Failure

Published October 9, 2020 by tindertender

Going along in life it may sometimes feel as though everything has fallen apart, literally.

You may tell yourself you’ve failed, others may say the same, reaffirming your thoughts of insufficiency.

Since we are always at choice, we have the opportunity to shift perspective, to see it from another angle.

Perhaps when things seem to fall apart, or literally do, instead of seeing it as failure, seeing it as simply an opportunity to come at it from a different position, or frame of mind.

Perhaps it is an opportunity to realize that the way one is thinking about the situation needs rebirthing, refreshed.

Perhaps it is a necessary step in the process, a baby step if you will, to the next level of reality in the situation.

Usually, personal growth is made in increments. Every time there is a set back it can feel like a failure, but is only a step in the right direction, one step at a time, a continual birthing and death to perception of the circumstance.

Rather than allowing our self to fray and fall apart every time a step is made, every time we walk out of the old and into the new, an embrace for the newness ought to be cultivated in mind. A sense of gratitude for the progression in the issue, and indeed in life itself, held in mind and honored by the spirit within.

You are not failing my dear, nor are your efforts wasted. You are in a continual state of rebirthing yourself, ever more into higher perspectives and realities.

Affirmation 10-9-2020

Published October 9, 2020 by tindertender

Today is a day to focus on courage. I have the courage to make the decisions that must be made, to do the work that must be done, to face the things that must be faced. I summon the courage of the warrior and protector and manifest it in my life. I acknowledge the courage within myself and also honor the courage I see in others.

~ A Daily Book of Pagan Prayer by Megan Day

Oracle Reading 10-9-2020

Published October 9, 2020 by tindertender

Shadow: Know Your Power ~ You have Choice in all things. Your power is born of that freedom to choose, but with that freedom comes the burden of responsibility. To know your power you must accept responsibility for your part in all you experience even when you allow another to impose their choice or will upon you. You have the power to choose if you wear a saddle or bridle, or if another will ride upon your back. Own your power. Know it and see it in all of your choices and actions.

Soul: Heed Your Dreams ~ Your Dreams are a powerful tool for increasing self awareness for they contain within them the unfiltered truth. Whether it be a dream or a nightmare, they are the keys to understanding your inner self – both your joys and your fears. Commune with Gaia and Great Spirit in the stillness of your slumber; learn to read and interpret your dreams. Listen to what they tell you. Pay close attention to how they make you feel. Heed what they reveal and learn who you are and who you wish to be.

Let the Two Become One: Nurture All You Love ~ Take the time to nurture the things you care about so that they may flourish and grow. Your hopes, your dreams, your body, your mind, your spirit, your creations, and your relationships; all that is you needs to be cherished, loved, honored and respected. Without care and attention, these aspects of self can fall into a state of neglect that does only harm to both you and the world around you. Nurture them, and they will bring you peace and fulfillment.

Reading from the deck “Messenger Oracle” created by Ravynne Phelan

Hero’s

Published October 8, 2020 by tindertender

Is it “time creates hero’s”?

Or are hero’s created out of time?

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Affirmation 10-8-2020

Published October 8, 2020 by tindertender

Today is a day to focus on being a spiritual being. I inhabit a physical body that moves through the world, but that is not my inner self, my timeless self. I will remove my attention, as much as I can, from the distractions of the outer world and concentrate on my spiritual being. And I will try to see the inner, true self of every other being I meet today.

~ A Daily Book of Pagan Prayer by Megan Day

Liberty and Justice

Published October 8, 2020 by tindertender

The Lion of Justice protecting his Lady Liberty ~

Games As Seen By A Queen

Published October 8, 2020 by tindertender

A Queen will not play games; she knows those that play are not worth the time.

A Queen will not jump up and down trying to get the attention of those that choose not to see her; she has too much self respect and dignity.

A Queen will not compete based on lies and half-truths; she is too clever for this. Her deep well of inner wisdom and knowing guide her in a direction in alignment with her purpose.

A Queen does not talk ill of other Queens; for her heart loves all her sisters.

A Queen deserves a true King by her side and not a Joker.

A Queen claims the divine crown forged from her own unique medicine and gifts and places it where it rightly belongs. She wears this crown proudly for she is deserving.

A Queen embraces the truth that is hers alone and rules from her sacred throne. She leads her realm justly for all around and within her is sacred.

©Ara

Vibration Frequency

Published October 8, 2020 by tindertender

‎7 things that affect your vibration frequency from the point of view of quantum physics.

Vibration in quantum physics means everything is energy. We are vibrant beings on certain frequencies. Every vibration is equivalent to a feeling and in the “Vibrational” world there are only two vibrations, positive and negative. Any feeling makes you broadcast a vibration that can be positive or negative.

1ST – * thoughts *
Every thought emits a frequency to the universe and this frequency goes back to origin, so in the case, if you have negative thoughts, discouragement, sadness, anger, fear, all this comes back to you. This is why it is so important that you take care of the quality of your thoughts and learn how to cultivate more positive thoughts.

2ND – * the company you keep *
The people around you directly influence your vibration frequency. If you surround yourself with happy, positive and determined people, you will also enter this vibration. Now, if you surround yourself with people complaining, gossiping and pessimist, be careful! Indeed, they can reduce your frequency and therefore prevent you from using the law of attraction in your favor.

3RD – * the music *
Music is very powerful. If you only listen to music that talks about death, betrayal, sadness, abandonment, all this will interfere with what you are feeling. Pay attention to the lyrics of the music you listen to, it could reduce your vibration frequency. And Remember: you attract exactly what you feel in your life.

4TH – * the things you look at *
When you look at programs that deal with misfortunes, dead, betrayals, etc. Your brain accepts this as a reality and releases a whole chemistry into your body, which affects your vibration frequency. Look at things which cause you to feel good and help you vibrate at a higher frequency.

5TH – * the atmosphere *
Whether it’s at home or at work, if you spend a lot of time in a messy and dirty environment, it will also affect your vibration frequency. Improve what surrounds you, organize and clean your environment. Show the universe that you are fit to receive much more. Take care of what you already have!

6TH – * the word *
If you claim or speak wrong about things and people, it affects your vibration frequency. To keep your frequency high, it is essential to eliminate the habit of complaining and bad talking about others. So avoid drama and bullying. Assume your responsibility for the choices of your life!

7TH – * gratitude *
Gratitude positively affects your vibration frequency. This is a habit you should integrate now into your life. Start to give thanks for everything, for the good things and what you consider to be bad, say thank you for all the experiences you’ve experienced. Gratitude opens the door for good things to happen positively in your life.

~ Thippesh Swamy‎

Oracle Reading 10-8-2020

Published October 8, 2020 by tindertender

Do not be afraid to take charge or use your voice. Be strong.

Do the right thing, even if it isn’t the easiest option. Stand for what you know to be right and true.

Reap what you have sown and enjoy the fruits of your labor. Grow and expand in all areas of your life.

Reading from the deck “Angels and Ancestors” Oracle Cards created by Kyle Gray