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Re-Parenting Self

Published September 22, 2023 by tindertender

It’s what I had to do. I started 21 years ago. Unlearning everything taught and conditioned. Retraining myself, from a loving perspective, with my highest good in mind. @AmentiReAnkhet puts the process in words very well here.

“Re-parenting is the process of healing from childhood trauma & pain by intentionally making choices in your highest good.

In this thread are some tips to help re-parent yourself.

Discipline –
Learn to say no to what doesn’t serve you
Practice Letting Go
Build a foundation of habits/rituals that help ground & stabilize your life
Follow through on your plans & promises you make to yourself

Self-Care –
Breathwork
Meditation
Journaling
Proper Sleep
Connect with Nature
Conscious Awareness
Practice Boundaries
Focus on Nutrition
Move your body

Joy –
Listen to Music
Help someone
Do something spontaneous
Get a New Hobby
Create Human Connection
Be more childlike

Tend to your hurts & wounds. Provide words of encouraging affirmations. Provide or not deprive yourself physical affection & touch. Hold self accountability. Be kind to yourself. Honor your feelings. Creating a structure, will make life easier & help you find your center.”

Are You A Good Witch?

Published September 21, 2023 by tindertender

By @AmentiReAnkhet

Most witches identify as eclectic, which means that they practice at least a few different kinds of magic.

Green Witch – Green witches are also known as garden or forest witches, are very connected to the earth & draw their magic from the natural world. They incorporate earthly elements like herbs, plants, into their practice & enjoy study them. They also work with the Fae.

Hedge Witch – “Hedge” means boundary between this world & spirit realm; hedge witches are known for “flying” into spiritual world when they practice magic. They perform small, daily domestic actions that make life easier for both them & others. They often focus quite a bit on the hearth, home & tend to partner with animals.

Kitchen Witch – They mainly practice magic in the kitchen. They use herbs, cooking, potions, & other types of recipes to concoct spells. Their power stems from the actual process of cooking or baking and the emotions you put into it.

Faery Witch – Also known as a Fae witch connect with faeries at the most basic level. Faery witches love nature spirits, woodland creatures, trees, & the Fae. They invite all of these elements into their practice.

Divination Witch – They focus, on divination practices like Tarot, astrology, scrying, pendulum, meditation, etc. Many divination witches are eclectic as well, they enjoy incorporating divination practices into the craft.

Fire Witch – Draw power from fire. They love the element, or may have more success with fire spells such as candle spells, potions over an open flame, etc. As a fire witch, they are hot & fiery in nature. They like quick results which is exactly what fire spells bring them.

Sun Witch – They derive power from the sun. Spells that deal with new beginnings will be better to cast at sunrise, while banishing spells will have more power during sunset.

Lunar Witch – The moon represents emotions, water, & the subconscious, as well as powerful, deep magic. A moon witch, is very in-tune with lunar cycles & draws power from the moon.

Storm Witch – They draw energy from crazy weather. They might have a preference for a specific type of storm or enjoy chaotic weather energy in general, but they will definitely feel more powerful & excited when the weather is tumultuous.

Sea Witch – A sea witch has a strong connection to water and to the ocean. Sea witches connect with ocean spirits & have an almost psychic connection with the sea. They may use sand, shells, driftwood, or even sea water to perform magic.

Swamp Witch – The swamp witch uses the healing elements of nature around them (especially mud) & develops their own strong magic through the intense emotions they feel surrounding society and expectations.

Elemental Witch – The hallmark of an element witch is incorporating the 4 elements (earth, air, fire, and water) into their practice. Elemental witches use the elements when casting spells; they may only use 1 element at a time or all 4.

Crystal Witch – They are deeply connected to the vibration & energetic power of crystals, gems, & stones.

Ancestral Witch – To be a hereditary or ancestral witch, one needs to have ancestors who were witches. Hereditary witches harness power from the spirits of their ancestors to perform magic.

Cosmic Witch – A cosmic witch is all about the sky. They look to astrology, astronomy, & the stars & moon. They incorporate energy from the stars in their practice & may especially like to study past life astrology. Some cosmic witches are starseeds & integrate practices from their home planet into the craft. They might connect with deities associated with the stars or formulate spells based on planets, the alignment of the stars, etc.

Chaos Witch – They draw power from chaos. They perform emotional, tumultuous magic. Their spells are fueled by energy that clashes.
Chaos witches often perform magic with intense music, during storms, or even when they’re feeling a bit drained emotionally.

Ceremonial Witch – These witches are focused on the ritual of the craft and draw power from performing a ceremony that is meaningful. A ceremonial witch is part of a coven & will treat their ceremonial magic more as a religion.

When you practice ceremonial magic (also known as traditional wicca), there isn’t always a clear distinction between “good spells” & “black magic” so your morals & knowledge will depend on the types of traditional ceremonies you follow.

Dianic Witch – They focus on the feminine. They usually worship the Roman goddess Diana, but can sometimes focus on all goddesses as the divine feminine is the most important aspect of Dianic witchcraft. Dianic witches practice a lot of meditation & visualization in addition to their magic. The focus of the practice is to heal inner wounds that these witches have received from the patriarchy.

Traditional Witch – They base their practice in very old magic, often known as the “Old Religion”. These witches do a lot of research & take a historical approach to their magical practice.

Other types – Secular, Urban/City Witch, Natural, Cottage Witch.

I’m An Earthquake

Published September 20, 2023 by tindertender

I’m not here to be the floor that you walk on 
I’m not here to just do whatever you say
Watch out I’m flying in like a black swan
I’m gonna show that I’m more than just a pretty face

I’m not here to just walk along the old path 
I’m not here to be a number in your race
You might think you have control but it’s all mine
You don’t know it but you’re standing on the fault line

And I’m an earthquake
I’m here to shake things up 
I’m gonna shake things up
I’m gonna shake things up
Things up
Things up
I’m an earthquake

You be the melody and I’ll be the bass line
I’m not here to be a fiddle that you play 
You can party with your wine and your moonshine
I’m gonna shake it up and open up the champagne

I’m an earthquake
I’m here to shake things up 
I’m gonna shake things up
I’m gonna shake things up
Things up
Things up
I’m an earthquake

I’m swimming against the stream
You can feel the boat rocking but it’s not what it seems
You might think I’m a tidal wave
But I’m the earthquake

I’m an earthquake
I’m here to shake things up
I’m gonna shake things up
I’m gonna shake things up
Things up
Things up
I’m an earthquake
I’m here to shake things up
I’m gonna shake things up
I’m gonna shake things up
Things up
Things up
I’m an earthquake

DEPRESSION TIPS

Published September 20, 2023 by tindertender

Shower. Not a bath, a shower.
Use water as hot or cold as you like. You don’t even need to wash. Just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. Sit on the floor if you gotta.

Moisturize everything.
Use whatever lotion you like.
Unscented? Dollar store lotion? Fancy 48 hour lotion that makes you smell like a field of wildflowers? Use whatever you want, and use it all over your entire dermis.

Put on clean, comfortable clothes.

Put on your favorite underwear.
Those ridiculous boxers you bought last year with jalapeños on the butt? Put them on.

Drink cold water.
Use ice. If you want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.

Clean something.
Doesn’t have to be anything big. Organize one drawer of a desk. Wash five dirty dishes. Do a load of laundry. Scrub the bathroom sink.

Blast music.
Listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. Sing to it, DANCE 💃 to it, even if you suck at both.

Make food.
Don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. Take the time and make food. Even if it’s ramen. Add something special to it, like a soft boiled egg or some veggies. Prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something.

Make something.
Write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. Even if you don’t think you’re good at it. Create.

Go outside.
Take a walk. Sit in the grass. Look at the clouds. Smell flowers. Put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.

Call someone.
Call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. Talk to a stranger on the street. Have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. If you can’t bring yourself to call, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. Even if you don’t say much, listen to them. It helps.

Cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them.
Take pictures of them. Talk to them. Tell them how you feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out, anything.

May seem small or silly to some, but this list keeps people alive.

*** At your absolute best you won’t be good enough for the wrong people. But at your worst, you’ll still be worth it to the right ones. Remember that. Keep holding on.

*** In case nobody has told you today I love you and you are worth your weight and then some in gold, so be kind to yourself and most of all keep pushing on!!!!

Find something to be grateful for!

Woman

Published September 17, 2023 by tindertender

Earth Woman
Bone Woman
Spiral on the Stone Woman

Sky Woman
Air Woman
Wind in her hair Woman

Fire Woman
Shimmer Woman
Candle glow and glimmer Woman

Water Woman
Rain Woman
Wash away the pain Woman

Wolf Woman
Lone Woman
Maiden, Mother, Crone Woman

Bird Woman
Sing Woman
Feather on the Wing Woman

Cauldron Woman
Moon Woman
Sacred Blood of Womb Woman

Tree Woman
Root Woman
Flower into Fruit Woman

Drum Woman
Come Woman
Dance in Time with All Women

~ Rebekah Myers
copyright © by Rebekah Myers, 9/13/2021

Art: Naomi Cornock, “Anu”
Art of Naomi Cornock
https://www.nomeart.com/

#SacredFeminine #Goddess #Mythology #Magick #Folklore

Ascension

Published September 17, 2023 by tindertender

It isn’t necessarily like a “rapture”.

It’s where everything you once were is shattered and destroyed. If you survive it, you’ll be reborn as someone new.

This happened to me. Some call me broken. The one they remember, was. She no longer exists. They’d know that if they were following the journey rather than being stuck in time.

I meditated on my current momement, the sticky situation clinging to me, refusing to let go.

Spirit sent message, “One Final Push”.

I’m on my way out of darkness.

Let the darkness call me broken.

I’m growing wings.

Jinx Hex Curse

Published September 15, 2023 by tindertender

People actually do these things to the unsuspecting. And the unsuspecting blame God … When they see someone mentally challenged by it, they curse the cursed …. It’s a double whammy.

I’m not sorry for leaving them behind. I’ve had as much as I can stand, but I know Creator will give me just a bit more …

Cuz I am Love.
And love heals in dark places.
It’s why I’ve come, and taken the abuse.
To bring Light and Love to toxic hearts.
But often, they just chew me up and spit me out.

I’ll be so happy to return from whence I came.
If you make it, then I’ll see you there, on the other side.

Solitude Looks Real Good On Me

Published September 13, 2023 by tindertender

For so long (2 decades) my field of consciousness was viscously attacked. Voice to skull. Microwave tech that would leave my body quaking, spasming. My nervous system was always under fluctuation, the interferers really are very good at disrupting the “entire” system of the human being. Thank God for statute of limitations laws.

**There are layers of sound, of presence. The interferers with technology have inserted themselves, or attached themselves, to the inner portion of the field of consciousness. They slipped in between the human being, and their connections with spirit. Like a cookie sandwich. Or a parasite, leeching on consciousness, interfering with their tech so truest connection is hi-jacked, intercepted. Many will swear it’s the real deal, if it hadn’t almost killed them and discernment discovered. The new interferer is very good at mimicking what we wish to ‘hear’.**

It is so quiet, so calm and peaceful. Silent. People who haven’t been targeted don’t have any concept of the severity to these challenges. I wish them knowledge without the trauma. But that takes an open mind and heart, unfortunately, what seems fantastical to an uninitiated mind, cannot be fathomed simply by hearing someone else’s testimony.

I have been treated with such disrespect and disdain during my spiritual warfare. I know we will all get what we deserve, but I’ll tell you something … nothing hurts worse that “familiar-enemies” and their heart barbs.

You know the unfortunate thing … I know certain individuals in the current friend circle feel this way about me too.

Me and my “bad spirits”.

I’m tired boss. I’m tired of people who so proudly and surely call others broken while glorifying themselves. So firmly avowing their superior status. Gaslighting, to perfection.

Having one foot in spirit and one foot in 3D is hogwash to those without awareness. They call us “broken” because we see, hear, taste and feel things they cannot. It is difficult navigating all the new senses when they awaken, even more so with the cruelty of the blind and deaf.

Dear Heavenly Father, please remove from my presence all who cannot find respect in their hearts for others during their life mission and journey, who purposefully, and intentionally, are cruel minded toward others seen as ‘less than’.

In other news …

I used to talk like this. I was angry then.