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Grateful

Published January 5, 2021 by tindertender

As some of you may know, I have a very active astral and telepathic life. It has been an extreme challenge, for telepathy was not a natural state for me. Becoming accustomed to invisible people having judgements on behavior and lifestyle is unnerving and feels very invasive.

I spoke to someone thru DM today who gifted me with kindness, explaining to me certain things, and offered suggestions on how to reframe my thinking around specific experiences.

I am grateful.

My next challenge is to shift perspective, using techniques offered (visualization, affirmation, prayer, making requests).

What I truly loved about this communication was the respectful way the discussion was approached and maintained.

It helps me to bring a gentleness to current experience, rather than a hard-nosed rejection.

To Be, or Not To Be

Published January 4, 2021 by tindertender

I am always confused when Humans are concerned about how the “finances will go”, when the actual question for humanity is TO BE or NOT TO BE ( free and sovereign or dead or a labor rat).

Awareness of the awakened should indicate a different focus – or you are not awake, there is no “in between” …. and the time is running out to make a choice and STAND FOR IT.

A solar-flash will NOT do this for you – be sure.

I didn’t say that needs don’t need to be met. I said Humans have to change their focus and their consciousness about it.

The Cabal only want 3 Billions of humans on earth – what do you think they are willing to do with the rest????

We will change NOTHING if we stay in the anger that somebody else isn’t doing his or her job.

It’s important not always to blame THE OTHERS. Everybody shall start with him/herself.

WE CAN CHANGE IT – and the time is simply NOW.

IF you have no electricity and no house any more, you don’t have to think how to pay. What I mean is that NOW we have to UNIFY as humanity, that we have TOMORROW, still, electricity and houses and stuff, for what we CAN purchase.

In the cabal’s world you don’t have to think about this because you will have no property and nothing else. You will be fed and you will have a “place to exist” – like labor rats.

Source: @Karina89350882

Sexual Energy

Published December 10, 2020 by tindertender

Masturbation in and of itself is not perverse.

Wanting to WATCH someone masturbate is … if you’re a peeping Tom, or Jane, uninvited.

Of course, there are those who will tell you both are perverse.

The sexual energy is a powerful energy.

A sacred energy.

The physical form collects energy as time progresses. If single, this energy must be ‘bled off’ periodically, or it will overtake the mind, clogging all other senses. Thoughts will become agitated and scattered.

It is perfectly natural to manage ones own energies as needed to maintain equilibrium of the whole.

Society has been indoctrinated to feel that managing ones own energetic output in such a way as masturbation is perverse … it is not.

Watching porn … is.

Peeping Tom/Jane watching while another manages their energies, without invitation … is.

Managing Self created energies … is not.

Mind you, I do not speak of fantasizing about someone while managing the energy, that in itself is a trespass, I speak strictly of bleeding off the excess … a simple matter.

The belief system fed to people, that which people took on as their own belief, must be shed. The teaching’s base is built upon lies.

Responsibility for ones own energetic creation and output is crucial.

Energies unstable can be destructive … and also vampired for use by another, in the seen, and primarily in the unseen.

There is a lot of this happening right now, the veils are very thin.

As GAIAs energies, and that of each individual rise, veils drop and dimensions merge … indeed, dimensions are about to merge BIG TIME.

Dwellers in other dimensions are “testing out” the passions of humanity … call it an interview of sorts. They say to themselves, Do I like this one? Do I like that one? They are like kids in a candy store right now, and because it is unfamiliar to those in body, it is believed benevolent … wrong.

Any trespass of one in body would be considered just that, a trespass … one might even say stay out of my bedroom! Yet somehow, people fantasize about it when it happens in the astral … dreaming of soul mates and twin flames.

Hogwash.

A soulmate or twin flame would respect your privacy and WAIT for the actual physical union.

Fantasy will be the downfall of humankind … as they convince themselves it is good …because it feels good. Making a person feel good while they drain off sexual energy is one of their specialties.

This fantasy will leave people wide open and vulnerable, defenses down, able to be manipulated by any schmuck in the astral who wants a taste of that energy.

Taste … yes …

The sexual energy is one form of energy that is most powerful, and unfortunately, there are those in the unseen who must feed on it to sustain themselves.

All while a living dream is created in a persons mind of agreement, acceptance, and submittal.

That which you cannot say no to is NOT mutual.

It is a disrespect, and a trespass.

And when you finally DO say no, they’ll label you as having attitude.

Which is exactly WHY masturbation is necessary for those who are not with partner right now. If the sexual energy becomes too potent, there will inevitably be someone in the astral to take advantage, and bleed off the energy for you … and they do not ask first. They’ll make you feel good, and they consider this fair trade. No permission needed.

People really need to take charge of their energies, especially now with the song of GAIA increasing and the vibration of the physical form intensifying.

Cattle is what some of them call us.

An energetic food source.

Sometimes they’ll give you masturbation dreams, especially if they don’t find YOU all that attractive, but still want to feast on your energy.

Be aware.

Take charge of the growth of your energy, and the maintenance of it, so another cannot manage it for you … unless you want to be used, of course.

My hope is that every person will understand the sacredness of their sexual energies, indeed ALL of their energies, and only permit those invited to partake in them.

Honor thyself.
Respect thyself.
Care for thyself.
Love thyself.

Reconnection

Published December 7, 2020 by tindertender

During my first customer service position, I noted that the manager would smile at people while they were in front of her, but as soon as she was finished ringing them up and taking their money, she would turn from them and the smile would fade and she’d walk away.

I thought, “How rude!”

And how obvious the smile is fake.

I made it a point to smile, looking at them in the eyes. I practiced holding my smile, but not in a fraudulent way, in a welcoming way. I would never turn from them … not until their experience with me was over, and the client always decided when that time would be.

People notice it when you smile genuinely.

They feel it when it is real.

It is a beautiful experience to connect, to send loving energies, to brighten someone’s day, to show them they are seen, and appreciated, even if the purchase is only a quarter for a self-service copy, and you have to do the work for them.

Seeing each other in the many other ways we encounter each other is exquisite.

I went for kombucha yesterday. The lady who helped me not only poured a beautiful pour, but she took time to chat with me … I was the only one there.

We talked about a topic that interests us both very much.

At the end of our conversation, she asked me if I would like a hug. I said, “Yes!” It really meant a lot to connect with her, a Divine Sister, in such a way.

I Love my sisters.

They are so beautiful.

I feel that after this separation we are enduring, people will be more inclined to really see each other, to really listen and cherish the connections, even if only brief.

I see it beginning now, and am grateful.

Out of chaos will come Peace.

The Lioness and Mating

Published July 27, 2020 by tindertender

When the Lionesses are in heat, they have a lot of sex at once in a single day. 20 to 40 times, and the Lioness becomes the one who demands to mate. So if a male is tired and can’t keep up with her …

She bites his balls. 

Johanna Kok is the photographer of this picture and she took it at Blijdorp, the Rotterdam Zoo

Here, kitty kitty ….. hahahahaha

Smiling!

Published July 24, 2020 by tindertender

I’ve got a silly little grin on my face. I am so happy and grateful to have met people who are LOVE and POWER and HUMILITY ….. my chosen family … I love you so!!!!

Love and Happiness

Published July 22, 2020 by tindertender

Love and happiness, yeah
Something that can make you do wrong, make you do right

Love
Love and happiness
But wait a minute
Something’s going wrong
Someone’s on the phone
Three o’clock in the morning
Talkin’ about how she can make it right, yeah
Well, happiness is when, you really feel good with somebody
But nothing wrong with being in love with someone, yeah
Oh, baby, love and happiness
Love and happiness
Love and happiness (love and happiness) oh

I have to say
Love and happiness (love and happiness)
Love and happiness (love and happiness)
You be good to me
I’ll be good to you
We’ll be together, yeah
We’ll see each other
Walk away with victory, yeah oh baby
Love and happiness (love and happiness)
Love and happiness (love and happiness)

Hey, hey, hey, hey
Make you do right, love’ll make you do wrong
Make you come home early
Make you stay out all night long
The power of love

Wait a minute
Let me tell you
Oh the power
Power of love
Power of love, power
Make you do right, love’ll make you do wrong
Ha yeah
(Love and happiness, love and happiness)
Say love
(Love and happiness, love and happiness)
Make you want to dance
Love and happiness

Love is, wait a minute, love is
Yeah, walkin’ together, yeah, talkin’ together
Say it again, say it together, yeah
Say wanna moans
Moan for love, say, hmm
Moan for love, hmm
Moan for love
Talkin’ ’bout the power

Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Allen Georgio

No One Is Unimportant

Published July 20, 2020 by tindertender

If you can’t be the eagle, be the wind.

The Lovers To Avoid While You Are Healing

Published July 14, 2020 by tindertender

Written by:
https://www.facebook.com/maria.palumbo.loves
https://mariapalumbo.com/

Those who limit you to or judge the shape your body takes, the way it moves, the way it feels, the way it looks.

People who project their insecurities or fears onto you and are often facing a new trigger or issue.

People who cannot hold your no, your s*xuality, your boundary, your hurt, or your truth.

People who condemn your values, choices, s*xuality, needs, desires, boundaries.

People who do not know what their values, choices, s*xuality, needs, desires, fears, or boundaries are.

The perpetual child-like partiers drowning their emotions and depression in drugging/s*xing, etc.

Those spiritually bypassing their feelings and using crystals, gurus, as the primary way to enlighten self and grow.

The ones who give their energy/attention/affection/trust to other lovers/potential lovers, when they are triggered by you.

The ones that you often experience their emotional absence, when you are needing support.

Those who are unwilling to get help or do their own personal work, requiring difficult emotional labor and standstills in your intimacy.

You need not avoid those that have been through trauma
or heartache
or loss

These are not signs that anything is wrong.

In fact, those that have been through the most loss are often the most incredible lovers, if they decide to lean into the dark, explore it, shine light onto it, instead of ignore it or hide it away.

Because you deserve to explore the dark together with someone who will never make you responsible for their healing. Who will bring to the table deep value through their own healing + self-awareness and mastery.

To getting what you need and deserve, and letting that in.

Get You A Good One

Published July 2, 2020 by tindertender

Written by Maria Palumbo:
https://mariapalumbo.com/

Get you a good one that will love the woman in you.

The part of you that can look at him and THAT IS IT. He MUST have you then and there.

The part of you that can hold him when he needs to be held.

Even when he doesn’t think he deserves it.

The part that helps him surrender to you. He cannot help himself.

The part of you that can remember who he is, when he forgets.

Get a love that will not be able to get enough of your brilliance, your mind, your truth, your understanding, your opinion.

He will trust you.

He will go to you. With all the nothing and somethings.

He will long for you, any hour of the day.

No matter what you are wearing. Especially when you are gently undone.

Get you a good one that will not only love the woman in you.

But will love the child.

The way you look at him and he can feel that he’s holding your heart.

The way you trust him, to step in and help you, when you’re not too sure what to do.

The way you fear. Sometimes for no good reason at all.

The times you do not even really know what you need, you just know that you need him there.

The part of you that needs to be reassured, reminded that he’s not going anywhere.

That there will never be anything that comes close to you.

He can make you soup and rub your back and put you to bed.

Will not punish you for your softness, but will encourage you to go there with his easy smile.

Find someone that loves the fierce woman in you and the sweet child. Will not be afraid of any part of you, but get to know it well.

You get to feel what it’s like to be wanted for all that you are.

Always.

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