time. Let the Great Healing begin.”

— Leonard Peltier, Native American activist (Turtle Mountain Chippewa)

Art: Restoration by Jade Leyva Art.

Monday Inner Power Talk

Published February 10, 2020 by tindertender

Written by https://twitter.com/HealthMentor1

You are so powerful that just setting your mind to a purified thought, is what shifts out the old energy into the Higher Divine Energy here.

But it’s easier to not let people know that, said old energy, because then old energy loses it’s power.

I hope you all get this message….

By knowing You are ‘The Change’… gives the power back where it belongs…in your hands. No other human has powers over You. Don’t place someone who is Awakened more than you, as more powerful than you. When you do that, you give others, your power. This is exactly how malevolent (negative ) energies can fool you, by making you feel inferior, keeping them on the pedestal. Reclaim YOUR Inate God Given Powers back. The ones awakening, are simply RE-Membering, you are awakening back up to your Spiritual knowledges that You, have Always Had. Spirits here are Awakening up thru Spiritual Amnesia, the amnesia was for you to learn experiences here, in order to purify non-serving energy out, & walk into Divine Purifications of Higher Unconditional Love Energy Co-Creators with God Source.

The World At Your Fingertips

Published February 3, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by https://twitter.com/aug_tellez

It was not one or two that was infiltrated, but the entire society. The goal was total domination, not just local ‘enterprise’.

How you respond and utilize what you come to know, determines who you are to become.

Who you become is inevitable, we are only what we are capable of and this doesn’t change easily.

When we have been through enough, we choose to appreciate and accept that which we sought to avoid or ignore by fear of persecution or self doubt.

No one has it all. Each of you contains some benefit to Humanity that is inherent to your personality and must be brought forth and utilized to provide the collective cure to the lack of self awareness and self control.

Isn’t this interesting? The entire world is potentially here at your fingertips. What circle of social interaction do you contribute to and does that negatively influence others or assist in the mental liberation of Humanity?

https://augtellez.wordpress.com/2020/02/02/catching-up-to-fall-back/amp/?__twitter_impression=true