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Hello Sweetheart!

Published June 13, 2025 by tindertender

Many of you are absolute sweethearts that only THINK you have anger issues. Your mental and emotional body’s have been toyed with, tampered with, by incredibly skilled projectionists and illusionists. They have trespassed into the mental and know your inner wounding, and poke it, running rhetoric in the mind regarding it. For the most part, these are triggers you have healed, and only the invisible poking brings it into awareness.

Your emotions and thoughts are like a temperature gauge for the Divine. Your heart is known … gentle, kind, wouldn’t create chaos in the world of your own accord, for you love your peace, and the peace in your home, neighborhood and community.

Poke, poke, poke.
A script runs thru the mental.
The inner essence becomes agitated.
The emotional energy wraps the thought.
The nervous system becomes unsettled.

The key is to question Self. To recognize the disturbance as soon as possible and ask Self, is this mine? If not, to cancel it asap. To ease the energy, ground it, transmute it, reject it as an outer, unseen source of disturbance to the peace you have learned to hold within Self.

It’s not always easy to pinpoint an external triggering event, especially if no one else is around and it crops up out of nowhere.

We don’t need to accept every interfering ‘gift’.
We don’t need to believe every thought that runs thru the mind.

Knowing our own energy, the most consistent state we cultivate, and the energy that attempts to move against it, or interrupt it, is so necessary.

Why just yesterday I posted a cutesy video. I felt a little silly, but my mind was in a happy state, my energy calm. A short while later, the thought pattern shifted, the skin began to tingle with an energetic disturbance, the emotional body became agitated … the ‘script’ began in the mind. My triggers are: lying, and disloyalty. The unseen pokes my triggers all the time and if not carefully witnessed and settled that triggered energy can apply itself to projected thoughts in a generalizing manner, unfair to the majority of society, and me.

I’m getting quicker at recognizing these interferences. Every time it happens I see it for what it is quicker and quicker. Then ground, transmute and settle. Someday I’ll see it right away and my nervous system won’t even get a chance to respond before I cancel it.

Goals.

Clowns to the left of me, Jokers to the right

Published May 17, 2025 by tindertender

I just had a brief “vision” in my 3rd eye of the word “bi-locate”. Yes … this curator is bi-located … there are at least 2 of him talking with 2 different groups of masculines.

“Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right” …

Of course, many of us are “tri-located” … connected still to the Divine Mother Father, a privilege the clowns and jokers gave up, and have been vicariously “acting as” thru stolen, hi-jacked connections of consciousness in the true-true. Illusions busted.

Remember …

Published May 12, 2025 by tindertender

“You deserve a peace that doesn’t ask you to disappear.”

Power is in Choice

Published May 8, 2025 by tindertender

“The empathic ability to feel other’s pain does not make their cure your responsibility.” ~ Author Unknown

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There’s no point in attempting dialog with a triggered person who is certain they know all the facts and have all the answers. They won’t hear a word you say. They’ll argue you are wrong. They’ll insist you see as they do, or they’ll sling insults. Just walk away. It’s not a vibration of compassion or peace.

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We must learn to stand in our own authority and not let others “lead” us where we otherwise would not go.

Just understand that there will be others who try to knock you out of balance and down.

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Power is in choice. Why do you think they are trying so hard to take the ability to choose away from you? And no, I’m not talking about Roe vs Wade.

The violator/oppressor wants you to believe you chose a life of suffering, that you must accept it. Besides, it doesn’t matter what you ‘chose’. What matters is what you NOW choose.

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The more you give the more you receive, and I don’t mean in the material realm. Spiritually, you expand.

Giving can look like dancing in the living room, amping up your energy and blasting it out into the world, with love.

It can be in prayer, supporting our higher Selves and Relatives, all who are working on behalf of the sacred.

It can be many things, done with heart and pure loving intention.

Yes. This is what we do as antennae of the world, as the bridge linking upper and lower realms.

The more you give, the more you receive.

The more you give and receive, the greater the light you blast into these linked worlds.

The more light you receive from the upper and blast into the lower, the quicker change for the better is affected.

Yes. You are that powerful.

All things with Love, and a calm, steady emotional body.

Stay out of anger and fear.

This energy feeds the oppressor.

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A Wind Dance

Published May 7, 2025 by tindertender

“Another” repeat lesson, the lesson of fine-tuning my own thoughts regarding connections. Largely, happiness and sadness are mine to create. If I tell myself someone hates me, likely, I will be putting that energy between us, I may even get real angry (I’m an expert at riling myself up!). If I tell myself someone loves me, this would be the energy put between us. This goes for normal connections, not the ones where someone feels they own the show, and control. I am the creator of my reality. I can get real depressed and mad and sad, easily allowing my mind to “fall” into negativity, or I can think there are perhaps many in the world (even tho they be unseen) who love me, and “rise” on the wings of that knowing … or dream … whatever one wishes to call it. As creators, it is important to focus on the good potentials … often, others will be willing to give us what we “think”. Make it a good dream.

In the past during over two decades of mental and energetic r.a.p.e., I focused, saying, “My dream for my future is greater than the enemy’s fantasy for me”. Now that there are more intimate energetic connections, the intensity of the feelings has increased as well as my vulnerabilities. I have to apply the same philosophy to this current scenario, despite what another may believe, and if they don’t like my story, my dream, they are welcome to leave.

Many of us have been so betrayed and heart and energetically abused, it is easy to sink into a pitiful, raging mess. No one wants that. This energy must be shed, or transmuted, if we wish to live in an energy of love. Trust is an issue for most of us these days, which is why so many of us are alone with our “dream” which can hurt or heal. Choice. The mind is a beautiful thing, nearly destroyed by the experiences of this realm.

May Your Path Be Blessed.

I believe it is true the “Great I Am” will give us what we are trying to create. It’s the lessons of ascension. Are we wallowing in a toroidal mess? Or synchronized in this little, or big, Wind Dance?

Been Waiting for a Long Time!

Published April 30, 2025 by tindertender

A member of Spirit Divine keeps singing a little tune … Lyrics, “I’ve been waiting for a long time!”

I see now after looking up the lyrics that it is “I’ve been hurting for a long time” but Spirit Divine says, “Waiting” rather than hurting … so …

Lyrics:

That girl thinks that she’s so fine
That soon she’ll have my mind
That girl thinks that she’s so smart
That soon she’ll have my heart
She thinks in no time flat
That she’ll be free and clear to start
With her emotional rescue of love that you’ll leave torn apart

That girl thinks that she’s so bad
She’ll change my tears to joy from sad
She says she keeps the upper hand
‘Cause she can please her man
She doesn’t use her love to make him weak
She uses love to keep him strong
And inside me there’s no room for doubt
That it won’t be too long

Before I tell her that I love her
That I want her
That my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To be in her love

I’ve been hurting for a long time
And you’ve been playing for a long time
You know it’s true
I’ve been holding for a long time
And you’ve been running for a long time
It’s time to do what we have to do

(I’m talkin’ ‘bout that girl, that girl)
(Yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah)

That girl knows every single man
Would ask her for her hand
But she says her love is much too deep
For them to understand
She says her love has been crying out
But her lover hasn’t heard
But what she doesn’t realize is that I’ve listened to every word

That’s why I know I’ll tell her that I love her
That I want her
That my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To be in her love now

I love her
And I want her
And my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To begin her love

I love her
I want her
My mind and soul and body needs her
Oh, tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that, oh-ohh-ohhh….

Say I love her, that I want her
That my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To be in her – that girl!

That girl, that girl!
Oh, that girl, that girl, that girl, that girl, ohhh

Attitude of Gratitude

Published April 30, 2025 by tindertender

To name a few:

I Am Grateful for this Life!
I Am Grateful for this Love in me!
I Am Grateful for Mobility!
I Am Grateful for this Community!
I Am Grateful for Protections offered me!
I Am Grateful the Divine walks with me!
I Am Grateful for the opportunity to Live Boldly, to Speak Freely, and to Be Seen as I Am.
I Am Grateful the True Divine researches all experiences and actions for consistency and/or manipulation before casting Judgement.
I Am Grateful that I Am Understood by He who matters most, to me.
I Am Grateful for my new Family.

Aho
So It Is
Amen
Thank You

Negging

Published April 22, 2025 by tindertender

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGvse9FqOZR/?igsh=MW1leGI0MnJ2aWc0cw==

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negging

I Am Me

Published April 11, 2025 by tindertender

I Like Dreamin’

Published April 8, 2025 by tindertender

I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine
I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine
When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight
Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light

I see us on the shore beneath the bright sunshine
We’ve walked along St. Thomas beach a million times
Hand in hand, two barefoot lovers kissing in the sand
Side by side, the tide rolls in
I’m touching you, you’re touching me
If only it could be

I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine
I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine
When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight
Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light

Through each dream, how our love has grown
I see us with our children and our happy home
Little smiles, so warm and tender looking up at us
Blessed by love, the one we shared
Till I wake, and reach for you
And you’re just not there

I like dreamin’ ’cause dreaming can make you mine
I like holding you close and touching your skin
Even if it’s in my mind
Oh, sweet dream baby, I love you
Oh, my sweet dream baby, you’re in my dreams every night
Oh sweet dreams, I like feelin you
Oh sweet dreams baby, Don’t keep me waiting all my life