Pursuing a woman just to mistreat her after she finally lets you into her life is so pathetic.
You chased her. You said all the right things. You convinced her to let her guard down. To open up. To believe that maybe, this time, it was safe to trust. You made her feel chosen, wanted, prioritized… only to get comfortable and flip the script the moment she got close.
That’s not a man… that’s a coward in disguise.
Because it takes nothing to pursue a woman. A few sweet words. A little effort. A little consistency. But it takes character to actually love her right once you have her. To protect her heart. To stand on your word. To show up when it’s not convenient.
And if your plan was to just get her, break her, and then blame her for reacting to your disrespect… please understand, that’s not strength… that’s weakness.
She let you in. That was her being vulnerable. That was her trusting you with parts of herself she doesn’t share with everyone. That was her believing in something again… probably after being hurt before.
So to turn around and mistreat her after you asked to be there? That’s beyond selfish. That’s emotional manipulation at its finest.
What kind of man begs for access to a woman’s heart just to misuse it? Who fights for a seat at the table only to flip it over once he’s fed?
A woman is not a toy. She’s not something you conquer. She’s a whole human being with emotions, expectations, and standards. And if you knew you weren’t ready to honor her, love her right, or treat her with the care she deserves… then why show up at all?
Let me say this for the men who need to hear it: stop chasing women just to wound them.
Stop fighting for love you’re not emotionally prepared to maintain.
Because the pain you leave behind becomes her healing journey, and one day, she’ll be over it… but you’ll always be the reason she had to pick up the pieces.
So no… it’s not cute. It’s not harmless. It’s not “just how men are.”
It’s pathetic. It’s hurtful. And it’s a reflection of how little you value not only her… but yourself.
In my Spiritual Warfare, many things happened. At 50, I got my first tattoo. My mother had always wanted to get matching ones; after many decades of saying no, I finally said yes. The second tattoo I ever got was this symbol. It helped me a lot … having a visual that God was always with me. I do not know why my Spirit chose this symbol as representative for God, being as how I’m mostly of European decent. Perhaps it’s because it appears to be a great war weapon, perhaps it’s because I wasn’t raised religious … who knows. We, the People, are more alike than many of us are able to admit.
Adinkra symbol from Ghana meaning “God is King,” representing the majesty and supremacy of God (Nyame), the supreme being in Akan spiritual tradition. Nyame is considered the omnipotent, omniscient, and omnipresent creator and sovereign ruler of the universe, also known as Onyankopon.
Who is Nyame? Supreme Being: . In the Akan conceptual system, Nyame is the name for God, the Supreme Being and Creator deity. Omnipotent, Omniscient, Omnipresent: . Nyame is an all-powerful, all-knowing, and ever-present deity. Dual Nature: . Nyame can appear in both male and female forms, identified with the sun and the moon, respectively. Association with Nature: . Lightning is sometimes seen as Nyame’s thunderbolts, and stone axes are placed in forked posts by doorways to honor the god.
What does the Adinkra symbol “Nyame Ye Ohene” represent? “God is King”: The symbol directly translates to “God is King”.
Majesty and Supremacy: It serves as a reminder of God’s power, authority, and the ultimate reality that God is in charge of everything.
Humility and Submission: The symbol encourages people to submit to God and worship him, recognizing a higher power.
In essence: The term “Nyame Ye Ohene Adinkra” refers to the Adinkra symbol that embodies the Akan understanding of God (Nyame) as the sovereign ruler, or “King,” of the universe.
Would you rather die, than share your life with me?
She wrote a song about it …
Her father went to give blood. There was a man complaining, saying “he didn’t want the blood of someone who wasn’t his kind”.
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Shemekia Copeland possesses one of the most instantly recognizable and deeply soulful roots music voices of our time. The multi-GRAMMY nominee is beloved and honored worldwide for the fearlessness, honesty and humor of her revelatory songs, as well as for her winning, engaging personality. The Chicago Tribune says, “Copeland is the greatest female blues vocalist working today. There’s no mistaking the majesty of her instrument, nor the ferocity of her delivery.”
It amazes me still. For 22 years I had what seemed to be 1,000’s of people having a Ball in my mind, in my energy. A regular dance party, a feast! Disruption in the highest!! The Divine sent me in with a mission, and a mission statement … “Learn as much as you can about as much as you can”. My whole life I thought I was failing, life circumstances always falling apart, crumbling.
I recently thought about Royalty, true Royalty, here with us, now. Fully Present.
When things are going wrong and your family divine is being harmed, true high value one’s dive in, and get to work. That means “falling from grace”. That means becoming a “prisoner” like those you mean to assist. That means withstanding the horrors, the blame, wearing the pain, the shame and rebelling against those who insist you are a sinner for even existing.
All of the firsthand testimony of what had occurred to them, the testimony of everything they witnessed being done to others, the secrets they uncover of the abusers, just by surviving, the endurance and strength gained by standing in the fires of destruction … persevering. Secrets, uncovering …
When God decided enough was enough, when you, as transmitters/receivers of the divine had collected sufficient information necessary to secure a victory, Mother Father moved with the Family … and Boy, how did they!!
I am grateful for this life. I am grateful for you, collective! Thank you for your service to Life, to Family, to the Most High Divine. Because of you, the Human Race will continue to exist.
Back to square one. The “Originals” have awoken. The “Myths” have come alive.
These ones attempt to CRISPR everyone, failed … You were too stubborn, the connections to Source, the inner still voice, too strong.
When God said the dead would rise … they have. But these “dead” were never dead, such as we’ve been told the dead would be … They, too, were collecting data from across many dimensions and realms, many vibratory frequencies. Family.
Thank you Most High Mother Father God Goddess, Creators of the All That Is, for my life!!
Thank you for seeing the “real” me, for hearing me, authentically, for seeing me transparently.
I will never try to hide my hand or attempt to get sneaky tricky with you.
The good, the bad, the ugly, AND the beautiful of my present moment will always be fully exposed for your examination!!
I know I’m not perfect, there’s no such thing, and I am grateful that there are always new things to learn, fresh knowing and skill that can add value to my Soul.
Thank you for being patient as I try, try, try again.
Thank you for not making me carry the burden of my copycats evil deeds. Thank you for putting the responsibility where it goes, the blame and shame where it needs to be.
Thank you for mercy.
Thank you for your dedication to research, verification of details found, and the surety you bring to every decision you make!
I am eternally grateful !!!!!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Thank you to all my incredibly scary and efficiently skillful willful friends too!!
I am so grateful you all aren’t the myth our enemies tried to paint you as.
Revelation 12, a “woman clothed with the sun” is described, and this figure is sometimes associated with the concept of a “queen of heaven”.
In my mind, I see her as a Shining Anomaly, imbued with the essence of the Sun.
There was a Buffalo Ceremony a couple years ago. They had a naming ceremony within the main ceremony for a newly born child. It was hot! Her mother was dancing in a high paced dance around the “tree” in the center of the grounds. She was beautiful, her energy powerful! Her children, two others around 3 and 5 years old were thirsty. In the longhouse I found a big ol’ jug of ‘never opened water’ that I brought to them, filling their cups. It was amazing! It was a Holy moment. As they danced around the tree, chanting and singing, connecting to Spirit, to Creator, they circled and circled and then the dance came to a stop. The leader of the ceremony stood off and announced the child’s name … “Shining White Sun Woman”.
The presence of Spirit and the Energy that day will never be duplicated. Perhaps it is this child who will bring a new prophecy to the people in the coming chapter.
I just saw a post that really hit home. Someone cracked open a chicken egg and found a HUGE worm parasite inside. The comments were a fascinating mix of people from around the world—some outside the U.S. were like, “Just head to the pharmacy and grab antiparasitics.” No shame, no fear, just common practice. Meanwhile, here in America, people were scrambling in the comments, suggesting pyrantel pamoate like it’s some miracle fix.
But here’s the reality: Pyrantel pamoate does work—but it’s extremely limited. It’s a depolarizing neuromuscular blocking agent that paralyzes intestinal parasites like hookworms, pinworms, and roundworms, and then your body flushes them out. But it only works in the intestinal tract. That’s it. If parasites have migrated to your tissues, brain, liver, lungs, muscles, or anywhere else (which is extremely common, especially with strongyloides, toxocara, tapeworm cysts, trichinella, etc.)—it does absolutely nothing.
So what do you do? You go to a doctor. You finally build up the nerve to say, “I think I have a parasite.” And that’s when the circus begins:
“We don’t really have parasites in America.”
“Your symptoms must be anxiety.”
“Unless you traveled to a third-world country, it’s unlikely.”
“Even if you have them, they usually coexist with us.”
“That’s not a thing here.”
Gaslight. Dismiss. Repeat. And if you’re lucky enough to get them to agree to testing? They’ll run a stool test. One. Single. Stool. Test.
Now let me explain why that’s nearly useless.
Parasites have life cycles that include dormant stages, migratory phases, and intermittent egg shedding. The ova and parasite (O&P) test, which is what doctors usually run, only detects eggs or dead parasites in your stool. But here’s the problem:
Adult worms often live in tissue and don’t come out in your poop.
Eggs are only shed during short windows in the cycle—often once every 2–4 weeks.
Your immune system and digestive enzymes break down parasites, so by the time they pass through the gut, there’s often nothing left to detect.
Parasites like tapeworms or flukes can go years shedding no eggs at all.
Now flip to the bottom of the test results paper, where it says in tiny print—something like: “Due to intermittent shedding, repeated testing is recommended 1–2 times per week over several weeks.” But guess what doctors don’t do? They don’t order repeat testing. They don’t explain the test limitations. They look at that single negative result and tell you it’s all in your head.
Meanwhile, your symptoms—bloating, itching, rashes, food intolerances, weight changes, fatigue, behavioral changes, autoimmune reactions, even seizures—keep piling up. Because yes, parasites can affect the nervous system, the endocrine system, the gut-brain axis, and your immune response. There’s research showing links between toxocariasis and epilepsy, between intestinal parasites and histamine disorders, even helminths and altered neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine.
Parasites aren’t some third-world fairy tale. They’re here. They’re real. They’re stealthy. And thanks to our sanitized, pharma-dominated system that refuses to acknowledge chronic parasitic infections unless you’re literally vomiting up worms… we stay sick. And confused. And dismissed.
And if you dare to take matters into your own hands, start researching protocols, or order herbs or meds from overseas, then you’re labeled a “conspiracy theorist.”
We don’t have a parasite problem. We have a diagnostic and medical system problem.
ETA anti parasitic options-
🌿 HERBAL ANTIPARASITICS:
Gentle options for kids and sensitive individuals marked with a ()*
Clove* – kills parasite eggs
Wormwood (Artemisia absinthium) – broad-spectrum, best used in combo
Sweet Wormwood (Artemisia annua)* – milder than regular wormwood
Black Walnut Hull – strong, works well with clove and wormwood
Neem – antiparasitic and antifungal
Olive Leaf Extract* – good broad-spectrum option
Garlic (aged or extract) – strong antiparasitic and antifungal
Barberry or Oregon Grape Root – supports liver and fights gut pathogens
Mimosa pudica seed – sticky fiber that “grabs” parasites
Pumpkin seeds or oil* – paralyzes worms
Papaya seeds* – shown to kill intestinal worms
Thyme oil or herb – strong antimicrobial
Fennel seed* – gentle and helps with bloating
Goldenseal – antimicrobial and liver-supportive
Turmeric / Curcumin* – anti-inflammatory, weak antiparasitic support