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Blind Date with My Body

Published June 4, 2023 by tindertender

Every morning I have a blind date with my body.
And as I do,
a million questions run through my head.

Who is this person sitting across from
me in the mirror?
Am I my own soulmate?
Are the dreams in my heart and my thoughts in my head perfect strangers?

How can I open my heart to this imperfect human who is staring back at me?
How can I learn to love their wrinkles?
How can I build a future with this person?

And every morning during my blind date
with my own image I remember the secret
to any great relationship …
Is to let them see you as you really are.

So,
how do I see myself?
As a piece of cosmic art or as half-shattered bowl?
Maybe it’s both things at the same time.

My love,
In order to feel at home in your skin you must learn to be yourself,
with yourself.
And to see the beauty in yourself when you look at yourself.

All first dates are awkward,
so be patient with yourself as you get to know the person in the mirror.

Don’t let them slip through your fingers
because …
they are the love of your life.

  • John Roedel

Artist: Christoffer Wilhelm Eckersberg

Trust Your Process

Published June 3, 2023 by tindertender

If my energy doesn’t wake you up, it’s because I’m not for you….

If my spirit doesn’t inspire you, it’s because you shouldn’t force the connection….

If my thought doesn’t make you think deeper, it doesn’t make sense to keep me in touch or on your mind….

If my passion doesn’t move you, then it’s better to change direction…

If my presence doesn’t help you evolve, my absence certainly will…

If my love does not open your heart definitively, another love will…

Go and find what makes your being vibrate,
Don’t even stop to look behind you…

One of the greatest acts of love is letting go…

The vibe doesn’t lie…

Trust your process.

~ unknown

In ancient Egyptian times …

Published June 3, 2023 by tindertender

In ancient Egyptian times,
women were seen and honored
as higher and holier than a man.

The woman is the mother of all,
giving life and teaching.

The ancients believed
that when a man
achieves a great deal of knowledge,
spirituality and power,
he would be allowed to wear a long hair wig
to symbolize that he had reached a certain level equal to a woman.

As the two come together
she holds her man,
giving him strength and protection.

There is a saying that continues to float today:
“Behind every successful man
there is a strong woman.” ❤️❤️

15 Powerful Visuals About Psychology & Life

Published June 2, 2023 by tindertender

Visuals credits and thanks to – VisuallyNeeded | Instagram

All visuals in this thread are owned by him.

Strolling Through the Japanese Garden

Published May 26, 2023 by tindertender

Sometimes life tests us. Those who bring chaos and misery to our door are constantly knocking. Tires get flattened and in need of replacement. Someone shoots the dog with a BB gun. Someone hit and runs the car. Someone lies … and lies and lies … we are tested.

Today, rather than let this shady world get me down, I visited the Sun, and the beautiful garden it maintains with the help of humanity.

The entry

Rawr!!

Some pretty, pretty flowers

Check out these bonsais. One of them is 300 years old!

I love the art here!

Running, hiding, pretending

Published May 24, 2023 by tindertender

By Ellen Redd

A feminine who is not in her divinity, feeds on the attention of many. She is hoping that this will fulfill her, and uses her physical appearance to ensnare the affection of her suitors. Often misusing her feminine gifts. This many times leads her into temporal false sense of fulfillment until she becomes bored, annoyed and no longer can go along with the creations of her own game.

In the same time, the masculine who is not in his divinity clamors to unhealed feminines in their toxicity allowing themselves to be lured into the illusory dream of love, from the illusions of the mortal flesh. The masculines also will seek fulfillment from many partners , only to find themselves empty. These masculines that are unhealed , will use their monies and their titles to attract the unhealed feminines, not realizing that they also have set a trap for their own self to fall into.

Until both the masculine and feminine aspects both unplug their circuits from these false attempts for love, they will forever be empty – desperately seeking the outside world to fill them on the inside, where they desperately fear to reside.

Running, hiding, pretending.

Ellen Redd

This world can make people bitter

Published May 23, 2023 by tindertender

It’s the goal of the programmers in this realm to degrade you. To make you fall. To steal away your connection to higher frequencies and vibrations through anger, shame, guilt. The writers of this realms script wish for humanity to fall very hard and very low into war and famine, any form of suffering … hell.

If you agree to take on that role of lower vibration and frequency, someone else, likely the writers of the script, the “handlers” of humanity, will receive blessing.

This world must remain in balance. If you can be programmed and led into tending the role of lower vibratory mind set and relations, the blessing goes elsewhere … straight into the lap of your rulers.

I understand some test us in a big way. I bitch and moan as much as the next person when someone does me wrong, but I don’t embed myself into it any more. I don’t “become” it.

Don’t fall into the trap.

Tend yourself.

Be conscious of the role you fill in this realm.

Wisdom

Published May 22, 2023 by tindertender

You cannot be a wiseman or woman if you are constantly dismissing the significance of another’s journey.

Random Thoughts

Published May 22, 2023 by tindertender

I hope their awakening is more gentle than mine was. It is why I share what I share. Even tho they may think me crazy, and say just as much to another.

Simply existing in the most gentle way possible with self and others is a rebellion. This in no way means that there isn’t difficult work to do.

Depression isn’t a disease needing treated by Pharma. It’s an emotional imbalance, needing attention and the hard inner work of harmonizing the imbalance.

They knew the truth before they even began.

You can make plans if you want just remember, life is fluid.

That’s the thing about this realm, everything appears to be false.

Anything other than presence in this now moment, is either a fantasy of the future, or a memory of the past.

Balance Necessary ~ Deliberate Harvest of Another’s Blessing

Published May 21, 2023 by tindertender

Why do you think the programmer wants humans in a perpetual state of war? Of killing and hurting each other?

Because in this world of duality there must be balance. If you are kept in a state of having to cause harm, or defend your life, someone else is getting your blessing.

Why do you think the immigrants who rape women and children are pouring over the borders? When police can’t even keep the rapists and murderers in jail? To force you to do harm, or be harmed, to protect yourself, so the programmer can keep your blessing.

It’s all meant to either keep the people in fear, or keep them hating and hurting each other.

In a balanced world of polarity, it’s how it works.

If you refuse to do dirty, the programmers are left with their program.

So they force you into it. By sending others to attack you.

Choose …. Consciously.

If you attack and harm others, you’re choosing misery, and someone else in the world (the hidden programmers) are gaining your blessing. Leave misery. Cut it off. Let it be with itself, and whoever wants it manifested in the world. Let the mutation keep its works.