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I Like Dreamin’

Published April 8, 2025 by tindertender

I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine
I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine
When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight
Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light

I see us on the shore beneath the bright sunshine
We’ve walked along St. Thomas beach a million times
Hand in hand, two barefoot lovers kissing in the sand
Side by side, the tide rolls in
I’m touching you, you’re touching me
If only it could be

I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine
I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine
When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight
Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light

Through each dream, how our love has grown
I see us with our children and our happy home
Little smiles, so warm and tender looking up at us
Blessed by love, the one we shared
Till I wake, and reach for you
And you’re just not there

I like dreamin’ ’cause dreaming can make you mine
I like holding you close and touching your skin
Even if it’s in my mind
Oh, sweet dream baby, I love you
Oh, my sweet dream baby, you’re in my dreams every night
Oh sweet dreams, I like feelin you
Oh sweet dreams baby, Don’t keep me waiting all my life

In A Sentimental Mood

Published April 7, 2025 by tindertender

In a sentimental mood
I can see the stars come through my room
While your loving attitude
Is like a flame that lights the gloom

On the wings of every kiss
Drifts a melody so strange and sweet
In this sentimental bliss
You make my paradise
You make my paradise, paradise complete

Rose petals seem to fall
It’s all I could dream, to call you mine, to call you mine
My heart’s a lighter thing
Since you made this night a thing divine

In a sentimental mood
I’m within a world so heavenly
For I never dreamt that you’d be loving sentimental
Be loving sentimental, sentimental me

Rose petals seem to fall
It’s all I like a dream to call you mine, to call you mine
My heart’s a lighter thing
Since you made this night a thing divine

In a sentimental mood, sentimental mood
I’m within a world so heavenly
For I never dreamt that you’d be loving sentimental
Sentimental, be loving sentimental me

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: Duke Ellington / Irving Mills / Manny Kurtz

In A Sentimental Mood lyrics © Sony/atv Harmony, Emi Mills Music Inc., Exclusive Publ. Inc., Lafleur Music Ltd., Exclusive Publishing Inc.

Random Thoughts in Time

Published March 23, 2025 by tindertender

Some of you are in alignment and agreement with what others say about you. It’s not true. You are the originator. They want to take your originality, and replace it with their own bullslip. Your inner g is so bright, you’re the prize!! They must have you believe in your smallness, your rewritten purpose. They need you to use your light to balance their darkness. They need you to give them permission to steer your life, experiences, and potential.

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They target the mind, filling it with jargon and trash. They need you in agreement with whatever storyline they give you. They need you to agree to your own limitations, your helpless inability to affect positive change. They need you to rely on them to tell you who you are and what you are capable of. Permitted. They take your song, the blessing of God given essence, coded particularly with your own self for personal expression in this world, and they change the notes, the tune, the tempo. And they’ll rewrite it occasionally, rescript you .. f them bishes.

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You know how many times I’ve been told I’d never make it on my own? That i lacked what it took to care for self? Many. And i said piss the f off!! And at times i survived on top ramen and baked potatoes, but I actually really love baked potatoes and top ramen. Public transportation … bicycle transport … sleeping on the floor in a sparsely furnished apartment .. f-them. Freedom often doesn’t look extravagant. But it’s priceless and worth fighting for.

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If you’re not able to control your anger, if you continue to feel lower vibrational emotions and feed into them regularly, then you’re affectively sabotaging your own happiness.

Stop owning every lower vibrational thought form that your receiver (mind) picks up on from the atmospher, the ethers. Not all energy or thought that passes through you belongs to you. Stop catching it and holding on to it. Watch it arrive, breathe, and “watch” it, feel it, as it releases.

Mental Illnesses as Houses

Published March 23, 2025 by tindertender

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The Monster Mind

Published March 15, 2025 by tindertender

Don’t give your power to the monster mind.

Shifting Gears

Published February 2, 2025 by tindertender

If you have some haters

Their connection with you is based on their hatred

If you are connected to them

This does not mean that your connection with them must be based on your hatred

For example

You can consciously choose to use their hatred to remind you of self-love

Be the person nobody was prepared to deal with.

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When some people resonate with your unhealed wound

The moment you heal this wound

Your relationship with them naturally weakens

Finally, you will be on a different timeline from them

Therefore, as you continue to heal, be grateful and cherish your time with them

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As you continue to grow

Some people around you won’t handle your changes well

They will cling to their familiar and outdated image of you

They may even attack you because of fear

It’s okay

Because this is natural and normal

Be compassionate and give them time to adapt

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Please and Thank You

Published January 16, 2025 by tindertender

I was thinking of “please and thank you” last night. More about “please”. It reminds me of the word “pleas”, like a court petition to receive something that is in lack. (My mother really drummed these 2 words into me as a child).

I wondered if we have been trained to beg, to see ourselves in lack, to see someone outside self as a “solution” for our “problem” … or if it is actually, having “manners”, or being “courteous”.

The english language can be confusing. Perhaps it is this that has added a sense of confusion to interactions with those who don’t ever say thank you, or please. Perhaps they inwardly can’t bring themselves to acknowledge lack? Or gift appreciation to those who offer what they believe they lack? Maybe there is a hidden hatred, for even needing to ask, or be in a position, needing to receive … pushed onto those who have gifted what is “needed”.

The mind is such a fascinating organ.

Please and Thank You have always been a very important, humble, reciprocal gift for someone showing a kindness, in my mind.

Unfortunately, the world is in a state where gifts, are a form of contract, or an accrued “debt” that must be repaid.

Rarely are gifts of the heart made without intention of receiving anything in return these days.

It’s almost as if current society has turned gratitude into a requirement for interacting, and you know how rebels will rebel over requirements…

Letting go of programming is such a challenge.

However it goes, I am grateful, and quite thankful, for everything, especially sweet, unexpected gifts of the Soul.

Light and Love.

🌹💥💯❤️

#ThingsToNeverForget

Published January 14, 2025 by tindertender

“The ‘disappointment’ of others is not yours to hold. Please keep this in mind the next time an internet stranger (or anyone else for that matter) feels it necessary to tell you that they are disappointed because you didn’t meet the hopes and expectations they had for you.

When I hear ‘I’m disappointed that you…’ what I read from that is: ‘I’m disappointed to see that your worldview doesn’t mirror mine,’ ‘I’m disappointed that you’ve failed to match the version of you I created in my mind.’ “

~ Africa Brooke

artwork by Miles Johnston

Energy Perceived

Published January 10, 2025 by tindertender

“You have to be odd to be number one.”
~ Dr. Seuss

The price of gratitude is only a moment of your time.

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I wish people had chosen to be kinder. I really do. I am grateful karmic delivery isn’t my department. Extremely grateful I got the easy job. I wish people had been kinder to the Most Highs family. 💯😢

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Some people intentionally cause suffering for others. I see nothing wrong with rejecting those gifts and forcing them to carry their own shit. By simply removing self from the equation. No need send anything back, for the “gift” was refused, the option not to receive it enacted.

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Narcissism isnt specifically about characteristic traits. Narcissism is a Spirit. This Spirit has the same characteristics, no matter which body it is attached to.

The spirit/soul of a “narcissist” is bound by that Spirit. They are puppets, who must behave in a particular way, exhibiting certain traits that will cause specific agitations, anger, or chaotic situations. It’s their purpose, to dominate a situation and bring chaos to it. They like to think of it as control. Perhaps in a way it is, controlled chaos.

When we separate ourselves from folks who have this Spirit attachment, they will get angry, defensive, insisting they are a benefit in your life. Some may threaten you for leaving. Some will certainly shoot mental knives at you, and throwing toxic, dark energy into your solar plexus.

Step back.

The “person” is gone, a shell remains, a “person”-ality puppeted by darker energies. You can literally feel it when it’s present, especially if you’ve been in Spiritual warfare with it for any length of time.

Release the guilt of severing attachment to such forces.

You don’t have to play their games.

You don’t have to accept being dominated, rewritten, controlled.

Claim your Sovereignty.

Release the “puppet-master”.

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You’re busy living life & thoughts, upsetting, keep poking the mind about someone, that’s you picking up on them having an issue with you.

Thought energy perceived.

You’ve forgiven, let it go, moved on. Yet these Smokey tendrils keep reaching for you, trying to pull you back.

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I didn’t only come here to be student. I came here to BE. Sometimes that means student, sometimes that means teacher, sometimes that means friend and sometimes that means foe…. Yet through it all, if we truly wish to flow, we will, and more than likely, see each other again … BEing our own unique way.

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It is said that something like 85% want to be led; 10% wish to lead; and the remaining 5% are usually killed because they try to wake up the 85%.

The 85% will never create solutions to anything except maybe calling someone to “fix it”, and doing as told, or arguing they’re not doing a good enough job.

Or maybe they want to but aren’t able to for some reason … I don’t mean to be harsh.

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Voyeurs … preaching about ethics. That’s funny. Hilarious even.

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‘Those who are not content with what they have will not be content with what they want’ – Socrates

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I am burning.
If anyone lacks tinder,
let him set his rubbish ablaze with my fire.
—-Rumi

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Know the mirror of the heart is infinite.
Either the understanding falls silent,
or it leads you astray,
because the heart is with God,
or indeed the heart is He.
—–Rumi

Living in Vulnerability

Published January 8, 2025 by tindertender

It is a very tough path, for there are many who spy it and enjoy crushing the vulnerability they see.

Great strength and resilience is manifested in this state. Overcoming the hurt of betrayal and outright cruelty.

It is a mental, emotional and energetic feat.

Open Heart.

Remaining loving, knowing that in your presence are those who make it their mission to destroy the innocence and pure intention in you, feelings of childlike wonder and joy.

Hurting.

Heart Open.

An apparent reckless willingness, to shoulder the pain, speaking openly.

Standing in the midst of ferocious, growling, hungry (needless?) eaters …

Heart Open.

Letting others see the truth of Love’s intent, its willingness to never shut down, to keep itself from the world, even while being buried into the ground.

Heart Open.

Courage … labeled as self-sabotage. Gathering wisdom and strength every time a hurdle is hopped and a few meters gained.

Heart Open.

Loving the Divine within the Temple housing the Soul.

Heart Open.

Learning as much as you can, about as much as you can … pertaining to Self, and the All that surrounds.

Heart Open.

Expanded.

In balance.

Aware.