Responsibility

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THE FOUR LAWS OF A SHAMAN

Published June 19, 2023 by tindertender

The first says:

“The person who comes into our life is the right person”

In other words, no one comes into our lives by chance, all the people around us, who interact with us, are there for a reason, to make us learn and advance in each situation.

The second law says:

“What happens is the only thing that could have happened.”

Nothing, but nothing, absolutely nothing that happens to us in our lives could have been otherwise.

Not even the most insignificant detail.

There is no: “if I had done such a thing, such another would have happened…”.

Nope.

What happened was the only thing that could have happened and it had to have been so for us to learn that lesson and move on.

Each and every one of the situations that happen to us in our lives are perfect, even if our mind and our ego resist and do not want to accept it.

The third says:

“Anytime it starts is the right time.”

Everything starts at the right time, neither before nor after.

When we are ready for something new to start in our lives, that is when it will begin.

And the fourth and last:

“When something ends, it ends.”

Just like that.

If something ended in our lives, it is for our evolution, therefore it is better to leave it, move on and advance already enriched by that experience.

I think it is not by chance that you are reading this, if these words came into our lives today; It’s because we’re prepared to understand that no snowflake ever falls in the wrong place.
🖊unknown

TOXIC EMOTIONAL TIES💔➰💔➰💔

Published June 11, 2023 by tindertender

Unresolved feelings with people from the past generate toxic emotional ties that keep us connected to them emotionally and energetically. These ties act as true internal “us” that do not allow our life to flow naturally and block the flow of new and better experiences.

It is necessary to carry out an emotional cleansing and check which people we are still connected to. Sorrow, resentment, guilt, attachment, disappointment, illusion are some of the feelings that create and reinforce these bonds. The person is no longer there, but continues to affect your emotions, influencing your decisions, even if unconsciously.

Do an exercise: Stay silent for a while, relax and ask your emotional: What people from the past am I still connected to? Let your mind show you.
Imagine then that there is a cord that connects these people to you. Visualize him tying you to them. Then affirm:

“At this moment I declare that I am breaking all the toxic and negative ties that bind me to people from the past (visualize that you have golden scissors in your hand and see yourself cutting all ties). I let go of all those who were once in my life, but who are meaningless today. I let go of all guilt, hurt, resentment or wrongdoing that bound me to them. I value the past and the lessons I’ve learned, but I don’t need to keep living with the past. I am breaking free of that influence and opening myself up to better people and situations.” It’s done.

~ Alexander Gruber

Artwork: Thiago Sian

Loyalty

Published June 11, 2023 by tindertender

The late king of a certain community had ten wild dogs. He used them to torture and eat any of his servants who made a mistake.

One of the servants gave an opinion that was wrong, and the king didn’t like it at all. So he ordered that the servant be thrown to the dogs. The servant said, “I served you for ten years, and you do this to me? Please give me ten days before throwing me to those dogs!” The king agreed.

In those ten days, the servant went to the guard who looks after the dogs and told him he would like to serve the dogs for the next ten days.

The guard was baffled but agreed, and the servant started feeding the dogs, cleaning for them, bathing them, and providing all sorts of comfort for them. When the ten days were over, the king ordered that the servant be thrown to the dogs for his punishment.

When he was thrown in, we were all amazed to see the ravenous dogs only licking the feet of the servant! The king, baffled at what he was seeing, said, “What has happened to my dogs?” The servant replied, “I served the dogs for only ten days, and they didn’t forget my service.

Yet I served you for a whole ten years and you forgot all, at my first mistake!” The king realized his mistake and ordered the servant to be set free.

This post is a message to all those who forget the good things a person does for them as soon as the person makes a mistake towards them.

~ Author Unknown

Control Your Mind, or Be Controlled

Published June 8, 2023 by tindertender

Blind Date with My Body

Published June 4, 2023 by tindertender

Every morning I have a blind date with my body.
And as I do,
a million questions run through my head.

Who is this person sitting across from
me in the mirror?
Am I my own soulmate?
Are the dreams in my heart and my thoughts in my head perfect strangers?

How can I open my heart to this imperfect human who is staring back at me?
How can I learn to love their wrinkles?
How can I build a future with this person?

And every morning during my blind date
with my own image I remember the secret
to any great relationship …
Is to let them see you as you really are.

So,
how do I see myself?
As a piece of cosmic art or as half-shattered bowl?
Maybe it’s both things at the same time.

My love,
In order to feel at home in your skin you must learn to be yourself,
with yourself.
And to see the beauty in yourself when you look at yourself.

All first dates are awkward,
so be patient with yourself as you get to know the person in the mirror.

Don’t let them slip through your fingers
because …
they are the love of your life.

  • John Roedel

Artist: Christoffer Wilhelm Eckersberg

Trust Your Process

Published June 3, 2023 by tindertender

If my energy doesn’t wake you up, it’s because I’m not for you….

If my spirit doesn’t inspire you, it’s because you shouldn’t force the connection….

If my thought doesn’t make you think deeper, it doesn’t make sense to keep me in touch or on your mind….

If my passion doesn’t move you, then it’s better to change direction…

If my presence doesn’t help you evolve, my absence certainly will…

If my love does not open your heart definitively, another love will…

Go and find what makes your being vibrate,
Don’t even stop to look behind you…

One of the greatest acts of love is letting go…

The vibe doesn’t lie…

Trust your process.

~ unknown

In ancient Egyptian times …

Published June 3, 2023 by tindertender

In ancient Egyptian times,
women were seen and honored
as higher and holier than a man.

The woman is the mother of all,
giving life and teaching.

The ancients believed
that when a man
achieves a great deal of knowledge,
spirituality and power,
he would be allowed to wear a long hair wig
to symbolize that he had reached a certain level equal to a woman.

As the two come together
she holds her man,
giving him strength and protection.

There is a saying that continues to float today:
“Behind every successful man
there is a strong woman.” ❤️❤️

15 Powerful Visuals About Psychology & Life

Published June 2, 2023 by tindertender

Visuals credits and thanks to – VisuallyNeeded | Instagram

All visuals in this thread are owned by him.

Strolling Through the Japanese Garden

Published May 26, 2023 by tindertender

Sometimes life tests us. Those who bring chaos and misery to our door are constantly knocking. Tires get flattened and in need of replacement. Someone shoots the dog with a BB gun. Someone hit and runs the car. Someone lies … and lies and lies … we are tested.

Today, rather than let this shady world get me down, I visited the Sun, and the beautiful garden it maintains with the help of humanity.

The entry

Rawr!!

Some pretty, pretty flowers

Check out these bonsais. One of them is 300 years old!

I love the art here!

Running, hiding, pretending

Published May 24, 2023 by tindertender

By Ellen Redd

A feminine who is not in her divinity, feeds on the attention of many. She is hoping that this will fulfill her, and uses her physical appearance to ensnare the affection of her suitors. Often misusing her feminine gifts. This many times leads her into temporal false sense of fulfillment until she becomes bored, annoyed and no longer can go along with the creations of her own game.

In the same time, the masculine who is not in his divinity clamors to unhealed feminines in their toxicity allowing themselves to be lured into the illusory dream of love, from the illusions of the mortal flesh. The masculines also will seek fulfillment from many partners , only to find themselves empty. These masculines that are unhealed , will use their monies and their titles to attract the unhealed feminines, not realizing that they also have set a trap for their own self to fall into.

Until both the masculine and feminine aspects both unplug their circuits from these false attempts for love, they will forever be empty – desperately seeking the outside world to fill them on the inside, where they desperately fear to reside.

Running, hiding, pretending.

Ellen Redd