You: Healing ~ Strength ~ You have worked hard to get where you are. Your system of knowledge can be utilized in this area. Trust your power to mend situations.
The bridge you are now crossing:Dream ~ Envision ~ Wander ~ It is time to await opportunity expectantly. You are probably engaged in fantasy and longing during this period. You will reach fulfillment on the path Creator has laid before you.
That which will be experienced when the bridge is crossed:Bounty ~ Empress ~ Nourish yourself. Allow yourself to experience contentment. Gather symbols of past positive experiences to reinforce your feelings of self-worth and to stimulate your appreciation of your own experience so far. Enhance your strong points. Appreciate what you have.
The purification needed, or taking place: Words can heal or steal ~ Now is the time to contemplate just what the words you hold in your mind are doing for you and to others. You are not the words themselves. You are in control of them. They are your tools.
The creative focus needed or taking place ~ Give away the first fruits of your talents ~ The giveaway can be a totally positive experience if you have provided for your own well-being, put your heart and soul into your work for the sake of itself rather than for reward, and are willing to give your first efforts away to someone you love.
That which must be scrutinized for its benefit to or interference with your goal:Ecstasy ~Lovers ~ Take pleasure in the heightened sense of well-being you are experiencing. A balance is taking place within you. Enjoy it. (Visualization: Realizing you have the opposite sex within you, visualize your “other half” and yourself meeting, getting better aquatinted, going off together, and making the kind of love for which you have always wished. Be as sensual and specific as possible).
That which you must act on with devotion and to which you must give your most unselfish love ~ Stand by your words ~ In guiding anyone, particularly youth, make sure your words assist their becoming self-responsible, capable and caring. Listen to the needs of the developing soul of the student. Encourage the expression of Highest Self in all beings. Point the way by your own life and actions.
From the deck “Medicine Woman” tarot deck, created by Carol Bridges
I’d like to share some insights from Adamu – out of the transcription of the EVENT. And I think this will probably resonate the most within those of you who are on the path of UNITY CONSCIOUSNESS or those who want to be on this path. Because the EVENT will not be THE SAME for everybody. Let’s see why it will be in this way.
So, what is The Event? When will it happen? What will happen? What will happen afterwards? And how should you prepare for The Event? These are the questions I wish to address in today’s conversation.
What is The Event? In a nutshell, The Event is the moment when your collective consensus reality, the timeline that nearly 8 billion of you, that all of you are currently creating together, splits. You can imagine a great rope of many strands, 8 billion strands, in fact!
This great rope becomes unbraided and a number of smaller ropes get made with those strands. That would be a fair understanding. The moment of the unbraiding is The Event. It’s that which happens that allows you then to proceed on a smaller rope.
So, when will The Event happen? I’ve mentioned previously that it is desirable that the “when” is delayed. That it take as long as possible for the “when” to happen. And I wish to address that. Those who are of the lowest frequency of consciousness, those who are profoundly victim-conscious, those who are of other-responsible consciousness… and please, if you don’t understand what I’m talking about here, we have spoken about this.
Notice: SELF – RESPONSIBLE CONSCIOUSNESS is knowing that you are a co-creator and out of this knowledge you are also in service to others (so you don’t think you are a victim of circumstance and you are able to see the big picture) OTHER-RESPONSIBLE CONSCIOUSNESS thinks that somebody else has to “fix the mess”. That they are victims of circumstances and that they need somebody to rescue them. And this is Service-to-Self.
PLEASE be aware of this differences because they are imperative to understand the 3D matrix, the 3rd Dimension and the occurring shifts and who you really are.
Those who are of the lowest frequency, and typically low frequency beings would not be watching the video or reading this. They wouldn’t be interested in it and it would make no sense to them. They wouldn’t be resonant with it because the deeply other-responsible are clinging to an idea that their life is wrong, the world is wrong, everything is wrong and someone else must come and fix it. Those of them would be looking at The Event as being the moment when everything gets fixed.
Unfortunately, for the deeply other-responsible, the deeply victim-conscious, exactly the opposite is going to be their experience. It’s going to be a moment when they really get what they are creating. When they are no longer in a rope with self-responsible beings who are making sure that the world keeps functioning. They are then only in a world with other victim-conscious, with other, other-responsible beings and nobody is making sure that the world keeps working. Nobody is continuing to keep the wheels of the world turning. Things fall apart.
In a disastrous way. For those who are simply sharing an other-responsible world with other, other-responsibles. Anarchie. Almost “hell” in a way.
Those who inhabit the higher frequencies, the unity-conscious, for example, don’t wish to punish the victim-conscious. There is an awareness that you are of victim-consciousness because of circumstances and because you’ve been unable to see that you really need to transform your consciousness. So, there isn’t a desire to hurt, or to punish the other-responsible. And what we also notice is that there is a migration of consciousness.
People are waking up. The Light certainly is rising on planet Earth, particularly now that the structures of control, those that we have called the Illuminati, those that are operating from behind the scenes; particularly as their grip on the world, as their ability to pull the strings of power begins to fade and wane; particularly as they begin to be in conflict with each other, as their power structures begin to collapse, consciousness is rising at an accelerated rate. So, the victim-conscious are slowly becoming creator-conscious, are slowly becoming unity-conscious.
This is happening. Other-responsibles are becoming self-responsible, are becoming unity-conscious. So, the longer we delay The Event, the more souls will move from an experience of The Event which will be shocking and painful, to one which will be acceptable, to one which will be truly joyful. And so it really is desirable to delay The Event.
So, the “when” is not cast in stone. But the longer it takes, the better. If you are of a mind that you say, “Well, too bad for them, if they’re creating something horrible, they must get what is horrible. I want my good outcome. I want my happy outcome and I want it right now!”
Well, the bad news is, if that is your attitude, you’re actually creating from a place of duality. You’re creating victimisation. Your consciousness is probably lower than you think it is. And you probably need to be working on yourself, on your connection to the Divine and on your relationship to the other.
What will happen is still to be created. And, who creates it? You do! The higher your frequency of consciousness, the more powerfully you create. So, the deeply-victim conscious are creating less powerfully than the self-responsible and that’s a good thing! And the self-responsible are creating less powerfully than the unity-conscious. That is as it should be. Because the unity-conscious amongst you are those who truly create from a place of deep compassion and deep loving care for everybody. Amongst the unity-conscious you will not find the, “I’m OK, Jack, tough for you!” kind of an attitude that you certainly will amongst the more victim-conscious.
So, what will happen is not cast in stone. But there’s a range of possibility. The most deeply victim-conscious will need an experience that will allow them to let everybody else go from their consensus. Now, this is what I am saying: The Event is a moment when the consensus breaks down; when you are willing to let everybody else go.
So, you need an experience where things that currently function in the world: media, the Internet, electronic communications, for a moment breaks down, for a moment is paused, so that you don’t know what is going on beyond your own eyesight, beyond your own earshot, you don’t know what is going on. Then you let the rest of the world go and you focus on your own experience. Well, The Event is very much about that. Letting the world go and focusing on your own experience, Creating what you’re creating and getting what you’re creating.
If you are creating with great anger, with a lot of hatred, with a lot of fear, with a lot of rage, if these are the sponsors of your creation… then, you might find yourself having the kind of cataclysmic, apocalyptic experience of The Event that some fear it will be. If that is what you are creating, then that is what you might very well get. That is one way of letting the rest of the world go. Great disastrous experiences: World War III and comets crashing to the Earth and disease and mayhem. That’s one way of letting the world go. And, then what happens afterwards? Well, the consequences of that world that’s broken, where you try and pick up the pieces… that’s one possibility. That’s the low frequency possibility.
The high frequency possibility is very different. Those of you who are of unity-consciousness, those of you who can find the light of the Divine within yourselves and then also begin to see the light of the Divine in other human beings. Those of you might also be willing to start to see the light of the Divine in animals, in plants, in the planet. Those of you will be ready, perhaps, for a very joyful experience. Where perhaps the lightships that are currently holding quarantine around your planet can begin to appear in your consciousness, they can re-resonate to your frequency, or you can re-resonate to theirs. And you can see this grid of lightships around the planet. And this grid can, by virtue of its re-resonating to your frequency, will cause your electronic communications and your electrical items to cease functioning, temporarily, for a short while, so that you can really let go of the rest of the world and those ships can begin to drop to the Earth, like stars falling to the ground, they can drop and beings can emerge from those ships: some of them looking quite like you (Pleadians look somewhat like humans) or they can look very different from you. There are members of other civilisations who are a part of the Galactic Federation who look very different from you. But, because you are of unity-consciousness, you can look with your heart and see the light of the Divine in that which steps forth from the ship. And you can engage, we can connect with you telepathically, you can engage personally and be reassured that all is well, that all is proceeding as it should. And a new world opens to you where your planetary civilisation is now a part of a greater galactic civilisation. That would certainly be quite a joyful future.
There are other possibilities between these two extremes, which you might be creating for yourself. ( as an IS-BE you can craft your own lightbody through the dimensions).
So, what will happen, and what will happen afterwards, is not cast in stone. It is created by you, in concert with what is called the Planetary Council. The Planetary Council is a group of very high frequency beings, those who you might call Arc Angels, are at the core of your Planetary Council and other high frequency beings are there to assist the planet, to guide the planet to make sure that, even if you create from a place of very low frequency, that you are protected. There is a veto right that the Planetary Council has. But you, you are the creators. You will decide what will happen. What The Event will be for you, and what will happen afterwards will flow forth from that.
And that brings me to the final point: what should we be doing to prepare?
Really, the most important thing that you can do to prepare is to raise your frequency. To become conscious of where you are clinging onto victim-consciousness, to become conscious of where you are creating other-responsibly. To look into your own psyche, to look into your journey, to look into your past-lives, to look into the places in your childhood, where hurts happened, where you came to beliefs that you’re clinging onto that don’t serve you. To look at your hurts and to heal those hurts. That’s perhaps the most important thing you can do. Heal yourself. Heal your relationship with the Divine within yourself. Heal the relationship between the Divine being that you truly are and this ego-shell, this personality that you’re pretending to be, that you’re inhabiting for the duration of this lifetime. Heal these. Come to wholeness. Move your frequency of consciousness upwards that you might create more powerfully. That you might create more of what you really want and less of what you don’t want.
So, my takeaway message really is: please don’t be of fear. There is no need to panic. Heal yourself, work on yourself. Raised your consciousness. Live the life you wish to live. There is time. The Event has been delayed. Work towards creating The Event that you wish to create for yourself. Work towards being the being that you wish to be.
I want to tell you something about DNA and RNA – and why it is sooo important not to get “the wrong vaxx”
Don’t forget that we “choose” our bodies before we incarnate, as well as we choose our “Earth family”. Your amazing genes within the nucleus of that little dot called a cell, 23 pairs of chromosomes are intertwined like a wad of spaghetti. These 46 contain the master computer called DNA. And the DNA molecules contain thousands of genes.
These genes (a)programme all inherited characteristics, such as height and personality type. (b)guide all growth processes, such as when and how baby teeth are pushed out by adult teeth. (c)direct all structural and system details for every body organ.
You and I each came from a single fertilized cell. In the nucleus of that little dot, the master computer (DNA) contained the programming for every aspect of the yet-undeveloped person. Every organ, every nerve, every hair, skin color, hair color, behavioral patterns … are programmed in those amazing tiny chromosomes.
Each cell always “knows”
Were you aware that each and every cell in your body contains ALL the genetic coding for each of the other cells of your body?
There are instructions in your cells on how to manufacture and reproduce every different part of your body. The words are set out in sentences, and paragraphs and chapters.
• The genes are like sentences. • Several genes together make a paragraph. • Many paragraphs of gene clusters make a chapter. • Many chapters make a book, which we call a chromosome. • There are 23 chromosome books to make the whole encyclopedia of instructions • An encyclopedia comprises a complete person.
This is duplicated to make an identical copy, so that your body has two encyclopedias – that is, 46 books (chromosomes) in EACH human cell. These books contain so many words that the human encyclopedia is more than ten times as long as Encyclopedia Britannica. To put this another way, over a million pages are needed for all human instructions.
And this DNA message is played back every time a new life is created, because its instructions are obeyed to the last letter.
This one million page DNA message book gives complicated technical instructions to make a plant or an animal or a man.
They are more technical than any man-made computerized code for making a passenger airliner, for example. They are more technical than any of the computers on our planet. Think about this. Could a series of faults in instructions (mutations) make, by accident, such a technical code?
This code, like a Morse code of dots and dashes, needs to be translated before it can be used. The truth is, this DNA code needed someone who knew the translation and then made a machine to translate it. That translation machine is included into every cell of your body, as well.
Think about this. Someone was needed to (a) know the code secret and (b) make the code breaker. The theory of evolution cannot explain how this information arose.
As we have just noted, one process which the cell undertakes is the formation of new cells. This incredible process requires the cell to read itself and then reproduce itself. And can you guess how fast it does this? The complete duplication is accomplished in just a few hours.
Now think about this. Somehow, although each cell has such a vast encyclopedia of “blueprints”, yet each cell “knows” its own special job and keeps it. For example, a cell on your skin at the end of your ear has the genetic information to produce a toenail cell… but it doesn’t!
How small are your genes?
Now, have you stopped to consider that human DNA is infinitely more complex than our computers? As impressive as man-made microchips are, this bio-micro-circuitry is beyond the incredible. The programmed genetic coding for all of earth’s billions people would take up space less than the size of an aspirin tablet!
A single gene – can you grasp this – is estimated to be between 4 and 50 millionths of an inch across. And 500,000 genes would easily slide around in a hole made by an ordinary pinpoint!
The incredible RNA
The messenger in a cell city is called RNA. Although it looks like DNA, is has a passport to leave the nucleus. And just listen to this: Firstly, in a split second, the master DNA and the messenger RNA intertwine.
Then the DNA instantly imprints a section of its code on the RNA. Then the DNA separates from the RNA. Then the RNA rushes to the edge of the city. And there it transfers its code in rapid-fire succession to one enzyme after another.
This code tells each enzyme to do a particular job somewhere in the larger organism. The whole mass of cells within a body somehow cooperate to act like a fish, a cat, a human, or whatever the total organism is supposed to be.
All DNA’s interlocking, working parts must be 100% intact And wonder at this! Inside the cell, one piece of machinery is manufactured, then transported to fit precisely into another waiting piece, then another, and another – each one designed specifically to fit and interact with that particular piece and no other. We’re talking about many parts of a complex machine, so small you can’t see it with the naked eye!
DNA has to be totally 100 percent intact with all its interlocking, working parts, before one living cell can even exist. Not only do you need the information in the individual genes. You also need the information that enables them to work together. Such masses of information do not emerge from chance random processes.
So you see that also the human body is an incredible “masterpiece” and why so many alien civilizations (like the Zetas, Grey one and so on), which are threatened by their own extinction are “keen” to experiment with humans and their DNA and RNA, because they KNOW that this is made by Source through his founder-races, like the Royal house of Lyra for example. Also about vaxx – the human body would easily be able to “fight every virus”. But through vaxx and the ongoing poisoning by pharma – already starting after birth – so many humans are not able to overcome this stuff.
And “all available vaxx for CO-VID” are nano-technological sera and “invade” your DNA and to alter it. Therefor they will tell that we need permanent vaxx, maybe evey 3 months or so to be “immune” against the virus. The reality is that young girls and boys will not be able to get children. And in connection with 5G it will alter all emotions as wished by their sinister agenda.
Even if we are still years “away” from it, I want to share some information about THE EVENT. And I also want to say to those who are wishing for THE EVENT tomorrow, that there are still to little humans able to “hold and survive” the vibrations of the incoming solar-light during the Event. So I am happy for every minute of “delay”, because every minute another human can and will wake up!
Many of us are Aware that vast and profound SHIFTS are currently taking place within the Old 3D paradigm. Structures and Institutions that have held Humanity entrapped in old frequencies that did not match Humanity’s DIVINE Potential are NOW Crumbling BEfore our very Eyes.
Please KNOW that this is NOW Shifting… and Many of us will BEgin to notice significant SHIFTS within our Societal Institutions and old paradigm structures from this Moment on… which will BEgin to reflect the NEW Frequencies of UNITY Consciousness and Unconditional LOVE and Acceptance for All BEings.
It is important at this point that indeed Humanity has already Passed Over the Threshold from old Earth to NEW Earth and after a very long Dawn of the Aquarius Age. We are NOW moving into the very early hours of the morning of the Aquarius Age…
Our Galactic Star Families KNEW very well of this current Time Period that we are in… And this Knowledge was depicted on many of the Ancient sites such as the Great Pyramids of Giza as well as in all of the Sumerian tablets and many other sources around the globe.
The Ancient Cultures Knew that as Earth moves along her 26000-year cycle, known as the Precession of the Equinoxes… Humanity’s Consciousness can SHIFT from BE-ing identified as a 3D Consciousness BEing… and could ultimately reach its full potential as a DIVINE Christed Angelic Avatar Humanoid BEing.
The planet is NOW BE-ing bombarded by Photonic LIGHT Particles… and please KNOW that these NEW LIGHT CODES that are Pouring in are TRULY Unprecedented and Hold a Structural Patterning… unlike anything the Earth has Ever Known.
These LIGHT CODES hold particular patterning’s that interlock specifically with Humanity’s DNA… in order to send forth instructions particularly to the Hitherto dormant DNA Strands to Activate Awaken and come out of their dormant state.
That which is Known as “The EVENT” is drawing closer and closer….. and soon Many of us will BE needed by the SOULS in our Families and Communities who will experience this very Exciting Phenomenon.
Once this occurs and for the Time Period leading up to the Cosmic EVENT… Please KNOW that our Galactic Family’s ultimate task is to prioritize Stabilizing our Vibration in the Fifth-Dimensional Frequency bandwidth…
Things are Truly NOT as they seem dearest ones. As collectively we are in Masses observing the expiration and dissolution of 3D Timelines and the Powerful Emergence of 5D Timelines…
These are the most Exciting Times for Humans to BE Alive and KNOW that in our Lifetime… those of us drawn to these words are Destined to BE on the front line of this HUGE Galactic and Planetary SHIFT.
The Powerful Energies are NOW Rising and our DNA is BE-ing Activated.
I would also invite you to listen to Adamu (Monadic entity of the Pleyaden civilization, 8D), spoken through Zingdad. It`s so worthy to listen to it because it brings great insight what THE EVENT and the choosen timelines mean on a very “personal point” for each and everyone.
Massive and Fast timeline shifts occurring now and crossing paths. You might find yourself in the midst of one timeline and all its experiences and then in comes another…equal sense of realities though startling to the senses. Euphoria one moment, deep grief or loss in another.
There are many Spiritual Warriors who knew in this lifetime that they would be called to hold this powerful energy, this potent experience of Duality and Singularity all at one time, in this lifetime where two worlds were dividing, yet merging…where the new experience was no longer part of the old and the old experience was too dense to be part of the new. Those aware and working to stabilize in the higher timeline are Spiritual Warriors.
WE the Spiritual Warriors are the Bridges into The New World. It is crucial we build the momentum and take the steps moment to moment upward to the higher timeline and toward the formless Mystical Organic New through our unified thoughts, actions and words. Stabilizing our fields is key to calming the field and ‘seeing’ what is happening more clearly.
As well to use our ability precisely at every Divine Choice-Point without lingering on thought and without going for the familiar, though motivated by the Core Desire for Great Change, Solid Truth, Creative Solutions, Unity and our Sovereignty allowing then for a Divine Intervention and the grace of Ascension, new life, and new adventure to enter.
Energy up-date by the Council of Light:
The process of transformation for your planet is in Full Force and many are experiencing that different things are coming up for them.
Most of them are Karmic fragments that are ready to BE Released.
This is an important time for you to Clear the remains of your past that do NOT serve you anymore.
Simply use the Violet Ray/Flame to transmute anything that comes up and allow for this Ray of LIGHT to flood any past experiences that are connected with it.
Imagine it flooding your entire BEing, your world, present, past, parallel and future realities.
As you are observing that these things come up, try to keep the Big Picture in mind. You are at the end of the old cycle of Earth.
You are soon to BE FREE of the lower dimension and you will have moved into the HIGHER Dimensions, as long as you are willing to Let Go of the old.
That includes holding on to the old ways you have lived and interacted with others and your world.
Withdraw your attention from what feels less than LOVE and Harmony.
Focus all your attention to what feels like LOVE, HARMONY and WELLBEING. This focus will allow you to leave the old world behind and to step into your FREEDOM.
You are FREE to leave the old world behind and you are FREE to step into the Divine NEW Earth.
It is important to remember that the ONLY Reality that matters is your alignment with SOURCE, what we call The ONE.
This is your path to FREEDOM.
Withdraw your energy from circumstances that are NOT Divine Perfection (LOVE) and bring all your energy into your alignment with SOURCE.
Your intent to do so, will bring forth the thoughts, feelings and actions to Truly BEcome an Expression of SOURCE – as SOURCE.
Hold steadfast to your Inner Center, which is SOURCE. Imagine this as a Golden LIGHT column within you going upwards to the Great Central Sun.
Imagine your Heart center to BE a Golden Sun.
Let this Golden LIGHT expand into your World.
Hold this focus for as long as you can, as often as you can.
We are holding the vision of the NEW Earth with you and from our vantage point it is Glorious.
Whilst none of us can know what lies around the next corner, it’s important we see this as a force to inspire and motivate us to make the most of every single moment. If we don’t, we can end up living in fear and becoming entombed behind self-imposed prison walls as we wait for the ‘right time’ to live. Uncertainty is a fact of life; no matter how much we’d like certainty and guarantees, we cannot have it. The world simply isn’t made that way. We have two choices as to how we come to terms with the impermanence of a shifting world, either to wriggle, wrestle and fight against the inevitable or to gracefully accept it. Now, graceful acceptance isn’t the same as giving up; it’s a courageous and wise willingness to be conscious and aware of the bigger picture of life and the constant ebb and flow of change.
Fear and uncertainty aren’t easy to live with as it’s hard to lovingly accommodate them into our daily lives. Yet, to deny or resist them doesn’t make them disperse, so when we gently turn towards them, we can begin to find a deeper sense of balance in our lives. Of course, we can’t ease all of our pain and suffering in life, and we certainly can’t numb ourselves to what may, or may not, happen ahead as to live wholeheartedly is to live openheartedly which means we open up to experiencing life more, the good with the bad. If we try to numb ourselves, how can we truly live as we become closed to the rich spectrum of life? We can try to anaesthetize ourselves by building brick walls between ourselves and the world, but this just leaves us feeling isolated and disconnected, rather than safe, comfortable and joyful.
Perhaps the biggest lesson we are each facing at the moment comes from a growing realization that we are stronger, more vibrant and more resilient than we’ve ever given ourselves credit for. It’s undeniably hard when we feel broken and alone, disconnected or full of feelings of injustice or anger, and we can struggle to see beyond this, but it’s important we each know that we are not alone. When we gaze up at the stars in the sky above, we can feel connected. Similarly, when we take a big deep breath and re-centre, we can feel a deeper sense of connectedness. Although like-minded souls may not walk physically at our sides, we are all connected by unity of vision and spirit.
My potential Love showed himself to me during meditation last night, ever so briefly. He has a very powerful presence. I’m looking forward to meeting him in person!
Dreamtime consisted of many vivid dreams, yet even though I smoked the Blue Lotus Flower before sleep, I was not able to recall these vivid relations in the astral upon waking.
I can say that there are those who would like to pervert the mind, dirtying the Soul and/or Spirit.
Perhaps they, too, saw my potential Love.
I woke and stated that my Love is coming to me this year, and their perversion attempts will be made null and void by our Sacred Union. These ones will simply fall away … by the grace of Love.
Maybe this is why they are trying so hard for me ….
I’ve got news for all who dare attempt to thwart me … we’ve been here before, and I’m still standing. The only difference this time, is that I will rise above it all, connection cancelled.
Shadow ~ You were born to create ~ You were blessed with the ability to create with thought, intention, action and emotion. Be conscious of your power and aware of what your actions and reactions create within and around you. Cherish the gift and use it in both a wise and productive manner. Create beauty, and inspire a desire within others to do the same. Create a future that both fulfills and delights. Do what you were born to do.
Soul ~ Be vigilant ~ Be watchful and cautious of both others actions and your own. Stand ready to protect yourself from those who may cover what you have or seek to harm those you care for, it also be vigilant and watchful of your own actions lest you be the one doing harm. Weigh your actions. Be sure you act wisely. Be sure you have done all that needs to be done before moving forward. Leave nothing to chance lest all you have nurtured and cherished be undone by your own lack of vigilance.
Let the Two Become One ~Heed Your Dreams ~ Your Dreams are a powerful tool for increasing self-awareness for they contain within them the unfiltered truth. Whether it be a dream or a nightmare, they are the keys to understanding your inner self – both your joys and your fears. Commune with Gaia and Great Spirit in the stillness of your slumber; learn to read and interpret your dreams. Listen to what they tell you. Pay close attention to how they make you feel. Heed what they reveal and learn who you are and who you wish to be.