Responsibility

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Number Message 428

Published October 3, 2022 by tindertender

October 3, 2022
8:28 a.m.

~ Be persistent in pursuing your goals and soul mission.

~ Your material and financial needs will always be met.

~ You are called to have stronger faith in your angels.

~ Your role is critical in this world.

~ The guardian angels want you to know you are immune. They will hinder you from evil. You will be surrounded by good health. They are on duty. They are working to make your life better. Past illness will stay at bay. Get to work and do not fear.

~ Personal Freedom means having a mind of your own.

~ Make yourself relevant.

~ If you work towards making others happy, you will be given joy. Everything you do will be repaid accordingly. Always watch your actions. The things you do dictate your future. Build your future by doing well for others.

~ Have a forgiving heart while interacting with people, but …

~ Do not let people get on your nerves when you can easily walk out of their lives and surround yourself with people that matter.

Let.Them.Go

Published October 3, 2022 by tindertender

Why do you make yourself available every so often to remind them you’re done with their crap?

Why go there at all with your time, attention and intention?

Leave them be. Walk away and stay gone. That’s the best affirmation of “I’m-done-ness”.

Sometimes It’s Like That

Published October 3, 2022 by tindertender

Sometimes we dive right into interference, just to see where it’s at.

I sense this is more or less what the collective human race is doing at this time, each in their own way.

Once you’re immersed in it, whatever “it” is, then there’s a risk you can’t see it anymore.

Pull up,
Pull back.

Balance in all things.

When Sleeping Women Wake

Published October 2, 2022 by tindertender

By Ara Campbell ~ https://thegoddesscircle.net/visionary-writing/when-wise-women-awaken

“When sleeping women wake, mountains will move.” ~ Chinese Proverb

Last night while I lay sleeping, I had a dream. (written 2017)

The world was in a state of total chaos and all that we had ever known was ending. Everything was volatile, violence raged openly and the people were suffering greatly. There was sadness around every corner and destruction flooded the air thick and unrelenting.

It was a time of darkness the likes of which none had ever beheld, a power taking over our world and squeezing the very light and love from its once lively core.

Yet even in this bleak time, hope was shining like a beacon on the horizon.

I saw women gathering in a house together, sisters from all walks of life and of all ages. Into the shattered air that stung of gloom they sung a song of universal love.

There in that place they created sacred space, a sanctuary against the coming storm. They wrote symbols of ancient wisdom on the walls, chanting incantations of protection and love for all the children of the Earth while their fingers clasped candles burning bright.

Drawing power from the natural world and summoning the mystery that flowed in their veins, they sat in circle drumming with the beat of their hearts petitioning for the madness to end. Their voices cried out for freedom, for joy and for all beings on this planet to live as one.

And then the dark night swallowed the vision, and it was gone.

Dawn broke through the silence and the world drew a great inhale.

The birds sang with the rising Sun and the green Earth stirred roots below and branches above. Animals took to the open with curiosity. The house of sisterhood I thought was swallowed by the darkness stood still, standing tall in spite of the raging dark storm that threatened to engulf it.

I could see the place where the women had gathered, the remnants of their workings for the world left behind, drums and feathers marking their sacred rite. The words “blessed be” were etched upon the walls, surrounded by sacred symbols of a time long passed. Peace had returned to the world and the air felt fresh and new.

The double-edged sword of the feminine had been held aloft, wielding fiery protection and nurturing love in great measure, and had withstood the tempest and rose from the ashes victorious.

The once buried power of the Goddess had returned during the time of the world’s greatest darkness. She had always slumbered within our spirits, a burning ember awaiting in the shadows, and now she had risen once more.

The wild and wise women of the world had awoken. By reclaiming the ancient mystery that flowed in their veins, the sisterhood of the feminine had broken the chains of bondage that once held the world prisoner and opened the gate for the return of the Goddess.

The time had come for the medicine of the fierce feminine to flow freely throughout the land.

Somewhere on the distant horizon, I saw a gathering of sisters, a circle of wise women from all walks of life.

And they smiled.

My Sisters, the time has come to rise and awaken the priestess thread within. As we arise and reclaim our truths and our voices, so we awaken and transform our whole world.

The Priestess is the element of alchemy that dwells within our soul. She is the powerful thread within that taps us into the energy to transform our world and bring out truth into being. If you hear the Call of the Priestess, join me here for my online Priestess Program: Inner Priestess Awakening Online Journey

~Ara Campbell

https://thegoddesscircle.net/visionary-writing/when-wise-women-awaken

art: Caroline Manière

Civilization

Published October 2, 2022 by tindertender

Years ago, anthropologist Margaret Mead was asked by a student what she considered to be the first sign of civilization in a culture. The student expected Mead to talk about fishhooks or clay pots or grinding stones.

But no.

Mead said that the first sign of civilization in an ancient culture was a femur (thighbone) that had been broken and then healed. Mead explained that in the animal kingdom, if you break your leg, you die. You cannot run from danger, get to the river for a drink or hunt for food. You are meat for prowling beasts. No animal survives a broken leg long enough for the bone to heal.

A broken femur that has healed is evidence that someone has taken time to stay with the one who fell, has bound up the wound, has carried the person to safety and has tended the person through recovery. Helping someone else through difficulty is where civilization starts, Mead said.

We are at our best when we serve others.

Be civilized.

Vice Versa

Published October 2, 2022 by tindertender

There’s a difference between trans male or female and Two Spirited male or female… I don’t understand why one would wish to be less than their fullness, or claim to be …

https://www.ihs.gov/lgbt/health/twospirit/

“Two Spirit” was not intended to be interchangeable with “LGBT Native American” or “Gay Indian”; rather, it was created in English (and then translated into Ojibwe), to serve as a pan-Indian unifier, to be used for general audiences instead of the traditional terms in Indigenous languages for what are diverse, culturally-specific ceremonial and social roles, that can vary widely (if and when they exist at all). Opinions vary as to whether or not this objective has succeeded. The decision to adopt this new, pan-Indian term was also made to distance themselves from non-Native gays and lesbians, as the term and identity of two-spirit “does not make sense” unless it is contextualized within a Native American or First Nations framework and traditional cultural understanding.”

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Two-spirit

It seems to me that trans male and female hate their born gender so greatly, they will go to any extreme to be its opposite. Extremes seem to be the chosen, personal announcement of self.

Two-Spirited people, to me, acknowledge their born nature, but also embrace their tendencies to the opposite gender roles.

One seeks to escape their born identity, the other is enhanced by it.

One requires physical character changes, the other is simply what it is.

Extremism and escapism vs acceptance and expansion.

Don’t Let the Door Hit You on the Way Out!

Published October 2, 2022 by tindertender

To all my Haters …

Slippery Slope ~ Second Chances Are So Few

Published October 2, 2022 by tindertender

Substances … nicotine, alcohol, cannabis, hemp …

The reason people like these is because, used responsibly, they fine tune the bodies fields to a frequency the inner essence is most comfortable with, in whatever moment the experience is.

Stress … anger … depression … sadness … pain … high energy, so much so the body becomes “over-amped” … the mind races, as well as the heart …

Differing substances affect the nervous system, the receptors in the body, and either calms, soothes or elevates.

Why some people are “addicted” to alcohol, or heroin, or that which is like an anti-depressant … or whatever the reason the nervous system and mind seek to ease its discomfort …

It’s an inner ‘seeker of balance’, a slippery slope, especially if not utilized as medicine, consciously.

They can heal, or destroy the essence of a human.

Often people move beyond balance into what “feels good” and this is only another form of imbalance.

As a Creator, your well-being is truly, most often, your creation or destruction.

Surface level thought about it is what leads to misuse, overuse, abuse.

As the doctor ”used to” say, taking the least amount of medicine needed is best for the body, the mind and overall health.

If choosing to be your own doctor, testing plant medicines, prescriptions or drink, choose the least amount that brings ease.

Don’t be in it to “get high”.

Balance in all things.

Action, reaction.

Cause and effect … effect and cause.

The Will must be strong and the self control steady … otherwise, it becomes a situation of not feeling right without it.

You see it in folks who take prescriptions for pain and mental balance.

You see it in folks who need to get high to get along.

You see it when they are without it.

You see it …

You know it.

On one level or another.

Personally, or in awareness.

October ~ Huge Changes

Published September 30, 2022 by tindertender

Written by @AnkhetAmenti

October, the month of Huge Changes, is almost here. We are entering eclipse season. Mercury, Pluto & Saturn are going to go direct. The energy is swift, sudden, powerful & transformational. Universe is pushing you to move forward towards your life path & reacess your choices.

Seriously, some people refuse to change their life & then be mad at you cause they want you to perform miracles on them.

I’m sorry, there is a thing called Free Will. Use it to detach from your own toxicity. That’s how real healing works. I could cleanse your energy, activate your chakras to work in a healthy manner, but you going back to that toxic environment or habits would complicate things.

Inner/Shadow work can’t be replaced, anyone claiming otherwise is BSing & following the common business model of this industry. A healer’s true power lies in empowering you with skills & helping you recognize your own potential to heal yourself.

If you’re looking for an easy way out, you’re doing yourself disservice. You have to know how to work with open chakras, how to protect your energy, be mindful of choices you’re making, who you give access to in terms of allowing in your energy field.

Without this knowledge you’re basically a free flowing energy source for the sourceless, the chupacabras, energy vampires. And they would latch themselves to you until you’re back where you started. This is basic shit you’re not being told. This amounts to cheating people.

New Age Healers are no less than the doctors who give pills & cure nothing in long term. You cannot do someone’s inner work for them, neither can you remove their karmic lessons. You can surely become a participant in receiving karmic lessons that aren’t yours to deal with.

Saving yourself from exploitation, betrayal is your job. Common sense is going to be a growing necessity in coming times. Those who fail to achieve that state of mind & have an inner knowing of reading between the lines are going to be forced to deal with self created turmoils.

The cosmic energies around are going to force people to reveal their true intentions. The collective is going through a Dark Night of the Soul. Shocks will be common. Instead of resisting the truth, accept it. It’ll help you move on faster & you can move into healing mode.

These truths will revolve around general life related matters as well as interpersonal relationships. If you’re surrounded by energy vampires you’ll see them for what they are because they’ll keep putting it in your face.

Major relationship cycles will end with family/friends/romantic partners who are not for your highest good. North node in Taurus leaves little room for BS & flaky energy. Only grounded truths will make sense & provide comfort to the collective.

Follow the Leader

Published September 30, 2022 by tindertender

Written by: @tyromper

A client & brother of mine started texting his wife every morning a few things he was grateful for.

There was always something about her, little stuff.

•Grateful you pack the kids lunches.
•Grateful you’re such a hands on mom.

Before this they had a roomate marriage at best.

A cool thing happened after a couple weeks of not getting much back besides thanks.

Then, it was thanks & have a great day too.

Then it was thanks I am grateful for you working so hard too.

Then it was videos back & forth.

Then it wasn’t roommates anymore!

I share this because the MAIN DM I get from men is I wish my wife would __ xyz then I would….

Brothers,

She wants to FOLLOW your lead & energy.

But you must lead & be worthy of following.

This starts by leading yourself & DOING WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE GOING TO DO!

I used to complain my wife was negative & that she complained too much.

ALL I DID WAS COMPLAIN TO HER ABOUT:
-The President
-My boss & clients
-My life & challenges

She was simply mirroring back my energy.

Women are amazing.

They often magnify & AMPLIFY what we put out.

Now that I don’t complain my wife is my biggest source of encouragement & life.

It’s a beautiful cycle of uplifting one another in our home.

This all starts with you fellas.

You need to make a choice today that you’re going to lead!

Never blame your wife.
Your home is on you.

Take the lead.

Start with yourself!

•Wake up without snoozing.
•Get movement in & take care of your health.
•Help your wife & acknowledge all she does.
•Be present with your kids & high energy at home.
•Never blame anyone. There’s freedom in that.

The main thing guys need is community & accountability.

We need to grow together to be our best selves!

My brother @MikeSchiff_ & I are starting our second 16 week mens group soon.

Last group we saw guys lose weight, reconnect in marriages, become present dads & more!

Our groups go for 16 weeks, but to both Mike & I it’s a lifetime brotherhood.

It never ends.

If you want a community of men that’s going to challenge you, push you, & walk into your destiny as a leader & man then DM @MikeSchiff_ or I today TEAM & we will send you more info.

Whether you join our group or not,

Take ownership of your life today.
Take ownership of your home.
Take ownership of your mission.

I had only drinking buddies years ago & my marriage, health & life was in shambles.

Then 1 decision & a community around me turned my life around!

“A husband’s leadership in marriage is not based on superior abilities but on divine placement. Leadership means assuming responsibility for the relationship, being accountable to God and putting your wife’s needs above your own. It means making her load lighter, not heavier. It means helping her develop and utilize her gifts and abilities. It means loving her sacrificially.” -Dennis Rainey