All posts tagged Man

Before Time

Published March 17, 2018 by tindertender

“What the heck you doin’?” he asks.
I reply, “Remembering.”

Golden Grasses

Long ago he was there, on top of the mountain, far away, yet seemingly so near. The message was clear … he was mine. I walked toward the sun in a meadow of golden grasses, looking once more over my right shoulder to see him … and then I was here.

Sixteen years ago, late at night by rivers edge, I looked to the sky and saw several spinning wheels, different colors … red, orange, yellow, green.

Color wheel

A few months later I lay in bed listening to an amazing choir singing in mind, nothing like it had I heard before. After a time, they stopped and, “You Bitch! We knew it was you!” an invisible female shouted.

2015, January, I was told by spirit that eight years were going to go by quickly. Confused I spoke of it at church. Adding numbers, that puts it at 2023 … five more years to go.

Present day, there are many who deny the existence of this war in heaven. They refuse to even consider its reality. They think that it happened long ago, not realizing it is going on now, still.

There is an awakening in process. Perhaps you have noticed more now … seen the truth behind the facade. Maybe you are now aware of the smoke screen which has kept evil veiled. As people speak out against new knowledge, they are attacked, killed, maimed, jailed … the world over.

The awareness continues to grow, spreading like a wild fire now. As shadow is brought to light it is painfully obvious, shocking even, perhaps so much so that it is tempting to deny the truth of it.

There is no going back, only forward. I am fortunate, just as you are. We know what we need to know, when we need to know it … nothing before. We are being eased into this new reality. This is how much we are loved.

Hold it together. Walk into the fear, for it is a blockage in the mind only. Face it, run right through it. You will be amazed. And remember always, love is waiting.

Man Enough

Published December 5, 2017 by tindertender

Justin Baldoni wants to start a dialogue with men about redefining masculinity — to figure out ways to be not just good men but good humans. In a warm, personal talk, he shares his effort to reconcile who he is with who the world tells him a man should be. And he has a challenge for men:
“See if you can use the same qualities that you feel make you a man to go deeper,” Baldoni says. “Your strength, your bravery, your toughness: Are you brave enough to be vulnerable? Are you strong enough to be sensitive? Are you confident enough to listen to the women in your life?”

A Brilliant Man Would …

Published April 8, 2017 by tindertender

People have, for centuries, believed that going to war will bring peace to lands, far and near. They have always been wrong in that regard, and always will be wrong.

War will never bring peace. The only thing it will bring is resentment and destruction.

The greedy will develop deeper pockets, full of what they want, and the people who die for their cause will leave behind families ~ many who love them and will, for the rest of their lives be asking why? As they sit in their dwelling without mother or father, they will come to resent their government and those in support of the death required by their family member.

Humans are not stupid, they see the rebellious nature of the majority as they march against absurdity. The voices of those in opposition to war and tyranny have been blocked, ignored, and decisions have been made without regard for the people.

A Great Man

A brilliant man would seek an innovative path. He would admit to the people of his country that war does not, indeed never has, brought peace. He would forego oil and coal and turn to clean energy and more efficient ways of living. He would gather the people as one, not by force, but by a cohesive, conscious and willing agreement to work toward that which promotes life and joy rather than sorrow and death.

A house divided falls … every time.

The only way to come out of this smelling like a rose is to listen to the people and work toward giving them what they need to live a sustainable and healthy life.

If this brilliant man cared for the children of his own country he would make certain they were not harmed by greedy corporations. He would bring the people of various faiths, ethnic groups, and genders together as one harmonious people and help them become a more efficient team. He would focus on unity, not division.


It is possible for peace, it is possible to foster love without giving up positions of lawful and orderly determination. Essentially, the only way for this to be an overwhelming success is to have the majority of the people willing to stand with the decision makers.

Centuries have gone by where previous leaders used war, and terrorism to pull people together. The fact is, people are tired of dying for a lost cause. Over and over, generation after generation, people are asked to give up their lives. The “dangling carrot” of peace is always just out of reach, the battles and wars leave in their wake scars, emotional and spiritual damage that may never be healed.

If this brilliant man truly cared he would not subject his people to this horrible, family shredding affair. He would work negotiations to build peace without causing death and destruction.

Anything but an honorable and moral path forward, travelled with integrity, compassion and care … for ALL, will simply be more of the same that we have experienced for so long now. It is my belief and my observation that the majority are simply fed up with same-o, same-o.

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