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Power is in Choice

Published May 8, 2025 by tindertender

“The empathic ability to feel other’s pain does not make their cure your responsibility.” ~ Author Unknown

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There’s no point in attempting dialog with a triggered person who is certain they know all the facts and have all the answers. They won’t hear a word you say. They’ll argue you are wrong. They’ll insist you see as they do, or they’ll sling insults. Just walk away. It’s not a vibration of compassion or peace.

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We must learn to stand in our own authority and not let others “lead” us where we otherwise would not go.

Just understand that there will be others who try to knock you out of balance and down.

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Power is in choice. Why do you think they are trying so hard to take the ability to choose away from you? And no, I’m not talking about Roe vs Wade.

The violator/oppressor wants you to believe you chose a life of suffering, that you must accept it. Besides, it doesn’t matter what you ‘chose’. What matters is what you NOW choose.

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The more you give the more you receive, and I don’t mean in the material realm. Spiritually, you expand.

Giving can look like dancing in the living room, amping up your energy and blasting it out into the world, with love.

It can be in prayer, supporting our higher Selves and Relatives, all who are working on behalf of the sacred.

It can be many things, done with heart and pure loving intention.

Yes. This is what we do as antennae of the world, as the bridge linking upper and lower realms.

The more you give, the more you receive.

The more you give and receive, the greater the light you blast into these linked worlds.

The more light you receive from the upper and blast into the lower, the quicker change for the better is affected.

Yes. You are that powerful.

All things with Love, and a calm, steady emotional body.

Stay out of anger and fear.

This energy feeds the oppressor.

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A Wind Dance

Published May 7, 2025 by tindertender

“Another” repeat lesson, the lesson of fine-tuning my own thoughts regarding connections. Largely, happiness and sadness are mine to create. If I tell myself someone hates me, likely, I will be putting that energy between us, I may even get real angry (I’m an expert at riling myself up!). If I tell myself someone loves me, this would be the energy put between us. This goes for normal connections, not the ones where someone feels they own the show, and control. I am the creator of my reality. I can get real depressed and mad and sad, easily allowing my mind to “fall” into negativity, or I can think there are perhaps many in the world (even tho they be unseen) who love me, and “rise” on the wings of that knowing … or dream … whatever one wishes to call it. As creators, it is important to focus on the good potentials … often, others will be willing to give us what we “think”. Make it a good dream.

In the past during over two decades of mental and energetic r.a.p.e., I focused, saying, “My dream for my future is greater than the enemy’s fantasy for me”. Now that there are more intimate energetic connections, the intensity of the feelings has increased as well as my vulnerabilities. I have to apply the same philosophy to this current scenario, despite what another may believe, and if they don’t like my story, my dream, they are welcome to leave.

Many of us have been so betrayed and heart and energetically abused, it is easy to sink into a pitiful, raging mess. No one wants that. This energy must be shed, or transmuted, if we wish to live in an energy of love. Trust is an issue for most of us these days, which is why so many of us are alone with our “dream” which can hurt or heal. Choice. The mind is a beautiful thing, nearly destroyed by the experiences of this realm.

May Your Path Be Blessed.

I believe it is true the “Great I Am” will give us what we are trying to create. It’s the lessons of ascension. Are we wallowing in a toroidal mess? Or synchronized in this little, or big, Wind Dance?

Been Waiting for a Long Time!

Published April 30, 2025 by tindertender

A member of Spirit Divine keeps singing a little tune … Lyrics, “I’ve been waiting for a long time!”

I see now after looking up the lyrics that it is “I’ve been hurting for a long time” but Spirit Divine says, “Waiting” rather than hurting … so …

Lyrics:

That girl thinks that she’s so fine
That soon she’ll have my mind
That girl thinks that she’s so smart
That soon she’ll have my heart
She thinks in no time flat
That she’ll be free and clear to start
With her emotional rescue of love that you’ll leave torn apart

That girl thinks that she’s so bad
She’ll change my tears to joy from sad
She says she keeps the upper hand
‘Cause she can please her man
She doesn’t use her love to make him weak
She uses love to keep him strong
And inside me there’s no room for doubt
That it won’t be too long

Before I tell her that I love her
That I want her
That my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To be in her love

I’ve been hurting for a long time
And you’ve been playing for a long time
You know it’s true
I’ve been holding for a long time
And you’ve been running for a long time
It’s time to do what we have to do

(I’m talkin’ ‘bout that girl, that girl)
(Yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah)

That girl knows every single man
Would ask her for her hand
But she says her love is much too deep
For them to understand
She says her love has been crying out
But her lover hasn’t heard
But what she doesn’t realize is that I’ve listened to every word

That’s why I know I’ll tell her that I love her
That I want her
That my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To be in her love now

I love her
And I want her
And my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To begin her love

I love her
I want her
My mind and soul and body needs her
Oh, tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that, oh-ohh-ohhh….

Say I love her, that I want her
That my mind and soul and body needs her
Tell her that I’d love to, that I want to
That I need to do all that I have to
To be in her – that girl!

That girl, that girl!
Oh, that girl, that girl, that girl, that girl, ohhh

Attitude of Gratitude

Published April 30, 2025 by tindertender

To name a few:

I Am Grateful for this Life!
I Am Grateful for this Love in me!
I Am Grateful for Mobility!
I Am Grateful for this Community!
I Am Grateful for Protections offered me!
I Am Grateful the Divine walks with me!
I Am Grateful for the opportunity to Live Boldly, to Speak Freely, and to Be Seen as I Am.
I Am Grateful the True Divine researches all experiences and actions for consistency and/or manipulation before casting Judgement.
I Am Grateful that I Am Understood by He who matters most, to me.
I Am Grateful for my new Family.

Aho
So It Is
Amen
Thank You

Negging

Published April 22, 2025 by tindertender

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negging

I Am Me

Published April 11, 2025 by tindertender

I Like Dreamin’

Published April 8, 2025 by tindertender

I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine
I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine
When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight
Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light

I see us on the shore beneath the bright sunshine
We’ve walked along St. Thomas beach a million times
Hand in hand, two barefoot lovers kissing in the sand
Side by side, the tide rolls in
I’m touching you, you’re touching me
If only it could be

I like dreamin’ cause dreamin’ can make you mine
I like dreamin’, closing my eyes and feeling fine
When the lights go down, I’m holding you so tight
Got you in my arms and it’s paradise ’til the morning light

Through each dream, how our love has grown
I see us with our children and our happy home
Little smiles, so warm and tender looking up at us
Blessed by love, the one we shared
Till I wake, and reach for you
And you’re just not there

I like dreamin’ ’cause dreaming can make you mine
I like holding you close and touching your skin
Even if it’s in my mind
Oh, sweet dream baby, I love you
Oh, my sweet dream baby, you’re in my dreams every night
Oh sweet dreams, I like feelin you
Oh sweet dreams baby, Don’t keep me waiting all my life

In A Sentimental Mood

Published April 7, 2025 by tindertender

In a sentimental mood
I can see the stars come through my room
While your loving attitude
Is like a flame that lights the gloom

On the wings of every kiss
Drifts a melody so strange and sweet
In this sentimental bliss
You make my paradise
You make my paradise, paradise complete

Rose petals seem to fall
It’s all I could dream, to call you mine, to call you mine
My heart’s a lighter thing
Since you made this night a thing divine

In a sentimental mood
I’m within a world so heavenly
For I never dreamt that you’d be loving sentimental
Be loving sentimental, sentimental me

Rose petals seem to fall
It’s all I like a dream to call you mine, to call you mine
My heart’s a lighter thing
Since you made this night a thing divine

In a sentimental mood, sentimental mood
I’m within a world so heavenly
For I never dreamt that you’d be loving sentimental
Sentimental, be loving sentimental me

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: Duke Ellington / Irving Mills / Manny Kurtz

In A Sentimental Mood lyrics © Sony/atv Harmony, Emi Mills Music Inc., Exclusive Publ. Inc., Lafleur Music Ltd., Exclusive Publishing Inc.

Random Thoughts in Time

Published March 23, 2025 by tindertender

Some of you are in alignment and agreement with what others say about you. It’s not true. You are the originator. They want to take your originality, and replace it with their own bullslip. Your inner g is so bright, you’re the prize!! They must have you believe in your smallness, your rewritten purpose. They need you to use your light to balance their darkness. They need you to give them permission to steer your life, experiences, and potential.

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They target the mind, filling it with jargon and trash. They need you in agreement with whatever storyline they give you. They need you to agree to your own limitations, your helpless inability to affect positive change. They need you to rely on them to tell you who you are and what you are capable of. Permitted. They take your song, the blessing of God given essence, coded particularly with your own self for personal expression in this world, and they change the notes, the tune, the tempo. And they’ll rewrite it occasionally, rescript you .. f them bishes.

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You know how many times I’ve been told I’d never make it on my own? That i lacked what it took to care for self? Many. And i said piss the f off!! And at times i survived on top ramen and baked potatoes, but I actually really love baked potatoes and top ramen. Public transportation … bicycle transport … sleeping on the floor in a sparsely furnished apartment .. f-them. Freedom often doesn’t look extravagant. But it’s priceless and worth fighting for.

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If you’re not able to control your anger, if you continue to feel lower vibrational emotions and feed into them regularly, then you’re affectively sabotaging your own happiness.

Stop owning every lower vibrational thought form that your receiver (mind) picks up on from the atmospher, the ethers. Not all energy or thought that passes through you belongs to you. Stop catching it and holding on to it. Watch it arrive, breathe, and “watch” it, feel it, as it releases.

Mental Illnesses as Houses

Published March 23, 2025 by tindertender

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