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Oracle Reading 7-11-2020 ~ Emergence

Published July 11, 2020 by tindertender

Start to identify plans and actions that will lead you to achieve your dreams and goals. Your dreams can become your reality. This is a time when you need to be able to apply detailed planning in order to manifest your dreams and realize your goals. You need to remain focused on the practical side of things. Keep your feet firmly planted on the ground. It is easy to be distracted by more ideas and concepts. Keep focused on what is realistic and achievable. Your common sense and pragmatic approach will lead you to a solution that actually works. Begin taking steps that will bring you closer to your dreams.

The only way you can accept, respect, and cherish others is by accepting, respecting and cherishing you. Accept praise and credit when it is given to you. When you learn to be accepting, you allow your true potential to blossom. You claim your worth and reflect that light to others. When you see yourself in this light, other people cannot help but respond to your personal sense of value. As you strive toward more self-love each day, you will find yourself infused with new energy. It is okay to walk away from relationships that minimize or hurt you. Enjoy and love who you are.

Feel confident that things are falling into place. Just as a seedling breaking through the surface of earth, you too are going to experience an emergence. The efforts of your hard work will become evident and you will begin to see the difference all of that labor and time you have invested has made. Count your blessings! You are gifted with a creative touch and the ability to generate new and wonderful things. Take a moment to feel proud of yourself for all that you have accomplished.

Reading from “Nature’s Whispers” created by Angela Hartfield and Josephine Wall

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Stand Strong

Published July 9, 2020 by tindertender

Written by:
https://twitter.com/MagentaPixie?s=20

Remember we are a huge team and we have each other’s backs throughout the dimensions. Connect with that team in alchemical unification as we create a more powerfully positively polarised collective consciousness than this planet has ever seen.

This is your choice, how you take this for you hold the power. Not so easy in person – but well within a starseed’s ability to neutralise when it is online.

The reaction you need is no reaction. Pure observation. A lack of reaction, a lack of response, neutralises any movement of energy of attack towards you and the transmutation thus moves from attack into failed attempted attack.

Remember, no matter how ugly and vile the words, these are minions from a long established system finally being uprooted from their positions of power. They hold no sway on social media or astrally through psychic attack unless you allow them to.

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LEARNING TO FOCUS YOUR ENERGY TO HEAL OTHERS

Published July 9, 2020 by tindertender

Written by:
https://twitter.com/ArchangelAmongU?s=20

Hello, Dear Friends,

Today I will be talking with you about focusing your energy for the healing of others. I will also be reviewing some past discussions about healing.

Most of the pain and illness that afflicts individuals, as well as that of the collective consciousness, is the result of free will choices at one level or another. Most of those who suffer with major illness or pain chose it in order to learn the lessons of pain.

It is hard to remember that we choose lessons of pain when we hurt so badly that we can barely go forward with life. But pain teaches the lessons of compassion and empathy. It teaches us how to serve others in pain. It teaches us to be strong and able to withstand any challenge.

Other pain and disease here is quite accidental. Much suffering on your planet is being caused by toxin exposure, because people don’t have access to clean water and food grown free of pesticides and chemicals. We accept that risk coming to this planet.

Other disease, such as the great majority of cancers, is caused by stored negative energy in the body. That is why Jesus focuses so much on healing in his LETTERS OF CHRIST. By alleviating stored anger from this or other lifetimes, you reduce the possibility of cancer.

Whether you can heal yourself of disease, or help another do the same, is the prerogative of your or their Higher Self. It depends on the cause of the illness, and what lessons you are learning from it. Your own Higher Self is what determines whether you can be healed.

All of you carry the energy of the Creator, and have the ability to heal yourself and help others heal, if the Higher Self allows an individual to heal. Those of you who are lightworkers brought this ability with you, but have to remember how to do it when you incarnate here.

In the times ahead of you on this planet, there will be great suffering, as there is now. There is wonderful opportunity for you to use your awakening for the healing of others, rather than focusing your energy to strengthen those who harm you by thinking of them instead.

The first step to learning to heal others with energy is to fill your own body, and strengthen your own auric field with light. Remember discussions past, where we talked about the imagination being a visual tool to help you focus your energy.

Imagine your auric field around your body. If you are unable to visualize, simply draw simple figures to do the same. Your auric field takes the form of a bubble around your body. Now picture your body within that bubble, and see that it has energy ports on the outside of it.

There is no special form these visions or drawings have to take. No special or unique knowledge is ever required to work with energy. Just use what works for you. Then picture light of white, blue, pink, or soft green coming into you and first filling up your body.

After you fill up your body with light, then fill up your auric bubble with light in the color that feels good to you. I use cobalt blue light in the “sword” I carry. AARaphael uses soft green light and pink light for healing. The Creator light is bright white and gold.

After you fill yourself and the auric field around you with light, you are ready to use it to help others heal, if they want to be healed. One of the most important things to understand is that you need permission to heal another.

You can ask another person if they would like you to send them healing energy, or you can ask their Higher Self if you know how to do that. If you can’t do either, you can still send them healing energy, but you must focus your energy differently.

To focus for energy for healing, simply bring the image of the person needing healing into your vision or drawing. You don’t want to bring their energy into yours. You only imagine or draw them to tell your energy where to go.

As a divine healer, if you pull another’s energy into you, it will only diminish your strength. Instead, see yourself as a conduit to link the person needing healing into the Creator. Focus on your hand, for example, and imagine yourself pulling the energy of the Creator.

Pull the energy of the Creator through your hand and to the person who needs healing. Don’t pull your own energy out. You don’t need to do that. You have all of the energy of the Creator to pull from and transfer to the other person, simply by visualizing it in your mind.

If you have the permission of the other person or their Higher Self, you can focus that Creator energy directly into their body. If you do not have their permission, you can still focus the energy, but make it stop right in front of them. Their Higher Self will detect it.

Their Higher Self Will then determine whether to accept the energetic offering, or reject it. This is the procedure to use when you see suffering or darkness around you. You can still help heal the energy, and those you don’t speak with directly, by doing this.

There are thousands of books written on how to use energy to heal, with those authors telling you the techniques they’ve developed for healing. They all come down to the simple techniques I’ve shared today. Use what works for you. Honor free will and get permission.

By focusing your energy outwards for the benefit of healing others, you can help the Higher Selves of huge groups of people obtain energy they need for healing of pain and darkness. You can use the same techniques to send your planet healing energy.

All of the energy work we do from the higher realms is done by focus on what we want to accomplish, and telling our energy where to go simply by thinking of it. That is all there is to it. There are no courses required. It only takes practice of focus, and projection.

Heal yourself first, using the techniques described in the LETTERS OF CHRIST, or another source you trust. Then use your energy to help heal those you love, and those you struggle to love, simply by focusing the energy of the Creator for the good of humanity.

As you focus your energy through prayer or other means to heal others, you invite healing energy to come to you as well. Energy you send out returns to you in the same form—for healing or for the harm you send to others.

Healing is actually a process of creating covalent bonds between the energy delivered by the healer, and the one needing healing. Luckily, no special knowledge of physics is required to make it work out.

A “covalent bond” is a human term of physics that describes the potential created when two energy sources combine. If you don’t recognize the term, it’s not important.

Much love to all.

There is also a book on Amazon.

HOW I GOT FREE FROM DEPRESSION

Published July 6, 2020 by tindertender

Written by Maria Palumbo

I did many things. All that I embodied, I teach in woman on fire. One thing I did was I started hanging out with people that made me uncomfortable with how happy they were.

Not people who wanted something from me. Not people who distracted me awhile from my own shit, by always having a bigger catastrophe.

I started being with people who dwelled in possibility.

Who had no limit to the fun they had in their lives. To the love.

No unending pain. No sob story. Just ease.

They treated me well, which made me feel on edge. I was no longer being used by others, heavily leaned on, my boundaries weren’t always being obliterated by an immediate need of someone else.

Could I trust that? Did I want that?

I did not feel worthy.

I thought it was only a matter of time until they realized I was full of shit. I was some shaken broken being.

There was no passive aggressiveness.

So I was either bored, uncomfortable, or a little of both.

It was incredibly confronting.

Pretty soon they would realize I was NOT one of them. I was, “The Other.”

Depressed. Trauma in my background. Confusion. Self-esteem was shaky.

Made mistakes.

But they did not see that in me.

They saw and loved my essence. They helped me begin to trust myself. Trust them.

I forced myself out of the house. Into the hearts and lives of others.

I forced myself to get out of my head, which was very frightening in the early stages of depression.

To grow, you must sit with the discomfort of being with powerful people.

People who are not sad all the time.

People who are not living in regret.

People who embrace who they are and speak up.

People who are not apologetic about what is healthiest for them.

People who when they don’t like something, tell you to your face.

People who are CREATING their lives instead of reacting to their lives. Showing you it’s truly possible to do the impossible.

There will be plenty of people in arrested development:

trying to smoke

f*ck

whine

drug

complain away their lives.

You cannot surround yourself with them.

You get to be with ones that can make you jealous by how much they decide they get to have.

In woman on fire we use jealousy as a tool for intimacy. We name it, claim it, so it doesn’t get in the way. It actually becomes a GIFT to the person receiving it. What is possible when we all are showing up fully is more good than we ever thought possible.

To letting in the good. You don’t have to push it away anymore.

Pm to join us.

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Connecting with Love

Published July 6, 2020 by tindertender

“It’s NOT my fault!” You say –
As you stand in silence to the lack of equity and injustices that’s displayed!

You turn your head and refuse to see the existence of such a thing –
You say I wasn’t there, how is this my fault, you sing!

Well let me tell you my friend, it’s our ability – To become, the responsibility!

To be part of the of the solution –
To educate, support and help, bring resolution!

To a world victimized by all the ism’s –
We need more activism!

I believe it is my purpose to be a Steward of the earth – For the greater good
to rebirth!

In my community, in my world –
I cannot sit in silence or turn an eye to the injustice as it swirls!

Round and round we go –
And still we do not know!

Our eyes are open yet we do not see –
When we stand in silence and let things, just be!

We continue to leave the wounds unhealed-
Because we believe we’ll stir up problems with our lips unsealed!

Well I don’t care if I rattle a few chains –
If it helps to subside the suffering pains!

I’ve wronged people in my life,
can you say you’ve not –
It’s taken courage to face this truth I’ve sought!

It’s humbled me
indeed –
Forgiveness is the ally that I breed!

I’ve been empowered to be a better human – To cultivate compassion, and weed out the inhumane!

I may not be able to change history –
Yet I’m able to change myself, my thoughts my attitude, to rewrite my story!

I must believe this to be true –
Or I will die a slow painful death, I’m sure!

Disconnection is a symptom of fear –
Fear of the unknown, ignorance that showers the soul with dreadful tears!

I may not have been physically present in the day –
However, I can still feel the sorrow and pain that was caused in every way!

I feel it in my blood, my soul.
And until I face this fact I cannot feel whole!

Half of my Ancestors were raped and murdered , stripped of their
culture –
While the other half lived in riches at their expense, like vultures!

I could say it’s not my fault, for I wasn’t there –
But the truth remains, I’m there as long as I’m aware!

I choose to listen and show up for the greater good –
That supports unity and harmony for All, as it should!

I urge you now, take your disconnection –
Find a way to turn it into Reconnection!

With Love
💖🙏🕯

By: Alicia Tarin – 2020

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Watery Release

Published July 6, 2020 by tindertender

Decades old pain arose, surprising me, for I thought I had put it to rest. Well, I did put it to rest … without the proper processing necessary first.

I cried for a whole day. And even some on the second day.

I told myself to stop living in the past, to push it aside, to shut off the tears, to ‘woman’ up.

And then I spoke to some very dear friends, one of which asked me this:

Do you take a shower to wash your body?

I said, yes.

She said, “Tears are a cleansing for the soul. It washes it pure after trauma, or heartbreak of any kind.”

She explained to me that I should NEVER shut down my tears, that I should pay very close attention to what is being “washed away”, to feel it thoroughly and then release it.

After this talk, I vow to never put a damper on my tears, never to put the breaks on any release of past hurt or trauma.

I will allow my tears to wash my pain.

I will permit the process of healing in my person.

And I will not be ashamed.

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Release

Published July 4, 2020 by tindertender

You don’t have to punish yourself forever.

You don’t have to punish yourself at all.

What is done is done.

The new creation yet to be seen.

Soul Recognition

Published June 30, 2020 by tindertender

It is easy to slip into shallow thinking and get caught up in the way things and people appear.

It is more difficult to cut through the shallow into the depths of soul … to view a situation and person as they are … on the inside.

May minds be freed from the need to inhabit the seat of judgement.

May hearts realize necessity for untethering, and release the love held there.

Bless all beings as they slip from their ‘yokes’.

May we be gentle with each other through these changes.

Coming back to Love.

This Is My House

Published June 29, 2020 by tindertender

3 weeks ago I found this house online.

I said “this is my house”.

I called the seller and was told it was a cash only offer and that “I’m sure that takes you off the table”.

Don’t you ever underestimate a hard working black man. I saw the house last week and when I walked in I knew I was home.

The house was built in 1820 for the Russell family who owned the cotton mill in town. Slavery was still legal. When the agent asked me why I wanted such a large house I said it was “a generational move”.

I know this house is bigger than me. I wish I could’ve told my ancestors when they were breaking their back in 1820 to build this house that 200 years later a free gay black man was going to own it and fill it with love and find a way to say their name even when 200 years later they still thought I would be “off the table”.

We are building our own tables.

I’ve never been prouder to be a black man.

Come to my White House any time. I can’t wait to have you! Glory to God in the highest.

I’m a homeowner.

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HOW A DEPRESSED PERSON STAYS DEPRESSED

Published June 29, 2020 by tindertender

Written by Maria Palumbo: https://mariapalumbo.com/; https://www.facebook.com/maria.palumbo.loves

Surround yourself with people who talk at you, instead of with you. People whose problems always seem worse than yours.

Those that like to hear themselves talk. Who use you as a sounding board. They are always facing something they need to get off their chest.

Surround yourself with people who always have a new pain they need you for. Using your touch, your energy, as a way to reduce their discomfort.

Caretake their needs. They need more help than you do, you rationalize. Therefore you never have too many emotional needs. You never ask for help, for you can see how lonely
Needy
Vulnerable
Other people are.

Let yourself s*xually and/or emotionally give to them, as a service. It is too hard creating boundaries. You don’t mind just being who people need you to be at all times.

How depressed people stay depressed, is by never getting angry. Always bending over backwards and being flexible.

Choosing loved ones that mimic dad or mom. People who ignore
Invalidate
Who you are.
People that lean too hard on you at all times.

Have an ex lover? Or someone you are interested in? Stay energetically open to connecting with them, even when the relationship is unclear or unhealthy. When it gets in the way of you trusting and deepening with someone else.

Have frequent daily reminders of this relationship around, always taking you out of the present moment. Unconsciously making you hope for or live for the possibility of connecting with them.

Keep photos of the past, the ones who have died to you literally or metaphorically. Do not replace them with photos that reflect what is true today.

Live in a mental graveyard of the dead. Of regret. What happened always making you fear what COULD happen.

Love people who do not really care too much either way. Who encourage your addictions to suffering and loss of self, because they get something out of it. Because you have more focus and energy on them, when you do not treat yourself all that great. They can always get what they want when you don’t honor who you are.

It is easy to be a master at being depressed, especially during the aftermath of continual attack and murders of people of color. We are also facing the numbers of deaths crawling back up from the virus. You must, MUST, be even more diligent on owning your energetic boundaries
Asking for help.
Getting good help.
Being with people who see you, instead of use you as an escape.
Be with people that you cannot escape with because they want to look into your eyes and feel you really looking back.

Do not stay in the cozy prison of your numbness. It will only get worse there. Get help, even if you do not know what to say. Let people love you, by speaking up. Let people see you, by letting yourself be seen.

Depression makes you think no one really cares all that much anyway. So why bother? The truth is the world deeply cares. Especially the moment you decide you are worthy of being cared for.

You are precious even now. Especially now.

To your preciousness.

Love,
Maria