All posts tagged Kindness

The Kindest People

Published September 23, 2022 by tindertender

“The kindest people
are not born that way,
they are made.

They are the ones
who have dug themselves
out of the dark,
who have fought to turn
every loss into a lesson.

The kindest people
don’t just exist,
they choose to soften
where circumstance
has tried to harden them,
they choose to believe
in goodness
because they have seen
firsthand why compassion
is so necessary.

They have seen firsthand
why tenderness is so
important in this world.”

🌷 Bianca Sparacino

May Kindness Be Your Credo

Published April 2, 2021 by tindertender

Kindness and thoughtfulness in a very self-centred navel-gazing world is akin to gold dust. You will not ‘lose’ anything by being there for another if you are doing it out of unconditional loving and service. The only time you lose power is when your intention is mislaid, which can be easily reclaimed by conscious intent.

May kindness be your credo.


( Art: Laura Diehl)

Seed Planter

Published October 2, 2020 by tindertender
(Art: unknown as yet)

One of the best remedies for overcoming the sadness that you feel concerning where the planet and humanity is at, is by doing your part in bringing kindness, compassion and care in any way you can.

You may think you’re too insignificant to make a difference however every kind gesture of service that you offer can be of huge benefit to another.

Be a kindness seed planter.

Blessings ~

Kindness Is Strength

Published September 15, 2020 by tindertender

Being kind does not mean enabling or letting someone walk over you or insult you, that’s being a victim.

Kindness with healthy boundaries is compassion.

Kindness is a chosen way of being. It brings the person offering kindness and those receiving it nourishment as it feels good on both sides.

Choose to be kind, hold your healthy boundaries and keep your heart open in compassion to yourself as well as others.


(Art: unknown as yet)

Oracle Reading 8-25-2020 p.m.

Published August 25, 2020 by tindertender

Be bold and mighty forces will aid you. Take action. Good luck favors the brave.

This day I will start a new journey. I will not wait until everything is just right. I know there will always be challenges, obstacles, and imperfect conditions. So what! I will get started now. With each step I will grow stronger, more skilled, and more confident. I will take a risk and I will succeed.

Strength is gentle. True kindness has wings. Love in action endures.

This day I will let kindness grow in me. I will be gentle with myself and give my soul the love it deserves. I will focus on everlasting love and let it gently flow into the world. I am alive, my gratitude knows no bounds, and my heart now overflows with love and kindness.

Immense delight can be found in the smallest of things. Cultivate fluttering moments of joy.

This day I give myself permission to be happy. I will laugh and laugh some more. I will spread my wings of joy and soar. I now let go of the past and live in the present moment. I am a beautiful, smart, creative heart on a journey towards ultimate happiness.

Elegance is found in the beauty of nature. The lotus waiting to bloom. Be the swan on the water and glide.

This day I will give thanks for the miracle that is me. For I, who was once an ugly duckling, have become something more. I will see the beauty in myself, others, and nature even when things are not perfect. I know that what I become depends on what I’ve overcome. I will find my rhythm, glide on the waves, and I will be a swan.

Banish the fog of illusion. Open your eyes to the truth. Remember the perfection of who you are.

This day I will be myself in a world that is constantly trying to make me something else. I will remember my true self and honor him/her. I will walk away from all of the confusion, drop illusions, and remember this truth; I am a powerful being, I have a clear mind, and I am a miracle in this world.

Reading from the deck “Magical Times” Empowerment cards created by Jody Bergsma

Kindness Above All

Published July 22, 2020 by tindertender

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It is very clear to most of us that we are a part of something humongous happening on planet Earth. The Ascension impacts everyone and has personal implications that hold different meanings that are very intimate to each person.

Connecting with your Soul, Connecting with God Source is very personal. As a part of the human race we all know what it means to suffer horribly in pain and feel completely alone in the darkness. As we endure this Ascension Cycle, remember, it is about Kindness Above All. Honor where you are at, take the time you need, allow yourself the space to heal and find the kindness for yourself.

As you strengthen your core and can expand your sphere of influence, then practice random acts of kindness towards others. One second of criticism, sarcasm, belittling, or hateful words can mar and scar a child and a person for life. One second of kindness can elevate a child or person to accomplish greatness that allows them to find their soul.


Kindness ~ Pass It On

Published June 25, 2020 by tindertender
Baseball fan holding umbrella over JROTC member on Memorial Day.
Pararescueman Sgt. Mike Maroney reunited with a Girl he saved 15 years ago during hurricane Katrina
Waiter helping to feed disabled lady so her husband can finish his meal. Good job good man.
Man in red needed help with son’s math homework and got it from a stranger on the subway.
This is my Uber driver Beni, he took me to the hospital and is keeping me company since most of my family lives out of the state.
A stranger helping out another stranger struggling with his tie.
Kids do what they feel. These two strangers just hugged in a fast food restaurant.
She took me in 15 years ago and no one makes me as happy. We had the best Christmas. I love my Grandma so much.
There is a local group that cuts lawns for the elderly, disabled, and single parent mothers for free. Here they are with my Grandma.
Officer talks man out of committing suicide. Eight years later, the now-father-of-two gives the officer an award at the American Foundation of Suicide.
This is Anthony Borges, 15. He used his body to hold a classroom door shut, protecting 20 other students inside ss the gunman fired through the door, hitting him five times. May he have a speedy recovery
A couple of months ago, an elderly lady asked me to walk her home because she was scared She was going to slip on the ice. We’ve become friends and now I walk her home almost everyday.
Volunteers helping flood victims evacuate in Houston.
Young man helping an older man down an escalator.
This man reads everyday at lunch to a man who cannot.
“A girl in my geography class had to bring her newborn to class today. The baby started crying in the middle of our quiz. When she took him out to hold him, my professor insisted that he wouldn’t mind feeding the baby and rocking his car seat until she was done. This is my so so awesome, sweet professor, on his knees.”
Love. That is all.

Be Kind

Published April 27, 2020 by tindertender


As governors are trying to figure out how to ease back in to a new normal, please remember:

🛑 Some people don’t agree with the state opening…. that’s okay. Be kind.

🏡 Some people are still planning to stay home…. that’s okay. Be kind.

🦠 Some are still scared of getting the virus and a second wave happening….that’s okay. Be kind.

💰 Some are sighing with relief to go back to work knowing they may not lose their business or their homes….that’s okay. Be kind.

👩🏾‍⚕️Some are thankful they can finally have a surgery they have put off….that’s okay. Be kind.

📝 Some will be able to attend interviews after weeks without a job….that’s okay. Be kind.

😷 Some will wear masks for weeks….that’s okay. Be kind.

💅🏻 Some people will rush out to get the hair or nails done…. that’s okay. Be kind.

❤️ The point is, everyone has different viewpoints/feelings and that’s okay. Be kind.

We each have a different story. If you need to stay home, stay home. But be kind .

If you need to go out, just respect others when in public and be kind! Don’t judge fellow humans because you’re not in their story. We all are in different mental states than we were months ago. So remember, be kind.

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