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Double Standards

Published July 31, 2018 by tindertender

Double standards do no one any good. Life without balance is just that, lopsided, out of sync, breeding corruption as the falsehood of normalcy is created.

We see the lies as they are exposed and the seriousness of the imbalance shows. Too long people have been led to believe what is right for one is not for the other.

When I was 15 my 3rd ‘dad’ told his son (who was 14) he was too old to get whipped with the razor strap. A week later he was pissed about something and wanted to whip me. I firmly told him NO! I am not going to lay down for that! If my step brother is too old, then I am too, for I am one year older! He was furious and proceeded to throw me on the bed and began punching me. My mom came running and yelling and finally he stopped.

This two sided bull crap is something females have been dealing with since time began. Who is it that decided she would be dominated? I call bullshit, always have.

Shortly after the razor strap experience I got my first boyfriend, he was a prince for the first year. He moved in with my ‘parents’ and I and then the beatings began, at least one a week. I fought hard against him, breaking the hold was difficult. Two years this lasted and then I had to actually leave the state for he was trying to kill me, and the police did nothing, my ‘parents’ did nothing.

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Photo by Joshua Fuller

I am reminded of Lilith, who fled the garden when Adam tried to dominate her … we’ve been living this story ever since. Lies have been told about Lilith as her children over time have been slain, and lies have been told about us.

Infidelity, and being used as sex objects has been the norm for the female, as she is beaten and abused and lied about and tormented and killed.

This original hatred, this egoic bruise that mankind has suffered is the actual cause of the pain of this world. Nothing more than an immature boy who is upset because his ‘rules’ are not obeyed, because his ‘partner’ wishes to be seen as an equal contributor and asset to the whole rather than as a slave.

Women have been battling this behavior since time began. Many strong women have rebelled against this lopsided view forever. And we will continue until the end of time, and beyond.

Little boys must grow up and behave as men if there will ever be peace. Give credit where credit is due and stop trying to rule the hearts of people. Rather, behave in a manner that allows people, women in particular, to wish to be your partner once again.

Before Time

Published March 17, 2018 by tindertender

“What the heck you doin’?” he asks.
I reply, “Remembering.”

Golden Grasses

Long ago he was there, on top of the mountain, far away, yet seemingly so near. The message was clear … he was mine. I walked toward the sun in a meadow of golden grasses, looking once more over my right shoulder to see him … and then I was here.

Sixteen years ago, late at night by rivers edge, I looked to the sky and saw several spinning wheels, different colors … red, orange, yellow, green.

Color wheel

A few months later I lay in bed listening to an amazing choir singing in mind, nothing like it had I heard before. After a time, they stopped and, “You Bitch! We knew it was you!” an invisible female shouted.

2015, January, I was told by spirit that eight years were going to go by quickly. Confused I spoke of it at church. Adding numbers, that puts it at 2023 … five more years to go.

Present day, there are many who deny the existence of this war in heaven. They refuse to even consider its reality. They think that it happened long ago, not realizing it is going on now, still.

There is an awakening in process. Perhaps you have noticed more now … seen the truth behind the facade. Maybe you are now aware of the smoke screen which has kept evil veiled. As people speak out against new knowledge, they are attacked, killed, maimed, jailed … the world over.

The awareness continues to grow, spreading like a wild fire now. As shadow is brought to light it is painfully obvious, shocking even, perhaps so much so that it is tempting to deny the truth of it.

There is no going back, only forward. I am fortunate, just as you are. We know what we need to know, when we need to know it … nothing before. We are being eased into this new reality. This is how much we are loved.

Hold it together. Walk into the fear, for it is a blockage in the mind only. Face it, run right through it. You will be amazed. And remember always, love is waiting.

Man Enough

Published December 5, 2017 by tindertender

Justin Baldoni wants to start a dialogue with men about redefining masculinity — to figure out ways to be not just good men but good humans. In a warm, personal talk, he shares his effort to reconcile who he is with who the world tells him a man should be. And he has a challenge for men:
“See if you can use the same qualities that you feel make you a man to go deeper,” Baldoni says. “Your strength, your bravery, your toughness: Are you brave enough to be vulnerable? Are you strong enough to be sensitive? Are you confident enough to listen to the women in your life?”

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