I noted yesterday that the radio stations are playing the same regurgitated crap they’ve been playing for decades. Why? There are SO many, better, sounds … from folks who “haven’t” sold their soul.
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Apples of the Garden
Published August 19, 2023 by tindertenderWhen I moved in I was not able to get to the apples right away. Many fell and were cooked by the sun. Today, I collected them.

I gathered 2 bags of good apples, some bruises, some worm holes, but all in all good, ripe apples. I also gathered 8 bags of rotten apples.


I was thanking God for the abundance. I was marveling at how all I need do is collect and prep for storage, for future use. How great The Most High God is! And to think I’ve just been blessed with this abundance, right in my own yard.
I began thinking about the Garden of Eden. I consider “the garden” to be this planet, Earth. I’ve been pondering the forest, a desire building in me about FOOD Forests … abundance for all living creatures. I wondered … what if humans are the “apple” of Creator’s Eye? What if, in the beginning, many races and species inhabited this planet (still do BTW). What if Creator told all here that they were permitted to eat of everything except the apple … the apple of his eye … humans. If they did, they would be evicted from the garden.
Well … they did. They’ve been growing, harvesting as food (meat and energy) humans, and many others who were here to love and live.
I was thinking about the separation, as I just did, with the ‘good’ apples and the ‘rotten’ apples. Have some humans turned on their brethren for money and material items? Of course they did. They were warned.

Do they think they will be able to overcome the Most High? Do they believe they will evict Creator from His Realm? Yes, they do. There are those who have inverted the codes and believe they can overcome the original.
Anyway … the apples to me, are an analogy of what is currently happening. I don’t have to see it to know it’s happening. I see what the challengers are doing, and I know full well they are running scared, hoping against all hope that what they were told, what they sold their soul for, is the truth … I have a feeling they know otherwise by now.
God’s picking up apples.
I have a lot of bruises. I have suffered being host for, and food for, parasites. They’ve eaten the soft tissues of my joints, bored holes into my muscular structure.
As I have saved the bruised ones with worm holes, tossing aside the rotten ones, I believe God is doing that right now too. This is why it came to me as I was picking up apples. He may even have been doing His work in tandem with me. Oh how I absolutely LOVE that thought!!
The Harvest is upon us.
The Most High God, He who has been given All Authority has decreed it … “They will get what they deserve.”
And I’m not even going to wonder about what that is … it is clear what they’ve been applying their effort and energy in … creating misery for others, stealing their wealth, abundance, God ordained destinies …
When you put all your effort in creating something that hurts so badly … I’m ‘guessing’ the Universe has ordained them the karma of experiencing their creation.
I’m gathering the good apples. I will carve off the bad portions. They will contribute just as much goodness to the collective (collection) of apples that will be present to enrich the coming months, and years.
To the King, The Most High, He with All Authority I offer my praise and gratitude.
Thank you for the intimate knowing. The lessons in all their forms. Thank you for forging me in the fires. I look forward to the pendulum swing in this experience, a slow exhilarating inhale of blessings to bring balance to what was.
A return to Paradise.
Home.
Update:
A man rang my doorbell. He asked if he could take the 9 bags of fruit I wasn’t able to salvage. I told him it was rotten. He said he wasn’t going to eat it … compost? Feed it to livestock? I was just so thrilled that even the bad fruit was going to be used I said Yes! Yes! Please take it!!

All is right with the day.
Thank you my King/my God/my Heavenly Father!!
Not All Are Willing
Published August 18, 2023 by tindertender😊 Being single is a whole nuther life style. Folks who have mates and children can’t really relate … or maybe it’s just me who can’t really relate to folks who have family and children. We are different.
Do any of you remember before kids? When other friends had them, and all of a sudden you didn’t hang out any more? Priorities shift.
My priority is my dog.
Others, is their children.
My dog is my child.
Many cannot understand this, and judge it from their perspective … it’s just a dog… if others don’t like it you should leave it home… you’re having a love affair with your dogs… they don’t value the canine as I do.
Our lives are different
That’s not a bad thing, but it does require the necessity to view things from a different perspective.
Not all are willing.

Did They Tell You?
Published August 18, 2023 by tindertender“They told you about the contractions but did they tell you about the expansion?
Did they tell you how your body would open to make way for the whole universe to pass through?
Did they tell you how your heart would explode with a love bigger than anything you’ve ever known as you pulled your baby to your chest.
They told you about the ring of fire but did they tell you about the crown of stars?
Did they mention that there is a moment when your baby enters the world and you leave your body and touch the heavens and become the light of a million galaxies?
Did they tell you how the pain of stretching to receive your child would be more exquisite than any sensation you’ve felt?
They told you you would scream but did they tell you about how you would roar?
Did they tell you about the power that would rise up from your belly as you called your baby forth with your mighty voice?
Did they tell you how you would embody the wild woman within you and breathe fire with your song?
They told you you would bleed but did they tell you how that sacred blood wouldn’t scare you?
How you would feel grateful for that magical liquid of life as it trickled down your leg?
How you would honor its flow and how it would help you heal a lifetime of hating your body’s bleeding cycles?
They told you these stories and taught you to fear birth, to fear your power, to fear yourself.
But you’re stronger and wiser than that mama.
You know that birth is your divine dance, your soul’s song, your moment with God, and you walk fearlessly into her open arms.”
~ Catie Atkinson
@spiritysoul on Instagram
NOTE: Not all pregnancies and births are the same. Some are fraught with complications and heartache. Our hearts go out to these with compassion, support, and love.

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Blind Date with My Body
Published June 4, 2023 by tindertenderEvery morning I have a blind date with my body.
And as I do,
a million questions run through my head.
Who is this person sitting across from
me in the mirror?
Am I my own soulmate?
Are the dreams in my heart and my thoughts in my head perfect strangers?
How can I open my heart to this imperfect human who is staring back at me?
How can I learn to love their wrinkles?
How can I build a future with this person?
And every morning during my blind date
with my own image I remember the secret
to any great relationship …
Is to let them see you as you really are.
So,
how do I see myself?
As a piece of cosmic art or as half-shattered bowl?
Maybe it’s both things at the same time.
My love,
In order to feel at home in your skin you must learn to be yourself,
with yourself.
And to see the beauty in yourself when you look at yourself.
All first dates are awkward,
so be patient with yourself as you get to know the person in the mirror.
Don’t let them slip through your fingers
because …
they are the love of your life.
- John Roedel
Artist: Christoffer Wilhelm Eckersberg

In ancient Egyptian times …
Published June 3, 2023 by tindertenderIn ancient Egyptian times,
women were seen and honored
as higher and holier than a man.
The woman is the mother of all,
giving life and teaching.
The ancients believed
that when a man
achieves a great deal of knowledge,
spirituality and power,
he would be allowed to wear a long hair wig
to symbolize that he had reached a certain level equal to a woman.
As the two come together
she holds her man,
giving him strength and protection.
There is a saying that continues to float today:
“Behind every successful man
there is a strong woman.” ❤️❤️

Grief Groceries
Published June 2, 2023 by tindertenderHi Hugh,
A friend died, and I want to be helpful to his wife, but I’m not sure what to do. I told her that if she needed anything to let me know. Of course, she thanked me, but it’s been a few days now and she hasn’t asked for anything. I don’t think she will. I feel so helpless. What should I do?
[Redacted]
Hey there, [Redacted]. Thanks for writing. I’m really glad your friend has you in her life.
I get it. Grief is a funny thing. It’s the time in our life when we most need help, and also the time when asking for help is so hard. Not because we are ashamed to ask for help, although that happens sometimes too. But mostly because our brain just sort of shuts down.
When my Dad died, I looked functional. But I wasn’t OK. Not at all. And when the news got out, the ton of people flooding me with calls, texts, and DM’s was overwhelming. I really couldn’t function. I sat on the swing in our yard and just stared into space. People called and asked what they could do to help. I had no idea.
“Well, anything you need at all, let me know, OK?”
“OK”.
They hung up. I stared into space some more.
I had no idea what to do. What I needed. I didn’t even know what to ask for.
Then a friend sent a text. This friend had met Dad once but didn’t really know him. But still, she knew I was hurting. I saw who it was and almost put the phone down without reading the text, but I saw the message and it stopped me:
Will you be home at 8:30 tonight?
What’s weird is this friend lives 12 hours away from me.
Yes, I replied.
“K.”
10 minutes later, she said, “Instacart will be there at 8:30. Open the door for them.”
“What?”
“Grief Groceries.”
When Instacart showed up, they put two large bags of groceries on my porch. Frozen pizzas. Ice cream. Oreo cookies. Tinned soup. Stouffer’s lasagna. A gallon of milk. Like that. Things I could heat up if I needed a meal, or pig out on if I needed fat and sugar. Sometimes, you just need to eat half a box of Oreos.
Notice she didn’t ask if I needed any food. I would have said no. She just asked if I would be home.
Grief groceries.
Another friend, who lives out of town, asked Renee to name a restaurant near our house where we like to eat. There is a local chain near our house that is sort of a deli. When we eat supper there, we spend about $25. Renee told her the name of the place.
An hour later, there was a gift card in my inbox for $250. Yes, that is a lot of money, and I understand not everyone can do that. But the wonderful thing was that because it was enough for multiple meals, we didn’t try to save it for “the right time”. We ate there that night, and take out from there several times a week for the next month on nights when I just didn’t have the spoons to cook.
Both of those gift-givers knew something I didn’t know – that when you are grieving, you don’t want to make decisions. No, that’s not quite it: You can’t make decisions. You hit decision fatigue really fast.
So, I guess what I’m saying is, don’t ask grieving people to make big choices or decisions. “How can I help” is a big choice. But “Can I take the kids this afternoon so you can have some time to yourself” is a much smaller one. “Will you be home tonight?” is a small choice. “What restaurant do you like” is a small decision. Just showing up to cut their grass because you noticed it needed cutting is loads better than asking, “Do you want me to cut the grass?” Or, “I’m going to Target. What can I get you while I’m there?” is better than “Can I run any errands for you?”
It won’t always be like this. If you stick around, eventually they will surface and ways to be helpful will make themselves known. But in the first few days, especially, it helps to remove as many decisions from their plate as possible.
Take care,
HH

What exactly is a DNA activation?
Published May 21, 2023 by tindertenderHumanity on Earth currently has 2-strand DNA in body cells. Light (information) is expressed through the medium of what we call consciousness, and this consciousness is encoded within the DNA. The +/- polarities in light are comparable to DNA-RNA, which could be described as the polarities of human consciousness. This is also the reason why human consciousness goes from light to darkness.
Through DNA Activation of 12 strands, 10 additional strands are activated in body cells.
Additional DNA chains are magnetic and multidimensional in nature and cannot be detected by present scientific equipment.
We assume from the testing and the response that the changes initially occur in the ethereal body. These additional DNA strands trigger the countless number of cellular activity needed to transform our physical carbon body into a physical-eric crystal body and shift our energy fields.
It is said that 97% of DNA does not work. For countless people with an awakened consciousness, this numb material is seen as a living storage of data containing the instruction sets for our greatest human potential.
What is encoded within our secret vault is potential so vast that it leaves the perplexing mind thinking that something so deep could be so accessible. By simply changing our perceptions, entering a new way of defining our personal reality, we can overlap the carbon structure at the level of nucleic acid bases in DNA. Leading scientists are proving that genes and DNA don’t control our biology; that instead DNA is controlled by signals from outside the cell. This includes the energetic messages that emanate from our positive and negative thoughts.
The question here is that our thoughts and feelings directly affect our DNA. Positive changes in perception and new states of feeling trigger DNA activation. Also, when we consciously engage ourselves with the living intelligence of DNA, it gets primarily stimulated and begins to push out the greatest potential that is held within the latent code.
Just as we are merely sequences of a four letter code (ATCG), the basis of life is very simple. We change and transform all the time We are constantly redefining ourselves. With each one of these shifts of consciousness, we are literally changing our code.
We have the ability to change in the blink of an eye if we can really grasp these ideas and begin acting them out from full knowledge of our higher abilities. Our DNA programs are like snakes shedding old skin; we’re constantly shelling out old coding. These encodings are only stored prints that can be reprogrammed. As we change our perceptions, cellular biology changes. Our vibration raises and DNA base letters rearrange.
Everything on the planet is changing.
Electromagnetic currents are changing, magnetic fields are changing and many things are no longer being held in their familiar place. We are being unlocked! This brings a tremendous change to the biological body and the entire structure of our DNA encodement. It’s these additional DNA strands that trigger the change of our whole being into an Ascension Vehicle that will take us to the fifth dimension. This is why we said DNA and RNA are communication systems. It would be like DNA was the link to The Higher Self, Soul and RNA would be the soul response. Through this DNA renewal process, consciousness is brought to consciousness and intention is put into motion.
To strengthen the connection with your Higher Self, new attributes will be employed. You are in the process of changing a critical part of biology known to you as DNA.
This new model allows you to walk in full unison with your Higher Self at all times. Integration of the Supreme God-self physically.
We are the technology we were waiting for.
~ Author Unknown

There’s a reason this realm wants you in fear… it makes you easier to control.
I’m In Love Again … With Me
Published May 16, 2023 by tindertenderI am in love, with someone who is enough for me, who hugs me and raises my self-esteem, who recognizes my value, and who has told me that I don’t need anyone else to be happy because we have each other.
That someone taught me to forgive others and forgive myself.
I fell in love again but this time is different, because it has made me understand that I deserve the best of the best and no less. That a love with doubts and insecurities is not love.
I fell in love with someone who believes in me, no matter how many times I stumble, because he knows that after the falls I get up with more strength.
I fell in love with someone who gives me peace and security. Who is capable of giving everything for me, who loves me always and not at times.
I fell in love with someone who wraps his arms around me and understands me. That despite my dark days and the chaos that I carry inside, does not run away, but stays, and accompanies me in my moments of loneliness and peace.
I fell in love with someone whose eyes shine when they see me. His look reflects how happy he feels to have me, and he always welcomes me with a smile.
Since we discovered each other, not a second goes by when he leaves me alone, he accompanies me to my favorite places, and enjoys my company without conditioning.
Yes, I’m in love!
And although until a while ago this seemed impossible, today I love that person… He became my favorite person.
I fell in love again, but this time I fell in love with ME.
And today I know that I am the love of my life!
~ Author Unknown

Embodied within me is masculine and feminine. Yin/Yang. Light and Dark. We work it out. We are happy.
Prayer Flags ~ A Teaching
Published March 13, 2023 by tindertenderPRAYER FLAGS TEACHING
Prayer Flags, also known as Tobacco Flags, are for defining a sacred space and keeping it protected from unwanted external energies.
Prayer Flags is comprised of a group of 7 different colored strips of cloth with a handful of tobacco tied to one end and the excess material dropping down like a tail.
The 7 colors represent the 7 Sacred Directions and the help received from the Spirits in that direction.
- Yellow for East is for inner-child work.
- Red for South is for work on the youth stage of life.
- Black for West is for work on adulthood.
- White for North is for work on elders and Ancestors.
- Blue for the Above Direction representing help and assistance from Father Sky and other Supernatural Spirits.
- Green for the Below Direction representing help and assistance from Mother Earth and other Earth Spirits.
- Purple for the Within Direction, representing Great Mystery which is the connection between your spirit to all of Creation.
People going on a Vision Quest make Prayer Flags to keep them protected from distraction from outside energies so that the individual can focus on going within self to find the help and answers they are seeking with the help of spirit guides.
The 7 Flags are hung up independently with each color in the appropriate cardinal direction beginning with the yellow cloth and going clockwise in attaching to a tree branch or stick on the ground in a circular pattern around their personal space.
The green and blue flags are usually hung in the western direction with the black flag while the purple is hung in the northern direction with the white flag.
For a building that serves to help children and youth, the Prayer Flags are usually combined altogether and hung up near the main entrance to protect the building from the negativity of outside energies. So that the building and people in it can focus on purpose of being there.
Flags are made from 4-inch strips of fabric usually broadcloth with one end having a handful of tobacco or with a mixture of other medicines tied in.
This end holding the tobacco is hung upwards so that the top has the offering requesting spirits for help and guidance.
The tail of the material allows a pathway for spirits to come down and do whatever is needed to accomplish the request made with the tobacco.
If no intention was made while making the Prayer
Flags, expect no results because people get what they asked which was nothing.
The Prayer Flags are to be burned at the end of the term be it at end of a vision quest, school year or physical year end.
Nothing lasts forever and tobacco does wear out and so does the cloth.
