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Taught to Submit

Published January 23, 2020 by tindertender

Written by Maria Palumbo: https://www.facebook.com/maria.palumbo.loves; https://mariapalumbo.com/

In the 1950s women were trained to submit to the man. It was very enticing.

“Wear the dress. Wear the pearls. Cook a good stew. Smile. Be a good girl. You will have everything you could ever dream of.”

How to curate their entire essence, so it was feminine, alluring, charming. So the man would want them.

Things have not changed much in spiritual circles teaching divine and masculine unity.

“Submit. Give in. Stop whining. You’re emasculating. Stop complaining. Be grateful. You’re lucky he wants you at all, you pathetic sweet creature.”

I am disturbed over what is being taught to women and digested by the masses, regarding divine feminine and masculine power and empowerment.

It involves two things:

  1. Deny self in order to attract The One
  2. Know true joy from being chosen by a “King”

It is ALL very enticing. Especially for those of us who have been traumatized.

For trauma teaches us to NOT THINK for ourselves and WE ARE MAKING IT ALL UP in our head. The outcome of trauma can make us confused, question our needs/desires/and boundaries, and this is exactly what these teachings are encouraging:

“Let HIM decide how you feel. In fact, if you feel uncomfortable or even hatred, YOU are confused and misunderstanding him. And that is why you are alone.”

They are teaching, “Do not THINK, do not question, do not despise any treatment. Just open wider to let him in. If it hurts, it is your problem.”

And once you do, once you finally crack the feminine code of being in FULL SUBMISSION to the masculine, you will be loved, held, seen, desired, in every way you could possibly imagine.

Every day sparkling with a prince that will save you.

I wish it was that easy.

I wish that opening further, responding in love, could actually magically transform someone.

But it doesn’t.

The wounded child in me can fall prey to that mindset. She is susceptible to thinking she needs to work harder, keep trying, putting in more work, when it BLOODY HURTS. For that is exactly what Daddy told her: “If only you were a little better sweetheart, I wouldn’t get so angry.”

My inner child WOULD LOVE to be saved. Would love the fact that disappearing herself and giving herself over to the masculine, would result in true love. To be chosen finally. For someone to come along and make it all make sense. She thinks if she tries harder, loves a little more, she can subdue the darkness in the man she loves.

But she cannot.

And to teach women to not be discerning with their submission, but to JUST SUBMIT, is not only dangerous, but traumatizing a generation of women. It is using the toxic voice of the unhealed father, to control and create harm.

What these teachings are missing is CONSENT from the feminine and also discernment about WHAT they are consenting to. Using flowerly psuedo spiritual language, only confuses further.

And my fellow community members, we are INCREDIBLY susceptible to leaning towards teachings that re-traumatize, while calling it “power.” Because many of us have experienced trauma, we need to be:

  • EXAMINING allegiances in relationship, in friendship, in business, and beyond, instead of quietly going along with “spiritual” gratefulness
  • HEALING instead of taking another pill of submission and bypassing our healing and letting someone control us
  • HIRING trauma and relationship specialists with healthy relationships, instead of guru-like leaders with little street cred when it comes to healthy relationship
  • SPEAKING OUT against toxic masculinity by looking at ways to heal it through the male, female and non gender lens, instead of making it an issue of women JUDGING or condemning men

And ultimately, stop buying into the idea that The One will make life worthwhile. That there is A One who is created for you and his every move will make you feel like the woman you were meant to be.

For there is no such thing.

To letting go of the toxic dream of being saved and to doing the healing to wake up in bed with someone with bad breath and endless tenderness for you.

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These aren’t empty words

Published January 20, 2020 by tindertender

The unawakened wonder what’s wrong with the world today, as they try to out-Hate the ‘Hate’… this is why the madness never ends.

https://twitter.com/kabamur_taygeta

Illusory Victory

Published January 20, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by: https://twitter.com/aug_tellez

Anyone who’s soul mind can generate the perception of illusory victory through the abuse and manipulation of anyone who cannot defend themselves, respond, or be heard for the truth, shares a place with those who do that with children. There is no way around this, in any dimension.

It’s the same thing and if you take the same mind, fractal render the next potential octave, because power levels increase through these events, anyone with the weakness to false power and abuse is doing that. That’s why this had to happen.

That’s why there has been some vocalization regarding the ‘citizen’ level abuse and manipulation by those who are essentially trolling. Those are the next level ‘dark mafia’ ‘fake reality’ false authority crime and debauchery ‘bosses’ that would currently be building dakrness.

If the events did not take place to secure a viable future for Humanity, the top level perverts would be in a distant layer of the farthest ‘octaves’ of time and space and the ‘ground level’ weirdos, out here like anyone else, spending time making a profit or a personal emotional gain from the ridicule, harassment, torment, double binding, gas lighting, and what is ultimately a non human, anti human, artificial intelligence, predatory, emotionally draining, large scale vampiric system. There is no way around this, that is the New World Order.

The people who are holding dark energy insults, false persecution, slander, libel and disrespect, stalking after the mere scent of any information regarding the disclosure of ritual abuse and the mental liberation of humanity, are literally the next runner ups.

That is why you see them chasing it so hard, and so far, across what seems to be hot coals in the middle of a band of rock across a sulphur pit.

It is automatic, like the caboose of a roller coaster getting pulled faster up and over the apex of the first drop because the head of the train is already speeding down the other side.

Those with the energy and intent to disable, maim, and emotionally, energetically enslave the Human Spirit of compassion, truth telling, knowledge, self awareness and free will, what FALSE FREE WILL, fake authority, in their own egotistical sense of superiority.

That superiority is the sense scum has on the bottom of a pond. The trick is that scum doesn’t learn how to fly all of the sudden. You and anyone with a human soul is endowing them with ultimate power so that they can continue to hold power, from a place of self destruction.

The only way to do that?

To hold that power?

To have that?

While it is self destructive, to the Human Spirit? Is to not be human.

It’s PERVERTED to WANT to do that, SOCIOPATHIC to put yourself in the position to do that and PSYCHOPATHIC to carry out the ABUSE of others.

The idea? If you THINK it’s ok, because you know the truth, then you just signed a contract with God pledging your soul and life as collateral.

Do not harass others who are participating in the disclosure of ritual abuse. Do not persecute those who do that, this creates the necessary ‘darkness’ to generate their trend into false reality ‘overlord’. Everyone has to move forward.

Those who participate in feeling an increase of power, through any participation of the loss of power of others, cannot perceive themselves in the larger society. It’s an illusion, but there, there are no illusions, so there is simply the absence of self knowledge.

If they’re not visibly demonic now, trust, when anyone tells the truth, who has to be forced to tell the truth, you see what was hiding beneath.

Please do not be angered by those who have given so much of their power away they are incapable of using the intellectual portions of their energy system. These reactions are autonomous and by design.

It’s sad, not funny or something to bring anger. A form of mental disability.

We are in the wake of a large scale experimentation with generating controlled, non lethal, mentally retarding, highly advanced, mutagenic toxins as a form of controlled reduction of intellectual capacity for the purpose of human enslavement.

Remembering, or Hoarding?

Published January 19, 2020 by tindertender

It is said that minimalistic and tidy living spaces are better, or more appealing. I have a friend who is quite tidy and basically unchanging.

I stand in my living room and look around me. These ‘things’ I see are not just things, or clutter.

They are living memories.

I look at each one and remember the story behind it. What I was doing, what the weather was like, who I was with, what was said. At any given moment I can look upon any one of these items and instantly be transported into the past.

I ask myself, presently, what were my motives at these times? What was ‘driving’ me?

Want

Need

Curiosity

A need to waste time …

Or maybe these particular items are what speak to my soul.

What is this story saying?

What values are emerging for anyone to see?

And why do I let no one in to see it?

I think about the estate sales I’ve been to in my life. I imagine the owners watching as people rummage through their treasures, thinking of it all as stuff … perhaps needed stuff, wanted stuff, but stuff just the same.

I wonder why I have collected so much stuff that someone else will most likely have to sift through, or get rid of somehow. I wonder if this is irresponsible, or selfish.

Or maybe I’m subconsciously preparing for a time when scarcity will be a real thing and I’ll want to have things to share.

Or maybe that is an even deeper subconscious excuse to hang onto it all, collecting still.

After all, these are gifts I have given myself. These are the most gifts I have ever received. I love loving me. I learned late in life I’m the only one who can actually love me more than anyone else, and so I practice … and hopefully good over-flows into the spaces I energetically and physically travel to.

I love having memories surrounding me at all times I guess. Yet still, I wonder if sitting inside a man-made bubble of memories isn’t somehow inhibiting future creations of newness.

The Lord’s Prayer in Aramaic

Published January 19, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by: https://twitter.com/kabamur_taygeta

This is a more accurate description of GOD.

For Those of you on the Spiritual Path

Published January 19, 2020 by tindertender

By: Miriam Elyse

I have a secret.

When you finally sit in all the ayahuasca ceremonies,

When you complete your 16th vision quest,

Have done countless rituals, and fasted for 10 days…

The answer is: come back to earth and do the work. Right here.

Where you’re at.

And with what you have in front of you.
Be a good human.
Be a good friend.
Serve those who have less than you.
Protect the earth.
Protect innocence.
Start with what is innocent inside of you.
Be a good human.
Be kind. Be honest.
Be humble. Forgive yourself.

Yes it is important to heal.

Yes it is important to gain bigger perspective. But don’t get lost in the lust of always wanting something more.

Don’t yoke your ego to your spirituality.

Every guru has his folly.

Don’t be so quick to give over your power.

Any true teacher will lead you to your own power.

Any worthwhile medicine will heal you until you don’t need it anymore.

Don’t let your path to liberation become a trap.
Do the work. Be a good human.

You don’t have to try so hard to be perfect.

Your mistakes are the greatest teacher you will ever have.

Your love is the most valuable gift you will ever give.

You can relax.

Be a good human.”

Honey

Published January 19, 2020 by tindertender

Snowberry providing everything needed. Precious flying ones creating sweet stickiness for others to enjoy.

Stop Raining! She yelled at the drops as they struck her face. Looking upward her eyes fill with liquid like tears … minus the salt.

Fragments everywhere. You are correct. They are not sanitary.

A house without love is not a home.

Smoke rises and fills the room with its natural, earthy aroma.

One, Two, Three … staggered at intervals, glowing, reminding me they are there.

Darkness, but is it really? After all, I can still see.

Orbs, solid, not energetic as some. Waiting to be viewed, adored, or thrown.

Love on the wall … staring at me as though to ask when I might pick it up and utilize it for something other than the ‘word’ it is.

Eyes and teeth, tongue protruding menacingly. Scary? No. Omen? Warning? Or is it a simple protective measure?

Cupid has lost his arrows. It is up to the people to generate love now. It took time to recognize, and there is still time to sway the odds.

Will We?

Dimly lit rooms are most comforting.

Why is it some people prefer every light bulb and electronic device on while others prefer candle light and simple music? Or even silence, and the crackling of a small but warm fire?

There is probably some sort of personality reading which can be wrapped around this reality.

Shoot the arrow of love. The aim does not need accuracy. Guides and helpers will see to it the arrow lands where needed most.

Just let it fly.

Silently complement the jogger you see while driving.

Thank the other drivers for not crashing you.

Bless the trails you walk as your feet gently touch the earth.

Sing to the trees.

See the birds as they flit from branch to branch, as they sing with you.

In person.

In mind.

Open consciousness to include everything.

Yell “I Am Free” out over the ocean waves. Remind Gaia you are aware of your freedom, your release from manipulative hooks of society, yet honor your connection to everything sacred.

Ask yourself if what you ‘see’ or ‘witness’ is residing within you.

Rise through the shift, the change, according to your inner guidance, your higher self and the sacred ‘push’ or nudges you receive from the Spirit/Soul connecting you the the physical form.

Love.

It is bigger than man, or woman. It is all encompassing. So is it’s polar opposite.

Which are you choosing?

Beloved Friends!

Published January 18, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by #LAKA and https://twitter.com/kabamur_taygeta

As Many Have Pondered The Questions,

“Is There A God?”, “Is There A Divine Intelligence?”

We Remind You Again That This Sacred Presence Is Life Itself!

As A Creation Of Origin, You Ventured Out To Understand The Multiverses!

Before Arriving, You Chose The Very Body And Personality That Would Best Serve You!

You Have Entered Millions Of Dream Stories!

In Each Story, You Have The Possibility To Fully Awaken!

To Those Not Yet Awake, Life Can Be Perceived As Fearful, Full Of Vengeance, Sorrow And Loneliness.

The Unawakened Can Also Feel Compassion, Wisdom And Love;

But These Sacred Experiences Are Soul Creations.

To The Awakened Being, There Is Understanding Of Immortality And Origin.

An Awakened Being Uses More Intuition And Realizes There Is A Larger Plan Than What Is Seen.

Life Becomes The Playground For The Soul To Experience Self!

From The Point Of The Soul, All Of Its Incarnations Are Simultaneous.

All Of Its Personalities Exist At Once.

Therefore, The Release Of Negativity That Occurs In One Incarnation, Benefits All Of The Soul Dreams.

The Soul Is Not Confined To Time, So Past And Future Are As One,

And The Great Awakening Brings The Soul Full Circle,

Back To The Origin And Sacred Creation!

We Love To Learn, Expand And Experience All Of Life!

We Never Stop! 

We Continue On In Light To Infinity!

Come With Us As We Rise In Light!

All Is Well! +++

We Love You So!

~LAKA

The Fall … On Repeat

Published January 18, 2020 by tindertender

Written by https://twitter.com/aug_tellez

When one is trusted with knowledge, and they then abuse that knowledge by bringing harm to others for personal gain and fulfillment, they must be held accountable for their actions.

Those who participate in behavior that requires them to be accountable, WILL NOT MAKE THEMSELVES ACCOUNTABLE.

The majority has been deluded, or was never capable of discerning, that the most violent, depraved criminals of all time, are innocent, because they haven’t turned themselves in.

That trend indicates that those people are incapable of discerning, not “the truth”, but literally, what the concept of truth, is. This is what it is about.

There are people who are incapable of comprehending what it means for something to be ‘real’ or ‘true’.

What’s ‘real’ and ‘true’ has been replaced for them, without their awareness. They have been mentally conditioned to no longer choose between a range of possibilities, what is ‘true’ based upon their own critical thinking.

For a group of people as large as this, with the technology and infrastructure required to maintain resource distribution, the situation is as dangerous as an immune disorder where cells can’t discern between self or invader.

The situation was locked based on the concept of holding the same abused, deceived majority, hostage to the others who choose Truth over illusion.

The false reality communication system that disarmed and corrupted minds was connected to the same system as the resource distribution infrastructure. They are not necessary, the media does not require a complete on/off switch for human reality communication potential.

But they had that and used it to their advantage, operating, essentially, like an invasion force that subjugated and brought harm to all life in the realm, and through that, all life in all realms.

What is a slight confusion at the top, with near 99% power capacity to that ‘mind’, could be the massacre of thousands, of innocent, down here.

That confusion or ‘hiccup’ is what enables the exploitation of a temporal distortion to rewrite history.

The higher collective mind that would shut that down is traumatized or distracted at that level, through the harming of innocent. So instead feeling pure pain at that level, it is displeased. As a result, there is less attention paid here and more distance.

That distance pushed was what is called the ‘fall’ and it was by a group who convinced the human to look up and say, “We don’t want your protection any more.” Humanity was infantile, and these invaders, all grown, armed to the tent, and vicious. Also highly perverted.

The energy of here and there is beyond. So, unless you got your ‘stuff’ down, right, you’re going to spill your beans in whatever way that is possible as the tension points of that conscious mind unravel and become basically a loosely connected dream state.

Add money, which they then figured out how to not have to require, but using advanced technology to literally print everything on hand. Add those who simply were not supposed to be there, were not strong enough and STOLE access, you get the previous situation.

Endless time, endless power, they destroyed themselves over a heaping pile of innocence.

And then if enough of that is left.

Then that trauma, builds up into a substance, that substance, evolves under their tech, that evolved intelligence is sent into the universe to reseed the same system that lead to the fall (or was the reason behind it) in the first place.

By leaving the trauma behind, generating enough of it to act as a literal ‘firewall’ to block out communication signals that we naturally use, this acted like a bridge to enable those of that low energy to re enter and repeat the same process.

The cycling system of life and consciousness, the mechanical and energetic interface, the conscious, perceptual, ‘virtual’ experiences and feelings that organize aspects of minds and thus reality, was mapped and organized for the molestation of Human spirit by a single group.

Parasitic Attachment

Published January 18, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by: https://twitter.com/aug_tellez

Do not be mistaken in believing others who see that you have given your all to the Truth and feel that they now have the right to make requests of you and take what they perceive is ‘left’. There is no thing left, if you have fully devoted to truth.

One who has done this will be seen by those interested in the illusion, as a source of nourishment to be taken from at will. That is an aspect of the delusion of the conscious energy format of interaction and feeling.

It’s not a battle, directly, but you will be tested and if you have unprotected insource, those who do not have that will naturally attract to you, by a measure of energetic interaction.

Those without regenerative capacity will naturally attempt to merge their consciousness over yours and devour whatever energy they perceive as being ‘helpless’

Those who cannot regenerate, cannot perceive that one giving their energy away, nearly infinitely, could ever still have enough energy left to defend themselves to simply resist a prying, plying, *greasy* mind.

Many people who have given their energy to goodness, and are partially continuously building aspects of this world, become confused upon seeing those with this level of energy interaction and energy requirements (with limited resource and nourishment potential).

Those who then spill their energy into a wasteland that is no giver abundant regeneration have to expend effort pulling that energy from others in they have access to interacting with, in ways that attempt to energetically dominate through force or deception.

Both paths become parasitic as more energy is required to sustain those interactions than is available through the physical biology. The mind becomes energetically dulled and tainted.

It’s an impossibility for someone with low mind energy to not parasitically absorb the energy of someone with abundant mind energy. This happens as a process of physics, an interaction within the cells related to light interaction. The cells of the body of a low mind create pull.