People who love themselves stand up for themselves.
3 weeks ago I found this house online.
I said “this is my house”.
I called the seller and was told it was a cash only offer and that “I’m sure that takes you off the table”.
Don’t you ever underestimate a hard working black man. I saw the house last week and when I walked in I knew I was home.
The house was built in 1820 for the Russell family who owned the cotton mill in town. Slavery was still legal. When the agent asked me why I wanted such a large house I said it was “a generational move”.
I know this house is bigger than me. I wish I could’ve told my ancestors when they were breaking their back in 1820 to build this house that 200 years later a free gay black man was going to own it and fill it with love and find a way to say their name even when 200 years later they still thought I would be “off the table”.
We are building our own tables.
I’ve never been prouder to be a black man.
Come to my White House any time. I can’t wait to have you! Glory to God in the highest.
I’m a homeowner.
Written by Maria Palumbo: https://mariapalumbo.com/; https://www.facebook.com/maria.palumbo.loves
Surround yourself with people who talk at you, instead of with you. People whose problems always seem worse than yours.
Those that like to hear themselves talk. Who use you as a sounding board. They are always facing something they need to get off their chest.
Surround yourself with people who always have a new pain they need you for. Using your touch, your energy, as a way to reduce their discomfort.
Caretake their needs. They need more help than you do, you rationalize. Therefore you never have too many emotional needs. You never ask for help, for you can see how lonely
Needy
Vulnerable
Other people are.
Let yourself s*xually and/or emotionally give to them, as a service. It is too hard creating boundaries. You don’t mind just being who people need you to be at all times.
How depressed people stay depressed, is by never getting angry. Always bending over backwards and being flexible.
Choosing loved ones that mimic dad or mom. People who ignore
Invalidate
Who you are.
People that lean too hard on you at all times.
Have an ex lover? Or someone you are interested in? Stay energetically open to connecting with them, even when the relationship is unclear or unhealthy. When it gets in the way of you trusting and deepening with someone else.
Have frequent daily reminders of this relationship around, always taking you out of the present moment. Unconsciously making you hope for or live for the possibility of connecting with them.
Keep photos of the past, the ones who have died to you literally or metaphorically. Do not replace them with photos that reflect what is true today.
Live in a mental graveyard of the dead. Of regret. What happened always making you fear what COULD happen.
Love people who do not really care too much either way. Who encourage your addictions to suffering and loss of self, because they get something out of it. Because you have more focus and energy on them, when you do not treat yourself all that great. They can always get what they want when you don’t honor who you are.
It is easy to be a master at being depressed, especially during the aftermath of continual attack and murders of people of color. We are also facing the numbers of deaths crawling back up from the virus. You must, MUST, be even more diligent on owning your energetic boundaries
Asking for help.
Getting good help.
Being with people who see you, instead of use you as an escape.
Be with people that you cannot escape with because they want to look into your eyes and feel you really looking back.
Do not stay in the cozy prison of your numbness. It will only get worse there. Get help, even if you do not know what to say. Let people love you, by speaking up. Let people see you, by letting yourself be seen.
Depression makes you think no one really cares all that much anyway. So why bother? The truth is the world deeply cares. Especially the moment you decide you are worthy of being cared for.
You are precious even now. Especially now.
To your preciousness.
Love,
Maria
Striking image of a recently burned tree, exposing its vascular tissue, the xylem and phloem.
A tree’s vascular system carries water and minerals from the roots up to the leaves, and photosynthesized food back down to the rest of the tree.
Interesting fact: Trees have no muscles (or nervous system) so all of this movement is powered by turgor pressure, which is controlled by stomata in the leaves that open and close as needed.
Shared by: https://twitter.com/ArchangelAmongU
Hello, everyone. Today I just have a short message from Archangel Raphael, who sometimes uses my account. She is currently busy holding together a tectonic plate system and calming down a volcano.
I’ve described to you in the past the work that AA Raphael has done to remove implants from your brains and help you heal from what has happened over the time you’ve spent on this planet. She wants to let you know that we all need to work on setting appropriate energetic boundaries to deal with those who hurt us, with their words and actions. This again is a matter of strengthening the energy bubble around your body, known as the “auric field.”
Sometimes we are in family or work or community situations where we are required to maintain relationships that no longer serve us in a positive way. Without a strong energetic barrier between ourselves and those who want to hurt us, our energy fields become ineffective.
I would like to add that this also applies to the constant barrage of negativity that comes out of all of the different political factions in the world. Politics are designed for control. The messages that come out of politics are meant as a mind control operation.
With a strong auric field, the harmful messages of hate and judgment that come from poor relationships or the media will more easily bounce off you, rather than deplete your precious Creator energy we each carry.
This thread from March will give you some information on how to strengthen your auric field. The Christ Letters we have been discussing offer more complete information on healing the energy you output to change your reality. https://twitter.com/archangelamongu/status/1235959759188013057?s=21
AA Raphael also sends her love, and wants you to know she and her teams are working to deal with all of those who are ill and struggling with COVID-19. She and the healing teams of her gestalt are always in your service, simply by asking for their assistance in your mind.
If you want to raise your vibration, you’ve got to stop intentionally lowering your vibration.
Drinking
Smoking
Drugging
Doing that which splinters your awareness, your presence and dirties your energy is not conducive to clear understanding.
Comprehension becomes skewed.
Thought error prevalent.
You can be tossed about on the sea of life …
Or you can become an expert seaman/woman.
It will not happen without conscious effort and wise choice.
We all start somewhere …
The important thing is to start.
In this existence, we are seen yet also unseen (physical form vs our thought form). We are here and yet not here.
It is often stated that there does not appear to be an answer to a situation or circumstance. I know I’ve done it.
How can no solution exist?
We are here in the physical, and also in the spiritual through thought and energy.
If we become still and know that our perspective has been limited, opening to new ways of seeing things from our various positions in the seen and unseen worlds, answers will begin to flow.
People are so tense these days. Muscles contracting, heart speeding up, tensions rising, anxiety or fear. They are too much in their head and body … shrinking, becoming more and more rigid.
Life is a flow.
Momentum occurs when the intention and drive are combined into action. Rigidity has no ability to flow, it sinks.
We can become stuck in our stubbornness.
Don’t jam up.
They’re not just using cell phones to track you.
Here is that video …
https://twitter.com/fox_wisdom/status/1277267895110656001?s=21
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